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Introduction
- JSJonathan Swanson
Brian Johnson wants to break the chains of biology. I wanna break the chains of time. We can always raise another round or do another trade, but you can't raise another decade.
- ETErik Torenberg
You're running a massive company. You also do investing. You're also a happy marriage with four kids. I know the way that you do it all is delegation. What is the secret that you've figured out?
- JSJonathan Swanson
Cardinal sin of delegation is that it will be faster or better to do it myself, and the reason it's a blocker is 'cause it's true. But the only way you get leverage is by going through that work. A couple decades ago, you had to be Marc Andreessen or Vinod Khosla to have a half dozen assistants, and that cost you half a million dollars. Now, with a company like Athena, for 3,000 bucks a month, you can have your own assistant.
- ETErik Torenberg
What have you learned in your extensive founder career?
- 0:44 – 2:13
The power of delegation: from the White House to Thumbtack
- ETErik Torenberg
Jonathan, welcome to the podcast.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Thanks for having me.
- ETErik Torenberg
So Jonathan, you're running a massive company. What, 4,000 employees all, all-
- JSJonathan Swanson
4,000.
- ETErik Torenberg
4,000 em-employees. You al-also do investing. You're also a, in a, you know, happy marriage with, with four kids. How do you do it all? I know the way that you do it all is delegation. You have a, a chief of staff, a bunch of EAs. Why, why don't you talk about what is the secret that you've figured out that other people can learn from?
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah. So my origin story here is out of school, I worked at the White House, and, uh, I sat, I sat in the West Wing next to the president's executive assistants. And as you might imagine, the EAs in the West Wing were really freaking good, and it set my bar super high for what this EA-client partnership could look like. And when I moved to San Francisco to start Thumbtack, I said, "Okay, I'm not president, but what if I had a EA and support team that was as good as the president's? Like, what could I accomplish?" And so at Thumbtack, as we were scaling the business, I hired my first assistant in the Philippines, started helping me with basic stuff, inbox, calendar, uh, and then we just got creative, and we did more and more complex, interesting things, which we can talk about. And what I found was the more leverage I got, the more ambition I got, and it just compounded. And, you know, started with one assistant, now I've got a half dozen.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And every assistant gives me more leverage to take on more things.
- 2:13 – 4:30
Human vs. AI assistants: the future of delegation
- ETErik Torenberg
It's fascinating 'cause I, um, some people say, "Hey, you know, Bill Gates is so much richer than me, but he has the same phone that I have."
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm.
- ETErik Torenberg
Or I remember, um, maybe it was you, maybe someone else who was like, "Wait, Obama should have, you know, or the President should have way better information than me, and yet they're, like, reading Politico too."
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm.
- ETErik Torenberg
Like, they're reading the same-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm
- ETErik Torenberg
... newsfeed. And this is, like, another example of it, which is, you know, the democratization where a White House have amazing assistants, but thanks to Athena, you know, and, and tech- you know, technology, at some point everyone will have a certain b-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Exactly. The, you know, a couple decades ago, you had to be Marc Andreessen or Vinod Khosla to have a, a half dozen assistants, and that cost you half a million dollars. Now, with a company like Athena, for 3,000 bucks a month, you can have your own assistant. And then with AI, yeah, it's gonna become ubiquitous. People are-- there's gonna be billions of people learning to delegate to a machine assistant, and as your budget increases, you might add a human or a chief of staff on top, but it's just kind of a ladder of leverage.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah. How should we think about what are the things that humans can do versus what are the things that AI can do? I re- you know, I remember my friend started Clara, um, you know, a decade ago, which is trying to be AI assistants of effective absence well before a lot of the innovation.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah.
- ETErik Torenberg
But yeah, what, what is the right way of thinking about sort of the human-AI, you know, relationship?
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah, I mean, it's a moving target, obviously.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
AI is gonna get increasingly more capable, and our view is it's like self-driving cars, where it's not self-driving overnight. It's you drive the Tesla at first, and then there's assisted steering and braking, and then over time it becomes more autonomous, and the same thing is gonna happen with assistants. Um, my, my view here for founders is if you don't have an assistant, you are the assistant, and you don't wanna be the assistant. And so no matter your budget, you should first start by learning to delegate.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Uh, and if you only got 20 bucks a month, you start by delegating to ChatGPT. And prompt engineering is really just delegating.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And if you become world-class at leveraging ChatGPT to brainstorm your goals, figure out how, uh, you can take the next step in the business, once you have the budget for a human assistant or chief of staff, then you're prepared to go that next level. So you start 20 bucks a month. Um, if you have budget, then you hire someone direct-
- ETErik Torenberg
Mm
- JSJonathan Swanson
... with a service like Athena. If you have enough money, you hire someone in person. That's six figures. You know, and if you're a legendary budget, then you've got a, a suite of assistants and chief of staffs following you around.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- 4:30 – 6:31
Levels of delegation: from tasks to algorithms
- ETErik Torenberg
So I've had, uh, an Athena EA for many years now, and, and she's absolutely amazing. And, um, you know, I use her for scheduling and, um, you know, typical assistant a-a-activities. But you have many assistants. Uh, you know, s- our friend Sam Corcos has, has a bunch of assistants as well.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm.
- ETErik Torenberg
Close the gap between what are the people who do it well, like, you know, what else do people get leverage on-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah
- ETErik Torenberg
... or delegate that maybe is not obvious?
- JSJonathan Swanson
So first you start by taking the pain off of your life.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
So, you know, I never wait on hold.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
I never put my credit card in the internet. I would never fill out DMV forms, never do passport renewal. The world is full of all these annoyances, and so first you take off these things that drain you, that don't give you leverage. Then once you've done that, then the next thing is you raise your sights, and you're like, "What's a new business I could start? How can I scale my business faster? Uh, how can I spend more time with my family? What are the things, uh, I actually care to do a lot more of?"
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Um, and so I start with basic stuff, inbox, calendar, stuff that everyone does, but then I just start experimenting. And so, you know, during the scale-up days of Thumbtack, when we were in a house working all the time, I told Marnie, my assistant, "I don't really have any friends outside of work."
- ETErik Torenberg
[chuckles] Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
I was like, "The only people I know are in this building. I need to make some friends." And so I told her, "Let's plan a, a founder dinner at my house every other week," and we did lots of these together-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... back in the day, and that's how I made all my best friends. And I just walked home from work, and Marnie had invited people, set up the... the chef and the bartender, and we walk in and we make new friends. And, you know, I met Catherine, my wife-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... through that.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And then Marnie's helping plan our wedding, and now Marnie helps us with our kids. And so, you know, it starts small, and then you just kinda compound these things.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah. But even in that example, um, like say more about how did she know who to reach out to or what, what kind of... Yeah, the-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah. So the kind of entry-level delegation is you delegate by task. You say, "Help me plan this dinner party." If you just say that, you're not gonna get what you want. Um, the more advanced
- 6:31 – 7:50
Principles of effective delegation
- JSJonathan Swanson
way to delegate is called delegate by algorithm-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... where you actually export your own internal preferences as you delegate. So I would say, "Hey, when I plan dinner parties, I like to have six to eight people. I like people to have raised similar amounts of capital or be at similar stages or similar number of employees."
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And literally write an algorithm for-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... how you find the right people. Um, and then you give feedback on whether-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... it worked or not. And once the algorithm's fully exported from your head, then it's just rinse and repeat. And so, you know, engineers tend to be better at creating these kind of like SOPs or standard-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... practices, but it's something, yeah, you can learn to do.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah. And so share more about what, how you-- for people with multiple assistants or-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah
- ETErik Torenberg
... how do you differentiate? Like, how do you, you know, sort of delegate a-across the team?
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah, I mean, start with one.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Uh, and then like any team, you specialize.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And so I just had one that did everything as a generalist, and now I have a half a dozen, which I know sounds crazy.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
But each one specializes in different things. One is on work, one is on home, one is on kids, family-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... travel, uh, finances.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Um, and, uh, that specialization is helpful 'cause the finance person is just thinking about balance sheet, uh, you know, sending wires, all that sort of stuff.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And then, uh, I have a chief of staff who sits on top who distributes work-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- 7:50 – 9:46
Delegation & productivity hacks
- JSJonathan Swanson
... across all of them.
- ETErik Torenberg
What are other principles, like, you know, I love this-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm
- ETErik Torenberg
... delegate by algo-algorithm, not, not by task. What are other principles or frameworks that are really important or non-obvious to, you know, get the most out of an assistant?
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah, the, the cardinal sin of delegation is that it will be faster or better to do it myself.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
That's the number one blocker for most people, and the reason it's a blocker is 'cause it's true.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
It will actually be faster or better-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... if you do it yourself that first time.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And it takes more effort to delegate, to teach someone how to do it. It might not be as fast or as good as you'd like it, but the only way you get leverage is by going through that work.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
So you have to overcome that activation energy. The second mistake people make is they don't compound for the long term, and they hire someone and then switch an assistant every six, 12 months, but it's the compounding that creates incredible leverage. I've been working with Marnie for a decade, like a little sister now, and she knows everything about me. Um, so that's just kinda like common principles. Um, in terms of the way to delegate, I think the, this is just tactical, the methods. You know, the most common way people delegate is with your thumbs on your phone. That's the worst way, very slow. Um, better to use all 10 fingers at a computer, but that's actually pretty slow as well. The best way to really delegate is using your voice. And so voice, you can talk two to three times faster. You can do it on the go. You can do it on a date, [chuckles] between lunch, you know, in the Uber. Um, you know, at Thumbtack during hyperscale times, I would walk between meetings, and between a meeting I would be voice noting to-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... an assistant, "Here's the takeaways. Pre-draft these five emails."
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
"Uh, follow up with this person." And all my work from that meeting was actually delegated by the time I started the next meeting versus everything kind of accumulating-
- ETErik Torenberg
Right
- JSJonathan Swanson
... and then you get to the end of the day and you're like, "I have a hundred things to do."
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And so learning to delegate by voice, uh, if you look at all the super delegators at Athena, they are all just delegating by voice all day long.
- ETErik Torenberg
Right.
- 9:46 – 11:36
The future: machine-generated delegation
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah, it's fascinating. Uh, well, at some point it's gonna be, you know, not on- I don't even have to say it, I just think it.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm.
- ETErik Torenberg
[laughs] Uh, yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
This is, uh, this is part of our vision-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... at Athena longer term is you shouldn't have to actually vocalize it.
- ETErik Torenberg
No.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And we've built an internal demo of this. It's, uh, uh, it's not live, uh, for customers. But the way it works is we build something that watches your screen as you work, and it screenshots the screen, and when it identifies things that you should be delegating to your assistant, it automatically adds it to your assistant's task list. Your assistant then says, "Oh, Erik would want my help with this," or, "Maybe he'll do this on his own." And that creates the reinforcement learning effectively to tune the model.
- ETErik Torenberg
Right.
- JSJonathan Swanson
To pull things off of your screen, you don't have to vocalize. And so the person who built this internally, he's been using it, the majority of his delegations are now machine-generated.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
He's not talking. He's just working, and the machine is magically pulling tasks and putting it on his assistant's plate. Uh, it'll take a while to bring that to market and fruition, but that's the, that's the future.
- ETErik Torenberg
There should also be-- Relatedly, there should also be a version where it's like, you know, you see in Slack that it's, you know, it's someone's birthday or someone has a baby or something, and it suggests, "Hey, do you wanna-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yep
- ETErik Torenberg
... you know, get this person this, this specific gift or something?"
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah. I think this is a place where we're thinking a lot about the human-machine merger and how we get the best of both, and that's really the vision at Athena is, like, the best human assistant, the best AI wrapped into one combined, uh, product that's seamless. And humans obv-obviously have human touch and good UX, uh, but what machines can do is remember everything and be super proactive.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
So it can look through every email, every calendar, and remind you to do things that you would not have thought to do otherwise.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah. One thing
- 11:36 – 12:33
Global talent & leveraging international teams
- ETErik Torenberg
you've always been fascinated about is sort of, um, international labor-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm
- ETErik Torenberg
... some call it, you know, lab-labor arbitrage. What is the right way of thinking about what people in, say, the Philippines, um, can do or can't do versus, you know, assistants in the US? Like, how, how do people-- 'cause obviously there's a huge cost savings. Um, what, what, what are stuff that you keep in that cost savings or stuff that you don't keep, or, like, what's the right way of thinking?
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah. I mean, America's strength is entrepreneurship, capital, innovation, technology, and, um, the more you can leverage someone to do back office tasks, the more you can spend on technology, product, et cetera. So, you know, I think the, the thing Athena focuses on is executive assistants, someone who can do all of this admin. Um, but people, uh, are using global talent for all sorts of things-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... for legal, medical, um, all the above.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah. So-Let, let's get a little bit, I mean we-- um, on
- 12:33 – 13:45
Assistants and financial leverage
- ETErik Torenberg
the finance thing I'm, I'm curious because I, I don't leverage mine there. What, what are the ways that people could get leverage from this as on fi- 'cause are you, are you still interfacing with, with the accountants or are they do- yeah, what is the right way of thinking about it?
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah, so I, the first thing I would recommend if, uh, you're getting an assistant, uh, is to have them help you save money.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Uh, if you have a big budget, not a big deal, but the first project can be, "Hey, help pay for your salary-"
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
"... by looking through all my subscriptions."
- ETErik Torenberg
Right.
- JSJonathan Swanson
"Finding things to sa- uh, save me money. Find me refunds." Um, so that's just kind of like a cost-saving bucket. Um, then there's admin, paying bills.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Um, and then there's coordination, which is what you're talking about, basically being a PM. So coordinating, you know, the tax attorney-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... asks for something from the accountant, and there's a bunch of docs, and it's just moving paperwork between-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... uh, systems, um, at enough scale and complexity that becomes effectively a full-time job. And obviously you need someone you truly trust, uh-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... to go deep with, and we kinda recommend that you build this trust over time, and-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... you know, you give email and calendar access at first and bank account later.
- ETErik Torenberg
[chuckles]
- JSJonathan Swanson
Uh, but as you earn that trust, then the more access you give effectively-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... the more leverage you get.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah. The, um, yeah, that's really interesting. And, and
- 13:45 – 15:18
Company culture across borders
- ETErik Torenberg
in terms of, um, saying more about what it's been like to scale this company where you have, and, you know, you dealt with this Thum- Thumbtack too a, a little bit in terms of just workforces in different areas and how you think about culture between them and, um, yeah, kind of what are the, the challenges or what, what's really important to get right?
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah. Um, yeah, I mean, we, we look for cultures that have a strong affinity, uh, to American culture. Uh, you know, Philippines has a long history with America. They, like, know American pop culture and sports-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... better than I do. [chuckles]
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Um, and then they have a very strong work ethic, and, uh, it's a caretaking-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... um, culture. So there's lots of nurses, and one of the reasons we picked it for assistants is being an executive assistant is really taking care of someone.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
It's like their full-time job is to make your life better, is to take things off your plate-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... to help you be successful. And I think one of the, uh, barriers for some people to get an assistant is it feels indulgent.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
It's like, do I, should I really have someone who's just taking care of me? Um, but the way I flip that around is you not delegating and you not giving leverage is holding you back, but it's actually preventing you from creating a job for someone who's excited to help you.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And for the people on our team, like they get to work with the CEO. They get to see behind this exciting startup that, um, is a totally different life than they live.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And for them, that is a cool, exciting, life-changing thing.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- 15:18 – 16:52
Assistants as accountability partners
- ETErik Torenberg
One thing that I think people should be using assistants more for is, uh, is not only delegation but also accountability.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm.
- ETErik Torenberg
Of like, hey-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm
- ETErik Torenberg
... you wanna be, you know, exercising this amount, or you wanna be spending your time doing X, Y, Z, or you wanna make sure you, you know, you go to your appointments or some- or something.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah. Oh, do we have some, uh, clients who actually exercise live with their assistants for this reason. Like, they both have a fitness goal, and so they pull up videos at a set time and they work out together.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And that's the place where human accountability is a little more powerful than-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... machine accountability.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
ChatGPT actually has a feature now where it will automatically ping you on things.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
So if you can't afford an assistant, you just tell ChatGPT, "Here's my top five goals. Ask me how I'm doing every day, log my results, and give me feedback." You can get that for 20 bucks a, a, a month. Um, I've done similar versions of this with a human assistant. I think we may have done this in the past-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... where I'm like, "Hey, I wanna work out, meditate, eat clean."
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
"Send me a, a ping on WhatsApp every day, and I'll just reply yes, no, yes, no, whether I did it. And then at the end of each week, send me a scorecard and compare me to Eric or-"
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah. [chuckles]
- JSJonathan Swanson
"... Catherine, and we can have a little competition-"
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
"... with it." And yeah, helping you, helping you hit your goals is exactly what they should be doing.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah. And then the other thing I think is, uh, an interesting opportunity to get more leverage, because th-these people are also, you know, um, not just operationally savvy, but also, you know, pretty, you know, uh, intuitive.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm.
- ETErik Torenberg
You know, they go into caring fields. And so there's also, like, opportunities for coaching too or, like-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm
- ETErik Torenberg
... they're, you know, they're the
- 16:52 – 18:30
Coaching, feedback, and the human element
- ETErik Torenberg
people that have most context on you, and they can give feedback on how you're engaging or, like, you know, they can tell you, "Hey, you're tired today," you know?
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah, the-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
That was my first observation, uh, when I was in the West Wing. The assistants who sat next to the president were insane.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
They were so good. They went on to become, like, elected to Congress and-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... amazing people. Um, but at the end of the day, the president and his advisors would have been meeting with senators and all these people, and they would finish the meeting, they would lean back, and they would have the assistant come over, and they'd just be like, "What's going on?"
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And it was, it was more than just accomplishing things.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
This was their closest confidant who saw behind the scenes on everything.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
They knew the good and the bad. They know [chuckles] they'd gotten kicked in the nuts a couple times that day-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... from different things, and they're there for them.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And I think that human element is gonna remain important for a long time, no matter how, uh, good AI gets, and it's something you should lean into. We have-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... uh, clients who tell us that, yeah, like going through a divorce or-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... a depression, and, like, my assistant's, like, there for me-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... in a way that others aren't, and, like, I can't tell my company or-
- ETErik Torenberg
Right
- JSJonathan Swanson
... my team about some of these things, but it's, uh, this is the person that's, like, on the inside with you.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah. Totally. Relatedly, one of the things you've had really interesting insights on over the years is, uh, is how to spend time.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm.
- ETErik Torenberg
Think about ti-time management, not, not only in terms of ways to get more of it vi-via delegating, but also, you know, how, how to prioritize. And, you know, I've, I've learned this fr-from you, but y-you think about goals on a sort of, you know, annual, quarterly, you know, like on different increments.
- 18:30 – 22:07
Goal setting, time management, and prioritization
- ETErik Torenberg
Why don't you, maybe, maybe we could start with LBD and how, how you think about goal-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah
- ETErik Torenberg
... goal setting in, in general, and then we can, you know, dive a bit deeper.
- JSJonathan Swanson
I mean, my wife Catherine and I, who, uh, we met as friends, wanted, you know, develop this friendship up from one of these entrepreneurship dinners. We read this book, um-Called How You Measure Your Life by Clayton Christensen, and he basically told the story of how Harvard Business School professor kids come back at reunions, and they're Fortune 500 CEOs, super rich, and their lives are in shambles. [chuckles]
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
They're divorced, have all these problems. The kids don't talk to them, going to jail.
- ETErik Torenberg
[chuckles]
- JSJonathan Swanson
And he's like, "The rigor they apply to their businesses, the quarterly reviews, the metrics, were completely absent from their life." And his point was, how do you wanna measure your life? And Katherine and I read this book, and we were just friends at the time, but we're both like, "I wanna be on your life board of directors."
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
"Let's freaking do that."
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And so we just started a tradition a decade ago. Every quarter, we get together, we fill out a survey on our relationship, uh, strengths and weaknesses, kinda SWOT analysis-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... geeky stuff, and then we talk about, like, what can we improve? Uh-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... what can we do better? And like anything, if you-- the more you invest, the better it gets.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah. Totally. And yeah, I think that's a key point, 'cause some people are turned off by sort of like, uh, quantification. Like, they want their relationship to be a place to like, you know, relax or turn off or something.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm.
- ETErik Torenberg
And I think it's less that you have to like, you know, quantify every element of it a-and more just that you wanna pri- you, you don't wanna let the lack of quantification mean that you're not prioritizing it. Um, and so this is just an exercise to make sure that you're actually just, like, keeping accountable to how you wanna be.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Exactly. It's, uh, be purposeful. Get the thing you want.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
If you're a geek like us, then you measure it and you track everything. [chuckles]
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Uh, and if you just wanna go have, like, a date and drink wine-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... and talk about your relationship, that works, too. I think it's just, uh, people prioritize fitness or their work, but they never think about, how do I prioritize my relationship? Like, what's the, what's the fitness or the workout or the yoga equivalent-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... for my relationship?
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah. Having been in many goal-setting sessions with you, o-one of the things I think that you in-intuitively understand or, or have learned, um, and are often instilling in others is this idea of, um, prioritization. Like, when people set goals, they set a lot of goals, and they don't sort of think about, hey, what is the one that makes everything else-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm
- 22:07 – 25:06
Frameworks for founders: time, energy, and meetings
- ETErik Torenberg
you know, frameworks or principles you live by in terms of time. Like, for example, I, I believe you put... You try to stack meetings in, you know, in a day or, or in as few days as possible or something. What are, what are certain sort of frameworks that are important for you in terms of time, energy, you know-
- JSJonathan Swanson
I mean, high level is Brian Johnson wants to break the chains of biology or longevity.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
I wanna break the chains of time. And, you know, the question I ask myself is like, what's the most valuable asset in the world? It's not gold or Bitcoin or Nvidia clusters. It's time. Uh, we can always raise another round or do another trade, but you can't raise another decade. And so if time is the primary asset, uh, and it's more foundational than everything else, we should focus on owning that and controlling it.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And so for different-- This means different things for different people. If you are in hardcore scale mode, that may mean half-hour meetings for 14 hours a day-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... where you are just grinding out interviews and doing things that only you can do as a founder. Uh, or it may mean clearing your schedule and having time to dream about the future of the product-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... or big deals. And I think you just have to know what stage of the business you're in and then design your calendar purposefully around that.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And if you look back on the last month and the calendar does not reflect your highest goals, then, uh, you're not doing it right.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah. I remember, uh, Keith Rabois shared with me this idea of, like, at the end of every week, do a calendar audit of the past week.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm.
- ETErik Torenberg
Like, what are the meetings you had that you wish you wouldn't have?
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah.
- ETErik Torenberg
And then just look at the next one.
- JSJonathan Swanson
I mean, this is a place, uh, a, you know, Athena assistants can do this proactively for you, but this is a place that AI is obviously gonna automate-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... and will be very powerful, where it's at the end of it each week, it just tells you, "Here's what you prioritized."
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
"Are those actually your goals?"
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
If not, then next week-
- ETErik Torenberg
Right
- JSJonathan Swanson
... we should adjust those things.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah. I'm curious for your interpretation of meetings. Some people are like-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah
- ETErik Torenberg
... uh, you know, "I, I wanna have as few meetings as possible. It means not the most efficient. I'd rather do everything async."
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah.
- 25:06 – 27:19
The efficient path vs. the effect path
- ETErik Torenberg
interest- You know, um, um, one of my favorite self-help books is the seven effective habits-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah
- ETErik Torenberg
... of highly effective people, and one of their, y-y-you know, principles, maxims is this idea of, like, efficiency with when it comes to achieving, uh, you know, tasks or accomplishing tasks, but effectiveness when it comes to people.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm.
- ETErik Torenberg
And, and so, um-You know, the efficient path might not be the effect path-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm
- ETErik Torenberg
... 'cause you might, you sort of save some time on the front end, but you, you might, you know, accrue sort of a debt on the, on the back end.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah.
- ETErik Torenberg
And, um, yeah, it might be efficient to just send a text or something, but, you know, keeping the dynamic... Yeah, yeah, phone calls are obviously under- underrated and-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
It's true remote cultures too.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Like remote cultures build up debt of just-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... the lack of bandwidth, and so if you are in a remote cul- culture, you should get together every couple months for-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... a, a few days in person.
- ETErik Torenberg
Totally. H- how do you think about how when founders are asking for advice, like, how, how should I spend time? Like, what, what's most important? Like, what frameworks are helpful for founders about thinking about... Ob- obviously, there's a million things they could be doing. There's not enough time-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah
- ETErik Torenberg
... in the day for, you know, even a fr- fraction of them. What, what are the most important ways to, to get right whether it's your time at Thumbtack or Athena?
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah, I mean, it's, like it's build your product, who's your customers, raise capital, build your team.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yep.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And when founders ask me, like, how to leverage an assistant, what should I be doing, my... the way I turn around is, like, "What's your top two goals for the month?"
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
If it's recruiting, uh, you have to be closing candidates.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
But you don't need to be sourcing all of the emails. You could pull up a voice note and say, "Here's a template I want you to reach out to."
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
"Here's... Let me go through my contacts. Here's 20 people. Send an outreach email asking them for suggestions for this role." Uh, you know, if your goal is to raise capital-
- 27:19 – 29:19
Executive hiring: principles and pitfalls
- JSJonathan Swanson
we first started it, we were like, "We're just gonna hire the best assistants, match them with clients, and boom."
- ETErik Torenberg
Right.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Amazing. But we matched the first five assistants, and every single client said the same thing: "How do I delegate calendar? How do I delegate inbox?" And so it became clear we needed to invest more in actually teaching the clients-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... how to delegate, uh, because that is as much of a constraint as the assistants. And we've got a few thousand, uh, assistants and clients, and if you look at the best performing assistants at Athena, they work for the best delegators.
- ETErik Torenberg
Mm.
- JSJonathan Swanson
It's not a coincidence. [chuckles]
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
The reason they're the best is because someone has figured out how to export their ideas, decompose projects, create SOPs in a way that helps the assistant fly, and the more mediocre delegators, uh-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... struggle with that and need more training.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah. One, one thing that you've been phenomenal at is, whether it's Thumbtack or Athena, is, is hiring executives. What, what do you think that you do differently or what, what are the principles or frameworks that really guide your sort of exec hiring process?
- JSJonathan Swanson
I mean, one thing that is obvious as you hire execs is the more senior they go, the m- better they are at interviewing, at almost by definition. And so when you get to C-suite, they all are really good at interviewing. And so you actually have to discard the interview more the more senior they go. And so I rev- uh, uh, I, I use references much more the higher you go. And then the other thing that I think is interesting that people should do more of is I just ask people for their 360 reviews. Like, at their last company, 10 people wrote reviews of them that are honest about their strengths and weaknesses, and I just ask to see it. And I say, "Hey, I'll share you, share mine. You show me yours." I actually think this would be a cool kind of reference pro- startup, um, where you could, like, ping the LM about someone versus pinging their references. So I try to get to more ground truth on the person versus the UX of interview is just gonna-
- ETErik Torenberg
Right
- JSJonathan Swanson
... be pretty good-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... when you get to the senior level.
- ETErik Torenberg
That's interesting. What's
- 29:19 – 32:09
Reference check signals
- ETErik Torenberg
most important in when you're, when you're doing reference checks? What are you really... You know, what, what's a way to get the most signal out of them?
- JSJonathan Swanson
I mean, what I often tell people is, "Hey, I'm probably gonna hire this person. Uh, and now tell me all the things you don't like about them." [chuckles]
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
"Or things that they could be better at."
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
'Cause if, you know, people are so biased to just tell you all the good things, you have to get them to, uh, to s- see it as a safe place to share strengths and weaknesses. And, yeah, just do enough references until they start to sound the same. And once they start to sound the same, then you've got a signal.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah. One, one question I like to ask is, um, "What skill sets would be really important to complement this person with?"
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm.
- ETErik Torenberg
Um, which is another way of just saying, what are they bad at?
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah.
- ETErik Torenberg
Like, you know, what's really important? Or one of my favorite questions is, "If this didn't work out in six months or a year, you know, why would that be?"
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah. And, I mean, the best way to source talent, um, I just hired an executive recently, is just ask the people that you respect the most, that have the highest standards, who's the best person? [chuckles] So like, here's the three people who have the highest standards in this role. I ask them for the two or three best people, and I go try to hire one of them.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And that is the, like, speed rapid way to hire an exec.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Um, you know, using an exec recruiter, you spend three months. You get all those cold leads, but going through a network of high bar people is-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... super efficient.
- ETErik Torenberg
There's some maxim that almost, like, half of executives, you know, don't work out within, like, a-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm
- ETErik Torenberg
... you know, 12 to 24-month period.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Checks out. [chuckles]
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah. W- why is that?
- JSJonathan Swanson
I think it's this, it's difficult to, uh, judge, uh... The, the interview process is not representative of the work they're doing, and that's ultimately what's broken about interviewing, is interviewing should be someone doing the work they're gonna do. Um, and it was, like, Weebly back in the day would actually have execs come work for two weeks to trial before they ever hired. That's difficult to pull off 'cause people have other jobs, but I do think something like that makes a lot of sense. Your interview process is just kind of irrelevant compared-
- ETErik Torenberg
Mm-hmm
- JSJonathan Swanson
... to what the work they're doing in lots of cases.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah. Yeah, and K- Keith has this maxim that that's like, um, you c- you're, you're not gonna get 100% hiring in the same way you're not gonna get 100% investing. And if-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah
- ETErik Torenberg
... you know, like, you also wanna avoid the, you know-Of not... The p- uh, trap of not taking enough risk or moving too slow or
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah, and as long as you cut your losses quickly, it's okay. It's w- if you, like, don't cut losses, then you compound a hole-
- 32:09 – 35:55
Principles for company transparency
- ETErik Torenberg
your stance on, um, transparency with the company? Like, what's information that's helpful, maybe going back to Thumbtack days, what's helpful for the, the company to, uh, employees to know? Or like what, what are principles like that guide, you know, how much you share?
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah, I mean, default transparency's obviously the best, but there's o- obviously some lines.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
I... There's, uh, you know, at Thumbtack, there was a moment, you may remember this, a decade ago, where I woke up and I had a message from someone on our team in the Philippines, and it said, "Thumbtack does not exist on the internet." I was like, "What?"
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And I went to Google. You type in Thumbtack, and nothing shows up, and we basically received the death penalty from Google. Uh, there was a misunderstanding. They thought we'd done something wrong, but they, like, eliminated us from the internet, and so our traffic went to zero [chuckles] and our revenue went to zero. And I remember waking up, and, like, I go to the office, and there's a class of 25 new Thumbtackers who it's their first day, and I'm supposed to do the onboarding with them. There's a journalist, like, walking around outside trying to get a quote. And, you know, that's one of those times where you can't share everything. And so, uh, you want to ultimately be transparent, but if I just walked into a new class and say, [chuckles] "The business might be dead," uh, that's not gonna work. And so you have to kinda get a handle of the situation. Uh, you know, the people who need to know it, know it, and then once there's a plan and a solution-
- ETErik Torenberg
Right
- JSJonathan Swanson
... in place, then the whole company, uh, is told.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah. No, that, that makes sense. Um, at Thumbtack, you were a non-CEO cofounder, and you lasted, you know, a decade, or almost a decade, and you're still on the board, of course. Um, I feel like it's pretty rare when I think about cofounding teams that it feels like the non-CEO, especially if you're not a CTO, usually that doesn't last, you know, over five years or something.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm.
- ETErik Torenberg
Um, I'm curious what's really important to get right in, in cofounder relationships-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm
- ETErik Torenberg
... or how you think about advising, you know, companies you invest in.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah, I mean, the, uh, I heard Sir Michael at Sequoia say something that was like, "There's only one founder."
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And it was at... He said it at a founder event, and I was like, "That's rude." [both chuckling] There's lots of cofounders here. And now a decade later, I'm like, of course, there is only one cofounder that goes the distance-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... because ultimately, as you scale the org, it only makes sense to have one person on top.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Um, so I think that's just the reality, and, uh, you know, it, it's good to know that-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... going into starting a business. Uh, in terms of who to pick, my advice is you pick someone you wanna get married to.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And you're gonna have all the same relationship issues you have- [chuckles]
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... with a partner. Uh, you know, no makeup sex, but it's still like-
- ETErik Torenberg
[chuckles]
- JSJonathan Swanson
Uh, yeah, there's highs, lows-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... and you want someone that ultimately you s- you really deeply trust 'cause there's gonna be stress and-
- 35:55 – 38:19
Cofounder relationships & company building
- ETErik Torenberg
got into GSB, and you were gonna go to grad school.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm.
- ETErik Torenberg
But you, you, you know, had your buddies from college, and you were thinking of starting this, this business, which wasn't even, like, a personal pain point.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm.
- ETErik Torenberg
You just thought it'd be a, a good business, and you, uh, emailed the, you know... You let the GSB people know you weren't going to accept it, and, and they sent you back this very moralizing email-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm
- ETErik Torenberg
... of how you're making the biggest mistake in your life.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm.
- ETErik Torenberg
Um, et, et, et cetera. You know, it turned out pretty good. But h-how do you... Pretty good decision. Um, how did you at the time think about get enough conviction to, to take the leap and do it?
- JSJonathan Swanson
It was scary. I, uh, got into, you know, this good school. Seemed like that was a safe bet. I knew I wanted to start a business, and, uh, you know, if I went to business school, I knew that I'd have all this debt. I probably might need to get a, a nice paying job afterwards.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And if I was gonna go for it, I should probably just go for it. But yeah, when the dean sent me that email, it's like, "This is biggest mistake of your life."
- ETErik Torenberg
[chuckles]
- JSJonathan Swanson
He said something like, uh, "You can... Startups will come and go, but you can only come to Stanford once," or something.
- ETErik Torenberg
[laughs]
- JSJonathan Swanson
"This is a once in a lifetime opportunity." I never responded, and I have it as a email in my, the saved that I'm just gonna respond to whenever Thumbtack goes public and be like-
- ETErik Torenberg
[laughs]
- JSJonathan Swanson
... "I made the right decision."
- ETErik Torenberg
[laughs]
- JSJonathan Swanson
Uh, and, you know, I have nothing against this guy. He's just doing his job, but it's good to have a little, uh, chips on your shoulder.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah, totally. Okay, so there's EAs, and then there are chi- chiefs of staffs.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm.
- ETErik Torenberg
How should we think about sort of the, the difference there, and what's really important to get right in chief of staff? It's, it's a role that everyone, in addition to EA... wishes they, they had.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm.
- ETErik Torenberg
Um, but seems hard to find the right person.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah, there's no formal definition. I think it's something that, uh, an EA is typically more administrative-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... and taking things off your plate, and a chief of staff is more offensive.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And it's the type of person who can follow you into meetings, you could deploy to, "Hey, like actually take this meeting for me," or, "Hey, this problem came up, uh, today. Go figure out how to solve it." And so a chief of staff typically has the capabilities to become a founder themselves, and the only reason [chuckles] they take the job as chief of staff is so they can see what it's like to be a founder, so they can go off, uh, to do it. So you kinda get people who do more tours of duty, and you get super high capability, uh, but you don't get the same longevity-
- 38:19 – 39:06
Chief of staff vs. executive assistant
- ETErik Torenberg
in chief of sta- or what, what's sort of the right... You know, there's sort of this tension between, you know, getting someone younger who's, you know, definitely initially gonna d-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm
- ETErik Torenberg
... do it for, for a couple years, um, and is more ambitious ver- versus someone who's been more seasoned, but maybe-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah
- ETErik Torenberg
... not as high slope or something. W- w- how do you think about?
- JSJonathan Swanson
The way I break it down is assistant, you find someone you wanna go a decade with. Uh, the intimacy and the compounding of that relationship is super important.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And so you go deep, and that means you probably don't find a founder because they're-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... not gonna be excited to do this. It's someone who's much more of a caretaker and is-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... excited to be number two. And then a chief of staff, I do pure slope, where you know the person's gonna move on in a couple-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... years, but they have... Yeah, they could start a business, but instead you get them by your side-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... to help solve problems.
- ETErik Torenberg
Totally. And there, there
- 39:06 – 46:10
Learning from high-performers: Lonsdale, Elon, Thiel, etc.
- ETErik Torenberg
are people, you know, like Lonsdale, maybe like Elad or something, who have, you know, chief of staff for like a year or two, and then they start a company, then they invest in them.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm.
- ETErik Torenberg
And they build kind of this reputation for, for doing, and then they have sort of these like, you know, um, alumni almost-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm
- ETErik Torenberg
... the chief, the chief of staff just kind of, you know, Peter Thiel's or just kind of further-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah, Bezos has this.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Someone follows him around-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... that goes to every meeting.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And yeah, it's cool.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah. Let, let's talk about some, some people who get an enormous amount done, and I'm curious what are lessons-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Hmm
- ETErik Torenberg
... that we can draw from them. Wh- whether it's someone like Lonsdale, whether it's someone like Elon, whether it's someone like Sam Altman, who, who, who are folks that you've particularly learned s- something from even just watching from afar of like how do they build their world? How do they operate? I'll, I'll just say one for, for-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah
- ETErik Torenberg
... someone like Lonsdale. Thiel has done this really well. They sort of compound these certain talent networks.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm.
- ETErik Torenberg
So, you know, whether it's like Stanford Review or just Sta- Stanford in general, um, they're often hiring people from there and then involved in sort of these talent pipelines. They've sort of, you know, created to, you know, they're deep in the hackathon scene.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah.
- ETErik Torenberg
But they just kind of build this proprietary compounding sort of talent base that they're constantly-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah
- ETErik Torenberg
... you know, sort of, um, seeing talent.
- JSJonathan Swanson
I mean, the, the talent access is part of it. I think the other thing is there are some people who have just limitless ambition, and, uh, you're very much this way of like, "Well, what if I could do 10 times more things?"
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And I think lots of people, uh, just think that's impossible.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Um, but it's not. It is possible, and, uh, with delegation and empowerment, you can just keep compounding bigger and bigger scale. The other thing that's interesting that we've seen from working with these, like, power delegators is people assume that, uh, people of, uh, great power or wealth or, uh, resources can afford this team.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And then that, uh, is why they have this ambition. But we've actually seen the opposite is the case is as people get more leverage with assistant, their ambition increases.
- 46:10 – 51:33
Building your universe: org structures and talent networks
- JSJonathan Swanson
It's like what's the right org structure?
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
There's actually no right org structure. It's what's the right org structure for you as a founder.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah, yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And, you know, Marc Andreessen and Ben Horowitz are company builders, and so they're building their leverage like a company. The a16z is a company. Uh, not that Peter Thiel is not an entrepreneur, but he's more of a philosopher today, and so his, uh, system is more like a philosopher. It's all these kinda wild and crazy ideas. Uh, and so I think, you know, Jensen Huang has, like, 46 direct reports or something-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... which is absolutely insane.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
But it works for him. And so I think you just have to know what your style is-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... and then you build it for you.
- ETErik Torenberg
Totally. And someone like, you know, Sam Altman is, like, a deal maker and a fundraiser-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm
- ETErik Torenberg
... and a talent identifier, you know?
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm.
- ETErik Torenberg
And so he's able to... Like, I remember he was at YC, and he was talking to my f- one of my friends about sort of this universal basic income company. My friend didn't end up doing it, but I was like, "Huh, that's interesting. Why is, why is he even doing that?" He's, like, focused on YC.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah.
- ETErik Torenberg
And he's like, he wa- he has a knack for, for good ideas. He has a knack for... And this person was, like, 22. He has a knack for, you know, uh, high-slope talent, and he has a superpower around raising money.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah, I mean, one of the things that I think new founders, or at least me as a new founder, was like, "Okay, what are my weaknesses, and how do I get better at them?"
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
But then a second-time founder is like, "Forget [chuckles] all my weaknesses. I'm just not even gonna try."
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
"I'm just gonna be really good at my strengths-"
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah, triple down, yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
"... and I'm gonna hire other people to do all the things I'm not good at." And that is way more effective.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah, totally. The, um, there used to be this sort of skepticism of like, hey, you can't really... And this still is, actually. You can't really incubate company. Like, the, the CEO has to be the cofound- or the founder.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm.
- ETErik Torenberg
They have to drive it too. W- where do you stand on, on kind of that, that debate?
- JSJonathan Swanson
I think the biggest companies aren't incubated-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- 51:33 – 55:26
Managing founder psychology & staying in the game
- ETErik Torenberg
What have you learned in your extensive founder career about, uh, managing your own psychology, dealing with stress-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm
- ETErik Torenberg
... dealing with the cognitive dissonance of, you know, having to present externally-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm
- ETErik Torenberg
... like things are amazing even when, you know, you're concerned about Google-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Mm-hmm
- ETErik Torenberg
... you know, taking out your business. Um, what, um, what advice might you have for others in terms of cultivating this, uh, skill set?
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah, I mean, I think it's like, uh, a cold plunge or something. It's just you, just shock therapy and eventually-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... you, it's just like you're bathing in existential fear-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... all the time and you're like, "Whatever."
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
"Just bring it on." [chuckles]
- ETErik Torenberg
Totally.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Uh, I don't think there's, there's much other than knowing that it's gonna happen. There's gonna be tons of ups and downs. I think one of the clear lessons from Thumbtack, which is now scaled and s- uh, and done so well, was that, like, there was lots of near misses where we almost died, times where we thought it wasn't gonna work, and it was like, you just gotta stay in the game.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And if you can stay in the game-
- ETErik Torenberg
[chuckles]
- JSJonathan Swanson
... you can eventually win.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
And I think Thumbtack was very good at staying in the game so that we can eventually win. Um...
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah. It's funny, there's like degrees of panic. In the beginning, you know, you're getting your feet wet. It's like, oh my God, someone said something mean about me on the internet.
- JSJonathan Swanson
[chuckles]
- ETErik Torenberg
And then it's like, oh my God, someone wants to, like, leave my company.
- JSJonathan Swanson
[chuckles]
- ETErik Torenberg
But then it's like, oh my God, um, we're getting, we're, you know, we might die. [chuckles] We only have-
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah, it's like the-
- ETErik Torenberg
... six months of payroll. Then it's like, oh my shit, we're gonna get sued. [laughs]
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah.
- 55:26 – 56:47
Athena’s vision: human + AI assistants
- ETErik Torenberg
what else, uh, can you share about plugs for the company or things to watch out for, or for people who, you know, wanna get assistants with, you know?
- JSJonathan Swanson
Yeah, look, uh, I just say if you don't have an assistant, you are the assistant.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Step one, uh, if you're starting a business, you should hire assistant. And if you've got 20 bucks a month, use ChatGPT.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
If you've got, you know, 10 bucks an hour, go onto Upwork and hire someone yourself. Uh, if you hire someone yourself, I would say my main recommendation is you need to interview a lot of people.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Uh, you know, at Athena we have 50,000 assistants apply per month, and we put them through a, a huge battery of tests, and we hire like one in 300. So if you're gonna hire on yourself, make sure you interview not 10, but probably like 50 people.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Uh, if you have the resources for $3,000 a month, then you should work with a company like Athena, who can recruit, train, manage, and teach you how to delegate. And then when you have the resources for an in-person assistant-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... uh, 100, 150K a year, you should do that as well. Um, and then ultimately, you know, when you get later stage, you have a chief of staff-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... in-person assistant, and, you know, a fleet of-
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah
- JSJonathan Swanson
... Athena assistants in the cloud.
- ETErik Torenberg
Yeah. That's a great, a great overview. Well, let's wrap on that.
- JSJonathan Swanson
Awesome.
- ETErik Torenberg
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