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Defining RSD: sensitivity to perceived loss of love, approval, or respect
William Dodson defines Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD) as an intense sensitivity to the perception—whether true or not—that someone has withdrawn love, approval, or respect. He contrasts ordinary dislike of criticism with the catastrophic impact it can have for people with an ADHD-style nervous system.
- •RSD centers on perceived rejection, not necessarily actual rejection
- •The trigger can be someone seeming to withdraw love, approval, or respect
- •Most people dislike criticism, but in ADHD it can feel catastrophic
- •The term “dysphoria” reflects the unbearable quality of the experience
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Why it feels unbearable: instant emotional escalation and physical pain
He explains that RSD hits suddenly, with emotions escalating from zero to 100 almost instantly. The pain is not only emotional but also physically felt, leading to visible bodily reactions.
- •Emotional reaction is immediate and extreme (zero to 100)
- •The experience is described as exquisitely painful
- •Pain can manifest physically, not just emotionally
- •Common physical signs include clutching the chest, hunching over, or grimacing
