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Therapy, Treating Trauma & Other Life Challenges | Dr. Paul Conti

My guest this episode is Dr. Paul Conti, M.D., a psychiatrist and expert in treating trauma, personality disorders and psychiatric illnesses and challenges of various kinds. Dr. Conti earned his MD at Stanford and completed his residency at Harvard Medical School. He now runs the Pacific Premiere Group—a clinical practice helping people heal and grow from trauma and other life challenges. We discuss trauma: what it is, its far-reaching effects on the mind and body and the best treatment approaches. We also explore how to choose a therapist and how to get the most out of therapy, as well as how to do self-directed therapy. We examine the positive and negative effects of antidepressants, ADHD medications, alcohol, cannabis and the therapeutic potential of psychedelics (e.g., psilocybin and LSD), ketamine and MDMA. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking or already doing therapy, processing trauma and/or considering psychoactive medication. Both patients and practitioners ought to benefit from the information. For an up-to-date list of our current sponsors, please visit our website: https://www.hubermanlab.com/sponsors. Previous sponsors mentioned in this podcast episode may no longer be affiliated with us. Social & Website Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/hubermanlab Twitter - https://twitter.com/hubermanlab Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/hubermanlab TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@hubermanlab Website - https://hubermanlab.com Newsletter - https://hubermanlab.com/neural-network Subscribe to the Huberman Lab Podcast Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3thCToZ Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3PYzuFs Google Podcasts: https://bit.ly/3amI809 Other platforms: https://hubermanlab.com/follow Dr. Paul Conti Links Website: https://www.drpaulconti.com Pacific Premier Group, PC: https://www.pacificpremiergroup.com Trauma: The Invisible Epidemic: How Trauma Works and How We Can Heal From It: https://amzlink.to/az01KBLaUX3m6 Timestamps 00:00:00 Dr. Paul Conti, Trauma & Recovery 00:02:30 ROKA, InsideTracker, Blinkist 00:07:00 Defining Trauma 00:14:05 Guilt & Shame, Origins of Negative Emotions 00:21:38 Repeating Trauma, the Repetition Compulsion 00:28:23 How to Deal with Trauma & Negative Emotions/Arousal 00:37:17 Processing Trauma, Do You Always Need a Therapist? 00:45:30 Internal Self-talk, Punishing Narratives & Negative Fantasies 00:51:10 Short-Term Coping Mechanisms vs. Long-Term Change 00:53:22 Tools: Processing Trauma on Your Own, Journaling 00:57:00 Sublimination of Traumatic Experiences 01:02:34 Tool: Finding a Good Therapist 01:07:20 Optimizing the Therapy Process, Frequency, Intensity 01:14:51 Tool: Self-Awareness of Therapy Needs, Mismatch of Needs 01:16:35 Self-talk & Journaling, Talking to Trusted Individuals 01:19:00 Prescription Drugs & Treating Trauma, Antidepressants, Treating Core Issues 01:28:35 Short-term vs. Long-Term Use of Prescription Drugs, Antidepressants 01:32:18 Attention Deficient Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) & Prescription Drugs 01:37:31 Negative Effects of ADHD Prescription Drugs 01:40:37 Alcohol, Cannabis – Positive & Negative Effects 01:44:53 Psychedelics: Psylocibin & LSD, Therapeutic Uses, Trauma Recovery 01:54:32 Sentience, Language, Animals 01:55:48 Psychedelic Hallucinations, Trauma Recovery 02:00:01 MDMA (Therapeutic Uses) 02:04:47 Clinical Aspects of MDMA 02:07:28 Language, Processing Trauma, Social Media, Societal Divisions 02:15:09 Defining “Taking Care of Oneself” 02:21:13 Dr. Conti, Zero-Cost Support, YouTube Feedback, Spotify & Apple Reviews, Sponsors, Momentous Supplements, Instagram, Twitter, Neural Network Newsletter The Huberman Lab Podcast is for general informational purposes only and does not constitute the practice of medicine, nursing or other professional health care services, including the giving of medical advice, and no doctor/patient relationship is formed. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast is at the user’s own risk. The content of this podcast is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their health care professionals for any such conditions.

Andrew HubermanhostDr. Paul Contiguest
Jun 6, 20222h 24mWatch on YouTube ↗

CHAPTERS

  1. 0:00 – 12:40

    Introduction, Guest Background, and Episode Overview

    Andrew Huberman introduces the podcast, his guest psychiatrist Dr. Paul Conti, and outlines the episode’s focus on trauma, therapy, self-therapy, and drug treatments including psychedelics. Sponsorship messages follow before they begin the core discussion.

  2. 12:40 – 22:50

    What Trauma Is (and Isn’t)

    Conti defines trauma clinically as experiences that overwhelm coping capacity and produce enduring changes in brain function and behavior. He distinguishes trauma from everyday disappointments and ‘microtraumas,’ emphasizing observable changes in mood, anxiety, sleep, health, and vigilance.

  3. 22:50 – 32:50

    How Trauma Hides: Guilt, Shame, and Personal Example

    They discuss why trauma often goes unrecognized due to automatic reflexes of guilt and shame, which drive people to bury their experiences. Conti shares his own story of his brother’s suicide and the internal shift from feeling effective in the world to feeling helpless and guilty.

  4. 32:50 – 43:50

    Evolution, Limbic System, and the Origins of Shame

    Conti explains shame and guilt as limbic ‘aroused affects’ that once promoted survival and group cohesion but now often misfire in modern contexts. He describes how the limbic system generates powerful automatic responses that override logic.

  5. 43:50 – 50:40

    Trauma’s Societal Impact, Addiction, and the “Invisible Epidemic”

    They connect trauma to the modern epidemics of addiction, overdose deaths, and chronic mental distress. Conti argues that much substance use is an attempt to soothe unresolved, hidden trauma, with medications like opioids easing emotional pain more than physical pain.

  6. 50:40 – 1:05:20

    Repetition Compulsion: Why We Recreate Our Wounds

    Huberman and Conti explore Freud’s idea of repetition compulsion and why people unconsciously recreate abusive relationships or traumatic dynamics. Conti explains that the emotional brain tries to ‘make things right’ in the present to fix the past, but this keeps people stuck.

  7. 1:05:20 – 1:17:30

    What to Do with Trauma-Linked Arousal in Daily Life

    Huberman asks how to handle trauma-related arousal in real time, weighing options like catharsis versus suppression. Conti emphasizes that day-to-day functioning sometimes requires short-term deferral but long-term healing demands directly approaching the trauma with curiosity, not avoidance.

  8. 1:17:30 – 1:26:40

    Maladaptive Coping: Negative Fantasies, Self-Punishment, and Control Illusions

    They analyze why people dwell on imagined worst-case scenarios or self-berating narratives. Conti identifies punishment, avoidance, and a false sense of control as central motives driving these thought patterns, which feel soothing but erode long-term wellbeing.

  9. 1:26:40 – 1:40:00

    Self-Therapy Tools: Observing Ego, Journaling, and Dialogue

    Conti outlines how people can begin trauma work on their own through cultivating an ‘observing ego,’ journaling, and talking to trusted others. The key is introducing new perspectives rather than rehearsing the same narrative endlessly.

  10. 1:40:00 – 1:54:20

    When and How to Seek Professional Help; Intensive Therapy

    They discuss finding a good therapist, the primacy of rapport, and different intensities of therapy, from weekly sessions to highly concentrated multi-day programs. Conti stresses that therapy should lead to real change, not just ‘checking a box.’

  11. 1:54:20 – 2:02:20

    How to Use Therapy Sessions Effectively

    Huberman asks practical questions about pre-, during-, and post-session practices. Conti notes there’s no one-size-fits-all answer; the goal is to be fully present during sessions and then consolidate insights in whatever way fits the individual.

  12. 2:02:20 – 2:25:20

    Medication: Principles, Misuse, and Systemic Problems

    The conversation turns to psychiatric medications: how they’re used, misused, and overprescribed in the context of a throughput-driven healthcare system. Conti argues medications should be tools that support deeper work, not replacements for it.

  13. 2:25:20 – 2:37:20

    Stimulants and ADHD: Benefits, Risks, and Misdiagnosis

    They examine the widespread use—and misuse—of stimulants like Adderall and Ritalin. Conti differentiates genuine ADHD from attention problems driven by anxiety, depression, poor sleep, or trauma, warning about long-term consequences of casual stimulant use.

  14. 2:37:20 – 2:45:40

    Cannabis: Narrowing Attention and Mixed Effects

    Conti shares his clinical impressions of cannabis as a substance that narrows attentional focus. Under some conditions it can ease sleep and anxiety, but at higher distress levels it can intensify fixation on negative content.

  15. 2:45:40 – 3:04:00

    Psychedelics: Psilocybin and LSD as Anti-Trauma Tools

    They discuss the emerging evidence that classic psychedelics (psilocybin, LSD) can powerfully aid trauma and depression treatment in controlled settings. Conti offers a neurobiological and philosophical model for why these drugs might catalyze deep healing.

  16. 3:04:00 – 3:22:00

    MDMA: Neurochemistry and Therapeutic State

    The focus shifts to MDMA, which differs from classic psychedelics. Huberman shares his experience participating in a clinical MDMA trial; Conti explains MDMA’s role in trauma therapy as a state that lowers fear and increases emotional openness when guided properly.

  17. 3:22:00 – 3:40:00

    Language, Social Media, and Cultural Trauma

    They explore the power and misuse of language—how over-broad words like ‘trauma’ can dilute meaning, and how online hostility and political bombast can themselves be traumatizing or retraumatizing. Conti advocates for specificity and civility without over-policing speech.

  18. 3:40:00 – 3:54:00

    Self-Care as a Foundational, Not Fluffy, Practice

    They unpack ‘self-care’ as a serious psychological cornerstone, not a superficial trend. Conti stresses that complex brains still require simple, non-negotiable basics—sleep, movement, sunlight, healthy food, and healthy relationships.

  19. 3:54:00

    Closing Reflections and Resources

    Huberman thanks Conti and underscores the uniqueness of his integrative view on trauma, therapy, and pharmacology. He promotes Conti’s book and website, then closes with podcast-related information on sponsors, newsletter, and social media.

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