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Bert Kreischer: The Truth about ''The Machine'' Story..

In this candid, hilarious, and unexpectedly moving episode of On Purpose, Jay sits down with comedian, actor, and podcast superstar Bert Kreischer—famously known for his shirtless stand-up and his ability to keep audiences laughing nonstop. This conversation goes way beyond the jokes as Jay and Bert dive deep into the real stories behind the spotlight, revealing the layers of vulnerability, self-doubt, and emotional growth that make Bert more than just a party-loving comic. Bert shares what it was like growing up with a tough, old-school dad who believed in powering through pain and never showing weakness. That mentality helped shape Bert’s work ethic but also left him carrying emotional weight for years. In one of the most touching moments of the episode, Bert shares how a simple, unexpected conversation with his dad, while they were both high on edibles, changed everything, helping them finally see each other clearly and connect on a deeper level. With Jay’s thoughtful guidance, they unpack Bert’s real-life struggles with anxiety, chasing approval, and feeling like you’re never enough, things so many of us can relate to. Bert is refreshingly honest about his mental health, his parenting ups and downs, and what it's like trying to stay grounded while raising two sharp, hilarious daughters who aren’t afraid to call him out. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:45 The Wildest Plane Stories You’ve Ever Heard 04:25 Why a Marriage Built on Laughter Works 06:01 When Your Family Becomes Your Funniest Critics 07:16 Were You Always the Funny One? 09:08 How Bert Mastered the Art of Storytelling 14:35 Growing Up with a Tough-Love Dad 17:56 What It’s Like Seeing Your Parent Cry for the First Time 20:40 Realizing Your Parents Are Human Too 23:36 When Your Dad Realizes He Can Use Your Fame 24:35 What It’s Like to Share Your Success with Your Parents 29:05 The Lifelong Quest for a Parent’s Approval 35:08 How a 6-Figure Deal with Will Smith Changed Everything 37:20 The Moment You Know You Have to Chase Your Talent 42:50 Embracing the Power of Pressure 44:09 Is There a Pain You Can’t Laugh Through? 47:06 Letting Your Kids See You Cry 49:56 Why the Way You Tell a Joke Matters 51:43 How Your Kids Really See You 54:05 The Challenge of Uninterrupted Family Time 56:51 Just Show Up and Do the Work 01:01:33 Success Was Never a Straight Line 01:07:24 Don’t Let Greatness Become Familiar 01:11:12 Living with Anxiety When Life Doesn’t Slow Down 01:17:26 Building a Healthier Relationship with Alcohol 01:19:29 How Tracking Your Fitness Can Change You 01:22:00 Bert on Final Five Episode Resources: https://www.instagram.com/jayshetty https://www.facebook.com/jayshetty/ https://x.com/jayshetty https://www.linkedin.com/in/shettyjay/ https://www.youtube.com/@JayShettyPodcast http://jayshetty.me https://www.bertbertbert.com/ https://www.instagram.com/bertkreischer https://x.com/bertkreischer https://www.youtube.com/@bertkreischer https://www.tiktok.com/@bertkreischer https://www.facebook.com/BertKreischer/

Bert KreischerguestJay Shettyhost
May 13, 20251h 36mWatch on YouTube ↗

At a glance

WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT

Bert Kreischer on fame, family, anxiety, and comedic resilience lessons

  1. Kreischer explains how a “show up no matter what” mindset—learned from his tough-love father—became the engine behind his longevity in comedy and his willingness to take pressure-filled opportunities.
  2. He describes a marriage built on constant teasing, laughter, and clear boundaries about what’s fair game in comedy—especially ensuring jokes land with love rather than cruelty.
  3. He revisits pivotal moments of father-son healing, including witnessing his dad cry, a candid conversation while high that revealed fear and love beneath emotional distance, and how fame changed their dynamic.
  4. Kreischer details how persistence and humility turned a crushing birthday call from his dad into nightly hustle that eventually led to a six-figure development deal after being discovered by Will Smith.
  5. He opens up about anxiety, intrusive thoughts, fear of flying, and alcohol as a coping mechanism—sharing practical self-talk and movement-based strategies to manage spirals and improve day-by-day.

IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING

5 ideas

Consistency creates luck: show up even when you don’t feel ready.

Kreischer credits his dad’s rule—work doesn’t stop for sickness, fear, or discomfort—as the reason opportunities compound; if you skip the stage/meeting/audition, “everything that could make your life great just disappears.”

Pressure can be a performance advantage if you trust your preparation.

He describes bombing before his first Netflix special and then delivering the best set of his career in the final taping; the belief “you love pressure” helped him convert stress into focus rather than panic.

Healing with parents may come from context and actions, not only big talks.

While Kreischer doesn’t always have direct emotional conversations with his dad, moments like seeing him cry, learning his backstory (losing his father young), and taking concrete steps (cardiologist tests) softened resentment and built closeness.

Approval-seeking can be reframed into service: make people feel good.

He admits his drive is tied to wanting his dad—and audiences—to like him, but he channels it into giving crowds a great time rather than obsessing about being “the best” comic.

Persistence beats talent-gatekeeping when you’re willing to be rejected repeatedly.

After his dad’s brutal birthday wake-up call, he returned to the same club night after night until he earned stage time; the “keep asking until you break them” approach created momentum that later led to Will Smith discovering him.

WORDS WORTH SAVING

5 quotes

"If you don't get on stage, if you don't show up to work, all the stuff that could possibly make your life great just disappears."

Bert Kreischer

"I leaned over to him. I go, 'Why don't you like me?' ... and he just goes... He's like, 'I love you. You just make me uncomfortable.'"

Bert Kreischer

"My whole life. My whole life. ... all I've ever wanted is that man's approval. That's it. That's it."

Bert Kreischer

"Be undeniable."

Bert Kreischer

"Let's do today just a little better than we did yesterday."

Bert Kreischer

Plane stories and temptation vs. commitmentMarriage built on banter, therapy, and humorStorytelling craft from all-boys school cultureTough-love parenting and lifelong approval-seekingWill Smith deal and “be yourself” in HollywoodPressure as performance fuel (bombing → best show)Anxiety/OCD, alcohol, and coping tools (movement, tracking, baby steps)

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