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Joe Rogan Experience #2045 - Jimmy Carr

Jimmy Carr is a stand-up comic, writer, actor, and television host. Carr's most recent special, "His Dark Material," is available on Netflix.  www.jimmycarr.com

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Jun 27, 20242h 48mWatch on YouTube ↗

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  1. 0:001:09

    Austin arrival + Comedy Mothership design choices that serve comics

    1. NA

      (drumbeats) Joe Rogan podcast, check it out. The Joe Rogan Experience.

    2. JR

      Train by day, Joe Rogan podcast by night. All day. (instrumental music plays) Hey.

    3. JC

      Hello, Jimmy. Hey, Joe. How are ya?

    4. JR

      (laughs) Good to see you, buddy.

    5. JC

      It's very nice to see you. This is, uh, it's a hell of a setup.

    6. JR

      Thank you. Thank you very much.

    7. JC

      I'm like in Austin, Texas. I've been here about 18 hours, and, uh, it's, uh, yeah. Five stars on TripAdvisor so far.

    8. JR

      Did you do a set last night?

    9. JC

      I didn't do a set, but I went to the club.

    10. JR

      Yeah?

    11. JC

      And the club is, it's phenomenal.

    12. JR

      Thank you, thank you.

    13. JC

      It's almost like someone with an unlimited budget built a comedy club.

    14. JR

      (laughs)

    15. JC

      That's what it felt like, Joe. I don't know, I don't know if your business manager has a view on this.

    16. JR

      Yeah, I don't-

    17. JC

      But I think something along the lines of-

    18. JR

      I'm not good at taking advice. (laughs)

    19. JC

      Yeah, but it's, it's so great. It's so set up from the comic's point of view.

    20. JR

      Yeah.

    21. JC

      It's like, uh, no food.

    22. JR

      Yeah, no food.

    23. JC

      No food is a great choice.

    24. JR

      Yeah, you can have food.

    25. JC

      Yeah, people can eat afterwards.

    26. JR

      Go eat before.

    27. JC

      Or afterwards. Yeah, or afterwards.

    28. JR

      Eat after, eat before. There's so many places to eat on 6th Street.

    29. JC

      There's a-

    30. JR

      There's a nice pizza place right next door.

  2. 1:096:04

    Why comedians need community + comedy as a golden-age social ritual

    1. JR

      Well, it's one of those Kevin Costner things, you know, "You build it, they will come," from the Field of Dreams.

    2. JC

      Yeah. Well, it feels kinda bigger than that as well, in terms of, you know, you've come out here, and what are you giving back?

    3. JR

      Yeah.

    4. JC

      And comedy's given you everything, as it has me, and you go, "Well, what, what can you give back?"

    5. JR

      Yeah.

    6. JC

      What can you do for your community? And it feels like that's a great thing to do.

    7. JR

      But also, it seemed like I kind of had to do it because when I moved here, I had this idea that I'd just be able to, like, do whatever local spots I could and then go on the road, and I kind of could. But one of the things that I've realized is that comics need community. It's very important. Like, and that's one of the things that we really had at The Comedy Store that made The Comedy Store so special, is that it wasn't just that it was a great place to work and come up with new material and work on it, but it was also a great place to meet other people that were doing the same thing.

    8. JC

      It's interesting, comedy-

    9. JR

      And you get to sit and talk.

    10. JC

      ... as opposed to acting.

    11. JR

      Yeah.

    12. JC

      You know that thing... Alan Havey said this great thing to me. He said, "Comedians, we're out for ourselves but in it together."

    13. JR

      Hmm.

    14. JC

      I thought, "Ah, that's, it's really interesting, that thing of like going, yeah. Everyone's doing their own thing. See, it's, comedy is not like acting. It's not a zero-sum game.

    15. JR

      Right.

    16. JC

      So you doing your thing, no matter how successful you are, has no impact on my thing. If anything, you pull me up.

    17. JR

      Yes.

    18. JC

      So comedy becomes like a bigger thing. If someone does fantastically and they're playing hockey arenas, then more people are pulled up through the clubs and the theaters into the arenas.

    19. JR

      Sure.

    20. JC

      It feels like, it feels like we're living in a golden age for comedy. It feels to me like this is what it m- must have felt like to work in, uh, music or movies in the '70s.

    21. JR

      Yeah.

    22. JC

      It's like, it's, it feels like there's something culturally going on with comedy where it feels like it's got a value that's, people need it. People need to go out and feel like they're part of a community. And I suppose when you think about what we're doing on stage, it is pretty special. We're letting people into our minds, and we go into their bodies.

    23. JR

      Yeah.

    24. JC

      We're possessing them. We change their physical state. It's extraordinary.

    25. JR

      It is extraordinary. It really is like a drug. You're giving people a happy drug.

    26. JC

      Well, it's two dr- I mean, it's-

    27. JR

      Yeah.

    28. JC

      ... it's the endorphin 'cause you don't quite know when the punch is coming.

    29. JR

      Mm-hmm.

    30. JC

      And then the serotonin of laughter.

  3. 6:048:17

    Phones locked up, audience ‘performance,’ and why live rooms feel different

    1. JR

      Yeah. It is. And, uh, and also, in this day and age, it's one of the rare places where you can hear people speak freely about controversial subjects. And in my club, we lock up the phones so people don't... They're not self-conscious, and they're also not distracted, and then you don't have to worry about people filming-

    2. JC

      B- but that thing of like-

    3. JR

      ... clips.

    4. JC

      I- i- it is weird, isn't it? The locking up the phones is such an interesting point because that's what people want.

    5. JR

      Yeah.

    6. JC

      They want that boundary of going, "I'm in a live-"

    7. JR

      Yeah.

    8. JC

      Like, there's lots of people that would... You, you would watch your favorite show. You'd watch, I don't know, wha- whatever you, you, you like, like Game of Thrones or an MMA fight or whatever. And if you have your phone near you, there's a temptation to check the news and refresh and refresh-

    9. JR

      Mm-hmm.

    10. JC

      ... and see what's going on and to ruin the experience for yourself. But somehow, being out in public, like, you, you, you're aware. Like, it's, it's performative being in a crowd. Like, we're not the only ones performing at a comedy club or in, in a theater. The audience are performing. People... "How are you doing?" Like, you ask an audience, "How are you doing?" And they go, "Yay."

    11. JR

      Hmm.

    12. JC

      No one says that one-on-one.

    13. JR

      (laughs)

    14. JC

      No one's ever s- "Hey, how you doing, Joe?" "Yeah!"

    15. JR

      (laughs)

    16. JC

      You sound psychotic.

    17. JR

      Right.

    18. JC

      But in an audience, it's entirely acceptable to-

    19. JR

      Mm-hmm.

    20. JC

      ... to be that person, to dance and to clap along. You'd look strange listening to a band play live and just standing and listening, like-

    21. JR

      Yeah.

    22. JC

      ... and not dancing in the crowd.

    23. JR

      Right.

    24. JC

      And that thing about going, "Well, this is..." It's performative being in the audience. Don't think you're the only one performing. They're all with you. They're all... That, the, the, the laughter is... You're partly... You're signaling. It doesn't mean that it's fake laughter, but you're signaling to other people that you got it, and you're applauding when you kind of agree a little bit.

    25. JR

      Yeah.

    26. JC

      And it's, it, there's a, there's a rhythm to it. Being in an audience is a performance, and it's so fun to do.

    27. JR

      Yeah, it is. It's my favorite thing to watch still, after all these years. I love wa- I watched Christina Pazsitzky last night. It was awesome.

    28. JC

      Was it fantastic?

    29. JR

      Oh, she's so funny. But it just f- it's fun. It's fun to laugh. It's fun to see someone's writing and see, like, where they're going with ideas. And...

    30. JC

      And it's t- it's, it's also, it's the same and totally different. It's-

  4. 8:1711:15

    Teaching stand-up: joke-writing as a language that can be learned

    1. JC

      It's a totally different thing. It's t- you know, that self-authored thing. I mean, my... The thing I'm working on at the moment, I'm slightly jealous of the club, I'll be honest. I sort of saw the club last night, I'm like, "This is quite something to do, to set up a club and to have that community," and it's great. And I think that... I'm try- I'm working at the moment on a, I don't know whether it's a book or whether it's a... I think it might be like an online course, but a comedy course. Because-

    2. JR

      On how to do standup?

    3. JC

      How to write jokes.

    4. JR

      Wow.

    5. JC

      How to be a standup. I think-

    6. JR

      That's great.

    7. JC

      ... I think... Here's my vision for it. I think we're going through a golden period, but maybe it's just beginning. Comedy is quite a new medium anyway.

    8. JR

      Yeah.

    9. JC

      We get to be the Beatles and The Rolling Stones, or certainly someone in our generation does.

    10. JR

      Mm-hmm.

    11. JC

      You know, if you think about it, like, George Carlin and, and, uh, uh, Richard Pryor were John the Baptist-

    12. JR

      Mmm.

    13. JC

      ... where someone's coming through. It's like that thing of, like, it feels like it's, it's getting bigger and bigger. My vision is, it gets taught in schools.

    14. JR

      Hmm.

    15. JC

      So, we teach, we teach music, and we teach drama and art. And I think standup comedy is an art form, and I think we need to get less, less magical thinking and more, "Okay, let's put down a language." Like music, you can write it.

    16. JR

      Mm-hmm.

    17. JC

      Let's come up with the... I mean, I, I've kind of... I'm working on, like, 50 joke types, but let's come up with a, a way of analyzing this and teach people how to do it. Because what does it give you? Like, if your kid does standup comedy, okay, well, it's... They have to find their voice. Uh, they have to look at things in a, in a, from a different angle, a different perspective. It's about pattern recognition. These are all transferable skills.

    18. JR

      Mmm.

    19. JC

      And it's about finding your voice. The reason every standup is interesting to watch is because it's individual voices.

    20. JR

      Yeah.

    21. JC

      And really, what's growing up about? What's school about? Finding your voice.

    22. JR

      Yeah.

    23. JC

      Finding out what you're about, finding out who you are. Like, I don't think it's a dumb idea to teach standup comedy and to say, "Well, everyone should give this a go."

    24. JR

      Yeah.

    25. JC

      'Cause even people that have done... I k- I've got a couple of people that w- come see me live or whatever that tell me, "Oh, I did, like, four or five gigs 10 years ago."

    26. JR

      Mm-hmm.

    27. JC

      But they enjoy standup comedy more than the average person. It's like someone who's... Can play a little bit of guitar-

    28. JR

      Right.

    29. JC

      ... goes and sees and goes, "Well, this is..."

    30. JR

      Right.

  5. 11:1515:31

    Process over ‘magic’: writing discipline, stealing structure, and comic influence

    1. JC

      I, I think it would be great because how many comics do we know, guys that do this for a living and are doing great, that, that do have magical thinking?

    2. JR

      Mm-hmm.

    3. JC

      "Well, it just comes to me."

    4. JR

      Yeah.

    5. JC

      "And I need to do this to make it happen." Like, understanding how to write music has never damaged anyone's creativity. So, I think the idea of, like, analyzing it and treating it like a job, and how do you sit down and write? And some people go, "Well, I don't sit down and write. It just, it just occurs to me." And you go, "Uh, well, okay." But, like, it's that... There's a great...... quote by Chuck Close. You know the artist Chuck Close?

    6. JR

      No.

    7. JC

      He's a b- a great artist, like pointillist, and he said, uh, "Inspiration is for amateurs, the rest of us just go to work."

    8. JR

      Hmm. Yeah. That's similar to Steven Pressfield's work, you know, uh, The War of Art.

    9. JC

      Oh, I love that book.

    10. JR

      Yeah, fantastic book.

    11. JC

      It's really something, isn't it?

    12. JR

      Yeah.

    13. JC

      But I think, I think, it's, I'm onto something here because I think a lot of people wanna do something creative with their lives. I think a lot of people wanna-

    14. JR

      Yeah.

    15. JC

      ... uh, they, they like stand-up comedy. It's, it's becoming a bigger thing. I think more people will wanna try it. And just giving them the, the kind of, the, the instruction manual early on.

    16. JR

      Yeah.

    17. JC

      So, 'cause, 'cause then what they're having to do is what, what we did, you watch a lot of comedy and then you kinda reverse engineer what you hear people do. So you watch the greats, you watch Steven Wright and Emo Philips and Rita Rudner and Wanda Sykes and whatever you're looking at, and you go, "Oh, okay. So they, they must have had the punchline first and then they must have, if they were doing that wordplay, that's how that-"

    18. JR

      Hmm.

    19. JC

      "... that's probably how they did it. Okay." So you take the, you can take all the structure, you can steal the structure, and then come up with your own content. It's a great-

    20. JR

      Hmm.

    21. JC

      ... kind of, you know?

    22. JR

      Yeah. Well, that's what a lot of people do in the beginning, right? They like, they make jokes that are similar to a joke that someone that they enjoy would write-

    23. JC

      Yes.

    24. JR

      ... you know, like say if-

    25. JC

      It's in their voice.

    26. JR

      Yeah.

    27. JC

      It's in there. They find themselves kind of doing... And then there's different ages in comedy where certain people kinda come through and have a real effect on how everyone's performing.

    28. JR

      Like David Tell.

    29. JC

      Yeah.

    30. JR

      P- Patrice O'Neal used to always, uh, used to talk about how many babies, uh, he had.

  6. 15:3121:34

    Work-life balance, kids, and the joy problem: ‘work is more fun than fun’

    1. JC

      I, I don't know. I mean, maybe he's as successful as he needs to be because really what's this about?

    2. JR

      Right.

    3. JC

      It's, it's ab- it's quite stoic, I think. I'm, I've become quite the stoic on... I like going, "Well, I... The world ordered a stand-up comedian, I need to honor that."

    4. JR

      Yes.

    5. JC

      I'm a stand-up, so anything that's not writing jokes or performing jokes is not doing the thing.

    6. JR

      Right.

    7. JC

      And the thing is all I care about.

    8. JR

      I would add to that, that it's good to experience life too. And then I think one of the things that accentuates life is accentuating your perspective on things, and that comes from experiences. And it, there's one, one problem that some comics have where they just perform and travel all the time, and a lot of their jokes-

    9. JC

      Airplane material.

    10. JR

      Yeah.

    11. JC

      Yeah.

    12. JR

      You know, it revolves around what they know.

    13. JC

      It's, it's hard, that work-life balance is very tricky. I've just, I've had kids quite late in life and work-life balance is hard, you know. You know, uh, it's, it's difficult. Being a comedian, here's the, here's the first world problem I have, um, uh, you know, work i- is, is more fun than fun.

    14. JR

      (laughs) Yeah. That's true.

    15. JC

      It's more fun than fun.

    16. JR

      More fun than any vacation.

    17. JC

      What are you, what are you doing on a, on a, on a, you know, night out?

    18. JR

      Yeah.

    19. JC

      "No, we went and had dinner."

    20. JR

      Right.

    21. JC

      You go, "Okay. Did a thousand people clap-"

    22. JR

      (laughs)

    23. JC

      "... when you walked in the restaurant?" No. No, they didn't.

    24. JR

      Right. Then they howl laughing.

    25. JC

      "Did you get a standing ovation as you left-"

    26. JR

      Right.

    27. JC

      "... the restaurant?" "Well, no I didn't."

    28. JR

      Yeah.

    29. JC

      "And I thought I did very well at dinner."

    30. JR

      I have often thought of how many people live from the cradle to the grave and never kill, and what, what, what a sad thing that is to never experience that, just, just drawing an audience for an hour.

  7. 21:3426:40

    Touring globally: how comedy translates, crowd cultures, and Austin’s creative ‘whisper’

    1. JC

      Through watching you. Do you, do you travel round the world much? Do you do-

    2. JR

      Yeah.

    3. JC

      ... much overseas? So, uh-

    4. JR

      Yeah. I haven't been lately, but I did the O2 Arena, uh, a few months back. Actually, a year ago.

    5. JC

      Nice.

    6. JR

      Did it in October last year. Yeah. It's not just for fun.

    7. JC

      And did you get ... 'Cause I mean, I'm, I'm like, I think I'm 40 countries in now.

    8. JR

      Mm.

    9. JC

      I'm going, and you go, "What's happened the last 10 years," uh, like, the English language has become bigger. And the English language was big to begin with. But things like YouTube and Netflix has meant ... 'Cause there used to be a thing in certain countries where they would dub every movie and every TV show into the local language. And they would get it a little bit later, and it wouldn't matter, and the local actors would do the voice, and the show would be a hit. Great. That's all gone now. In the age of kinda global, you know, interconnectivity, people know, "Well, Game of Thrones was on last night, and the, the, the new specials by Joe is out this evening." So, they watch it sort of straightaway-

    10. JR

      Right.

    11. JC

      ... and they watch everything in English. YouTube doesn't bother translating things.

    12. JR

      Yes.

    13. JC

      So, everyone's English has kinda gone up a gear. So, you can go to quite obscure places, and everyone wants to come out and see standup comedy, and they all know who you are.

    14. JR

      Yeah.

    15. JC

      And they're all listening. It's kind of ... It's an amazing way to see the world.

    16. JR

      It is. It is an amazing way to see the world. And it is interesting how comedy translates into these other places and how they, how they absorb comedy. It's very different. Like, I, I took Tony to Stockholm. We did, uh, Sweden.

    17. JC

      I love Stockholm.

    18. JR

      It was great. It was great.

    19. JC

      Yeah.

    20. JR

      But he was like, "Dude, I feel like I bombed." And I go, "You, you did really well. Why?" He goes, " 'Cause there was like, they were quiet in between the jokes." I was like, "That's interesting."

    21. JC

      Yeah, you go to some places though, and it's like, I remember playing at like places in-

    22. JR

      They laugh and stop laughing.

    23. JC

      ... like Finland, Denmark, Sweden.

    24. JR

      Laugh, stop laughing. Yeah.

    25. JC

      And then, at the end of the show-

    26. JR

      Yeah.

    27. JC

      ... nuts.

    28. JR

      Yeah.

    29. JC

      Because it's like, it's more like a theatrical performance is, is the thing-

    30. JR

      Mm-hmm.

  8. 26:4028:13

    Gratitude, modern comfort, and the hedonic treadmill

    1. JC

      But it's that thing, isn't it, where the, you know, that thing in life, disposition is more important than position.

    2. JR

      Yes.

    3. JC

      You know, how you-

    4. JR

      Yes.

    5. JC

      ... are in your head. We all know billionaires that are miserable-

    6. JR

      Yes.

    7. JC

      ... and, and people sweeping the streets very happy.

    8. JR

      Yes.

    9. JC

      And it's that thing of like disposition and the ... It, it seems to be, I know it's trite, but it seems to be the thing is gratitude.

    10. JR

      Yes.

    11. JC

      If you ... Gratitude is the cure for resentment.

    12. JR

      Yes.

    13. JC

      And there's so much resentment around.

    14. JR

      It's such a maligned word because it gets attached to woo-woo bullshit and people wear wooden beads and, you know, it, it gets attached to posing, you know? But I think it's-

    15. JC

      Yeah.

    16. JR

      ... it's real.

    17. JC

      I think gratitude as well is like i- people imagine it's about the, the thing and not the ... Like, the environment-

    18. JR

      Mm-hmm.

    19. JC

      ... is the thing we should be grateful for.

    20. JR

      Yes.

    21. JC

      Like that we live in this time. You know that Steven Pinker Enlightenment Now book?

    22. JR

      Mm-hmm.

    23. JC

      Where you sort of go, well now.

    24. JR

      Yeah.

    25. JC

      Now there's like ... I had a hot shower this morning. No one b- ... Before 1930, no one had had one.

    26. JR

      Right.

    27. JC

      People didn't know what hot showers were. They washed once a week in cold water.

    28. JR

      Yeah.

    29. JC

      Good luck, everyone.

    30. JR

      I wanna know-

  9. 28:1333:59

    Comedy history detour: Dick Gregory, civil rights, and the JFK Zapruder film reveal

    1. JC

      ... but it wasn't quite ... Like the people that started ... Who were the first people in America-

    2. JR

      Lenny Bruce.

    3. JC

      L- Lenny Bruce. But Lenny Bruce-

    4. JR

      He was really the first to do-

    5. JC

      Play in theaters.

    6. JR

      ... our style of comedy. Yeah.

    7. JC

      Yeah.

    8. JR

      But it was our style of comedy where he's just talking about life. Everybody before that was like, "Two Jews walked into a bar. They buy it."

    9. JC

      Yes.

    10. JR

      You know? It was like set up punchline, ta-dum-thump.

    11. JC

      I mean, I st- I do old f- I mean, it's very old-timey really in a sense 'cause I do jokes. So they stand and fall. It's very high-wire.

    12. JR

      Yes.

    13. JC

      It's either this is ... It's binary. This is funny or not. There's no story behind it that you can ... I mean, sometimes I do longer form, but really it's quite like old school jokes. But yeah, Lenny Bruce, George Carlin-

    14. JR

      Mm-hmm.

    15. JC

      ... like people that started playing theaters and clubs-

    16. JR

      Yes.

    17. JC

      ... and like to draw a crowd. So you weren't just acting to be comical.

    18. JR

      And then Pryor was the first one to really do it well.

    19. JC

      Pry- I never think Dick Gregory gets enough-

    20. JR

      He doesn't. He doesn't get enough props.

    21. JC

      ... props. People don't talk about it. People don't talk about what he did and part of the struggle and-

    22. JR

      Yes.

    23. JC

      ... he's incredible as a figure.

    24. JR

      Well, you know, he's also the one that exposed the Kennedy assassination.

    25. JC

      No, I didn't know that.

    26. JR

      Dick Gregory went on the Geraldo Rivera show 12 years after-

    27. JC

      Who has-

    28. JR

      ... Kennedy was assassinated.

    29. JC

      Who had conspiracy theories 35 minutes in? Who has?

    30. JR

      Uh, I have it, uh, fucking every 20 minutes-

  10. 33:5945:54

    Conspiracy thinking vs real conspiracies: Savile, institutions, and cover-ups

    1. JC

      It's very, it's a very odd ... I mean, conspiracy theories are like, th- they're sort of fascinating because they're simple solutions to complex problems. You know, so, so a lot of them, I kinda go, "Well, you know, I- I'm not sure whether that's, there's any validity in that." It just seems like a, a, a, a, an easy solution to this thing which is incredibly nuanced and complex.

    2. JR

      Mm-hmm.

    3. JC

      But the Kennedy thing, you go, "Well, how d- it's the president got shot."

    4. JR

      Right, but-

    5. JC

      How was there ... How could they have covered this up?

    6. JR

      1963. They, there was, I mean, you had n- there was no independent journalism. There was no, uh, YouTube. There was no online commentators that weren't captured by a system. They weren't a part of, uh, an enormous structure like The New York Times or The Washington Post or whatever the fuck it was.

    7. JC

      Yeah.

    8. JR

      And, uh, the Zapruder film, again, had been archived for 13 years before it was, or 12 years. 12 or 13.

    9. JC

      I didn't re-

    10. JR

      It was 12 or 13.

    11. JC

      I didn't realize that. I, I kind of naturally-

    12. JR

      Yeah.

    13. JC

      ... I assumed, stupidly, that he got shot and the film came out the next week.

    14. JR

      No. No, it didn't.

    15. JC

      12 years? I mean, that's-

    16. JR

      Yeah, that, I believe it was se- was it '75 that it came out?

    17. NA

      Y- I remember reading into this-

    18. JC

      Shocking.

    19. NA

      ... th- though, ah, they, they, it was like the, that, th- right, um, sorry, frame, like frame 313 or something like that, that hadn't been seen. They did have the Zapruder film and they posted a lot of it in, in, uh, screenshots, in like Life.

    20. JR

      In Life Magazine.

    21. NA

      Yeah.

    22. JR

      'Cause Life Magazine owned it.

    23. NA

      But they left some of it out.

    24. JR

      And th- and then somehow or another, Dick Gregory acquired it, and that was around '75. And that's when he aired it on television.

    25. JC

      That's crazy. That's true. See-

    26. JR

      And when he aired it on television, it just opened up everyone's eyes. They're like, "Well, that, uh, any, anyone who'd ever seen anything get shot knows that when you get hit with something from the back, you don't go back towards the shot."

    27. NA

      Mm-hmm.

    28. JR

      The impact throws the head back.

    29. JC

      Yeah.

    30. JR

      And you see the spray of the bullets, and it appears he's getting hit multiple times from multiple angles.

  11. 45:5458:14

    Age of consent, agency, and inconsistent cultural reactions to abuse cases

    1. JR

      Well, there's also- there's a different attitude towards, uh, same-sex, um, minors and adults that is with some people in the gay community. In fact, there was a law that they were trying to pass in California where they were saying that the age of consent being 18 was, in somehow or another, uh, anti-LBGTQ because some-

    2. JC

      What?

    3. JR

      Yeah, because some young men sought mentors in older gay men, some young men who are gay.

    4. JC

      I mean, that sounds like some-

    5. JR

      Wasn't there- there was a- was his ... Klein? Is that what his name? There's a- a- a politician in California that was very controversial because he was promoting this.

    6. JC

      Very controversial 'cause he's promoting pedophilia.

    7. JR

      Well, and he's-

    8. JC

      Yes. Yeah, that's gonna be controversial.

    9. JR

      Well, I think his idea was like 16 and 17-year-old boys, and that that should be okay. Which is, you know, it gets-

    10. JC

      I- I think those-

    11. JR

      ... it gets very sketchy because-

    12. JC

      That sounds ... Uh, it also ... Let's wind it back. Here's something that we could do, right? Here's something we could start a campaign for. Those laws about, you know ... Uh, the age of consent in the UK is 16.

    13. JR

      Yeah.

    14. JC

      But those laws should be for 17 and 18-year-old boys.

    15. JR

      Yes.

    16. JC

      They shouldn't apply to us.

    17. JR

      Yes, right. It shouldn't apply to a 55-year-old man.

    18. JC

      It- it- so, Romeo and Juliet-

    19. JR

      Right.

    20. JC

      ... no- uh, law, I think they have it in New York. They have it in certain states where you go, "Yeah, that's the age of consent is 16 for her, and that guy who's 17, and it's her boyfriend, and they've kno- come up at school together."

    21. JR

      Makes sense, yeah.

    22. JC

      That makes sense. And then at 18, maybe, "Okay, go and do whatever you're gonna do."

    23. JR

      Right. I remember when I was-

    24. JC

      That would make a lot more sense to me.

    25. JR

      ... 18 years old. When I turned 18, my girlfriend was a year younger than me, and she was 17. And I was terrified that I was going to go to jail because I was- I was a legal adult, and she was n- still a child.

    26. JC

      Right.

    27. JR

      B- even though we started dating when, uh, I was 16, or I was- I was ... Yeah, no, I was 17 and she was 16. And then when I turned 18, I was like, "Oh, my God." Like, "Could I get in jail for this?" I remember thinking that. Like, "Is this illegal?"

    28. JC

      Wow.

    29. JR

      Like, 'cause it kind of technically is.I think if you're dating a girl like that, I mean this is 1985. So, Sa- so Gavin Newsom signed a law that could give judges a say on whether to list someone as a sex offender for having oral or aner- anal sex with a minor. The bill would expand-

    30. JC

      What?

  12. 58:141:20:48

    Discipline, freedom, and taking reversible risks (plus a brief studio power outage)

    1. JR

      ... depend upon what they wanna do and what th-, I mean, I'm a, the ter- the worst person to give that advice because I knew very... Because of my childhood and the way I grew up, very unstable, divorced parents, stepdad, moved to a new place all the time, I was terrified of rigidity. I was terrified of a job. I d- I just, I really felt like a loser because I felt like, "All these people can keep jobs. Why, why do I hate them so much?" And-

    2. JC

      Because it's, it's interesting. What I see in you, and I don't know you that well personally, but I, I see your work. And the, the, the thing flowing through it is discipline. Discipline and freedom seem to be the two things. And you go-

    3. JR

      Yeah.

    4. JC

      And obviously, those things have been separated in our minds-

    5. JR

      Yes.

    6. JC

      ... that discipline and freedom are not the same. They're exactly the same. Discipline gives you freedom.

    7. JR

      Yeah, that's Jocko Willink.

    8. JC

      B- but-

    9. JR

      That's what he says.

    10. JC

      B- but he's g-

    11. JR

      Discipline equals freedom.

    12. JC

      Exactly right.

    13. JR

      Yeah.

    14. JC

      Right? So-

    15. JR

      Yeah.

    16. JC

      ... that idea of going, well, you, it's martial arts.

    17. JR

      Yeah.

    18. JC

      Which is all discipline. It's standup, which I know is all discipline. It's all, it, everyone's got ideas.

    19. JR

      Yeah.

    20. JC

      Everyone talks a good game. It's in the execution.

    21. JR

      Yes.

    22. JC

      It's in doing it. So, that thing of like going, couldn't hold down a job. But I mean, you're pretty good at showing up to stuff.

    23. JR

      Well, it was, I realized later that it was just I wasn't interested in those things, and what I was terrified of is being forced to do something that I wasn't interested forever.

    24. JC

      Yes.

    25. JR

      And I saw so many people that they would just wait until they got home every night and just get drunk and then do it all over again in the morning, and then their bodies were deteriorating and they all wound up getting cancer and getting sick and they all died young. And it was just, it was sad-

    26. JC

      Well-

    27. JR

      ... and depressing and, and gloomy.

    28. JC

      Well, it's, I mean, it's, it's, it's work to live as opposed to-

    29. JR

      Yes.

    30. JC

      ... live to work.

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