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Joe Rogan Experience #2105 - Dr. Phil

Dr. Phil McGraw is an author and psychologist. He is the host of "Dr. Phil Primetime" on Merit Street Media and the podcast "Phil in the Blanks." His newest book is "We've Got Issues: How You Can Stand Strong for America's Soul and Sanity."  www.drphil.com

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Jun 27, 20242h 28mWatch on YouTube ↗

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    (drumming music plays) Joe Rogan podcast.…

    1. NA

      (drumming music plays) Joe Rogan podcast. Check it out. The Joe Rogan Experience.

    2. JR

      Train by day, Joe Rogan podcast by night. All day. (rock music plays) I like how you did the Cliffs Notes. That's a slick move.

    3. PM

      Yeah, how about that?

    4. JR

      Yeah, that's very smart because it ... Big print, too, for dummies like me. This is nice.

    5. PM

      Yeah, how about that?

    6. JR

      Yeah. I'm excited to read this, man. You are, uh, a great giver of, of advice, sir. What is it like to carry that burden in a wild world? (laughs)

    7. PM

      Well, I'll tell you what, uh, I ain't looking for something to do.

    8. JR

      (laughs)

    9. PM

      (laughs) I don't have to look very far.

    10. JR

      Yeah. It's a wild time of, uh, mass confusion, people losing their fucking minds. Very strange.

    11. PM

      Yeah, it really is. And, you know, I keep thinking, this is about as crazy as it can get, and then I go ... I get up, and-

    12. JR

      And you see the NYPD dance team.

    13. PM

      (laughs) I haven't seen that.

    14. JR

      Okay, here we go.

    15. PM

      All right, you gotta show me.

    16. JR

      (laughs)

    17. PM

      (laughs)

    18. JR

      The NYPD in the middle of the craziest migrant crisis that anybody's ever experienced, in the middle of, uh, places where you arre- you attack police officers, violently attack police officers, and you release with no bail like that, (snaps fingers) right back out on the street.

    19. NA

      (upbeat music plays) Dance all night long.

    20. PM

      (sighs)

    21. JR

      This is the NYPD dance team, so they developed a dance team.

    22. PM

      Oh.

    23. JR

      You remember when you were a kid and you thought about the fall of the Roman Empire-

    24. PM

      Yeah.

    25. JR

      ... and you were like, "Did they see it coming?"

    26. PM

      You think this is a clue?

    27. JR

      (laughs)

    28. PM

      Is that what you're thinking?

    29. JR

      I was just, I, I ... A, a bigger clue would be an alien landing on the White House lawn. It ... That's the only thing bigger. (laughs) This is insanity. The fact that they would, A, put this on television. First of all, is this the news? What is this that they put this on, Jamie?

    30. NA

      I think it's the, uh, like, the New York News, yeah, or-

  2. 15:0030:00

    Uh, it- …

    1. JR

      kids of all kinds of things, especially by reinforcing it with love and support and happiness. You can convince people of a lot of things. That's what's uncomfortable for a lot of people. For a lot of gay people, they're uncomfortable with the idea that a lot of these kids are just going to grow up to become gay. My friend Tim Dillons talked about that a bunch. He says it's homophobic. It's like, it's like they're trying to say, "No, you're a girl," when really, maybe you're just gay. Like, that's okay. It was always a thing, and now all of a sudden it's getting ... You're, you're looking at little kids, they might just be gay kids, and you're saying, "Maybe you're a girl. Maybe you need to go to a gender reassigning surgery center and never have an erection or an orgasm for the rest of your life." Like, what the fuck are we doing?

    2. PM

      Uh, it-

    3. JR

      They're so young.

    4. PM

      It, it's not ... I, I don't think it's appropriate or safe for children, and I think you have ... There is a huge body of literature, uh, that addresses these issues from end to end. There's not a huge body of literature about the transgender population, and that's the problem. And what literature is out there suggests that you get... And this is wh- This is what you see from, um, the European countries. They've done study after study from, uh, these suppressive hormones compared to doing psychotherapy, and there's not much difference. If you do psychotherapy, you can ease the depression, you can ease the suicidal tendencies with psychotherapy without doing the irreversible things. They say, "Well, you can reverse those things." No, that's not true. If, if you arrest the development, that can have ramifications long-term, or at least they can't say it doesn't have ramifications long-term.

    5. JR

      There's also serious side effects from the hormone blockers.

    6. PM

      Well, of course. And that's ... A- and if you're doing testosterone blockers, for example, um, that does have long-term consequences. And my point is, they can't say it doesn't. They don't have a body of literature that says it doesn't. And I'm ... Look, I'm not a physician.

    7. JR

      What do you think is behind it, though? Like what, how did this ... If it ... This is so contrary to the way most people feel. What do you think is behind it? Especially the push towards children, affirming children. Do you think it's because there's people that are queer or LBGT, whatever, and they want other people to be a part of their, their group? Is it they want more LBGT people, they want to encourage this behavior? They think it's suppressed, and maybe there's more people that are gay or whatever, and they want to come out and they just get suppressed by it, so they're trying to make it, like more enthusiastic? Like how is, how is this trans thing becoming a major point of debate with children where it never has in history? In your life, in my life, there was never all this talk about trans children. Like this, it seems insane that we've forgotten that kids don't know what the fuck is going on yet.

    8. PM

      I think a lot of it is owing to social media platforms and the internet. I, I think, um ... This is what I'm talking about when I say the activist I don't think speak for the community at large. I think they get an agenda that they're pushing, and I think they really get wrapped up in this, and it gets a lot of oxygen on the internet. It gets a lot of oxygen on social media platform. Now they say there's no social contagion here, but the girls that are claiming to be transgender, that percentage has gone up e- e- ... Some reports say it's gone up, um, 800%, 1,000% over the last several years, and they say, "Well, that's because they feel more comfortable talking about it now." Is that true or is it because you read about it, you see it on social media and you think, "Well, I can distinguish myself in this way"? I think there is a social contagion effect, so people jump on the bandwagon, and if it's for a short period of time but they've done things that can't be reversed, I think that's really tragic. And they say there are very few de-transitioners. I don't think that's true. I think there's a lot more de-transitioners that want to reverse this and come back than are being reported.

    9. JR

      And, but there's a lot of deep shame attached to that, obviously.

    10. PM

      Of course.

    11. JR

      It's also something that you don't want people to know about. It's, it's so personal. It so- it defines you for the rest of your life. Everyone's gonna know, that's the guy that used to be a girl and became a guy again, you know? And there's all the questions and all the bullshit that comes along with that.

    12. PM

      I will say this. I don't think teachers want to get involved in this. I think they're getting ... I think some of them push it. I think teachers at large just wanna teach. I don't think they wanna get pulled into this.

    13. JR

      Well, it's like bad cops, right?

    14. PM

      Yeah.

    15. JR

      Like you, you hear about a bad teacher and you think all teachers are like that-

    16. PM

      They're not.

    17. JR

      ... but that's ridiculous. Most of them are just people who their, their profession, what they enjoy is teaching people.

    18. PM

      They do. And lemme tell you, teachers don't get into (laughs) teaching for the money. I don't, I don't know a teacher that doesn't get into their own pocket to, to get resources for the classroom, to help with the classroom, to put up signs and bring in materials for the classroom. Most of them are very dedicated. Uh, they're, they're, they're very good people that teach because they really wanna help young people. I, I think they're s- some of the most underpaid, dedicated people in this entire country, and they don't wanna deal with this stuff.

    19. JR

      Agreed. I feel the same way as I feel a- about teachers as I do about police officers. I think most of them are great.

    20. PM

      I do too. I, I think they're great.

    21. JR

      Just a small amount of interactions that people have. And I also think about both teachers and police officers, the stress of their job and the experiences that they have, particularly if you're a teacher, public school in maybe a sketchy area, I mean, those people are r- risking their health often. There's violence. It happens all the time to teachers. There's always cellphone videos of teachers getting be- beat up.

    22. PM

      I, I did a show last week with three teachers from around the country that tried to take a cellphone, you know, tell a student to put their cellphone away and got attacked, and one of them wound up in the hospital for a week, had to have knee surgery, go on worker's comp, wound up having to take bankruptcy, lost her house, a- all of that. A, a student jumped on her and just beat the hell out of her. Uh-

    23. JR

      Is this the one that was in the hallway? It was a viral video?

    24. PM

      Uh, well, the one I'm talking about had-

    25. JR

      Uh-

    26. PM

      ... 67 million views.

    27. JR

      Is this a woman who was beat up by a man or, or a young boy?

    28. PM

      Uh, no. I saw that one. This one was beat up by a girl.

    29. JR

      Another girl?

    30. PM

      And, you know, here's the thing. There were all of these students taking videos of it, but nobody helping. Finally, somebody pulled the, the girl off the teacher.

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    Yeah. …

    1. PM

      59 minutes, I was at the DMV waiting to get my driver's license, right? Now, kids turn 16, they don't even go get their driver's license.

    2. JR

      Yeah.

    3. PM

      "Eh, I'll get it sometime." I don't-

    4. JR

      Yep. They Uber it.

    5. PM

      They start dating later, they start having sex later, they s- get their driver's license, everything later. Why? Because they're watching people live their lives on the internet instead of living their own lives.And in '08, '09, and '10, we saw the biggest spikes in depression, anxiety, suicide, and loneliness since they've been keeping records. That's when the cellphones came out. That's when smartphones came out. That's when the internet blew up. Because people started watching people live their lives, instead of living their own life, and those lives they were watching were fiction. And they compared their life to that life and said, "I suck."

    6. JR

      Well, there's a lot of depression amongst women. More self-harm than ever, and more suicidal ideology and suicide. It's like, Jonathan Haidt's work, um, um, the Coddling of the American Mind-

    7. PM

      Yep.

    8. JR

      It shows, like, it was a real spike when social media becomes invented 'cause you're comparing yourself and it just, there's no comparing. You can't compare. It's not-

    9. PM

      Yeah.

    10. JR

      First of all, those people are either surgically altered or they're using filters. There's a lot of them. I mean, some of them are natural, but for the most part, you're getting these glamorous depictions of a life that's impossible for you to imagine and it's depressing.

    11. PM

      Yeah, and so I've had influencers on the show that said, "I post a video where I'm putting on all these clothes and saying I'm going to the NBA All Star game."

    12. JR

      Yeah.

    13. PM

      "And, you know, should I wear this or should I wear that?" They said, "As soon as that camera stops, I carefully take those clothes off because I don't own them. I have to take them back to the store. I'm not going to the NBA All Star game. I'm gonna sit on the couch in my sweats, just like everybody else."

    14. JR

      (laughs)

    15. PM

      There's, you've seen it, there's that-

    16. JR

      Private jet thing?

    17. PM

      ... that, that private jet thing in Santa Monica.

    18. JR

      (laughs)

    19. PM

      They rent that out by the 15 minutes.

    20. JR

      Yeah, you go into a fake private jet and you take photos like you're, you know, living the jet set lifestyle-

    21. PM

      Yeah.

    22. JR

      ... but you're just on a set somewhere. (laughs)

    23. PM

      It's in a f- it's in a warehouse-

    24. JR

      (laughs)

    25. PM

      ... out there. And they, they, they get in there and put on their beach clothes-

    26. JR

      Ugh. Ugh.

    27. PM

      ... and then their ski clothes. They ain't going anywhere.

    28. JR

      They ain't going anywhere. (laughs)

    29. PM

      But everybody compares themselves to that and go, "You know, uh, my, I'm, I'm such a loser. My life sucks." And so, th- they, they compare themselves and go, "Ah, yeah. I'm no good." And so everybody started getting, th- these kids started getting depressed. I mean, it, it went up, oh, I, I, I-

    30. JR

      The thing is, like, if you do it really well, if you become a f- a fitness influencer or an online influencer and you do it really well, you become super successful and you can actually make a really good living doing it. So what we're seeing with a lot of these people are just, like, really bad open micers.

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    Well, rightly so. (laughs)…

    1. PM

      across. And they know that it's... They're coming across from so many different countries now. They... I think they're, there's a distrust. Um-

    2. JR

      Well, rightly so. (laughs) I mean-

    3. PM

      (laughs)

    4. JR

      ... this is, uh, something that every pres- president has agreed on. If you go back and watch Obama's speeches, you go back and watch Bush's speeches, all the presidents before us, including Clinton, have all talked about having a border, having a strong border, having a protected border. But this is a weird thing they're doing. They're just letting people come in, and the Red Cross is encouraging it. Different groups are encouraging it. They're giving people maps, showing them how to do it. This is crazy. (laughs) This is a mass migration into America.

    5. PM

      Well, I've be- I've been to the border recently, and, um, I, I, I talked to those guards down there, and I- I'm, I'm telling you, I, I, I, I spent just a day down there, and I know there have been people that have spent a lot more time down there than that. Uh, but, uh, what, what I heard down there, um, was e- even knowing... I, I felt like I knew a lot about it before I went down there, but, um, I was shocked. As much as I thought I knew about it, I was shocked when I got down there. Um, the... First off, the morale, um, among those guards down there is, i- i- the fact that they're hanging in and, and doing as well as they are, um, is, uh... They're turning into social workers. You know, they went down there to be guards, and they say, "What we're doing now instead of apprehending these people is we're greeting these people, and we're processing them and giving them money and resources." And it's interesting. There's... You've been down there, right?

    6. JR

      I have not.

    7. PM

      Um, you know, there are the Texas border guards, and they wear brown uniforms, and then there are the federal that wear green. And if you get apprehended by a brown uniform, you get arrested, processed, and sent back. If you get apprehended by a green uniform, you get arrested, processed, given a court date in four years, seven years, or whatever, and released into the country. So, they run to the green uniforms and run away from the brown uniforms. Same job, different color uniforms. The green uniforms, they, their court date might be seven years. But if they, if they run into a green uniform, they get processed, money, and they're into the country.

    8. JR

      That's wild.

    9. PM

      Um-

    10. JR

      And when did that start happening?

    11. PM

      Um, you know, it's been going on for a good while. Now, Abbott, uh, of course, has been busing s-... Taking some of them and busing them up-... into different locations.

    12. JR

      Yeah.

    13. PM

      Um, instead of sending them back, uh, which has lately been something you can't do. You, you, you can't send them back. So, it's-

    14. JR

      So they can't send them back now?

    15. PM

      Well, I don't know what they're doing with them since this last thing that they just came up with. Um, uh, I, and, and talking to, um, uh, in, in, in talking to, um, the union guy who's head of the union for all of the guards, it was interesting. I asked him, um, "What do you need? What do you need down here to do your job?" Um, his name is Brandon Judd. And he said, "We don't need more money. We don't need more agents. We don't need new legislation. We just need you to let us do our job. We just need you to apply the laws that exist now and we'll be fine." Well, you don't need ... we don't, we don't ... I said, "Wait a minute. Y- y- y- you're telling me you don't need more money or more agents?" He said, "No, just let us do our job." If you just ... we, we had in place a hold in Mexico, instead of come over here, just, just use the, the legislation that's on the books and we're fine. We, we don't ... we're, we're not, we're not trying to keep people out. We just want to have a, a- enough of a flow control that we know who's coming in. We're ... they're not ... these aren't bad guys that are trying to be mean to people down there. They're just ... we just need to know who it is.

    16. JR

      Well, what do you think the motivation is behind the federal border patrol people letting people go? Like, whose decision is this and why? Why ... f- forget about whose. We don't know that, right? Why?

    17. PM

      (clears throat)

    18. JR

      Why would they want that?

    19. PM

      (clears throat)

    20. JR

      What are the benefits of that? Is it cheap labor? Is it people eventually that will vote?

    21. PM

      Well, I think it's virtue signaling. I, I, I think they-

    22. JR

      That's it?

    23. PM

      ... they've taken this position that said, "Hey, you know, we, we, we want everybody." And I, I get that. Listen, I'm very pro-immigration. I, I just think it needs to be legal.

    24. JR

      Yeah.

    25. PM

      You, you need to go through the process.

    26. JR

      Yeah.

    27. PM

      It's a felony to enter this country illegally. And so ... but they're doing that. And they're, they're pulling them out of the water. They're pulling them off of the wall and processing them and giving them a, a court date that, because of our system, is sometimes 7 or 10 years. Um, and then they're legally in the country. They've got papers. They can say, "No, no, I was processed at the border." They're just not coming through the ports of entry.

    28. JR

      Right, but you're aware this is happening all over the world, right?

    29. PM

      Right.

    30. JR

      Yeah. So what do you think the motivation? There's gotta be some sort of a decision that's been made to allow this to happen, or to not stop it from happening, or to encourage it to happen. It's not like this is, like, a spontaneous, organic movement. People just decide to move to Europe and people just decide to move to America. It seems like it's something coordinated, right?

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    But that could be…

    1. NA

      given all the necessities that they need.

    2. PM

      But that could be a trafficker.

    3. NA

      There's a very good possibility that they're being trafficked, that they're going into the sex industry, or they're being forced into the sweatshops.

    4. PM

      And, and we know that.

    5. NA

      We do.

    6. PM

      We're... We knowingly are spending our tax dollars to sell children into sex trafficking. How, under any theory, is that okay for us to be spending tax dollars to traffic children?

    7. JR

      Holy shit.

    8. PM

      Now, this is the head guy on the border, and I, I asked him when, uh, this went on a little more, we went in more depth, "You know you're on camera here, right? Y- y- y- y- you just said we're spending tax dollars to sell children into sex slavery." And he said, "Yeah." I said, "Why have you not talked about this?" He said, "Nobody's ever asked me these pointed questions, but I'm grateful that you're asking them now." That's how out of control we are down there. We are se- we are paying money to take these children and sell them into sex slavery. They, they, they come in with these addresses written on their bodies, written on their arm, and we call up there and say, uh, "Do you know so-and-so?" "Yeah, yes, uh-huh, we're waiting for them." "Okay, they'll be on a plane or a bus and you need to pick them up." And, and I ask him, uh, "So some pimp or trafficker, whatever is picking them up up there?" And he said, "We are knowingly sending them up there for that." And he said, "It's terrible, but that's what's happening."

    9. JR

      That's insane. That is insane. And there's no way of verifying with their parents they're going to or an aunt they're going to? There's no way of verifying it. And it's-

    10. PM

      I, I asked him, he said no.

    11. JR

      Now, what, what justification could possibly exist where they would stop doing the rapid DNA test?

    12. PM

      (inhales deeply) Y-

    13. JR

      What I mean, what, what possible justification would there be to stop that?

    14. PM

      It, it, it makes no sense because you, y- y- y- if, if they find out, well, this isn't their parent, then, okay, what are they gonna do with the child? And so-

    15. JR

      Right.

    16. PM

      ... I, I guess don't ask and then you don't have the responsibility, but they're sending these children up there. And he's saying, "We are knowingly," he, "We're knowingly sending them into either a sweatshop or the sex industry up there."

    17. JR

      Has anybody tried to do an expose? Has anybody tried to follow the children?

    18. PM

      Well, that's why I was asking.

    19. JR

      Yeah.

    20. PM

      Because I'm like, "W- has somebody gotten on the same bus or plane and see who's picking them up or-

    21. JR

      Right.

    22. PM

      ... who's not?" And he said, "Yeah, that's happening." "Well, why haven't you talked about it?" "Well, nobody's asked this and I'm grateful that you are."

    23. JR

      So, so, so people are getting on the buses and planes with them to try to find out where they're going?

    24. PM

      No.

    25. JR

      No, he said they're not.

    26. PM

      No.

    27. JR

      Oh, I thought you said (laughs) , I thought you just said yes.

    28. PM

      No, I s- I, I said, "Why haven't you talked about this?" He said, "Well, nobody's asked this question, but I'm grateful that you are."

    29. JR

      My God, that's so insane.

    30. PM

      And that's just a little clip. We went in more depth about this, um...

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    It doesn't seem too…

    1. PM

      Come on. Th- that's not random.

    2. JR

      It doesn't seem too random. But it also seems amazing how much farmland they have.

    3. PM

      Yeah.

    4. JR

      Was this always legal? Is that th- part of the problem with our open society? That, uh, any foreign country can come over here, any foreign investor can come over here and buy land?

    5. PM

      Well, I- I- I thought there was restrictions on what foreign entities could buy.

    6. JR

      So number one is Canada. Canada has the most farmland. They own 12.8 million acres here. Netherlands owns 4.9. Italy owns 2.7. UK, 2.5. Germany, 2.3. And China-

    7. NA

      380,000.

    8. JR

      ... 380,000. And this is as of...

    9. NA

      Wow, summer.

    10. JR

      2023. June, June of last year. Yeah. It seems pretty strategic, where it's owned. Yeah.

    11. PM

      Yeah. Because if you put that back up for a second, let me tell you what's at some of these places. Um...

    12. NA

      Yeah. What it says right at the beginning is, uh...

    13. JR

      "Land near the air force base in Grand Forks, North Dakota sending lawmakers into a frenzy in 2021." Um, yeah. You know, there's another thing that, um, Mike Baker, who's from the CIA had brought up, is that one of the things they're doing is selling, uh, cellphone tower equipment, and selling routers, and undercutting other companies and making like really good deals so they can set up these cheap routers and cellphone companies. And, you know, a lot of these have been proven, especially with the company Huawei, right? When they-

    14. PM

      Yeah.

    15. JR

      ... outlawed Huawei from selling phones in this country.

    16. PM

      Yeah.

    17. JR

      They, they were proven that some of their technology is third-party access. They can, they can do things and siphon information and, and perhaps even, you know, intercept cellphone signals.

    18. PM

      Yeah. Well, at that, where they bought in Utah, it's the largest supersonic authorized restricted airspace in the United States. They've got land right next to it. Uh, Whitman Air Force Base, B-2, uh, Spirit stealth bomber base, missile and drone operations, uh, MQ-9 Reaper, Global Strike Command, three intercontinental ballistic missile wings, uh, all... And they're right next to it. Uh, Fort Liberty, they're right next to it. I mean, all of that stuff. Who, who... Why would you want y- your biggest global threat next to those... You have no idea what they have there.

    19. JR

      I don't play StarCraft, but I imagine if I was watching someone play StarCraft and all this was setting up, I'm like, "Oh, they're gonna get smoked."

    20. PM

      Yeah. Th- that's, I mean, it's just...

    21. JR

      It's insane.

    22. PM

      I think you gotta be concerned.

    23. JR

      But it's just weird that it's legal. It really is.

    24. PM

      Yeah.

    25. JR

      It's really weird. And especially given what we know about Chinese corporations, that they are a part of the government. They're, they work hand-in-hand. They don't, they don't get to be independent.

    26. PM

      Yeah. And...

    27. JR

      S- still, lawmakers from both parties want to limit purchases by Chinese companies, especially those with ties to the Chinese government, which is all of them, and individuals. To this end, there are several bills in Congress aimed at limiting Chinese ownership separately. The Biden administration is tightening its rules over who can buy land near military bases.

    28. PM

      We're gonna tighten up rules.

    29. JR

      What does that mean? How about just make it illegal? (laughs) Tightening the rules seems...

    30. PM

      And you know what-

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