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David Wolpe: Judaism | Lex Fridman Podcast #270

David Wolpe is a Rabbi of Sinai Temple in Los Angeles. Please support this podcast by checking out our sponsors: - Mizzen+Main: https://mizzenandmain.com and use code LEX to get $35 off - Linode: https://linode.com/lex to get $100 free credit - SimpliSafe: https://simplisafe.com/lex and use code LEX - InsideTracker: https://insidetracker.com/lex to get 20% off - Eight Sleep: https://www.eightsleep.com/lex and use code LEX to get special savings EPISODE LINKS: David's Twitter: https://twitter.com/RabbiWolpe David's Instagram: https://instagram.com/davidjwolpe David: The Divided Heart (book): https://amzn.to/3I5cFut Why Faith Matters (book): https://amzn.to/3i7qZrT PODCAST INFO: Podcast website: https://lexfridman.com/podcast Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/2lwqZIr Spotify: https://spoti.fi/2nEwCF8 RSS: https://lexfridman.com/feed/podcast/ Full episodes playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLrAXtmErZgOdP_8GztsuKi9nrraNbKKp4 Clips playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLrAXtmErZgOeciFP3CBCIEElOJeitOr41 OUTLINE: 0:00 - Introduction 8:05 - Who is God? 14:22 - Atheism 26:20 - Holocaust 31:53 - Evil 37:06 - Nihilism 40:51 - Judaism 49:45 - Marriage 53:36 - The Torah 57:41 - Gay marriage 1:06:48 - Super Bowl 1:14:43 - Religious texts 1:20:29 - Exodus 1:24:23 - Free will 1:28:32 - Consciousness 1:37:15 - Suffering 1:41:13 - Mortality 1:45:51 - Finding faith 1:53:34 - Israel and Palestine 2:00:53 - Advice for young people 2:04:13 - Books 2:07:54 - Meaning of life SOCIAL: - Twitter: https://twitter.com/lexfridman - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lexfridman - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lexfridman - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lexfridman - Medium: https://medium.com/@lexfridman - Reddit: https://reddit.com/r/lexfridman - Support on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/lexfridman

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Mar 15, 20222h 10mWatch on YouTube ↗

At a glance

WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT

Rabbi David Wolpe on God, Suffering, Meaning, and Modern Faith

  1. Lex Fridman speaks with Rabbi David Wolpe about Judaism’s view of God, the nature of faith, and how religious traditions evolve while retaining moral depth. They explore free will, consciousness, suffering, and the Holocaust, asking what religion can still offer in a scientific, often nihilistic age.
  2. Wolpe reflects on friendships with prominent atheists like Christopher Hitchens and Sam Harris, arguing that religion’s ethical and communal power remains vital even when its stories are not taken as literal history.
  3. They discuss contemporary controversies—from same‑sex marriage in Judaism to COVID-era public shaming and antisemitic violence—and how to maintain integrity, humility, and compassion amid tribalism and online outrage.
  4. The conversation ends on mortality, hope, and Wolpe’s conviction that the meaning of life is to “grow in soul,” primarily through love, responsibility, and taking every human being’s inner life seriously.

IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING

5 ideas

In Judaism, the goal is relationship with God, not full comprehension.

Wolpe emphasizes that Jewish thought generally treats God as ultimately unknowable yet addressable—“God cannot be expressed, God can only be addressed”—shifting the focus from defining God to living in conscious relationship with the divine.

Scripture can be sacred without being literal history.

Wolpe argues that many biblical stories (like the Exodus) convey enduring spiritual truths even if they did not occur exactly as written; their power comes from being myths that are “always happening,” not from strict factuality.

Religious traditions can and must evolve ethically from within.

His decision to perform same‑sex marriages arose from core Jewish values such as human dignity (kvod habriot), showing how a tradition can use its own principles to critique and update inherited norms while remaining authentically itself.

Free will is hard to reconcile with strict materialism.

Wolpe contends that if genetics and environment fully determine behavior, genuine free choice disappears; he believes some non‑material (spiritual) dimension is required to make moral responsibility and freedom coherent.

Suffering and evil are tied to the gift and risk of freedom.

He suggests God cannot grant free will and then selectively block its worst uses (e.g., Nazis), and that random natural suffering preserves the moral meaning of goodness, since virtue must remain risky to be real.

WORDS WORTH SAVING

5 quotes

You don't have to have a comprehension of God, you have to have a relationship to God, and those are not the same.

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A myth is something that may not have happened, but is always happening.

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If you're a thoroughgoing materialist, free will is impossible. There could be randomness, but randomness is not free will.

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You can live for three weeks without food, three days without water, but you can't live for three minutes without hope.

David Wolpe (retelling a story from Rabbi Hugo Gryn’s father in Auschwitz)

I believe the meaning of life is for human beings to grow in soul… You’re supposed to return your soul more burnished and beautiful than you got it.

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Jewish conceptions of God, transcendence vs. immanence, and relationship over comprehensionFaith, atheism, and dialogue with critics of religion (Hitchens, Harris, Dennett, Weinstein, Peterson)Evolution of Jewish law and ethics, especially around LGBTQ+ inclusion and scriptural interpretationFree will, consciousness, and the limits of materialism and science in explaining human experienceSuffering, the Holocaust, antisemitism, and the problem of evil in a world with free agentsModern tribalism, social media outrage, COVID controversies, and integrity in public lifeMortality, hope, the afterlife, and Wolpe’s account of life’s meaning as “growing in soul”

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