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Tim Dillon: Comedy, Power, Conspiracy Theories, and Freedom | Lex Fridman Podcast #156

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  1. 0:001:51

    Introduction

    1. LF

      The following is a conversation with Tim Dillon, a stand-up comedian who's fearless in challenging the norms of modern day social and political discourse. A quick mention of our sponsors: NetSuite business management software, Athletic Greens all-in-one nutrition drink, Magic Spoon low carb cereal, BetterHelp online therapy, and Rev speech-to-text service. So, the choice is business, health, sanity, or transcripts. Choose wisely, my friends. And if you wish, click the sponsor links below to get a discount and to support this podcast. As a side note, let me say that I will continue talking to scientists, engineers, historians, mathematicians, and so on. But I will also talk to the people who Jack Kerouac called the mad ones in his book, On the Road. That is one of my favorite books. He wrote, "The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn like fabulous yellow Roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars. And in the middle you see the blue center light pop and everybody goes, 'Ah.'" Some of these conversations will be a bit of a gamble, in that I have no idea how they will turn out. But I'm willing to risk it for a chance at a bit of an adventure, and I'm happy and honored that, uh, Tim, this time, wanted to take a chance as well. If you enjoy this thing, subscribe on YouTube, review it on Apple Podcasts, follow on Spotify, support it on Patreon, or connect with me on Twitter @LexFridman. And now, here's my conversation with Tim Dillon.

  2. 1:513:46

    Tim Dillon's tombstone

    1. LF

      What would you like your tombstone to read? It's a good way to summarize the, uh, essence of a human being.

    2. TD

      I would like it to say, "This has not been paid for."

    3. LF

      (laughs) Yeah.

    4. TD

      And I want, I want my, my living relatives to struggle to, to pay for it, and I think-

    5. LF

      (laughs)

    6. TD

      ... I would like them to be hounded every day. I would like people to call and go, "Listen, we don't wanna ever excavate a body, but we will-"

    7. LF

      (laughs) Yeah.

    8. TD

      "... because this has not been paid for."

    9. LF

      Okay.

    10. TD

      I, I love the idea of leaving the w- like, debt, leaving the world in, in lots of debt that other people-

    11. LF

      Yeah.

    12. TD

      ... have to deal with.

    13. LF

      Yeah.

    14. TD

      I, and I, I know people that have done that, and I know people that have been in families where that's happened, where someone has to sit and, and just curse the sky because they, they don't have a physical person anymore to be angry at-

    15. LF

      (laughs)

    16. TD

      ... and they, but they (laughs) still have to deal with the decisions that person made. And that's deeply tragic, but that's always struck me as very funny.

    17. LF

      Well, it's a kind of im- immortality, the debt, 'cause you can... If the debt lasts for a long time, the anger lasts for a long time, and then you are now immortal in the minds of many. You arouse emotion in the minds of many.

    18. TD

      My mother's best friend in the town I grew up in, her husband shot himself in the, the driveway.

    19. LF

      Yeah.

    20. TD

      And my mother's friend never got a chance to just grieve because he owed so much money. She would come over and go, "I hate him. I fucking hate him." And it was just such an interesting thing to see somebody who... And her kids ended up getting angry at her for that-

    21. LF

      Yeah.

    22. TD

      ... because they didn't understand why she would hate a guy who was clearly, you know, s- suffering and... But she goes, "He took the selfish way out. He fucked us." And it was always interesting for me to, uh, just remember that, like, you can leave Earth and still be a problem. (laughs)

    23. LF

      (laughs)

    24. TD

      That's kind of a special person, so that's, I think, what I'd like my tombstone to read.

    25. LF

      Yeah, there's

  3. 3:467:57

    The horrible people are the most fun

    1. LF

      a, there's a show called Louie with Louis C.K. I don't know if you watched it.

    2. TD

      Yes, I've, I'm aware of it.

    3. LF

      There's this moment, I think, where an old guy's talking to Louie about the best part about love is after you break up and it's remembering that, like... (sighs) Remembering the good times and feeling that loss, the pain of that loss. The worst part about love is when you no longer feel that pain. So-

    4. TD

      Interesting.

    5. LF

      ... the pain of losing somebody lasts longer, is more intense and lasts longer than the actual love. So, his argument was like, the pain is the re- is what love really is.

    6. TD

      Wow.

    7. LF

      In the same way that anger, your tombstone, would arouse is, would last longer.

    8. TD

      Yeah.

    9. LF

      And that's, that's deeply, like, a human thing. Like, why do we attach happiness to the way we should remember others? It could be just anger.

    10. TD

      I know so many people who will have deeply complicated feelings when... I, I, I, you know, I, I did drugs for many years, so, and I, I spent time with some wild people, and their parents were also wild people. And some of their parents have done crazy things to them.

    11. LF

      Yes.

    12. TD

      And, you know, have created situations that were not, uh, productive for child rearing.

    13. LF

      Yeah.

    14. TD

      And so, I know that when those people die, it's going to be a very mixed bag.

    15. LF

      Yeah.

    16. TD

      Like, there's going to be a lot of complex emotions, like, "Hey, we loved that guy, but also when we look back, uh, he was a horrible father, a horrible husband. But he was fun."

    17. LF

      (laughs) Yeah.

    18. TD

      And, and, and we don't put enough stock in that, but there will be a push and pull.

    19. LF

      Yeah.

    20. TD

      And I'll be the one kind of bringing up like, "Hey, he was a lot of fun."

    21. LF

      Yeah.

    22. TD

      "He was a lot... Remember when he, he stuck us..." You know, one of the things, this p- particular person I'm talking about, we were, we were at a bar and me and my friend were there, we were having dinner, and his father, who was, you know, a, a, an alcoholic and, you know, a guy that would go out every night and didn't work, you know, refused to work, would lie and say he was going to work and then go to a bar. I mean, just a fun person.

    23. LF

      Mm-hmm.

    24. TD

      And, uh, he, he... We were sitting at this bar/restaurant, and the bartender, we see his father walk up to the bartender and say-... pointed at us, pointed at our table and go and put the thumbs up and the bartender nodded. And then the father walked over to our table and he said, "Listen, I just wanna let you know I just bought you dinner." And I looked at his son, I said, "He's a pretty good guy." And then he, he climbed over the little fence down to the water, got in his little boat, it was a little cigarette boat and he just drove away. And then about an hour later, we, uh, we went, we said, "I think, uh, that guy took care of the bill." Which he said, "Well, go talk to the bartender." So we t- talked to the bartender and he goes, he handed us a bill and the bill was for like $1,000. And we said, "Wait a minute, what the hell is going on?" And he goes, "The guy that left an hour ago said you were gonna take care of his bill. He's been drinking here all week."

    25. LF

      (laughs)

    26. TD

      And we go, "What are you talking about?" And he goes, "Remember, he pointed at you? He put the thumbs up and you guys waved?"

    27. LF

      Yeah. (laughs)

    28. TD

      "You remember that?"

    29. LF

      That's awesome.

    30. TD

      And the guy go, and we went, "Yeah." And I just looked at my friends f- my friend and I went, "You know, your dad is just, we're gonna remember him for all kinds of reasons."

  4. 7:5713:37

    Charles Bukowski

    1. LF

      So speaking of fun people that want to die, I don't, I don't know if you're, we can go Hunter S. Thompson, but, uh-

    2. TD

      Sure.

    3. LF

      ... Charles Bukowski, I don't know if you're aware of the guy?

    4. TD

      I'm aware of him, sure. I've read some of his stuff.

    5. LF

      So his tombstone says, I just wanted to ask you a question about it.

    6. TD

      Yeah, yeah, yeah.

    7. LF

      His, uh, tombstone says, "Don't try."

    8. TD

      Interesting.

    9. LF

      What do you think about that advice as a way to approach life?

    10. TD

      I, I, I think for many people it's a good, good advice, um, because the people that are gonna try will do anyway. And the people that need to be told, there's a whole cottage industry now of motivational speakers and life coaches and gurus, uh, that tell people, uh, that they all have to own their own business and be their own boss and be a disruptor and get into industries, you know. That's incredibly unrealistic for most people, most people are not suited for that. And, you know, the Gary Vs of the world that tell everybody that they should just hustle and grind, and hustle and grind-

    11. LF

      Yeah.

    12. TD

      ... but they're very light on the specifics of what they should actually do.

    13. LF

      Yeah.

    14. TD

      Um, yeah, I think a lot of people, that's not horrible advice to give to a lot of people. I think, I think my generation got horrible advice from our, our parents, from our teachers and that advice was follow your dreams, uh, and nobody... And that was it, by the way. There was no like, "What are your dreams? Are they realistic? What happens when they don't work out? Will your dreams make you happy? Are your dreams real?"

    15. LF

      (laughs)

    16. TD

      "Do they exist on Earth?"

    17. LF

      Yeah.

    18. TD

      Can you follow... If you believe in following your dreams, you can be anything you want to be. Horrible advice.

    19. LF

      Yeah.

    20. TD

      Horrible advice. Worst advice you could ever give a generation of people, really, truly. I mean, think about, think about it, if you were talking to somebody and you were trying to make them succeed, are there any two, uh, worse pieces of advice to give them than follow your dreams and you can be anything you want to be? Those, to me, are the two most destructive pieces of information I've ever heard.

    21. LF

      So let me, uh, push back because, uh-

    22. TD

      Okay, that's fair.

    23. LF

      ... this is, uh-

    24. TD

      Many people do.

    25. LF

      (laughs) So, uh, yeah, this is like a rigorous journalistic interview. Larry King, by the way, passed away today so I'm, I'm taking over the-

    26. TD

      It's very sad.

    27. LF

      I'm c- I'm carrying the-

    28. TD

      Very sad.

    29. LF

      What's, what's next? (laughs)

    30. TD

      RIP King.

  5. 13:3716:46

    Robots

    1. TD

    2. LF

      What do you think about robot? Would you ever buy a robot for your home?

    3. TD

      Yes. What will it do?

    4. LF

      Uh, be a companion. A friend.

    5. TD

      Oh, yeah. I mean, I would like to start replacing friends and family with robots immediately.

    6. LF

      Okay.

    7. TD

      I mean, truly. Truly. I mean-

    8. LF

      Uh-

    9. TD

      ... I'm- I'm not even kidding, like I would like to have a Thanksgiving with four robots. I'm- I'm dead serious.

    10. LF

      Well, let me-

    11. TD

      Are they into QAnon? Like, uh, do the ro- are there robots... When do the robots start going crazy?

    12. LF

      (laughs)

    13. TD

      That's my question, is like, how long do the robots live with me before they are also a problem?

    14. LF

      (laughs)

    15. TD

      And I gotta replace them. You know what I mean?

    16. LF

      You're gonna indoctrinate the robot.

    17. TD

      Yeah, is my- the robot's gonna call me like my aunt does and talk about coronavirus for an hour-

    18. LF

      (laughs)

    19. TD

      ... every morning and tell me everyone in America who's died of coronavirus?

    20. LF

      One of the things I enjoy in life is how terrified, uh, people like you-

    21. TD

      Yes.

    22. LF

      ... I- I'm a huge fan, by the way, get of- of robots.

    23. TD

      Well, I am- I'm concerned about AI, like, completely getting rid of the need for human beings because human beings- I mean, you- you go out in the street and you go, "So few of these people are necessary." Even now. Even now, you look at people and you go, "They're hanging on by a thread," right?

    24. LF

      Yeah.

    25. TD

      And you could just imagine how many jobs are gonna get replaced, how many industries are going to be completely remade with AI, and the pace of change worries me a little bit because we do a very bad job in this country of mitigation when we have problems. We don't do a great job. We did not great job with COVID, right? We don't do a good job. It's just something we don't do well. We kind of- we're good in booms and busts. We're good when it's good and we're actually- we kinda know how to kind of like, "Hey, we're bottomed out." We're like a- we're like a gambling addict in this country. We like- we know what it feels like to be outside of an OTB at 9:00 AM drinking coffee and smoking cigarettes going-

    26. LF

      Yeah.

    27. TD

      ... "I'm gonna build it back," and we know what it's like to win, but try- anything in between, it seems not that great. So, to me it feels like I- are we gonna be able to, like, help people that are displaced and that have their jobs taken by... I mean, do you- do you not fear sort of an- a- a world where you have a lot of, you know, artificial intelligence replacing workers and then what happens?

    28. LF

      The- there's a lot of fears around artificial intelligence. One of them is, yes, displacement of jobs, workers. That's technology in general that's just, uh, any kind of new innovations displace jobs. I'm less worried about that. I'm more worried about other impacts of artificial intelligence. For example, the nature of our discourse, like social- the effects of algorithms on the way we communicate with each other, the spread of information, uh, what that information looks like, the creation of silos, all that kind of stuff. I think that would just make worse the effects that the displacement of jobs, uh, has. I think ultimately I have a hope that technology creates more opportunities than it destroys.

    29. TD

      I hope so, too.

    30. LF

      And so in that sense, AI to me is a- an exciting possibility. But,

  6. 16:4622:54

    YouTube algorithm

    1. LF

      you know, the challenges this world presents will create divisions, will create chaos and so on. So, I'm more focused on the way we deal as a society with that chaos, the way we talk to each other.

    2. TD

      That's huge. That's huge.

    3. LF

      The creating the platform that's healthy for that.

    4. TD

      Now as a- as a comedian, creator, whatever you wanna call it, people that put out content, uh, the gatekeepers are now algorithmic, right? So, they are kind of almost AI ready. So if you are a person that puts out, you know, YouTube videos, podcasts, uh, e- whatever you're doing, um, you are- it used to be a guy in the back of the room with a cigar saying, "I like you," or, "Get him out of here." Now it's- it's algorithm you barely understand. Like I ta- I talk to people at YouTube, but I don't know if they understand-

    5. LF

      Right.

    6. TD

      ... the algorithm.

    7. LF

      They don't.

    8. TD

      They don't. And that's crazy.

    9. LF

      It's just fascinating.

    10. TD

      Yeah, it's fascinating 'cause I- I speak to people at YouTube and I go, "Hey, man, what's going on here?" One of my episode titles of my podcast was called Knife Fight in Malibu. It was about real estate-... and a- and it was because a realtor in Malibu, I was trying to get a summer rental which I can't really afford, but-

    11. LF

      Yeah.

    12. TD

      ... I- I don't- I don't think that's a huge problem. I- I, you know, I follow my dreams.

    13. LF

      (laughs)

    14. TD

      So, I called the realtor and she said, "Listen," she goes, "I don't know what the government's saying-"

    15. LF

      Yeah.

    16. TD

      ... but she goes, "It's a real knife fight out here." You know, an old grizzled woman. Real realtor-

    17. LF

      Yeah.

    18. TD

      ... tan skin, cig out the mouth-

    19. LF

      Yeah.

    20. TD

      ... driving a Porsche, you know?

    21. LF

      Yeah.

    22. TD

      "It's a real knife fight out here."

    23. LF

      (laughs)

    24. TD

      You know, her entire life had become real estate, her soul had been hollowed out, her kids hate her.

    25. LF

      Yeah.

    26. TD

      You know? No one's made her come in years but it's just, she just loves heated kitchen floors-

    27. LF

      She's fun, in other words.

    28. TD

      ... and views. Fun.

    29. LF

      Yeah.

    30. TD

      She's a demon from hell and we need them.

  7. 22:5427:23

    Parler and Amazon

    1. TD

      you know?

    2. LF

      What do you think about this moment in history which was, uh, really troubling to me? We could talk about several troubling aspects but one is, um, Amazon removing Parler from AWS. To me-

    3. TD

      Yeah.

    4. LF

      ... that was the most clearly troubling. It felt like it created a more dangerous world when the infrastructure on which-

    5. TD

      Yeah.

    6. LF

      ... you have competing, uh, medium of communications now puts its finger on the scale, now influences who wins and who loses.

    7. TD

      Absolutely. You're right. And what you're always told is like if you don't like Twitter create your own service.

    8. LF

      Right.

    9. TD

      Or if you don't like something you can do your own thing or if you are, uh, and- and- and basically because, you know, tech, you have to be in business with one of five companies and I think it's like Amazon, Facebook, Google, uh, YouTube and Twitter or whatever they're like, you know, I mean Amazon puts everything on the cloud. You know, Google and YouTube it's- it's all basically the SEO and the advertising and you got to get your name out there, you don't want to be buried and every... Like because you have to do business with a, you're, it's a cartel of these companies you understand it better than anybody, uh, that you are prevented...... truly. And I, I think, whatever you think about Parler, whatever you think about what people are saying on Parler, whatever you think about, uh, Alex Jones, whatever you thought about Milo Yiannopoulos, the state has an interest in, in, in, and has always had an interest, in, in crushing dissent. This is what the state has done. This is how they, r- r- you know, retain the p- the power they have, by eliminating dissent where they can. Now, because you don't have, you know, three broadcast networks anymore and a handful of newspapers that were all run, by the way, by people that had been either compromised or happily, you know, happily going with the program-

    10. LF

      Mm-hmm.

    11. TD

      ... and you have this Wild West of the internet, people like me, people that make f- I make funny content, that I hope is funny, but a lot of it is wild and crazy.

    12. LF

      Yeah.

    13. TD

      I say a lot of wild and crazy things. They're very funny. I say a lot of wild and crazy things about powerful people.

    14. LF

      Yeah. You mock the powerful and thereby bringing them down a notch. We'll probably talk about it, but humor is one of the tools to-

    15. TD

      Yeah.

    16. LF

      ... to, to, to, uh, to balance the powers in, in society.

    17. TD

      Well, sure. Or, and to make people feel better about things and to, you know, whatever the case may be, right? That's my goal, is to kind of like, "Hey, people have had a shitty day. If this video or podcast makes you laugh, that's great." I think that it won't ever, it was never gonna stop at Alex Jones. Not that I think he should've taken off everything the way he was. But this keeps going until we have sanitized all of social media. And they, uh, they, what they really want it to be is what Instagram's kind of becoming, which is a marketplace of, you could just go and buy sneakers, go buy a sweatshirt-

    18. LF

      Right.

    19. TD

      ... go buy jeans, go buy this, go buy that. And the idea of the free exchange of information seems to be the old internet. And it seems the new internet seems to be, uh, you know, hyper... And I'm a capitalist, but this seems to be, like, hyper-capitalist in the sense that, like-

    20. LF

      Right.

    21. TD

      ... they only want you consuming things and they don't want you thinking too much. And that seems to be where it's heading. I've even seen that with Instagram, where it's like everything on Instagram is like, "Buy a sweatshirt."

    22. LF

      Yeah.

    23. TD

      You know? And you're, and I'm, I'm like, "Uh, uh, all right, man. Hey, man, if I want a sweatshirt, I'll get it. Like, relax."

    24. LF

      (laughs)

    25. TD

      You know? Just every ad-

    26. LF

      Yeah.

    27. TD

      ... seems to be, uh, encouraging consumption. But very few things seem geared towards, hey, let's have a dialogue or let's... And not that Instagram was ever great for that. But like, very few things are geared now towards content on Instagram. A lot of it seems geared towards shopping.

    28. LF

      See, I, I don't know. That's an interesting point. I don't know if the consumerism that capitalism leads to is necessarily gets in the way of nuanced conversation. I feel like you could still sell Tim Dillon sweatshirts and have a difficult, nuanced conversation-

    29. TD

      Sure.

    30. LF

      ... or mock the, the current president, the previous president, mock the powerful, all that kind of stuff.

  8. 27:2329:59

    Social media

    1. TD

      but what I tend to worry about with, uh, uh, I, I, I see social media and technology existing to flatten society. It makes people very boring.

    2. LF

      Yeah.

    3. TD

      All of the experiences kids have right now are online. Many of their closest friendships are online. Their first relationships are online. Uh, the culture is, is very homogenous. And that's, I think it's eliminating characters. It's eliminating interesting people. It's making people into AI. Uh, all of their tastes-

    4. LF

      Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.

    5. TD

      Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

    6. LF

      AI could beat, uh, Charles Bukowski as well. Let's not get crazy.

    7. TD

      It's not there yet, right?

    8. LF

      Yes.

    9. TD

      I mean, the $75,000 dog is not doing anything, you know. So-

    10. LF

      Yeah.

    11. TD

      ... we're not, we're not there yet. I, listen, I hate pe- I get why you like AI so much. I hate people too, and I'm very amenable to AI. And I, I, I agree with you. Like, listen, I think the future, n- we gotta get everyone out of here. I'm with you on that. So don't think I'm-

    12. LF

      I love people. It's manipulating my mind-

    13. TD

      I know.

    14. LF

      ... and my, uh-

    15. TD

      That's why the flash of light in your eyes when you talked about that dog-

    16. LF

      Yeah.

    17. TD

      ... was so much more than any person. And I get it, by the way.

    18. LF

      You're right. I love people, but i- if we can just-

    19. TD

      They're not exciting.

    20. LF

      ... if we can just use robots to kill most of them-

    21. TD

      Yeah.

    22. LF

      ... I think that would be good for society.

    23. TD

      And I am, I- I'm with that too. But, uh, I, I think that social media flattens people.

    24. LF

      It's flattening the personalities, the characters.

    25. TD

      Flatten personalities of people, man. And it's just, you know, when's the last time, like, I like the idea of like, you know, and I'm, uh, uh, you know, somebody's showing up to, uh, you know, high school with like a backpack and taking out an old CD and being like, "Hey, man, here's this band you've never heard of that I love," or whatever. "You gotta get into this." And I'm like, you know, when I talk to young... You know, I have friends that have younger brothers and everything. Every... And I know that the dominant culture was always dominant. I'm not an idiot. But like, I feel like it's harder to be unique and original now, because so much of, of what's promoted is just this way to kind of corral people into believing and thinking, uh, a certain set of ideals that's constantly shifting and evolving. And people are just caught up in that. And to me, it gets very boring, very quickly.

    26. LF

      Yeah.

    27. TD

      I hate being bored.

    28. LF

      I don't-

    29. TD

      And that's what it is.

    30. LF

      I don't know what to do with that, because at the same time, podcasts are really popular. Long form podcasts are really popular-

  9. 29:5948:33

    Alex Jones

    1. TD

      too.

    2. LF

      Let's talk a bit about Alex Jones. Uh, so you've gotten a chance to talk to him while you were on the Joe Rogan experience.

    3. TD

      I've talked, I've been on Alex's show. I've talked, I've had Alex on my show. I've talked to Alex for three hours in front of, I guess it was maybe like 15 million people, right, on Joe's show.

    4. LF

      Yeah.

    5. TD

      It was a really wild conversation. I think it was one of the coolest-... moments in broadcasting that, that I, I- clearly that I've ever been a part of. But I think it's, it goes in the lexicon of like these are big podcasts, like I think it's one of the biggest podcasts. A week before the election, Alex Jones... So, I'm really grateful that Joe gave me the opportunity to, to be there and I... It was just an amazing conversation to watch.

    6. LF

      What was the shirt you wore at, uh, uh, Julian

    7. TD

      Fregis Lane. It was a fun joke that no one in tech got because we all know how funny they are. Uh, but the tech writers, which is mainly blue-haired-

    8. LF

      I do not agree with this statement that-

    9. TD

      It's mainly blue-haired people whose, you know, goal in life is to find things to give them orgasms with, you know, without-

    10. LF

      If you want to dye your hair blue, it's your choice.

    11. TD

      Yeah.

    12. LF

      I respect it.

    13. TD

      It's... And by... Is it your choice?

    14. LF

      (laughs)

    15. TD

      But at the end of the day it's like, you know, all the tech writers, like a lot of people just... And I'm not, I'm just maligning tech unfairly, but a lot of people with that sense of humor were like, "He's advocating for human trafficker." I'm like, "It's clearly a joke because we're coming off the 'Believe all women'."

    16. LF

      Yes.

    17. TD

      We're coming off that and it's very funny to just say, "Fregis Lane, hey man, believe all women," like it's just... Our politics and our, and our public sphere is so schizophrenic right now that when you point that out, people are going to be angry with you. But that was a fun shirt to wear.

    18. LF

      But on Alex, you know, I was one of the people that found him really entertaining that, that... The same kind of thing as with Bukowski, these kinds of personalities that are wild, crazy full of ideas, uh, they don't have to be grounded in truth at all or they can be grounded in truth a little bit. It... Like, he's just playing with ideas like a jazz musician, screaming sometimes, obviously has some demons, sometimes he's super angry for no reason whatsoever at some weird thing that he's constructed in his own head, sometimes he's super loving and peaceful as... Especially lately that I've heard him... I don't know if you've seen with, him with Michael Malice where he's doing a-

    19. TD

      Yeah.

    20. LF

      Like, uh, Malice was doing like... Well, telling Alex Jones, "I love you, Alex," you know, just this-

    21. TD

      Yeah.

    22. LF

      ... loving kind of softness and kindness underneath it all.

    23. TD

      Yeah.

    24. LF

      I don't know what to make of any of it. And then there's this huge number of people that tell me that Alex Jones is a... Is dangerous for society and-

    25. TD

      Right.

    26. LF

      So, what do you do with that? Do you think he's dangerous for society? Do you think he is one of the sort of entertaining personalities of our time that shouldn't be suppressed or somewhere in between?

    27. TD

      I don't think that Alex per se is dangerous for society. I think the greater danger for society comes again from stifling all dissent, right? All... Like anybody with a voice that uses it to critiques the government-

    28. LF

      Yeah.

    29. TD

      ... and, and, and, and putting all of those people in a category and getting rid of them is incredibly dangerous. To me more so, I think the biggest problem that Alex has ever had was when he questioned the Sandy Hook shooting-

    30. LF

      Right.

  10. 48:3353:12

    OJ Simpson

    1. TD

    2. LF

      Yeah, the thing that-... troubles me a lot is, you said, uh, nobody's asking why these beliefs are out there. But sometimes it's not even acknowledged that people are hurting, people are angry. Just even acknowledging that all the conspiracy theories that are out there, acknowledging that they're out there, and then people are thinking about it and talking about it. Just because otherwise... So it's not acknowledged in this nuanced way. What happens is you say, "Okay, 70 million people are white supremacists."

    3. TD

      (laughs)

    4. LF

      It's just throwing a kind of blanket statement, and of course that gets them angrier and more, makes them feel more powerless. And that ultimately that, that's what's been painful for me to see is that there's not an acknowledgement that most people are good.

    5. TD

      Right.

    6. LF

      It's, there's circumstances where it's just, you're pissed off. (laughs)

    7. TD

      Right.

    8. LF

      Because you were powerless. I mean, most of us are powerless actually.

    9. TD

      You fall in, you could fall in with a bad crowd. That's the thing, you can just fall in.

    10. LF

      Yeah.

    11. TD

      And that doesn't mean that you're, you don't... there's not blame. You know, you're obviously, you're, you have agency, you're a person, you know. But the idea that like, you could be rehabilitated, you could do something stupid or you could fall into the great, you know, a group of people that are... and then in a few years you could go, "What the fuck was I doing?"

    12. LF

      Yeah.

    13. TD

      You know, I'm an ex-drug addict, I know what it's like to go from being one thing to being another thing, right? I'm still a drug... if I were to use drugs right now or drink, I would still be addicted to them, right? I mean, it's not something that I can ever change about myself, but I know what it's like to go from one thing to another thing. So when you look at racism or whatever ism, homophobia, misogyny, whatever, whatever you're looking at, anti-Semitism, and you go, "That's a fixed condition where nobody's ever going to be able to change. Nobody's ever gonna be able to be rehabilitated. Nobody's ever going to be able to reimagine themselves in a different way." To me, you're just, you're throwing away someone and you're making them feel helpless and worthless, um, and that's gonna lead to antisocial behavior that spills out into the violence. We don't have a very redemptive society.

    14. LF

      Right.

    15. TD

      That's a huge factor. We don't have a redemptive society. That's why I like O.J. Simpson, because O.J. Sim- yeah, yes, he did a bad thing, supposedly.

    16. LF

      Allegedly, yeah.

    17. TD

      But he's very kind now on Twitter, and he makes very nice points about how we all have to get involved in the political process, and he's on golf courses and I like watching people golf. I don't do it, but I like watching them do it and he's like an elder statesman 'cause I remember him from The Naked Gun, and I choose to forgive him, um, you know, for, for, for whatever happened there, which I don't know.

    18. LF

      Right.

    19. TD

      But, um, I choose to forgive him really for, I mean, obviously, you know, they say, what they say is he cut his wife's head off, but I, I can look past that-

    20. LF

      Yeah.

    21. TD

      ... and redeem him because he's very like stable on Twitter and he's a good like... I see all these people going crazy on Twitter and I'm like, there's maybe... O.J.'s lived a full life.

    22. LF

      Mm-hmm.

    23. TD

      And I think there's a benefit to that. There's a benefit to kind of living a full life.

    24. LF

      Yeah, how many of us have not at least tried to murder somebody in our life?

    25. TD

      100%. Listen, O.J.'s had the highs and the lows, but he did it on his terms.

    26. LF

      (laughs)

    27. TD

      And there's a real-

    28. LF

      It's like a Frank Sinatra song, you know.

    29. TD

      Yeah, he did it my way. I mean, like there, there's a benefit to that, and he seems like a very well-adjusted person now. So, I mean, I don't know. How is, how is that a fact? But it is a fact, and that's an uncomfortable fact.

    30. LF

      Well, this is (laughs) a strong case for forgiveness in, uh, in one of the more extreme cases, I suppose. Uh, but yeah, there's not a process of forgiveness. It seems like people just take a single event from your... or sometimes a single statement from your past and use that as a, uh, categorical like capture of the essence of this particular human being. So murder might be a thing that you should get a timeout for, a little-

  11. 53:1259:43

    Politics

    1. TD

      we might.

    2. LF

      Speaking of fun people, you've, uh, your politics have been all over the place. Uh-

    3. TD

      I hope so. I hope so.

    4. LF

      I mean, that's-

    5. TD

      Imagine not, imagine someone whose politics weren't all over the place. It would seem odd.

    6. LF

      Right, like you're s-

    7. TD

      In the 10 years that I've been politically conscious, just 'cause I'm, you know, 35 and twi- no, I've probably been conscious for over two decades, but like, Democrats have become Republicans, Republicans have become Democrats. I remember when Ann Coulter said, "We need to..." He defended George W. Bush when he said, "We need to go out and Christianize or, you know, modernize the Arab world. We need to democratize the Arab world." And then Ann Coulter, uh, backed Donald Trump and the, the, the... all, all the right wing in America believed in nation building, they believed in going out and, uh, de- democratizing areas that might breed radical terrorists, whether it was Iraq or wherever you were going, toppling regimes and instituting new democratic norms in those countries. That was the right wing point of view when I grew up. Then the right wing switched to, "We are going to be isolationist. We're gonna take care of America first and foremost, we're not gonna go into other countries." And then the Democrats, who when I grew up were doves and ha- and, and, and the right wing people were more hawkish, and the Democrats were like, "The military solutions aren't the way. We need to have multilateral diplomatic coalitions to solve all the problems."

    8. LF

      Yeah.

    9. TD

      Now, you know, Rachel Maddow's like, "Let's nuke Russia," every night on-... MSNBC, the Democrats are like, "We need, we need strong presence in Syria. We need a strong presence. We need to counter Putin all over the globe. We need to count-" So they're more hawkish on things. So, literally I have watched two political parties literally flip.

    10. LF

      Yeah.

    11. TD

      And it's crazy to watch.

    12. LF

      And in some sense I've watched that as well because I, when I first saw Barack Obama, I admired that he was against the war. This was whatever, uh, when he, maybe before he was a senator, he spoke out against the Iraq war.

    13. TD

      Right.

    14. LF

      And, and then he, you know ... It doesn't feel like, uh, it feels like his administration was more hawkish than, than dovish in-

    15. TD

      Right.

    16. LF

      ... a sense with the, with all the drone attacks, with the sort of inability to pull back or at least en masse officially pull back from all the military involvement that we have all over the world.

    17. TD

      Right.

    18. LF

      So, yeah, and just the language.

    19. TD

      What I think is interesting about that-

    20. LF

      Yeah.

    21. TD

      What's interesting about Obama, because he's a very interesting study, is that presidents are controlled in very different ways, right? You know, presidents can be controlled by different factors, power factions within Washington.

    22. LF

      Right.

    23. TD

      You know, I think one of the reasons that, uh, Obama was maybe, you know, he had a very close relationship with John Brennan who was the CIA director. And Obama was very close with John Brennan and Obama was very, you know, um, you know, I think, uh, malleable to the extent that, you know, the CIA ... And I've had CIA agents on my show. John Kiriakou, a guy who went to jail for exposing torture, was saying that like, "You know, you get into the Oval Office, all the sudden you're having the presidential daily briefing every day and the intelligence people come in and they go, 'Listen man, I mean, we're, there's gonna be a terrorist attack on your watch if you don't do X, Y, and Z.'" They go, "We have ..." You know, they call it, they call it like blue book information, which is five levels above top secret. And they go like, "Hey man, a guy in, uh, a guy in, uh, Iran in a café said he's blowing everything up next week." And you don't ... I mean, it's the same thing as parlor. You don't know if it's true or not.

    24. LF

      Right.

    25. TD

      But now the president's making decision on usually a lot of uncorroborated intelligence that goes into a- a- a presentation for the president where you're just terrified every day and you don't want a terrorist attack on your watch. Now, so why are they getting all this information? Because a lot of the people in Washington have an interest in perpetual, constant, ongoing warfare.

    26. LF

      Right.

    27. TD

      And there's a lot of financial gain to be had from that. So they're sneaking their information into the presentations that are going to the president, and then the president is now behaving and going, "Fuck, I don't want a bomb going off. We gotta do what we gotta do." And whatever version of that happens, that is really kind of what is happening. Whereas the presidents are being controlled by forces that are outside of the political sphere, but very much still in it, and they have a lot of power. That's what the deep state is. You know, Trump, there's a lot of ridiculing Trump of going, "The deep state doesn't exist." It absolutely exists. There's been books about it written by liberal journalists. The deep state is only a term for unelected, largely-

    28. LF

      Mm-hmm.

    29. TD

      ... power factions in Washington, DC that outlive any presidential administration. These are people that might work at the State Department. They might work at the Defense Department. Uh, these aren't people that are not always working officially in any government capacity.

    30. LF

      Mm-hmm.

  12. 59:431:06:59

    Donald Trump

    1. TD

    2. LF

      So amidst this, uh, fun exploration in your mind through the political landscape that you've done over the past, uh, uh, couple day- uh, decade that you've been conscious politically, where does Donald Trump fit into this picture for you? Is, um, is-

    3. TD

      Great question. Well, he didn't, right? 'Cause we didn't, he wasn't political until four years ago, right? He got, he got political very quickly before. I mean, he was always firing off crazy tweets about where Obama was born and whatever-

    4. LF

      Yeah.

    5. TD

      ... but he was, he got into politics like very quickly and then he became the president, right? So it was like we didn't ... I knew him as Donald Trump, this crazy New York City character, the host of The Apprentice. Um, I didn't think much about him. He was just constant, you know? Like he was just, just this constant figure. It's like, I don't think much about Warren Buffett. Like I know like Trump's like he's married to a new showgirl all the time and he's always opening another casino and...... he's on TV.

    6. LF

      Wait, Warren Buffett, really?

    7. TD

      No, Trump. Trump.

    8. LF

      Oh, Trump. Okay.

    9. TD

      But, like, Warren Buffett is the opposite, right?

    10. LF

      Yeah.

    11. TD

      Warren Buffett's, like, been married for about a million years.

    12. LF

      Yeah.

    13. TD

      Lives in a little house in Omaha. But these are the, that's what I associate with Trump. Like, I don't think about Warren Buffett.

    14. LF

      All right.

    15. TD

      I don't think about these people. They're just guys that I've known forever that have, like, um, you know, a, uh, you know, uh, you associate certain things with them, right? And Trump we always associated with kind of vulgar, garish, new money, billionaire, married a lot, you know, casinos, Miss Universe pageants. But again, you know, but it makes perfect sense that he, he really, um, was able to become president at the moment where we were had, we were about to have Hillary Clinton versus Jeb Bush. And I think Americans felt like this is, "Now the oligarchy is spitting right in our face. You're not even making it feel like, uh, there's an appearance of democracy. We have two crime families vying for control of the country every four years." And then there was this rogue kind of upstart guy that was really about himself. You know, Trump doesn't really care that much about the p- I mean, really was summarized perfectly when he left and he just said, "Hey, have a good life."

    16. LF

      (laughs)

    17. TD

      That's what he said before he got on Andrews Air Force Base.

    18. LF

      Have a good life.

    19. TD

      If you watch the speech, he goes, "Hey, have a good life." That's what he really feel. Like, "Hey, have a good life. I'm, I'm gonna get on a plane right now and fly to a castle I own in, uh, Mar-a-Lago, in Florida, and really I'm not gonna think too much about you people outside of how I can get more attention in the future."

    20. LF

      Can I ask you, like, a therapy question?

    21. TD

      Yes.

    22. LF

      What is your favorite and least favorite quality of Donald Trump?

    23. TD

      So my least favorite quality of Donald Trump, I think, because there's, there's a few of them, uh, his lack of empathy, complete and total lack of empathy. I don't feel that he cares about human-

    24. LF

      Yeah.

    25. TD

      ... beings on any level, and I feel like that's maybe or should be a requirement, right?

    26. LF

      (laughs)

    27. TD

      (laughs) I mean, I don't think-

    28. LF

      Yeah.

    29. TD

      ... he cares. I think it's obvious that he doesn't care. I mean, he sent, you know, basically he's saying like, "They're in there, Mike Pence is in there." He knows that his people are going to get, try to get into the Capitol. I mean, those motherfuckers are not gonna have jobs, they're gonna go to federal prison, and he doesn't care.

    30. LF

      He doesn't care.

  13. 1:06:591:14:35

    Humor

    1. TD

      doing that. Part of, part of the problem is that so many of the lines are blurred, right? So you have comedians that are commentators, and commentators that are comedians, and politicians

    2. LF

      Mm-hmm.

    3. TD

      ... and f- so it's like, it's harder to take the defense of like, "Hey, I'm a comedian, leave me alone."

    4. LF

      Right.

    5. TD

      That defense becomes harder when like, all of these lines are blurring. Everybody's kind of everything now. So like, people say to me, "You should run for office." And they're serious. And I'm like, "You're crazy." But they're ser- like, so the blurring of everything means that people aren't in their lanes as much, and that you go, "Well this guy is dangerous because he's not just making a joke, he's doing something else, and he's using humor." And I'm like, "I'm really not, I'm really just trying to make a joke. That's all, that's really what I'm trying to do." But I do think that because of the flattening, uh, there's a lot of people out there that go, they take aim at humor, because they go, "Humor is where bad ideas can kind of, you know, start and flourish."

    6. LF

      But don't you, uh, to put some, uh, responsibility on you, uh-

    7. TD

      Yeah.

    8. LF

      ... don't you think humor is a way to, uh, that you are the modern, like, Jordan Peterson style intellectual? That humor is actually a tool of-

    9. TD

      It can be.

    10. LF

      ... changing the side, guys changing the social norms.

    11. TD

      It absolutely can be, but it also cannot be. I don't think it's any one thing, and I think there's a lot of pressure, uh, for a comedian. You can be funny and right, you can be funny and wrong. Uh, if your goal is to be right, you might end up being right and not funny.

    12. LF

      Right.

    13. TD

      Uh, so the reality is funny has to come first. There are brilliant people that have been funny and, and correct according to people, right? But, uh, at the end of the day, people that put way too much faith in what comedy is, most of what comedy is, is people showing up to strip malls and, and, and telling jokes for an hour while people eat chicken fingers, and they all get drunk, and they laugh, and they feel a little bit better about their lives. That's really the majority of comedy. Then there's like 10 famous people that are really famous that do a version of that in a, in an arena. But the amount of cultural power they have is always been greatly exaggerated. My uncles loved George Carlin, who was anti-military industrial complex, anti this, anti that, and then they would go vote for Ronald Reagan. They didn't care. It doesn't, it doesn't really, it doesn't, it's not as powerful as you think. I wish it was. It feels good. It feels good for me to say, "I am the new thing." It really isn't.

    14. LF

      Yeah.

    15. TD

      It truly isn't. No one is a, comedians are the people that get on stage and say, "We're fucked up. We're, we're, we're, we're drug addicts, we're sex addicts, we're fat, we're gross, we can't manage our money, we can't stop eating, we can't stop fucking doing horrible things, we're liars, we're narcissists, we're scumbags." We're the people that get out and say that. Only a psychopath would look at us and go, "Show me the way." Like, it's not-

    16. LF

      I disagree with you, 'cause-

    17. TD

      Well-

    18. LF

      ... then I'm s- then I'm a psychopath, because-

    19. TD

      Well, and that's, that's-

    20. LF

      ... that's another issue. That's, that's-

    21. TD

      I mean, I don't think, I don't think... No pushback here.

    22. LF

      That's (laughs) that's another issue. Uh-

    23. TD

      But you know what I'm saying.

    24. LF

      ... but well, and I don't because, uh, I mean, I, I understand you using this as a psychological tool for yourself to give yourself freedom.

    25. TD

      Yes.

    26. LF

      But the reality is, you are one of the rare comedians, like a George Carlin, who is-

    27. TD

      Wow.

    28. LF

      ... besides being funny-

    29. TD

      Yeah. When I hear things like that I'm like, "Okay, you're being very sweet," but like, I agree, I understand what you're saying.

    30. LF

      Yeah.

  14. 1:14:351:21:04

    QAnon

    1. TD

      you know?

    2. LF

      Speaking about the world being, uh, completely fucked, uh, Alex Jones turned on QAnon. I, I know almost nothing-

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