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The Science of Your Gut: 3 Easy Steps to Reduce Bloating, Improve Digestion, and Feel Better Today

Order your copy of The Let Them Theory 👉 https://melrob.co/let-them-theory 👈 The #1 Best Selling Book of 2025 🔥 Discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words. Let Them. — What is bloating, and why don’t your pants fit after just one meal? What are the 10 foods to avoid when you feel bloated? What is gut health, and how can you improve yours? Today Mel is joined by double-board certified Dr. Amy Shah, (@saveyourselfwithdr.amyshah) who is here to explain #bloating and optimal #guthealth in a way that you can understand and easily apply to your life. Dr. Shah, a medical doctor trained at Harvard, Cornell, and Columbia University, is an immunologist and leading expert in women’s hormonal health and nutrition. She is giving you all the tools you need, including her 3-step plan to get long-term relief from bloating. Dr. Amy discusses: What bloating is; why and when it happens 3 symptoms of being bloated 10 foods notorious for causing bloating The one food that bloats everyone Why bloating can be worse during menopause or menstruation How to tell if you are bloated vs. gaining weight What “water weight” is and how to avoid it What a “distended belly” is and where it comes from 2 everyday (non-food) things that cause bloating and how to avoid them 3 foods you should not eat when you are bloated The pill you are taking that surprisingly may make you bloated One type of food that 68% of the world is intolerant of and doesn’t know Why alcohol bloats most of us Why you shouldn’t take Advil after a night of drinking Why sleep is so essential for reducing bloating What gut bacteria are and how to know when they’re upset What a food elimination diet is, why you need one, and how to safely try it Why fasting for 12 hours is essential for a gut reset Dr. Shah’s 3-F plan and why you should start your day this way to reduce bloating What the best probiotic is (hint: you can’t buy it) The surprising experience Mel’s daughter had with “bad” gut bacteria How anxiety and depression can be tied to gut health Follow Dr. Shah: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fastingmd/ Webpage: https://amymdwellness.com/ Follow the podcast: The Mel Robbins Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themelrobbinspodcast/ I’m just your friend. I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I’ll see you in the next episode. In this episode: 00:00 Intro 02:37 Mel has never experienced this kind of bloating. 06:28 What the heck is bloating? 07:12 What bloating is signaling to you. 08:04 What is distention and why is it a symptom of bloating? 09:13 How do you know if you’re bloated or just gaining weight? 10:58 How to tell if your gut microbiome is unhappy. 12:11 What the swelling of your fingers and feet might be signaling to you. 14:42 All of a sudden Mel’s pants could not fit. How does that happen? 16:22 This doctor's biggest tip if you are feeling bloated. 23:07 Why taking Advil after a night of drinking can cause bloating. 25:02 68% of the world's population are intolerant to this food. 27:06 The brain-gut connection: why anxiety and depression may be heightened. 27:58 The 10 foods that cause the most bloating. 30:12 This is the best zero-cost way to test for food sensitivity. 32:43 Let’s talk about the connection between alcohol and your gut. 35:01 How to fast in alignment with your circadian rhythm. 39:16 Did you know 80% of your body’s function is dependent on circadian rhythm 40:01 The 3 F morning routine Dr. Shah has based on research. 43:31 This is the best probiotic (and it’s zero cost). 45:01 Here’s the perfect breakfast for improved gut and hormone health. 47:27 Dr. Shah will be back next episode for your 5-day reset plan! — Follow Mel: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@melrobbins Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melrobbins LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com​ — Sign up for Mel’s newsletter: https://melrob.co/sign-up-newsletter A note from Mel to you, twice a week, sharing simple, practical ways to build the life you want. — Subscribe to Mel’s channel here: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins​?sub_confirmation=1 — Listen to The Mel Robbins Podcast 🎧 New episodes drop every Monday & Thursday! https://melrob.co/spotify https://melrob.co/applepodcasts https://melrob.co/amazonmusic — Looking for Mel’s books on Amazon? Find them here: The Let Them Theory: https://amzn.to/3IQ21Oe The Let Them Theory Audiobook: https://amzn.to/413SObp The High 5 Habit: https://amzn.to/3fMvfPQ The 5 Second Rule: https://amzn.to/4l54fah

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Nov 27, 202348mWatch on YouTube ↗

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  1. 0:002:37

    Intro

    1. MR

      I am so fricking bloated right now, I'm uncomfortable. On Monday, I put the red pants on, they felt great. On Tuesday, they felt great. Wednesday, they felt great. On Thursday, they felt great. Friday, not so great, everybody (laughs) . I mean, this poor button is hanging on by a thread. I was just about to google, "How do you get rid of a bloat? Five-day reset." And I thought, "Mel, what are you doing? Why don't you call Dr. Amy Shaw?"

    2. AS

      The biggest tip when you're feeling bloated or distended is...

    3. NA

      (Music)

    4. MR

      Hey, it's your friend Mel, and welcome to the Mel Robbins podcast. Today, you and I are going to talk about something that we have all experienced. Maybe you're experiencing it at this very moment. What is the topic? We're talking about bloating. And there's a particular reason why I wanted to talk about bloating today, and the reason is simple. I am so fricking bloated right now, I'm uncomfortable. See, here's what happened. The last couple weeks, I have been, um, on the road for work, and I've been going from one city to the next city, and I've been giving speeches and having business meetings, and it's been really great. And I want to tell you a little secret. This is like a travel secret, little travel tip, that when I travel for work, I always just travel with a carry-on. And you may be asking yourself, "Well, Mel, if you have been traveling for two weeks, how the heck can you go to multiple cities with a carry-on?" Well, the secret is simple. I wear the same outfit (laughs) to every speech and every business meeting. I swear to God, I travel with a uniform. And if you ever look at any of the stories on Instagram, you will notice, wow, Mel always has on the same pair of red pants and the black shirt whenever she's giving her speech. It's true. I have this stretchy pair of red pants that I love that are made out of polyester, and I have this great black Oxford shirt that is also made out of polyester, and I wear it on stage, and I wear it to business meetings, and it looks fantastic. And the other thing that's fantastic about polyester is that when you get to a hotel room, if you hang a polyester pair of pants up in a shower, and you run a shower, within about 15 minutes, the steam of a shower in a hotel room cleans it like a dry cleaner. Absolutely fabulous. So here I am, I'm on the road, and I've got my red polyester pants. And on Monday, I put the red pants on. They felt great. On Tuesday, I'm in Nashville to give a speech, put the red polyester pant, they felt great. Wednesday,

  2. 2:376:28

    Mel has never experienced this kind of bloating.

    1. MR

      put the red polyester pants on in Chicago, they felt great. On Thursday, I put the red polyester pants on in Orlando for a speech. They felt great. Friday, when I put the red polyester pants on, not so great, everybody (laughs) . I mean, I couldn't button them. And when I looked down, I realized... I have the pants here. You can see them if you look at YouTube. This poor button is hanging on by a thread for dear life. Like, I'm talking, it has a singular thread, because the tension on the waistband on this poor little button over the course of the last week has basically acted like a saw, slowly sawing apart the, the, the, the, the, you know, threads that were attaching the button to the pants. That button was the hardest working person in my company for the last five days. And I don't know what happened, because I take care of myself when I'm on the road. It's not like I'm downing Jim Beam or I'm, like, out late. I get a great night's sleep. I travel with friends. We're having a lot of fun. I love what I'm doing. But I kid you not, I will show you photos of me on that Friday. I look like I'm in the second trimester of a pregnancy. I have a food baby that looks like a basketball right in my stomach. And here's the thing. I know that I didn't gain weight. I mean, because you can't gain seven to 10 pounds in five days. But somehow, I gained the equivalent of that in bloating. And so I finally got home here, and I'm like, "I have to figure out what to do, because I am either going to be belching for two weeks or farting this out. And neither one is a great option, and I feel terrible, and I don't want to wear sweatpants for the next, I don't know, four weeks while I'm waiting for the bloating to go down." And so I was just about to google, "How do you get rid of a bloat? Five-day reset?" And I thought, "Mel, what are you doing? Why don't you call Dr. Amy Shaw?" I mean, Dr. Amy Shaw, as you probably know, if you're a listener to the Mel Robbins podcast, she's been on this twice before. She is a double board-certified medical doctor in the field of allergies, immunology, and internal medicine. She graduated magna cum laude from Cornell University's world-renowned School of Nutrition. She went on to receive her doctorate with distinction. She's trained at Harvard, at Columbia, and she is on the front line of nutritional and medical science. She's been on this show before. She's incredible. And her bestselling book, I'm So F***ing Hungry: Why We Crave What We Crave and What To Do About It, it is the manual on trying to balance your hormones and understand the science of nutrition so that you can curb your cravings. And I'm like, "What are you doing? Why are you going to google when you can get Dr. Shaw on and Dr. Shaw can explain h- what is bloating, why does it happen, and more importantly, what is the protocol?" Like, what could you do in, let's say, five days? Is there a five-day reset that you and I could follow so that whenever you feel bloated......because of what you ate or because of stress, or because of whatever the heck is going on, you know what to do. And so that's what we're doing today. And I also know that this conversation, we're planning on releasing it right during the holidays, and so you're gonna be in the thick of it. You're gonna be in the thick of all those amazing meals, and the stress of the holidays, and the drinking, and the travel, and the this and the that. And so wherever it is that you're coming to this conversation,

  3. 6:287:12

    What the heck is bloating?

    1. MR

      we got a seat at the table for you. And you can have your pants buttoned or not. You can have on your red pants with your food baby. You can have on your soft pants, with your sweatpants on. Everybody is welcome here, because every single one of us at some point in our lives feels bloated. And for me, it's today. And what we're gonna do today is we're gonna hear from the amazing Dr. Amy Shah. What are we gonna do about this? So please help me welcome Dr. Amy Shah back to the Mel Robbins podcast.

    2. AS

      So grateful to be here with you, Mel.

    3. MR

      Can we just start with what the heck is bloating?

    4. AS

      Bloating is so many things. It's the feeling of distension in your abdomen,

  4. 7:128:04

    What bloating is signaling to you.

    1. AS

      but everybody thinks it's just from gas. Yes, it is from gas, but it can also be from your hormones. It can be like water retention. Um, it can be from medications causing discomfort. It can be just from being constipated. You know, we all go through that where we're bloated, not 'cause there's gas, but there's actual stool in there.

    2. MR

      Ooh.

    3. AS

      Um, so, (laughs) and then menopause bloating, right? That's like even more so than the regular PMS bloating. There's a whole menopause bloating. Uh, so we have... And there's so many other causes of bloating. So it's not just you ate too much or you ate too many Brussels sprouts or broccoli, which we can talk about. It's also, um, it can be from so many other things.

    4. MR

      Well, you said a big word just a minute ago. You said distended.

    5. AS

      Yeah.

    6. MR

      That bloating is when you, your stomach is disten- What does that word mean?

  5. 8:049:13

    What is distention and why is it a symptom of bloating?

    1. MR

    2. AS

      So when your belly is pushing out, so from the inside. So you can have, like I said, it can be from stool, it can be from air, it can be from hormones causing water retention. And we all know how, I don't know about you, but when right before my period, I look like I'm pregnant. Okay? So all of that is distension inside. So this could be the wall of the intestines, like swollen-

    3. MR

      Mm-hmm.

    4. AS

      ...or it could be there's gas inside, or it could be there's-

    5. MR

      Hm.

    6. AS

      ...stool or food inside, and that's why it's distended. Uh, so there's so many different ways, but it feels kind of the same.

    7. MR

      That makes a lot of sense. Thank you for explaining that, because I'm trying to really help myself and anyone listening tease out the difference between, "Oh, my habits have changed and I'm gaining a lot of weight." Versus, "Oh, I've got something going on where from the inside out," it's almost like, "I feel like somebody has blown a balloon up inside of me-

    8. AS

      Yeah.

    9. MR

      ...full of something." I know this might sound like an insensitive question, but I have to ask this.

    10. AS

      (laughs)

    11. MR

      (laughs) How, how do you know if you're

  6. 9:1310:58

    How do you know if you’re bloated or just gaining weight?

    1. MR

      bloated-

    2. AS

      Yeah.

    3. MR

      ...versus you've just let your, uh, eating slide and-

    4. AS

      Yeah.

    5. MR

      ...you are gaining weight?

    6. AS

      Yeah. It's hard to tell sometimes the difference, right? Because, you know, you go on a week-long binge, uh, it's say the holidays or you're on vacation, and you come back and it's almost like a combination of multiple things. You're retaining water because you traveled a lot, you drank a lot, maybe you ate a lot of salt, and then your gut bacteria are mad at you. Remember there is this world that lives inside your gut called the microbiome, and they're just mad and they're producing all this gas to let you know that they're mad. Um, and then you probably ate a lot of excess calories, uh, for that period of time. So, it could be a combination of all three. And you won't know until you start to reset your gut what is actually happening 'cause the water weight will go away pretty quick.

    7. MR

      Yeah.

    8. AS

      Um, you know, if you're constipated, pretty much hopefully can resolve that. And then once you get your diet back on track, you might notice that the scale is starting to go down. So, all of these things start to resolve themselves together.

    9. MR

      You know, why don't I back up a minute, because here's what I'm starting to wonder. I, in, in reaching out to you, um, Dr. Shah, I had a food baby. I could not button my pants, and it happened so fast over the course of five days that I knew that this was bloating.

    10. AS

      Mm-hmm.

    11. MR

      But can you explain what are the symptoms that might surprise someone to hear that you may be bloated and dealing with extra gas or really

  7. 10:5812:11

    How to tell if your gut microbiome is unhappy.

    1. MR

      mad gut bacteria?

    2. AS

      Um, you're burping a lot. Um, obviously farting-

    3. MR

      Yeah.

    4. AS

      ...because farting and bloating go really hand in hand. You're constipated. Um, that's a good sign. That's not a good sign, but that's a sign that you are bloated, uh, 'cause often when you have a lot of gas in your intestines, you can't push that stool out, um, and you might not just be bloated in your gut. You might be one of those people who's retaining fluid everywhere. Have you ever had that issue where your rings don't fit anymore, or your bracelets get tight, or your shoes feel like they're like getting tight? That's basically what's happening in your intestines is happening all over your body. So that's another sign that this could be bloating and, uh, water retention, and not necessarily like you gained a bunch of weight.

    5. MR

      Huh? Well, um, I wanna tell you a couple things. Number one, I don't ever sleep with jewelry on because my hands swell so much. And same thing when I exercise, like if I'm gonna go out for a long walk-

    6. AS

      Yes.

    7. MR

      ...I don't wear my rings 'cause my hands swell.And at the end of

  8. 12:1114:42

    What the swelling of your fingers and feet might be signaling to you.

    1. MR

      the day, my feet are typically like a half size larger. I never thought that that could be a sign of bloating, and, or a sign that my body is, uh-

    2. AS

      Inflamed.

    3. MR

      Inflamed.

    4. AS

      Yeah.

    5. MR

      Um, and then the other thing I'll tell you is just a quick story, because it might help you listening to start to discern what you may be dealing with. I'd say about six years ago when our daughter Kendall was in high school, she always was a big burper. Like, just these deep, just loud kind of (burps) kind of burps. And she was such a little thing that it was so shocking how loud these burps were. And we, and it was almost like a joke in our family. Kendall!

    6. AS

      (laughs)

    7. MR

      And then she started to say, "Dr. Shah," she would go, "I feel so fat." She was not using the B word, she was using, "I feel so fat, so fat." And because she was so thin, I thought, "Oh my God, she's got body dysmorphia." So, I took her to a therapist because I thought as she is, you know, saying she feels fat, and I'm looking at her, and I'm like, "Uh, you don't look fat to me. You look pretty darn skinny." This therapist said, "I think you should get her gut tested, 'cause I think she's dealing with disordered eating. I think she's got body dysmorphia." She says, "No, no, no, you should get her gut tested." It turns out when they tested her gut that she was missing all, all of the good bacteria in her gut. And that what was happening is the food would go down her mouth and down esoph- and down into the stomach, and all of a sudden it would hit her stomach, and because she had literally no good gut bacteria, the food sat and rotted.

    8. AS

      Hmm.

    9. MR

      And so, the burping was from rotting food. I know, it's disgusting. And the, and the, the belching, the constant b- well, that's, the constant belching was her trying to relieve the pressure, and her saying, "I feel fat, I feel fat, I feel fat," was really her trying to explain, "I am bloated." And so, we went and did this protocol of resetting her gut microbiome, and all the symptoms disappeared. And so, this is a very real thing that you may be dealing with and be s- feeling symptoms other than a food baby, and your gut health is really the issue that's causing all this. Because, you know, I was explaining earlier that I really wanted to talk to you because I had been traveling for the last couple weeks, and I wear the same

  9. 14:4216:22

    All of a sudden Mel’s pants could not fit. How does that happen?

    1. MR

      pair of pants. That's my little travel secret, I wear the same outfit everywhere I go. And so, the pants that I was wearing on Monday fit, they fit on Tuesday, they fit on Wednesday, they fit on Thursday. Although, I'll tell you, that poor little button holding my red pants together was the hardest working person in the room.

    2. AS

      (laughs)

    3. MR

      I have my little red pants right here.

    4. AS

      Oh, do you have them?

    5. MR

      Um, but by Friday, I had a food baby.

    6. AS

      Yeah. (laughs)

    7. MR

      Like, I literally looked like I was six to seven months pregnant. It was a balloon coming out, and I had to do the trick where you shove it, you unbutton your pants and you stick a rubber band through the opening-

    8. AS

      Yeah.

    9. MR

      ... and hook it to extend your pants. And I thought, "Okay, I can't gain seven pounds in five days, because I can't lose seven pounds in five days," right? Like, this is not just a norm-

    10. AS

      Yeah.

    11. MR

      So, maybe what we should talk about since you're basically saying when you're bloated, your gut bacteria's mad at you.

    12. AS

      Yeah.

    13. MR

      Right? I mean, that's kind of the b- is that the basic thing that's going on here?

    14. AS

      Uh, it, it is the basic thing that's going on. The, that gut hormone immune connection, I mean, that is, when that's off balance, you get all these symptoms. People think, "Oh my God, it's hormone bloating," or, "Oh my God, it's, um, coming from something else." But really, it's because your gut bacteria are not happy. It's not that, it's not only related to food. It can be related to other things.

    15. MR

      Okay.

    16. AS

      But when they're not happy, they're gonna let you know.

    17. MR

      Okay. Like, what foods actually could bloat you?

    18. AS

      Okay. Well, first of all, I want to give you the biggest tip, just to take a step back, the biggest tip when

  10. 16:2223:07

    This doctor's biggest tip if you are feeling bloated.

    1. AS

      you're feeling bloated or distended is don't wear those red pants with the button on them.

    2. MR

      (laughs)

    3. AS

      (laughs) Like, I, I can't tell you how many times I've traveled and, you know, you get bloated because of, um, the change in the air pressure. You're not, um, you're not able to go to the bathroom for a couple of days. It's like, all of these things. Um, you need stretchy pants for your travel. You need to swap those red pants out for something a little, with a little more give. And I get it, like, it's nice to wear some tight-fitted pants, especially if like, you know, you want to, uh, look cute, but for the travel day, wear the stretch pants, okay?

    4. MR

      Got it.

    5. AS

      That's- (laughs)

    6. MR

      Okay, first of all, ladies and gentlemen-

    7. AS

      (laughs)

    8. MR

      ... let's give a round of applause for Triple Bird certified Dr. Amy Shah-

    9. AS

      (laughs)

    10. MR

      ... who just told us all soft pants, people. Soft pants. You're traveling, you're feeling bloated, let's get rid of the zippers and the buttons. Soft pants.

    11. AS

      Yeah. (laughs)

    12. MR

      So, I got it, I'm taking it away, I am following it.

    13. AS

      Yeah.

    14. MR

      And where, where, like, you've talked about the intestines and the stomach. W- is there, is that where this is happening, or are there other parts of your body involved when bloat is happening to you?

    15. AS

      Yeah. Uh, from the minute you take food in, right, you're chewing your food-

    16. MR

      Mm-hmm.

    17. AS

      ... the bloating can start to happen there. You know, you all, we all know with gum, with, um, sparkling drinks, these are foods that can cause bloating because you're swallowing a lot of air, uh-

    18. MR

      Wait, what?

    19. AS

      ... from the time you put it in your mouth. Did you know this?

    20. MR

      Gum causes bloating?

    21. AS

      Yeah. Did you not know this?

    22. MR

      No.

    23. AS

      So-

    24. MR

      Sparkling beverages causes bloating?

    25. AS

      Yeah. (laughs) Um-

    26. MR

      What?

    27. AS

      I, I didn't, I didn't... So yeah, you need to know this. This is why I to- I'm telling you, this is the reset. So, sugar-free gum, which is all gum now, right? You can't really get gum, I think Bazooka used to be like, our gum when we were younger-

    28. MR

      Mm-hmm.

    29. AS

      ... that had real sugar, but now it's all sugar substitute gum. And those sugar substitutes are very irritating, um, to our gut bacteria. And just the act of swallowing a lot of air-...you know, or ch- chewing gum, um, can kind of push that air down into, all the way. It's one tube, right? So from your mouth, to the esophagus, to the stomach, to the small intestine, and the large intestine. So it's all one tube, so it can start from up there. Then you have people like us, who are always in a rush and always eating too fast. And so it can even be an issue with just eating too fast, and it's going through that one system, that one tube from your mouth to your anus too fast, and you're not taking breaks, and you're not chewing enough. And so it starts with, it's not just a particular food, it's just that you're eating food too fast, right? And then you have foods like the foods that you consider super healthy, Brussels sprouts, broccoli, cauliflower, cabbage. And Mel, you're being a great student. You're like, "I want to eat all the fiber in one day."

    30. MR

      Yeah.

  11. 23:0725:02

    Why taking Advil after a night of drinking can cause bloating.

    1. AS

      aspirin, right? That is going to make you more bloated. And-

    2. MR

      What? Why?

    3. AS

      ...a lot of people, when they wake up-

    4. MR

      That's, this is my morning routine after a party. What are you talking about?

    5. AS

      Yes. So medications are a big cause of bloating, especially NSAIDs. So for, for-

    6. MR

      What's an NSAID? What, what do you mean an NSAID?

    7. AS

      Uh, a non, it, ibuprofen, um, and Motrin, uh, and, uh, naproxen. Those are kind of, uh, a class, again, cousins, eh, in a group of medications called NSAIDs, non-steroidal anti-inflammatory medication. So NSAIDs all have kind of the same mechanism of action. So, you know, some people like naproxen, some people like ibuprofen, some people like Motrin and all these different versions, but they're all the same, um, parent medication. Same with aspirin. Aspirin's very similar to all of them. Um, but they, their side effect is bloating. And so you ate a bunch of cruciferous vegetables, you, uh, took a bunch of ibuprofen, and now, and, you know, it's the week before your period, and then you wake up and you're like, "Oh my God, I look six months pregnant." And that's what is happening. And so I'm going to tell you what you need to do to kind of-

    8. MR

      Thank God.

    9. AS

      ...reset that.

    10. MR

      Thank God. Um, I hear a lot about gluten-

    11. AS

      Yeah.

    12. MR

      ...and bloating. So is there a connection? Like, what are the foods other than the cruciferouses that you just explained, what are the foods...... that tend to cause bloating in people?

    13. AS

      Uh, gluten is definitely one of them. I mean, we all know there's, uh, so many people out there who feel bloated when, after pizza and bread and pasta. And sometimes, it's not necessarily a gluten. Like, you could have a sourdough bread and be okay, but you have, you know, pizza, and you're not. So it's not necessarily, uh, sometimes, uh, the gluten itself, but the way it's prepared. There's also, um, I think 68%

  12. 25:0227:06

    68% of the world's population are intolerant to this food.

    1. AS

      of the world population is lactose intolerant. And-

    2. MR

      What's that mean?

    3. AS

      That means that when you eat dairy foods, um, you get bloated because your body can't break down the lactose sugar.

    4. MR

      Oh.

    5. AS

      Um, I don't know, do you... are you one of those people? So, well, everybody's different, right?

    6. MR

      I have no idea.

    7. AS

      So 68% of the world population, it, um, can't digest a glass of milk or a big scoop of ice cream. They're, they get bloated from it.

    8. MR

      What are some other, like, symptoms or-

    9. AS

      Yeah.

    10. MR

      ... or things that you've seen in helping people to reset their, their gut, Dr. Shaw?

    11. AS

      Well, you know I talk about this all the time, but your mood and cravings, um, has a huge connection to your gut. So, uh, we talk about this gut-brain connection. And so, just to bring it back to hormones again, is like, you know when you're bloated, or it's right before your period, you feel bloated. Um, or you're in menopause, you feel bloated, but you also feel really, like, sad, and you feel like-

    12. MR

      Hmm.

    13. AS

      ... you know, you're craving certain foods. And so, what we're learning now is that, um, this disordered gut bacteria that's happening, and for that, it's, you know, hormone-based situational, but is disrupting things in our brain, and we have this ba- gut-brain connection. And so, if you're feeling kind of down, fatigued, having cravings for strange things, um, that could be your gut bacteria talking to you and saying, like, "I, you know, I don't feel good, and we're sending signals to your brain that we need to be healed." And, uh, now, nobody, even in modern medicine, this is not talked about. Very few people, when they go to the doctor, and they say, "I'm depressed, I'm anxious, I'm, you know, I'm feeling tired all the time," very few doctors are going to be like, "Let's look into your gut health." You know? Like, it's not even... it's like, go, "Here's some medicine. You know, here's, here's some antidepressants, or g- go talk to someone." They don't even think that it's related, but it's completely

  13. 27:0627:58

    The brain-gut connection: why anxiety and depression may be heightened.

    1. AS

      related. I mean, we have study after study after study saying like, "Okay, take some fiber," and all of a sudden, people get improved cravings and mood, and you know, uh, "Eat some fermented food," and all of a sudden, they feel better. So, there's a huge connection with mood and feelings of anxiety.

    2. MR

      So, Dr. Shaw, what foods make you bloated?

    3. AS

      So, uh, we talked about cruciferous vegetables, including your broccoli, Brussels sprouts, um, cabbage, okay? We talked about artificial sweeteners, like in your, um, Diet Coke, and in your gum, et cetera. Those are huge causes of bloating. Um, we talked about, um, sparkling drinks being a cause of bloating. We talked about dairy for so many people, gluten for so many people, high amounts of sugar for so many people. I actually,

  14. 27:5830:12

    The 10 foods that cause the most bloating.

    1. AS

      in my plan, like in my gut reset plan, I have every single person take out the foods that they think are triggering, like gluten, dairy, white sugar, and put themselves on a food elimination diet, at least for a week if not four weeks, to identify which foods are triggering your bloating. So, for me, it was gluten and dairy and sugar. And for a lot of people, it, it is all three. Uh, but for some people, it's just one of the two. So for some people, it's all three, some... So you have to do a food elimination diet. Did you know, Mel, that food sensitivity testing is not validated, and-

    2. MR

      Huh.

    3. AS

      ... all those tests that people get for food sensitivity, it's... In 2023, we don't have a validated food sensitivity test. We can tell food allergies, like if you're gonna have anaphylaxis to peanut, we have a test for that. But there's no test that's better than a food elimination diet for checking for your food sensitivities, the foods that are causing you to bloat.

    4. MR

      Let me see if I'm following you, because I was about to ask you, how would you know-

    5. AS

      Yeah.

    6. MR

      ... if you're lactose intolerant? How would you know if you are sensitive to gluten? Because you asked me, "Mel, are you lactose intolerant?" I'm like, "I have no idea."

    7. AS

      Yeah.

    8. MR

      "I have whole milk in my coffee every morning. I eat cottage cheese. I love the, you know, s- that S-K-Y-R yogurt."

    9. AS

      Yeah.

    10. MR

      So I don't know. I, I'm just... I'm ingesting this stuff. I don't burp afterwards. I don't fart afterwards that I know of, but I, like, so am I bloated by it? I don't know. So are you saying that the only way to determine whether or not you are getting bloated or triggered by certain foods is to eliminate them from your diet, and then-

    11. AS

      Yeah.

    12. MR

      ... to see what happens when you add them back in?

    13. AS

      Yes. The gold standard for food-related gut discomfort is to eliminate the foods and to add it back. When you add it back, that's really the test. Um, I don't know if you've ever, you know, gone a long time without eating, um, say, you know, certain food, and then you add it back to your diet, and then you get, like, this huge bloating reaction. That's the sensitive food that you're eating. So, you're only gonna know if you're lactose intolerant,

  15. 30:1232:43

    This is the best zero-cost way to test for food sensitivity.

    1. AS

      or if you're not tolerant to dairy, if you stop eating it, and then you add it back and see what happens to you. That's, like, the gold standard for checking which foods that trigger you. So, there's certain foods that trigger everyone, but there's certain food groups-

    2. MR

      What are they?

    3. AS

      ... that trigger only few people, like-Um, the insoluble fiber is like a thing that bloats everyone. This is the-

    4. MR

      What is insoluble-

    5. AS

      Those are-

    6. MR

      ... fiber, fiber?

    7. AS

      So, so, you know those vegetables that I was talking to you about-

    8. MR

      Yes.

    9. AS

      ... the raw vegetables?

    10. MR

      Yes.

    11. AS

      So, they're made up of insoluble fiber-

    12. MR

      Okay.

    13. AS

      Um, they have so- like, there's soluble fiber. So for example, um, things like baby spinach that's cooked really well, right? That has a lot of, like, soft fiber, is how I would think about it, um, and it's easier to digest for the body. Whereas a raw broccoli or a cauliflower, uh, has a lot of insoluble fiber, and it's really hard for the body to digest, and it takes a lot of work. It's like marathon training. Like, eventually you'll get there, but you don't want to start with huge amounts in the beginning. So, um, and then, you know, alcohol. Let's talk about, you know-

    14. MR

      Oh, do we have to?

    15. AS

      (laughs) .

    16. MR

      Come on, this is coming out during the holidays talking show.

    17. AS

      Yeah, but I mean, it's-

    18. MR

      No, seriously. No, let's talk about alcohol, 'cause the truth is, I have this love-hate relationship with alcohol-

    19. AS

      Mm-hmm.

    20. MR

      ... where I tend to go for periods where I don't drink-

    21. AS

      Mm-hmm.

    22. MR

      ... at all, and I feel 1,000 times better, and I-

    23. AS

      Yeah.

    24. MR

      ... sleep better, and I know it's better for my health. And then particularly around the holidays or in the summer or, you know, when we're celebrating something, I'll have a drink, and the next thing you know, I'm kind of sliding into drinking a little bit more, uh, frequently, and I definitely notice. I don't sleep as well. I definitely notice that, um, I'm tired in the morning. I have not really noticed bloating, but maybe I'm not understanding the signs-

    25. AS

      Mm-hmm.

    26. MR

      ... or the symptoms to look for.

    27. AS

      Well, let me tell you the problem with alcohol. The problem with alcohol is that, number one, a lot of us are ingesting it later in the evening.

    28. MR

      Hm.

    29. AS

      And so I told you that our body, just like our brain needs sleep, our gut bacteria needs sleep as well. They need rest. If we're eating big meals and lots of drinks late into the night, you're already shortchanging your growth hormone, you're, um,

  16. 32:4335:01

    Let’s talk about the connection between alcohol and your gut.

    1. AS

      cleaning, you know, all the things that happen during the night in your gut, and so you're just more likely to be bloated in general. It doesn't mean that every single person's going to wake up the next day bloated. It's just contributing to this overall circadian rhythm misalignment that we have in our world. We're going, people are going days without seeing natural light, and then they're eating really late at night-

    2. MR

      Hm.

    3. AS

      ... uh, with bright lights, right? Like, we're-

    4. MR

      Hm.

    5. AS

      ... in this, we're in this world where our circadian rhythms are getting thrown off all the time. And one of the biggest causes of bloating is that we're eating late at night, and we're drinking alcohol late at night. So, not only does alcohol cause bloating, it also is usually consumed later in the evening, closer to bedtime for a lot of us. Um, now, there are people who have it earlier in the day, and I would say, if you are going to have alcohol around the holidays, and you are trying to, you know, manage your bloating and-

    6. MR

      Yes.

    7. AS

      ... just in general better health, start earlier in the day. And that way, your body has time to kind of metabolize it. It's not going to disturb your sleep as much, and it's not going to disturb your gut health as much.

    8. MR

      So, what would be your recommendation for how much time you need between your last meal and your last drink with calories or sparkle in it-

    9. AS

      Mm-hmm.

    10. MR

      ... right? Whether it's alcoholic or not, and when you fall asleep. Like, do you need, like, three hours, two hours-

    11. AS

      Yeah.

    12. MR

      ... five hours? Like, what is going to help your gut process what you ate and drank and then also get the rest that it needs, which helps your gut bacteria not be so mad at you?

    13. AS

      Yeah, exactly. Our gut bacteria are our biggest allies, right? We want them to be our friends, and we don't want to starve them to death and kill them in all these ways that we're doing. Fasting, uh, at least circadian style, so something natural like, you know, taking a break from food for 12 hours, which sounds like it's nothing, but most Americans are eating 16 hours a day and just taking a quick break for eight hours, um, or less. So, we want to extend the time that your gut gets rest. So, it might be two to three hours before bed

  17. 35:0139:16

    How to fast in alignment with your circadian rhythm.

    1. AS

      you stop eating, and you're only drinking water or decaffeinated tea, you know, that kind of thing, clear liquids. And then go 12, 13, 14, so it may be 6:00 PM to 6:00 AM, 7:00 PM to 7:00 AM. That would be ideal, um, timings according to circadian rhythms.

    2. MR

      You just said that the average person is eating for 16 hours a day, and I stopped for a second and thought, "Oh my God, you're right." 'Cause you start eating the second you wake up, and you eat until you go to bed, and I've never heard anybody talk about the fact that we're eating for that long of a period of time. And I've noticed that whenever we talk about intermittent fasting or fasting for a 12-hour window as a health and digestion and a gut bacteria tool, people go crazy, right?

    3. AS

      Yeah.

    4. MR

      About, "Oh." But when you focus on the fact that it's not healthy to eat for 16 hours a day either, I mean, that was sort of a ha- aha, aha moment for me.

    5. AS

      Me too. I, you know, I, when I read the circadian rhythm, um, data that says basically the Nobel Prize in Medicine a few years ago went to the scientists that were looking into how circadian rhythms actually run our bodies, that 80% of our body's functions work on circadian rhythms. This means that-...our gut needs rest, our gut bacteria needs rest. Like when it's dark outside, that is a time that our body switches into a different mode. And when I understood that, I was like, "Wow, why is it that we're eating so late into the night, and then we're not giving our gut a break?" We know we need sleep, so why don't we ever talk about giving your gut a rest, which is just as important as giving your brain a rest? And that could improve so many things in our body that, you know, you know and I know, like, you have an early dinner, you have a great night sleep because now you have your growth hormone that is pumping, it's repairing everything. You wake up and you feel like a different person, like a million bucks, right? And we know that, but we still don't do it. In America at least, we don't do it. And so, I think the circadian rhythm science is just going to get stronger and stronger, because people just still are starting to understand what an impact that's going to have, taking a break, just a break. It's not intermittent fasting per se, it's just being, you know, it's how our bodies were designed. I mean, thousands of years ago, you didn't have Uber Eats to call at, like, midnight.

    6. MR

      You know, I'm just laughing 'cause I'm sitting here going... (laughs) It's not like we call sleep intermittent wakefulness.

    7. AS

      Yeah.

    8. MR

      You know? It's like, it makes a lot of sense that your medical recommendation, based on your expertise, is that your gut needs 12 hours of not having to digest food in order to have your gut bacteria remain healthy and have your gut in balance. I mean, it makes sense.

    9. AS

      Yeah. And we know that how much poor sleep, we talk about it all the time, right? Poor sleep makes you depressed. Poor sleep makes you eat more. Poor sleep makes... It's the same thing when you get poor gut rest and you're eating all the time. The studies are very clear. Now, why intermittent fasting got such a bad rap is because the colloquial science, you know... I, I don't want to say bro science, but the sci- like, the fitness world said, "Oh, if you want to do intermittent fasting, the way to do it is, uh, you know, eat late into the night, and then don't eat all day. Don't eat-

    10. MR

      Hmm.

    11. AS

      ...'til 12:00 or 1:00 or 2:00." And that's, actually that's not been shown in the science to be helpful in weight loss. It's not been shown, um, to be the way to do it in optimal health, 'cause our bodies don't work on that cycle. We are supposed to be eating during the wakeful hours. Now, that can be delayed. We don't need to eat first thing in the morning. Um, but eating an early dinner and having the fasting start in the evening is something that I don't see a lot of fitness and, you know, health influencers talk about, which is the way it's supposed to be done.

  18. 39:1640:01

    Did you know 80% of your body’s function is dependent on circadian rhythm

    1. AS

      We're supposed to give our body, um, uh, a time to digest so we get better sleep, better growth hormone production, more rest to our gut so that we can wake up less bloated and we can be happier and healthier. I have this morning routine, the three Fs, okay? Every morning, I wake up and I'm like, "Okay, fasting is number one. Have I fasted for 12 hours? If I haven't, I'm not going to have my first meal yet, okay?" Because I might have stopped on some days later, 7:30-

    2. MR

      Right.

    3. AS

      ...8:00. And I might say I wake up at 6:00, and I'm like, "Okay, I'm not going to eat yet. I'm actually going to go exercise." So, fitness is the second F. So, fasting, fitness, and then when I'm ready to eat, it's fermented and fiber

  19. 40:0143:31

    The 3 F morning routine Dr. Shah has based on research.

    1. AS

      food. So, those three Fs, fasting, fitness, and the food, those make up my morning routine so that I'm not as bloated, I fix my circadian rhythm so our gut bacteria are happy with us, and we start our day with something that is nourishing for that gut microbiome so that over days and weeks, um, time, we can experience less bloating, we can have better body composition, who doesn't want that, and better hormone health.

    2. MR

      First of all, I love it. It's super simple. Secondly, I love the fact that when you said fasting, you basically wake up when you wake up and you go, "Okay, wait a minute. Um, I'm just not going to eat until I give my gut a 12-hour rest." And so, even if you were at, like, let's say you were at a wedding or at a party last night, and you were out and you stopped on the way home for some pizza-

    3. AS

      Mm-hmm.

    4. MR

      ...it was 11:00 at night. You're sound asleep by midnight. When you wake up at 9:00 in the morning, ask yourself, "Okay, first F is fasting. 12 hours would be that I don't have my first meal until 11:00 this morning." And then you said fitness, which is how much fitness? How long do you need to exercise?

    5. AS

      Mm-hmm.

    6. MR

      Can it be a 10-minute walk? Can it be anything?

    7. AS

      Yeah.

    8. MR

      Like, what is fitness for you?

    9. AS

      Fitness for me in the mor- for the morning routine is anything, anything. So, total in the day, I want to get about 30 minutes. You want to get 30 minutes of sunlight, of, uh, movement. So, the best way to get this done, and over with, and checked off is go for a 30-minute walk and you're done.

    10. MR

      Yep.

    11. AS

      Um, and it makes so much sense because our bodies are designed to see light in the morning. We're seeing now, you know, you see all this research coming out about how important it is to get natural light. Um, you, you just check it all off in one walk, because the gut bacteria... Did you know that the best probiotic, the best de-bloating is actually exercise?

    12. MR

      No.

    13. AS

      Because exercise makes-

    14. MR

      I did not know that.

    15. AS

      (laughs) Exercise-

    16. MR

      I didn't know that. Like, 'cause I was just about to ask you-

    17. AS

      Yeah.

    18. MR

      ...how does taking a walk for 30 minutes outside stop bloating and help my gut bacteria be happy? How does that help?

    19. AS

      So, just like your gut bacteria needs sleep, like I said, they're like organisms, live organisms, and they need rest, they also love when you get sunlight and when you exercise. It makes them very happy. They do this cr- like, crazy dance that produces, um, these chemicals in your body called short-chain fatty acids. They go all over the body...They calm your inflammation. They make you happy. It is the best probiotic you could ever take.

    20. MR

      That's so cool.

    21. AS

      I know.

    22. MR

      That is so cool. And so-

    23. AS

      We're trying to, we're trying to produce short chain fatty acids through so many different things. Like everyone's like, "Take this pill for, to produce short chain fatty acids. Do this." All we have to do is exercise in sunlight, and look, all of a sudden, it bo- our body produces it for ourselves.

    24. MR

      Well, the other thing that I like about what you're saying is the second that you said, "Your gut bacteria's mad at you," and if I think in simple terms, which I like to do because if a concept is simple, I can apply it to my life, right?

    25. AS

      Yeah.

    26. MR

      When you tell me, "The game here, everybody, is make your gut bacteria happy," and when you tell me that, okay, there are some things that you can do every single day to just make your gut bacteria happy,

  20. 43:3145:01

    This is the best probiotic (and it’s zero cost).

    1. MR

      which is gonna help with bloating, which is gonna help with how comft- how you feel, which is gonna help with your mood, Mel, one of which is getting good sleep and getting rest from needing to digest, which you just said is about fasting. The other one is take your gut bacteria for a walk, 30 minutes outside, and all of a sudden, it's like doing its happy dance and it's making you feel better, and we all know this to be true. And then you said the third F is fiber and something else.

    2. AS

      F- yeah.

    3. MR

      So what does that mean?

    4. AS

      Fer- fermented and fibrous foods. So you know, the first meal of your day is your best chance. Research shows that the first meal of the day is statistically shown to be our best chance at improving our health in general, but definitely our gut and hormone health. And what I want to tell every woman out there is that, use this opportunity to improve your hormone and gut health. So a perfect breakfast would be something like yogurt, nuts, berries, and maybe some fr- uh, you know, uh, a ginger tea on the side, okay, like a chai or... Because ginger and peppermint are two things that you can really do, take to really make your gut bacteria happy. You know, uh, we know that a tofu scramble or an egg scramble with veggies, so you want high protein, so 30 grams of protein. You got your fiber in there with your vegetables, and if you're having a yogurt or probiotic cottage cheese, or you're gonna

  21. 45:0147:27

    Here’s the perfect breakfast for improved gut and hormone health.

    1. AS

      have a little spoon of sauerkraut or a little, uh, glass of water with some raw apple cider vinegar, you're gonna get your fermented food. Use your breakfast as your chance to kill it. Like, this is... My hormones and my gut bacteria are so happy, uh, because I started my morning with a high protein, high fiber, high fermented food breakfast.

    2. MR

      It makes sense because if you apply this advice, everybody, around making your gut bacteria happy, you just gave it 12 hours of rest, of needing to just take a break from the constant eating. You then, uh, made it do its happy dance with the walk, right? And the sunlight. And now the first thing that you're putting in your stomach is not something that is gonna cause all kind of gaseous... I don't even know if it's a word, but you know what I mean.

    3. AS

      (laughs) Yeah.

    4. MR

      It's not gonna make the balloon inflate. You're dropping into your stomach the things that it needs to work properly for you and stay happy. And that makes a lot of sense. Isn't that pretty amazing, what you and I just learned from Dr. Amy Shaw? And you know what? What you've listened to so far, it isn't the whole conversation. We were only just 40 minutes in with Dr. Amy Shaw, and there was already so much information that she threw at you and me. And so here's what I decided to do while I was in the studio with her. I decided, let's just hit the pause button right here. I want to give you a chance to digest this information about bloating, about how your gut works. I want you to try the three F morning routine 'cause that's a great place to start, and we got a lot more to cover with Dr. Amy Shaw, and you and I don't have time to listen to a two-hour episode. That's why we're dividing this into two different amazing episodes, and in the next episode, which is dropping right after this one, we are gonna cover so many more essential questions about your gut health. We're gonna cover, do probiotics work? Should you take one? How can you do the probiotic thing naturally? What are the steps to creating a healthy microbiome naturally, in terms of like ongoing? Does stress impact your gut health? Uh, yeah. And what can you do about it? And the burning question, which is why I reached out to Dr. Amy Shaw in the first place, Dr. Amy, what is your medical recommendation, knowing that this is not medical advice, but you know what I mean, as a doctor, how do

  22. 47:2748:49

    Dr. Shah will be back next episode for your 5-day reset plan!

    1. MR

      I do a five-day gut reset that I can follow any time I feel bloated? So guess what? The very next episode of the Mel Robbins Podcast is Dr. Amy Shaw walking you through that step by step, walking you through the five-day gut reset, and right now, you got what you need. Try the three F morning routine. Follow all the advice you just heard. Stay away from the crudites and the alcohol. Get your sleep, and by God, make sure you forward this to all your friends who are bloated and complaining about it, and be right back here when the next episode drops so we can walk through that five-day reset. And in case nobody else tells you, I'm gonna tell you, I love you, I believe in you, and I believe in your ability to create a better life. Thank you for investing this time in yourself and in your health. Thank you for spending your time with me. I love you, and I will see you and all that gorgeous gut bacteria inside you with Dr. Amy Shaw when this conversation continues in the very next episode. See you there. And thank you for being here on YouTube. One more thing, it really helps a show like ours if you subscribe, so take a second and subscribe, and I also have a recommendation. I'm sure you'd love to hear all the science about hunger and cravings. Dr. Amy Shaw is right here, and this is the video you want to watch next.

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