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Is There A Loneliness Epidemic? - Noreena Hertz | Modern Wisdom Podcast 266

Noreena Hertz is an author and economist. Even before social distancing was a word, loneliness was a huge crisis. More people than ever before feel detached in a world that's never been so connected. Expect to learn the dramatic health impacts of loneliness, the extreme lengths some people are going to in an effort to feel connected with other humans, why 16-24 year olds are at highest risk and much more... Sponsors: Get 20% discount & free shipping on your Lawnmower 3.0 at https://www.manscaped.com/ (use code MODERNWISDOM) Extra Stuff: Buy The Lonely Century - https://amzn.to/352AouB Follow Noreena on Twitter - https://twitter.com/noreenahertz Get my free Ultimate Life Hacks List to 10x your daily productivity → https://chriswillx.com/lifehacks/ To support me on Patreon (thank you): https://www.patreon.com/modernwisdom #loneliness #mentalhealth #chriswilliamson - Listen to all episodes online. Search "Modern Wisdom" on any Podcast App or click here: iTunes: https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Spotify: https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn Stitcher: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/modern-wisdom - Get in touch in the comments below or head to... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx Email: modernwisdompodcast@gmail.com

Noreena HertzguestChris Williamsonhost
Jan 7, 20211h 2mWatch on YouTube ↗

At a glance

WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT

Loneliness: Hidden Health Crisis Fueled By Tech, Cities, And Culture

  1. Economist Noreena Hertz argues that loneliness is a pervasive modern epidemic, damaging health as severely as heavy smoking and reshaping politics, work, and daily life.
  2. She defines loneliness broadly as disconnection not only from family and friends, but also from employers, governments, and wider community structures, driven by economic, technological, and cultural shifts.
  3. Social media, neoliberal individualism, hostile city design, and remote work are highlighted as major contributors, with young adults emerging as the loneliest generation despite being constantly ‘connected’.
  4. Hertz also explores emerging ‘loneliness economy’ markets (like paid cuddling) and offers remedies centered on regulation, community-building, better urban and workplace design, and intentional investments in relationships and service to others.

IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING

5 ideas

Treat loneliness as a serious health risk, not a soft feeling.

Loneliness raises heart disease risk by ~30%, dementia by ~40%, increases stroke risk, hampers recovery from illness, and physiologically keeps the body in chronic fight-or-flight, comparable in impact to smoking 15 cigarettes a day.

Recognize loneliness as both personal and political disconnection.

Hertz defines loneliness as feeling uncared for not only by close contacts, but also by employers and governments, meaning solutions must address economic, institutional, and policy factors—rather than only telling individuals to ‘socialize more’.

Reduce social media dependence to improve mental health and connection.

Research (e.g., Stanford’s Facebook study) shows that deleting social media leads to less time online overall, more in‑person interaction, and significantly lower loneliness and higher happiness—comparable to a substantial fraction of the benefit of therapy.

Design cities and workplaces around people, not just efficiency and control.

High-speed, dense cities and ‘hostile architecture’ (e.g., anti-sleep benches, teen-repelling lights and sounds) discourage lingering and interaction, while open‑plan offices and full-time remote work can paradoxically increase isolation and reduce productivity and retention.

Invest intentionally in relationships and communities beyond romantic partnerships.

A good marriage can buffer loneliness, but many relationships are bad or abusive; strong friendships, group activities (improv, sports, hobbies), and shared community spaces can provide robust, often more stable, social support.

WORDS WORTH SAVING

5 quotes

Researchers have found that loneliness is as bad for our health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.

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For me, loneliness is political as well as personal.

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We should think of social media companies as the tobacco companies of the 21st century.

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The young are the loneliest generation. The data is really clear on this.

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After this enforced social recession, our desire to be with others is going to be stronger than ever.

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Health impacts and definition of loneliness (personal and political)Role of social media and technology in amplifying lonelinessGenerational patterns: why young adults are now the loneliest groupEconomic and cultural drivers: neoliberalism, individualism, and the ‘loneliness economy’Urban design, hostile architecture, and city life as loneliness amplifiersWorkplace dynamics, remote work, and organizational consequences of lonely employeesPotential solutions: regulation, community participation, helping others, and rebuilding social spaces

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