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Why Do Young People Seem So Fragile? - Dr Jean Twenge

Dr Jean Twenge is a psychologist, Professor of Psychology at San Diego State University, generational researcher and an author. Each generation tends to view themselves as more refined than the one before them. But with Boomers, Millennials and Gen Z, something changed. Generations started to see life as easier in the past, less prosperous now and tougher to succeed. Jean has spent a career working out just why modern groups believe this, and how true it is. Expect to learn whether millennials actually did have it harder than boomers, which generation has the most robust mental health and why, the massive effect of technology across age groups, why 60% of Gen Z girls have mental health problems, why young people aren't getting their drivers' licenses, why there is such a big decline in sexual activity and alcohol and much more... Sponsors: Get a Free Sample Pack of all LMNT Flavours with your first box at https://www.drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom (automatically applied at checkout) Get 20% discount on House Of Macadamias’ nuts at https://houseofmacadamias.com/modernwisdom (use code MW20) Get 5 Free Travel Packs, Free Liquid Vitamin D and more from Athletic Greens at https://athleticgreens.com/modernwisdom (discount automatically applied) Extra Stuff: Buy Generations - https://amzn.to/40BByHr Get my free Reading List of 100 books to read before you die → https://chriswillx.com/books/ To support me on Patreon (thank you): https://www.patreon.com/modernwisdom Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 02:09 Is Gen-Z Particularly Unique? 07:18 Why Are So Many Young Girls Considering Suicide? 16:47 The Main Causes of the Mental Health Crisis 20:57 Overcoming Inherited Trauma 24:28 Managing the Rise of Addictive Technology 29:02 Why Gen-Z Take Less Risks 35:04 Young People’s Perspectives on Life 39:00 Why Women Are Having Less Kids 45:16 Millennials Feel Worse Off Financially 49:09 The Change in Education & Employment of Young People 1:03:24 How Political Stances Have Changed in Youth 1:15:35 Is There Hope for Gen-Z? 1:18:50 Where to Find Dr Twenge #millennials #boomers #genz - 00:00 Intro 02:09 Is Gen-Z Particularly Unique? 07:18 Why Are So Many Young Girls Considering Suicide? 16:47 The Main Causes of the Mental Health Crisis 20:57 Overcoming Inherited Trauma 24:28 Managing the Rise of Addictive Technology 29:02 Why Gen-Z Take Less Risks 35:04 Young People’s Perspectives on Life 39:00 Why Women Are Having Less Kids 45:16 Millennials Feel Worse Off Financially 49:09 The Change in Education & Employment of Young People 1:03:24 How Political Stances Have Changed in Youth 1:15:35 Is There Hope for Gen-Z? 1:18:50 Where to Find Dr Twenge - Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/ - Get in touch in the comments below or head to... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/

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May 3, 20231h 19mWatch on YouTube ↗

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WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT

Social Media, Safety Culture, and Why Gen Z Feels So Broken

  1. Dr. Jean Twenge discusses her cross-generational research on mental health, values, and behavior, arguing that Gen Z represents a sharp break from previous generations. She links the post-2011 spike in teen depression, self-harm, and loneliness primarily to smartphones and social media, plus their ripple effects on sleep, in‑person socializing, and life priorities. The conversation explores how technology, rising individualism, and a “slow life strategy” have reshaped adulthood, work, sex, family formation, and politics. Twenge warns about growing cynicism and negativity among young people but emphasizes that environmental changes—especially around tech use—are still within our control.

IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING

5 ideas

Post-2011 teen mental health decline aligns closely with smartphone and social media adoption.

Depression, loneliness, self-harm, and suicide began rising sharply around 2011–2012—when smartphones became common, social media turned algorithmic and ubiquitous, and teens started trading face‑to‑face time and sleep for late‑night scrolling.

Social media is more harmful than other screen time, especially for girls.

Data show stronger links between social media use and depression than for TV or gaming, particularly among girls, due to body-image pressures, quantified popularity (likes/followers), and relational bullying dynamics that are amplified online.

Technology, individualism, and a “slow life strategy” have reshaped the life course.

Longer lifespans and advanced technology make independence easier and stretch development: kids are less independent, teens delay adult milestones, young adults postpone marriage and children, and older adults stay ‘younger’ longer—creating big cross-generational misunderstandings.

Gen Z is simultaneously more risk‑averse and more fragile about emotional discomfort.

They fight less, crash cars less, and embrace safety culture, but also seek protection from upsetting ideas, leading to concepts like ‘emotional safety,’ safe spaces, disinviting speakers, and defining words as harm or violence.

Economic narratives about Millennials being uniquely ‘screwed’ often don’t match the data.

Inflation-adjusted figures show Millennials earn more than Gen X and Boomers did at the same age, and homeownership gaps are small; perceptions of hardship are fueled by online comparison, negative media narratives, and real pressures like childcare costs when both partners work.

WORDS WORTH SAVING

5 quotes

Teen depression doubled between 2011 and 2019, before the pandemic even hit.

— Jean Twenge

It was just this very sudden shift from self-confidence to depression and from optimism for Millennials to pessimism for Gen Z.

— Jean Twenge

Instagram is a platform where young women and teen girls post pictures of themselves and ask people to comment. You’re outsourcing your sense of self-worth to the world.

— Jean Twenge

If new technology is the cause of this huge rise in teen depression, that might actually be good news because we might be able to do something about it.

— Jean Twenge

There’s this thing I call the hellscape narrative—online it’s always, ‘things are worse than ever.’ Are they really?

— Jean Twenge

Cross-generational trends in mental health and well-beingImpact of smartphones and social media on teens and young adultsIndividualism, slow life strategy, and delayed adulthoodSex, relationships, fertility decline, and family formationEconomic realities versus perceptions for Millennials and Gen ZRisk aversion, safety culture, and campus/workplace dynamicsPolitical polarization, cynicism, and attitudes toward country and institutions

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