ADHD people are amazing investigators 👮 #adhd

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   ADHD as relationship “detectives”: opening claim + cheating story

   1. APAlex Partridge0:00

      People with ADHD have better investigative skills than the actual FBI when they sense something is off in their relationship. I spoke to an ADHD woman who caught a guy cheating by remembering a name she saw scrawled on a box, and two months later, he spoke to her in a weird tone, so she cross-checked that random name with his Spotify followers and uncovered a massive affair. Seriously, you don't want to mess with the intuition of an ADHD person because they have had so many corrective

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   Why the “BS radar” develops: lived experience of criticism

   1. APAlex Partridge0:31

      and nasty comments in their life, and this has given them an ability to spot nastiness and shiftiness in you. They have an inbuilt BS radar that's always subconsciously monitoring the patterns you're giving off, patterns in your communication,

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   Pattern monitoring in everyday behavior: the consistency check

   1. APAlex Partridge0:47

      patterns in your routine, patterns in your tone, even patterns in how hard or soft you close the door when you get home. So when something changes, and it can be tiny, that behavioral inconsistency will be noticed

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   The punchline: once a change is spotted, “your game is up”

   1. APAlex Partridge1:01

      and your game is up.

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