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Alex Partridge on how early ADHD masking begins and why it exhausts women.

Alex Partridgehost
Mar 12, 20260mWatch on YouTube ↗

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  1. 0:000:18

    Early-school “good sitting, good listening” pressures kick off masking

    1. SP

      Children actually start masking from very early age. When children start school at the age of four, they're expected to do good sitting and good listening. ADHD children can't do that definition of good sitting or good listening, or they can do one thing or another. They actually have to force themselves into that to be praised and reinforced and accepted.

  2. 0:180:20

    Introducing Dana Zameck as a leading ADHD consultant

    1. AP

      Dana Zameck is a world-leading ADHD consultant.

  3. 0:200:23

    Focus area: female masking and loneliness

    1. SP

      Specializing in female masking and loneliness.

  4. 0:230:25

    Impact: helping thousands of ADHD women understand themselves

    1. AP

      She has helped thousands of ADHD women-

  5. 0:250:28

    Diagnosis and self-knowledge as a foundation for clarity

    1. SP

      Understand their diagnosis and themselves.

  6. 0:280:43

    When masking happens without support: exhaustion and identity confusion

    1. SP

      If people are undiagnosed or they actually didn't have a support dealing with masking, then masking can be obviously incredibly tiring. It can be almost like incorporating a mystery identity. There is no understanding of what is going on.

  7. 0:430:50

    Questioning gender norms: do societal expectations help women mask?

    1. AP

      Do you think there's societal expectations on women generally that makes them better at masking?

  8. 0:500:52

    Dana begins to respond: unpacking the role of expectations

    1. SP

      That's a good question. Um, well-

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