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Deep Dive with Ali AbdaalThe Science of Attraction: Why You’ve Not Met Someone - Matthew Hussey (Bonus Episode)
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EPISODE INFO
- Released
- June 8, 2023
- Duration
- 53m
- Channel
- Deep Dive with Ali Abdaal
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EPISODE DESCRIPTION
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SPEAKERS
Ali Abdaal
hostDoctor-turned productivity YouTuber and podcaster, host of Deep Dive with Ali Abdaal.
Matthew Hussey
guestDating and relationship coach and author known for advice on attraction and modern dating.
EPISODE SUMMARY
In this episode of Deep Dive with Ali Abdaal, featuring Ali Abdaal and Matthew Hussey, The Science of Attraction: Why You’ve Not Met Someone - Matthew Hussey (Bonus Episode) explores Matthew Hussey Breaks Down Attraction, Dating Mistakes, and Lasting Desire Hussey describes attraction as four components, chemistry, perceived value, perceived challenge and connection, and separately as four stages of importance: admiration, chemistry, commitment and compatibility.
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