The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam GrantRethinking Leadership, Work, and Human Connection in the Age of AI | The Curiosity Shop
At a glance
WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT
How to lead, rethink beliefs, and build human connection amid AI
- Adam Grant answers audience questions on leadership, careers, and rethinking, emphasizing how leaders can invite voice without promising to adopt every suggestion.
- He distinguishes effective culture change from failed initiatives by highlighting emotion regulation, timing, message delivery, and the power of seeking a boss’s advice to build advocacy.
- He argues transformational leadership is built early through deliberate practice and a weekly feedback-seeking habit rather than waiting until one has formal authority.
- Grant shares personal “not following my own advice” moments to illustrate structured hiring (criteria, work samples) and the value of giving candidates a “do-over” to reveal learning agility.
- On AI and modern work, he predicts human-connection roles will be hardest to replace, endorses hybrid work for development, and promotes job crafting as an antidote to “that’s not my job.”
IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING
5 ideasClarify voice vs. veto: people want a say even if they don’t get their way.
Leaders should explicitly define what “having a voice” means: ideas will be considered, but adoption depends on clear screens like mission-fit, strategic feasibility, and affordability. Closing the loop by explaining decisions preserves trust even when suggestions aren’t implemented.
Over-inclusiveness can backfire when it undermines prioritization and follow-through.
Grant notes that leaders perceived as receptive to every idea can struggle to prioritize and execute, which ironically reduces progress and discourages contributors. The fix isn’t less listening—it’s better filtering, prioritization, and transparent rationale.
Make low-power voices visible; inclusion is often built from simple, repeatable cues.
Small inclusion behaviors—like eye contact and directly inviting quieter or lower-status members to challenge—can materially increase participation and psychological safety. In virtual settings, leaders can use chat prompts and explicit invitations to model productive disagreement.
To get ideas adopted, pair passion with patience and use “advice-seeking” as upward influence.
Effective change agents translate emotion into values-based action, then choose the right time, audience, and delivery. Seeking a superior’s advice can create empathy, increase ownership, and convert a potential blocker into a champion.
The early habit that predicts later leadership is active, consistent feedback-seeking.
Transformational leadership is developed long before formal authority arrives through deliberate practice and frequent feedback. A weekly habit of asking “What’s the one thing I can do better?” accelerates growth because practice without feedback stalls.
WORDS WORTH SAVING
5 quotesI reserve the right to rethink anything I say today, as always, and if I do, I think that will be a sign of growth, and if I don't, I'll be glad that I didn't completely miss the mark on everything.
— Adam Grant
People want to have a say even if they don't get their way.
— Adam Grant
I don't think leadership improves in a vacuum.
— Adam Grant
I think our highest loyalty does not belong to people or to parties. It belongs to principles.
— Adam Grant
I believe that integrity is the highest form of loyalty.
— Adam Grant
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