Dalton + MichaelHow Startup Founders Actually Get Rich (Quick?)
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Why “get rich quick” is the wrong mental model for startups
- DCDalton Caldwell
You'll know you're on the right track-
- MSMichael Seibel
Yeah
- DCDalton Caldwell
... if other people are like, "Wow, this person is doing something really interesting."
- MSMichael Seibel
Yes
- DCDalton Caldwell
And they wanna talk about it. That's a sign you're on the right track. [upbeat music]
- MSMichael Seibel
This is Dalton + Michael, and today we're gonna talk about how startup founders get rich quick. And we're gonna try-
- DCDalton Caldwell
[laughs]
- MSMichael Seibel
I was gonna say, we're gonna try to keep a straight face. We're gonna try to keep straight faces. So Dalton, what is the three-part recipe? Please deliver.
- DCDalton Caldwell
Yeah. I, I think the way I would set this up is there's the wide perception of something, and then there's the reality.
- MSMichael Seibel
Yeah.
- DCDalton Caldwell
And I think a lot of people in the world think of being a startup founder as sort of a get rich quick scheme-
- MSMichael Seibel
Yeah
- DCDalton Caldwell
... where you kinda show up and you promise some fake stuff and you wave your hands, and then somehow someone gives you a bunch of money. It's, like, really easy. [laughs]
- MSMichael Seibel
Yeah.
- DCDalton Caldwell
And it happens really fast.
- MSMichael Seibel
Happens every day.
- DCDalton Caldwell
And I think the theme of a lot of the videos that we put out over the years is to sort of dispel those myths, or at least be honest about how the sausage is made here.
- MSMichael Seibel
Yes.
- DCDalton Caldwell
And so the point of this video is, let's talk about some case studies of people that did get rich quick and what they did.
- MSMichael Seibel
Mm-hmm.
- DCDalton Caldwell
And see if there's anything actionable in there or not.
- MSMichael Seibel
Or if it was all right place, right time. I wouldn't bet my life on it.
- DCDalton Caldwell
Yeah.
- MSMichael Seibel
[laughs]
- 1:19 – 3:05
The real timeline: exits commonly take 8–12 years
- MSMichael Seibel
It's funny 'cause I, I think in my career I actually have both examples, and it's really quite funny that it happened that way. So there's Twitch, which took five years for us to even figure out what we needed to do, and then another set of years to actually sell. And there was Socialcam, which the public story is, right, like, we spun out of Justin.tv and sold within six months, right? So, like, boom, boom, boom. For me, I remember a story when I was first starting, when I was 23 years old, and we had, um, our lawyer at Wilson Sonsini, who was 30. And at first I thought, "That's impossibly old. That's-
- DCDalton Caldwell
[laughs]
- MSMichael Seibel
... you're, you're an ancient person." And the lawyer said very calmly, "Hey, just so you understand, you know, we deal with a lot of startups. We've done kind of a bit of a study, and it turns out it takes about eight to 12 years to exit your company." Something that when we say that to ourselves we're like, "Oh, that lines up." And I remember thinking, "This old 30-year-old has no idea what he's talking about. There's no way this is gonna take eight to 12 years." I've never spent eight to 12 years doing anything. [laughs]
- DCDalton Caldwell
Well, there, when you're, when you're young-
- MSMichael Seibel
College was four years.
- DCDalton Caldwell
And that's, like, impossibly long. [laughs]
- MSMichael Seibel
[laughs] And nobody does the same thing in college for four years.
- DCDalton Caldwell
No.
- MSMichael Seibel
So I just remember thinking, "Old people don't understand." I will tell you, we sold the company eight years later.
- DCDalton Caldwell
Yeah.
- MSMichael Seibel
I was then 30. [laughs] And I was like, "Ah, turns out you were right." And so I think that this idea, um, one, is so verifiably untrue, but two, to be honest, I think it's part of the reason why people get into it.
- DCDalton Caldwell
Yeah.
- MSMichael Seibel
Right? Like, let's unpack that. Like, how many people right now are in year one of their startup and they're like, "If I really knew this was eight years, I'd quit today." [laughs]
- 3:05 – 3:32
Startups feel easy—until you’re committed
- DCDalton Caldwell
Have you ever heard that old engineering saying, "We do this not because it's easy, but because we thought it would be."
- MSMichael Seibel
[laughs] Yeah.
- DCDalton Caldwell
And I think, I think that's startups. I think if I had to summarize-
- MSMichael Seibel
That's truly the whole thing. [laughs]
- DCDalton Caldwell
If I had to summarize everything about, about technology-
- MSMichael Seibel
Yes
- DCDalton Caldwell
... the, the whole industry-
- MSMichael Seibel
Yes. That's it
- DCDalton Caldwell
... is people thinking something will be easy, and then they get in and they, and they keep going for some reason. [laughs]
- 3:32 – 4:16
The dangerous shortcut mindset: hacks, flips, and misaligned incentives
- MSMichael Seibel
Well, 'cause once you're in... Well, and, and like, I don't wanna belittle this. Like, I don't think, like, I want people to do startups, right? So I'm not trying to convince everyone that startups are so hard they're not worth doing. But on the flip side, once you're doing a startup, I don't want you to lie to yourself.
- DCDalton Caldwell
Yeah.
- MSMichael Seibel
I think that's the big challenge, is, like, when you lie to yourself, you then look for shortcuts, you look for hacks. You look for ways that, like, you can get value and your customer doesn't. Because you're like, you would know logically that if this was a long-term plan it wouldn't work, but when you lie to yourself and like, "Oh, well, I could do this for a couple years, and then we'll sell. If we make $10 million we can sell really easily."
- DCDalton Caldwell
Yeah.
- MSMichael Seibel
You could tell yourself this kinda fake story. So how do you, how do you live with that duality?
- 4:16 – 4:57
The “dark secret” founders think investors don’t know
- DCDalton Caldwell
I think a lot of founders have this hidden, secret thought that they wanna hide from everyone.
- MSMichael Seibel
Uh-oh.
- DCDalton Caldwell
Especially investors.
- MSMichael Seibel
Especially invest- the parents in the room.
- DCDalton Caldwell
Um, which is they really just wanna get rich quick and sell their company fast and cash out.
- MSMichael Seibel
Yep.
- DCDalton Caldwell
And they don't actually wanna be, uh, in it for the long haul. And-
- MSMichael Seibel
The idea of IPO-ing a company-
- DCDalton Caldwell
Yeah
- MSMichael Seibel
... is the last thing on their mind.
- DCDalton Caldwell
And so they're like, "Man, I know I'm not supposed to admit this."
- MSMichael Seibel
Yeah, otherwise people wouldn't give me millions of dollars. [laughs]
- DCDalton Caldwell
"Otherwise I wouldn't be able to raise money," you know?
- MSMichael Seibel
Yeah. [laughs]
- DCDalton Caldwell
And so this is my, like... I'll, you know, maybe give me some drinks and I'll tell my friends.
- MSMichael Seibel
It's my dark secret. [laughs]
- 4:57 – 6:14
The contrarian path to getting rich faster: build real value that stands out
- DCDalton Caldwell
Yeah. And I think the perhaps surprising thing, I would say, is, oh, we know. And so here's the point, is it's actually extremely midwit to think that this is a secret-
- MSMichael Seibel
Yes
- DCDalton Caldwell
... and that your job is to pretend that you wanna build a big company and, and like, you'll fool everyone and somehow it will work out.
- MSMichael Seibel
Midwit's the exact right term, because you're better off being dumb and just assuming building a big company's easy.
- DCDalton Caldwell
[laughs]
- MSMichael Seibel
Like, like, you're actually better off than being like, "No, I found the hack." Like-
- DCDalton Caldwell
Yeah, if you're like, "Oh, I got into YC and I told them I was gonna build a big company, but I'm not."
- MSMichael Seibel
Yeah, yeah. [laughs]
- DCDalton Caldwell
Like, if you think that that's some, like, cutting edge strategy that-
- MSMichael Seibel
Yes
- DCDalton Caldwell
... like, you invented-
- MSMichael Seibel
No
- DCDalton Caldwell
... I've got news for you.
- MSMichael Seibel
Sorry.
- DCDalton Caldwell
We know.
- MSMichael Seibel
Yeah.
- DCDalton Caldwell
And so you should just accept that, and then flip this around and be that actually, if you really, genuinely, like, if you could read my mind-
- MSMichael Seibel
Mm-hmm
- DCDalton Caldwell
... and you're like, "Dalton, how would I get rich quick with a startup?" It's to do the opposite of what everyone else is doing.
- MSMichael Seibel
Yeah.
- DCDalton Caldwell
And if everyone else is trying to, like, fake their way through things and not build real value or- Be in it for the long haul. If you build real value, you stand out from the crowd. And counterintuitively, those are the people who make a lot of money really fast.
- MSMichael Seibel
Yes.
- DCDalton Caldwell
Do you get what I'm saying? Like, go ahead, man.
- 6:14 – 7:17
AI accelerates both the good and the bad—only one attracts buyers
- MSMichael Seibel
Well, I think what's so funny is that, like, AI helps and hurts. I think that, like, if you're actually trying to create real value, AI, like, makes it so you could do it faster, and that's really exciting. If you're not trying to create real value, AI makes it so you could do it really f- much faster. [laughs]
- DCDalton Caldwell
Yeah.
- MSMichael Seibel
Um, and so I think that I have certainly seen conversations where companies would want to acquire a founder in the first year-
- DCDalton Caldwell
Yes
- MSMichael Seibel
... because that founder did something extremely interesting. And I promise you that those conversations are rarely about companies that went from zero to 100 million ARR in three weeks.
- DCDalton Caldwell
Yeah. It-
- MSMichael Seibel
Like, that's not the-
- DCDalton Caldwell
It's like-
- MSMichael Seibel
... profile
- DCDalton Caldwell
... if you're just building cookie cutter slop-
- MSMichael Seibel
Yeah
- DCDalton Caldwell
... B2B agent stuff, and your plan is to, like, get rich quick, I'm just saying there is no market for that startup.
- MSMichael Seibel
No.
- DCDalton Caldwell
But if you do something truly weird or different-
- MSMichael Seibel
Yes
- DCDalton Caldwell
... that requires you putting yourself out there and really trying-
- MSMichael Seibel
Yes
- DCDalton Caldwell
... y- it's actually possible for you to get rich quick.
- 7:17 – 7:29
Acqui-hires and realistic “rich quick” outcomes (don’t over-raise)
- MSMichael Seibel
And with the proviso that you're not raising tons of money and burning tons of money, 'cause these are not... These deals we're talking about are not billion-dollar deals.
- DCDalton Caldwell
Yeah.
- MSMichael Seibel
These are, you know, acqu-hire pluses.
- 7:29 – 8:43
Case study: Bun—earned attention by shipping a respected developer tool
- DCDalton Caldwell
Yeah, I mean, to give you a couple of examples, there was a company that I was in the interview. We accepted it to YC in, like, 2020.
- MSMichael Seibel
Yeah.
- DCDalton Caldwell
And the founder was building, like, a niche social network, you know, that didn't go anywhere, and he pivoted to this thing called Bun-
- MSMichael Seibel
Oh, yeah
- DCDalton Caldwell
... which was a JavaScript runtime compiler thing.
- MSMichael Seibel
Mm-hmm.
- DCDalton Caldwell
And he would post about it constantly, and it was, like, really interesting.
- MSMichael Seibel
Yeah.
- DCDalton Caldwell
Like, he was an interesting guy doing interesting things.
- MSMichael Seibel
Yeah.
- DCDalton Caldwell
And then Anthropic bought Bun for, you know, a decent amount of money.
- MSMichael Seibel
Yeah.
- DCDalton Caldwell
And so he just... I don't know if that was quick, like four years, but basically I think he got extremely rich.
- MSMichael Seibel
Yes.
- DCDalton Caldwell
And he did the dream that I think a lot of founders secretly want, which is to get Anthropic to buy their company for 40 million or whatever in-
- MSMichael Seibel
Shares
- DCDalton Caldwell
... Anthropic shares.
- MSMichael Seibel
Mm-hmm.
- DCDalton Caldwell
How did he do it? It wasn't by, like, brainstorming on how to fool people. [laughs]
- MSMichael Seibel
No. Spamming infinite people with email.
- DCDalton Caldwell
Or, like, networking.
- MSMichael Seibel
Yeah, no.
- DCDalton Caldwell
It's that he built a really kickass JavaScript tool that earned the respect of other builders.
- MSMichael Seibel
Yeah.
- DCDalton Caldwell
Right?
- MSMichael Seibel
Yeah, yeah.
- DCDalton Caldwell
[laughs] And so he did it, guys.
- MSMichael Seibel
Yes.
- DCDalton Caldwell
Like, if you wanted, if you wanted to replicate getting acquired by Anthropic in three or four years-
- MSMichael Seibel
Yeah
- 8:43 – 9:26
A practical research tactic: study what acquirers actually buy
- MSMichael Seibel
I mean, I keep on bringing this point up in every video. You can actually just look at every public Anthropic acquisition and ask yourself the question, what did they do?
- DCDalton Caldwell
Yes.
- MSMichael Seibel
[laughs]
- DCDalton Caldwell
And, and was it a lot of networking?
- MSMichael Seibel
Yeah, yeah. Does it align-
- DCDalton Caldwell
And was it-
- MSMichael Seibel
... with what you're doing? [laughs]
- DCDalton Caldwell
[laughs] Like, what's, what is your secret strategy to get acquired? Does that look like the stuff that Anthropic's been acquiring?
- MSMichael Seibel
Like, what's so funny is we're basically saying there's alpha in just looking at the facts, because so many people are deluded. [laughs]
- DCDalton Caldwell
Yes.
- MSMichael Seibel
And, and that delusional story is so attractive, they don't wanna look at the facts. They don't wanna learn the truth. And so you can stick out even more. It's a weird thing that you can stick out even more just creating value right now.
- 9:26 – 9:46
Another example: long “overnight successes” from sustained interesting work
- DCDalton Caldwell
Yeah, and, like, think about, like, OpenClaw. It's, like, some guy in Europe-
- MSMichael Seibel
Yeah
- DCDalton Caldwell
... who was, like, an indie hacker for 10 years, and he just built this cool open source company, and then, you know, it got bought for a ton of money. I guess he got, he got rich quick.
- MSMichael Seibel
After 10 years. [laughs]
- DCDalton Caldwell
But, like-
- MSMichael Seibel
Yeah, yeah. Yeah
- DCDalton Caldwell
... you know, he was not trying to get acquired. He was just building really interesting stuff, and it happened really fast.
- 9:46 – 11:03
Best antidote: build what you like, for people you like (and pivot toward it)
- MSMichael Seibel
I'll end on this. One of the ways you can avoid this trap is to actually build something you like, build something you wanna use, or build for people and customers that you like. It's so easy to get into the, "I wanna try to figure out how to pick an idea that VCs will fund even though I hate it, but that's okay because I'll do this fast flip thing that doesn't ever happen." And you're just kinda like, you're tricking yourself here.
- DCDalton Caldwell
Yeah.
- MSMichael Seibel
It's, like, it's way easier to enjoy the thing you're doing.
- DCDalton Caldwell
And the investors know. Again, this is our point, is you're not fooling anyone. You're actually just fooling yourself-
- MSMichael Seibel
Yeah
- DCDalton Caldwell
... if that's your secret plan. Like, who are you fooling?
- MSMichael Seibel
We have, we have factored that in. And, and oftentimes what's fun, and I'll bring it back to Twitch, Twitch pivoted into the thing that Emmett actually liked. Like, even if you're running your company now, you can just pivot into the thing that you enjoy doing, and counterintuitively, you might have massively increased your chances of getting rich. [laughs]
- DCDalton Caldwell
[laughs]
- MSMichael Seibel
It's just like, it's sitting right there. [laughs] Like-
- DCDalton Caldwell
Yep.
- MSMichael Seibel
And, and how many jobs are like that? How many jobs are just like, "You know, if I came into work and just did what I wanted to do, I might win." [laughs]
- DCDalton Caldwell
Yeah. What if I ignored all authority figures-
- MSMichael Seibel
Yes
- DCDalton Caldwell
... and I just built something awesome-
- MSMichael Seibel
Yes
- DCDalton Caldwell
... with no other plan that's actually good?
- MSMichael Seibel
That actually worked. [laughs]
- DCDalton Caldwell
[laughs]
- 11:03 – 11:44
Closing signal: you’re winning when builders find it genuinely interesting
- MSMichael Seibel
Like, that works. So with that being said, um, getting rich quick happens. Don't expect it. It's not frequent. Lot of luck involved. But damn, it's so much easier when you're doing something that you like and that actually is good.
- DCDalton Caldwell
And that earns the respect of other builders. Like, basically-
- MSMichael Seibel
Yeah
- DCDalton Caldwell
... you'll know you're on the right track-
- MSMichael Seibel
Yeah
- DCDalton Caldwell
... if other people are like, "Wow, this person is doing something really interesting-
- MSMichael Seibel
Yes
- DCDalton Caldwell
... and they wanna talk about it." That's a sign you're on the right track.
- MSMichael Seibel
Excellent. All right. Great chat.
- DCDalton Caldwell
All right. Thanks, Michael. [upbeat music]
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