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Real vs Fake Startups

What is the difference between a "real" vs a "fake" startup? In this video, Dalton and Michael discuss the difference between founders doing the real work of building and talking to customers vs pretending, and offer guidance for how founders should think about role models. As Michael says, its never too late to fix! Dalton + Michael is brought to you by @Standard_Cap Dalton Caldwell on X: https://x.com/daltonc Michael Seibel on X: https://x.com/mwseibel

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  1. 0:000:21

    Why great tech still needs marketing to exist in the world

    1. DC

      I have encouraged a lot of founders building technical tools, you know, developer tools, to spend a lot of time posting about their thing and telling the world about it.

    2. MS

      Yeah.

    3. DC

      Because if no one knows that your technology exists, it's kinda game over.

    4. MS

      Yeah.

    5. DC

      And the, the, the best technologies are good at marketing, whether you admit it or not. [upbeat music]

  2. 0:210:42

    Setting up the debate: what “real vs fake startups” means

    1. MS

      Welcome to Dalton + Michael. Today we're gonna talk about real startups versus fake startups. In this video, I'm gonna say nice things, and Dalton's gonna make people mad. [laughs]

    2. DC

      [laughs] I hope not.

    3. MS

      What, what is the definition? I hear [laughs] there's a guy-

    4. DC

      Yeah.

    5. MS

      What's the definition of a fake startup? [laughs]

    6. DC

      Oh, okay. So you're setting me up.

    7. MS

      [laughs] I mean, I might be setting you up.

  3. 0:421:33

    Caricature of a fake startup: fundraising and status as the product

    1. DC

      Let's start with the extremes.

    2. MS

      Let's-

    3. DC

      Right? Like, with the cartoonish extremes.

    4. MS

      Yes.

    5. DC

      So a cartoonishly extreme fake startup-

    6. MS

      Yes

    7. DC

      ... is a startup that never builds a product and never writes any code.

    8. MS

      Nope.

    9. DC

      It hires lots of people.

    10. MS

      Some-

    11. DC

      The founders are on the 30 Under 30 list somehow.

    12. MS

      [laughs] Somehow.

    13. DC

      [laughs]

    14. MS

      That was a, that was a high priority. [laughs]

    15. DC

      Some- somehow that's their main work product.

    16. MS

      [laughs]

    17. DC

      The founders have raised money-

    18. MS

      Yeah

    19. DC

      ... despite never having, um, shipped a product or any customers.

    20. MS

      Yes. Yeah.

    21. DC

      Basically, it's almost like performance art. It's like if you had a modern artist be, like, trying to, to, to disassemble the startup culture-

    22. MS

      Yes

    23. DC

      ... in some edgy way.

    24. MS

      Yes.

    25. DC

      That's a fake startup.

    26. MS

      Yes. I like that, performance art. It's like Hamilton on stage versus actually being there.

    27. DC

      Yeah, the whole thing is a performance.

    28. MS

      [laughs] Yeah. Yes, yes.

    29. DC

      It's not real.

  4. 1:332:25

    Caricature of a real startup: ultra-technical builders who ‘don’t do sales’

    1. MS

      So what's a real startup?

    2. DC

      So-

    3. MS

      Or the cartoonish version of it.

    4. DC

      The cartoonish version of a real startup is where, you know, everyone is working 9:00 to 6:00.

    5. MS

      Yep.

    6. DC

      And it's only programmers. There's not a single non-technical person in the business.

    7. MS

      Nope.

    8. DC

      And they're all writing Rust.

    9. MS

      Yes.

    10. DC

      And maybe not even Rust. They're, they're writing their own programming language.

    11. MS

      To start, obviously.

    12. DC

      To start, of course.

    13. MS

      Yes.

    14. DC

      Um-

    15. MS

      'Cause it's gotta scale. [laughs]

    16. DC

      [laughs] They can't be bothered to do all sorts of things. They're just, like, super hardcore.

    17. MS

      Yeah.

    18. DC

      They're super focused, and-

    19. MS

      Don't have to do any sales.

    20. DC

      They don't have to do any sales.

    21. MS

      Yes.

    22. DC

      It's all self-service.

    23. MS

      Yes.

    24. DC

      And I dunno, like, I think back in our day when we were early founders, Google was, like, the textbook example that I was taught of, like-

    25. MS

      Mm

    26. DC

      ... what real is. Just being hardcore. Right?

    27. MS

      Yeah. Like, they look at your SAT scores when they're trying to recruit you.

    28. DC

      'Cause everything about Google-

    29. MS

      Yeah, yeah, yeah

    30. DC

      ... w- my memory as a founder was-

  5. 2:253:07

    Reality check: even iconic ‘technical’ companies are great at sales

    1. MS

      Yeah. These are clear caricatures, right? Right, like-

    2. DC

      Yeah.

    3. MS

      Y- Goo- y- you know, perfect example, Google's like one of the best sales companies in the world.

    4. DC

      Yes.

    5. MS

      I mean, they have an advertising business, [laughs] right? Or, like, Stripe, which is perceived as this just, like, oh, self-serve thing, and it's like-

    6. DC

      They have some good-

    7. MS

      ... one of the best enterprise-

    8. DC

      [laughs]

    9. MS

      ... software payments companies in the world. I think this real versus fake startup thing is interesting because we interact with a lot of founders who aren't taking a sober look at whether they're taking a real shot at the startup game or not. What do you think causes someone to kind of, kinda slide into the fake side? 'Cause the problem with fake is, like, if you're not taking a real shot, this is so hard if you're taking a real shot on goal. If you're not even taking a real shot on goal, you're kinda wasting time.

  6. 3:073:55

    How founders slide into fake: copying startup culture and ‘cargo cult’ behavior

    1. DC

      That's such a great question. Let's try to make the most, um, charitable explanation of someone that's doing what might-

    2. MS

      Yeah

    3. DC

      ... seem like a fake startup.

    4. MS

      Yeah.

    5. DC

      I think that humans are social animals. The way we learn things is we look around the room and we try to see... You know, if you, if you go to a new culture, and you're like, "Okay, everyone's wearing this kinda-

    6. MS

      Yeah

    7. DC

      ... hat, and-"

    8. MS

      Everyone takes their shoes off.

    9. DC

      "Okay, I saw..."

    10. MS

      Yeah, yeah.

    11. DC

      You just kinda, like, go through the motions.

    12. MS

      Yes.

    13. DC

      And so I think some of the most unintentionally funny, uh, performative startups-

    14. MS

      Mm

    15. DC

      ... might be someone that's just, like-

    16. MS

      Just-

    17. DC

      They're like a merchant that's just trying to pretend. [laughs]

    18. MS

      If you're almost consuming startup culture solely on Twitter-

    19. DC

      Yeah

    20. MS

      ... like, depending on who you're following, you might just be cargo culting this thing that looks like startups, but it's-

    21. DC

      Right

    22. MS

      ... completely not.

    23. DC

      And you're like, "Wait, I thought this was..." [laughs]

    24. MS

      [laughs]

    25. DC

      But you don't realize you're doing it. You're just trying to go along with what everyone else seems like they're doing.

    26. MS

      Yes.

    27. DC

      And no one's told you otherwise.

  7. 3:555:17

    Poor starting conditions + urgency: grit misapplied becomes fakery

    1. MS

      I see people slip into fake startups when they have poor starting conditions, but high urgency.

    2. DC

      Mm.

    3. MS

      So it's like I've got these poor starting conditions, and maybe I'm in the wrong place. Maybe I can't work full time. Maybe I don't know a technical co-found- Like, all these kinda, like, kinda non-ideal starting conditions. Like, you know, Dalton, that soil is full of rocks, and it's, nothing's growing in it. And instead of asking themselves the question, "How do I fertilize that soil? How do I improve my starting conditions?" They kinda tell themselves grit alone can, can overcome any starting condition. So yeah, I don't have technical co-founders. Let me just pay for a contractor to build the V1.

    4. DC

      Yep.

    5. MS

      Or yeah, I don't know what I'm doing yet, but let me put together a pitch deck and try to ra- Like, it's just kind of like grit will see me through. And grit's important. But oftentimes I'm telling founders, like, use the grit to improve your starting conditions. It's a lot more efficient use of grit, you know? It's like-

    6. DC

      Yeah

    7. MS

      ... do high-leverage work. Improving your sharp condition, starting conditions, is often high-leverage work. You know, that's why we tell people to come to the Bay Area.

    8. DC

      Yes.

    9. MS

      Like, all things being equal, your starting conditions are better here. I feel for the people who slip into fake 'cause sometimes I think they're slipping into fake because they don't have any interest in winning, right? They just wanna be part of the game and look cool. But more often, I think they slip into fake because they feel as though they have to start right now.

    10. DC

      Yeah.

    11. MS

      That's true.

  8. 5:176:04

    Rituals aren’t the cause: offices, hires, and meetings won’t summon Google

    1. DC

      It's, again, it, you, you said the term cargo culting.

    2. MS

      Yeah.

    3. DC

      You know, to recap, if you wanna-

    4. MS

      Yeah

    5. DC

      ... anyone out there wants to look up what a cargo cult is, it's where you would, like, performatively do something and expect it-

    6. MS

      [laughs]

    7. DC

      ... to have, like, a magical outcome. I don't know. You can-

    8. MS

      Yes

    9. DC

      ... read the history of that on your own time, but it's-

    10. MS

      Yes

    11. DC

      ... pretty fascinating.

    12. MS

      Yes.

    13. DC

      And so it'd be like, okay, let's rent an office.

    14. MS

      Yes. We can do that.

    15. DC

      Let's hire people and-

    16. MS

      Yes

    17. DC

      ... put them in the office.

    18. MS

      Yes.

    19. DC

      And let's do investor meetings.

    20. MS

      Yes.

    21. DC

      That's what a startup is, right?

    22. MS

      Right. If we put those three things together, Google pops out, right? Yeah.

    23. DC

      Yeah. Like, it's, it's sort of, like, superficially-

    24. MS

      Yeah

    25. DC

      ... building infrastructure without, with missing the point that the reason Google worked wasn't that they had pastel-colored balls. [laughs]

    26. MS

      Served lunch. [laughs]

    27. DC

      Served lunch. That, those might be important parts. It was that they built a really good search engine-

    28. MS

      Yes

    29. DC

      ... was actually the higher order bit.

  9. 6:047:12

    Why YC advice often emphasizes sales: it’s targeted at builder-heavy teams

    1. MS

      Yeah. Yes. What I have found at YC is, like, you know-We tend to pick real startups, right?

    2. DC

      We do our best.

    3. MS

      We do our best. We tend to pick startups that are probably more on the, "I wanna put my head down and build developer tools" than on the, "I wanna raise infinite money and what is software again?" As a result, our advice is probably more, let's call it sales and revenue-oriented than people would expect. How do you think about that? Like, who, who are we actually talking to when we're giving that advice?

    4. DC

      Advice is most helpful when it's something that you never would've done on your own.

    5. MS

      Yeah.

    6. DC

      Like, if we're just telling you to do stuff you would've already done-

    7. MS

      Yeah

    8. DC

      ... that's not useful. Like, what was that, did you see the, the tweet recently where it was, like, Ben Horowitz was like, "Oh, some VC told me to hold- only hire A players," and I'm like, "Thanks, dumbass. That never would've occurred to me. Only hire A players. That's amazing advice. I was gonna-

    9. MS

      I was gonna hire A. [laughs]

    10. DC

      Yeah. [laughs] So, so basically, if you're just telling people shit they're already gonna do-

    11. MS

      Yeah

    12. DC

      ... that's not that useful.

    13. MS

      Yes.

    14. DC

      But telling people things that they never would've cooked up on their own-

    15. MS

      Yes

    16. DC

      ... or that they sort of need inspiration or a pep talk to do-

    17. MS

      Yes

    18. DC

      ... is actually pretty important.

    19. MS

      Yes.

  10. 7:128:01

    Marketing as the transformation for technical founders (and examples that prove it)

    1. DC

      And so when we take some super technical teams and we're like, "No, you should, you should hire salespeople-"

    2. MS

      Yeah, or you should sell yourself.

    3. DC

      Yeah.

    4. MS

      Go out in front of top customers and sell.

    5. DC

      That's transformative.

    6. MS

      Yeah.

    7. DC

      And so you'll notice at the beginning of this talk, we were talking about the extremes. I have encouraged a lot of founders building technical tools, you know, developer tools, to spend a lot of time posting about their thing and telling the world about it, because if no one knows that your technology exists, it's kinda game over.

    8. MS

      Yeah.

    9. DC

      And the, the, the best technologies are good at marketing whether you admit it or not, and that Stripe is great at marketing whether you're aware of it or not.

    10. MS

      Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.

    11. DC

      Google is great at marketing.

    12. MS

      Mm-hmm.

    13. DC

      And, you know, um, some of my newer startups like, like PostHog-

    14. MS

      Yeah

    15. DC

      ... they do a lot of developer marketing-

    16. MS

      Yeah

    17. DC

      ... and that's why people have heard of it.

    18. MS

      Yeah.

    19. DC

      They couldn't just, like, wait in the ivory tower for people to hear about PostHog. They have to market the heck out of that thing.

  11. 8:018:43

    Myths about winners mislead founders; real job is improving what’s unnatural

    1. MS

      I think that there are myths created about startups that people kind of model themselves after. Like, oh, like, you know, Google didn't do any marketing, this guy didn't do this, this guy didn't do that, this was always self-serve forever. And kind of when you take the startup that, the company you think has won, and you create a myth about it that's not true-

    2. DC

      Yeah

    3. MS

      ... and then that's where you set your North Star, you've really screwed yourself, right? You've really screwed yourself, and I think that you make a really great point. The best companies, our whole job is to get them to be better at some of the things that don't come naturally.

    4. DC

      'Cause on the stuff that comes naturally, they're good.

    5. MS

      Yeah.

    6. DC

      You got it.

    7. MS

      Yes.

    8. DC

      Like, just keep doing what you're doing.

    9. MS

      Yes.

    10. DC

      Like, good work.

    11. MS

      And if we're in there saying, like, "You should really build better software," like-

    12. DC

      Yeah

  12. 8:439:02

    Closing: if you’re in the fake camp, change your approach

    1. MS

      ... we probably made a mistake. All right. That's Real versus Fake Startups. If you find yourself in the fake camp-

    2. DC

      Do something about it.

    3. MS

      Cheers.

    4. DC

      All right. Thanks, Mike. [outro music]

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