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Israel Adesanya: Becoming World Champion Was The Lowest Day Of My Life!

Israel Adesanya is the reigning UFC Middleweight champion, and one of the meanest fighters in the world right now. An international phenomenon, Israel brings us the exclusive on his path to the top like he’s never told it before. This weeks episode entitled 'Israel Adesanya: Becoming World Champion Was The Lowest Day Of My Life' topics: 0:00 Intro 04:28 Your early years 14:23 Impostor syndrome 18:38 Your great depression 29:59 Do you worry about what happens after all this is over? 34:11 How have you dealt with fame 37:18 Social media mob mentality 42:45 Being cancelled 51:54 How do you balance personal life and work? 59:47 Keeping the right people around you 01:08:05 What drives you now? 01:14:51 Are you happy? 01:25:23 The last guests question Isreal: https://twitter.com/stylebender https://www.instagram.com/stylebender/ Listen on: Apple podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-diary-of-a-ceo-by-steven-bartlett/id1291423644 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/7iQXmUT7XGuZSzAMjoNWlX FOLLOW ► Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/steven/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/SteveBartlettSC Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/steven-bartlett-56986834/ Sponsors: Huel - https://my.huel.com/Steven Craftd - https://bit.ly/3LLgrwj

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Mar 17, 20221h 28mWatch on YouTube ↗

CHAPTERS

  1. 0:00 – 5:30

    Origins, The Walkout, And Gambling With Pressure

    Steven Bartlett introduces Israel Adesanya and they dive straight into his iconic walkout against Robert Whittaker. Adesanya explains how the choreographed entrance was both self‑expression and a way to divert his mind from overthinking the fight, even though it dramatically raised the stakes on a massive stage.

  2. 5:30 – 18:40

    Nigeria To New Zealand: Racism, Bullying, And Fitting In

    Adesanya describes emigrating from Nigeria through Ghana to New Zealand and the shock of suddenly being ‘the Black kid’ and an outsider. Early academic confidence contrasted with racial abuse, bullying and social fear, pushing him toward invisibility and deep people‑pleasing tendencies.

  3. 18:40 – 31:30

    People‑Pleaser To Self‑Possessed: Unlearning Childhood Survival Strategies

    Reflecting on childhood, Adesanya identifies how trying to be accepted in a new country turned him into a chronic people pleaser. He explains how this coping mechanism leaks into adult life until you consciously examine your trauma and learn to prioritize your own values over others’ approval.

  4. 31:30 – 42:30

    Imposter Syndrome, McLarens, And Deserving Success

    Despite global success, Adesanya admits to bouts of imposter syndrome, illustrated by guilt over buying a McLaren after becoming champion. Negative comments from within his own gym made him feel undeserving until he reframed the situation around what he’d undeniably earned.

  5. 42:30 – 52:40

    Debut Highs, Emotional Crashes, And Discovering Therapy

    Adesanya recounts the aftermath of his UFC debut: huge success followed by unexpected sadness once the noise stopped. Recognizing this emotional crash as dangerous, he sought therapy and mental tools to manage the rollercoaster of fame and competition.

  6. 52:40 – 1:01:40

    2013: Depression, Broken Jaw, And Rediscovering Purpose In Fighting

    Looking back, Adesanya marks 2013 as his ‘Great Depression’—a period of injury, financial stress, and relationship breakdown. A broken jaw sidelined him from fighting and stripped away his sense of purpose until he finally returned to the ring and remembered who he was.

  7. 1:01:40 – 1:11:40

    Masculinity, Martial Arts, And Purpose For Young Men

    Adesanya and Bartlett discuss male suicide, purposelessness, and the role gyms and martial arts can play in giving young men healthy outlets. Israel frames combat sports as a way to tame the inner ‘beast’ while civilizing the mind.

  8. 1:11:40 – 1:26:40

    Fame, Attention, And Watching It From The Outside

    The conversation turns to the surreal mechanics of fame: fake celebrity, clout‑chasing, paparazzi, and social media mobs. Adesanya describes fame as something happening outside of him that he observes, and warns that attention is now the main social currency.

  9. 1:26:40 – 1:50:00

    Cancel Culture, Authenticity, And Refusing The Saint Role

    Adesanya explains how he navigates cancel culture by refusing to present a sanitized image. He recounts clashes with media over his language and branding, and rejects the expectation that athletes must be role models for other people’s children.

  10. 1:50:00 – 2:16:40

    Privacy, Relationships, And The Cost Of Exposure

    Adesanya draws a hard line around his romantic life and future children, citing how the public ‘builds you up to tear you down.’ He gives examples of intrusive fan behavior and why he keeps parts of his life completely off‑limits.

  11. 2:16:40 – 2:30:00

    Boundaries, Fans, And Saying No Without Guilt

    Having once tried to match every fan’s energy, Adesanya now protects his emotional bandwidth. He outlines when he’ll engage, when he won’t, and why respecting his ‘no’ is non‑negotiable.

  12. 2:30:00 – 2:37:20

    Day Ones, Yes‑Men, And Staying Grounded

    Adesanya credits his long‑term friends with keeping him grounded and checking his worst ideas. He’s wary of yes‑men and purposely surrounds himself with people who knew him long before fame.

  13. 2:37:20 – 2:52:20

    School, Future Kids, And Designing A Different Life

    Adesanya outlines his unconventional vision for raising children: minimal traditional schooling, heavy emphasis on movement and socialization, and many real‑world adventures. He criticizes school as outdated worker‑training and describes how grades can warp self‑worth.

  14. 2:52:20 – 3:09:20

    Manifestation, Ego, And Legacy As Immortality

    In the final stretch, Adesanya explains his belief in manifestation and why legacy matters so deeply to him. He wants the name ‘Adesanya’ to be eternally synonymous with greatness and for people to remember not just his wins, but how he made them feel.

  15. 3:09:20

    Happiness, Impermanence, And Final Reflections

    Prompted by questions left by previous guests, Adesanya reflects on happiness, its fleeting nature, and why he no longer braces for the next bad thing. He closes by reaffirming his commitment to authenticity and protecting the parts of his life that aren’t for public consumption.

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