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Excellent Advice For Living: 79 Maxims from a Wise Old Man

On his 68th birthday, Kevin Kelly began to write down for his young adult children some things he had learned about life that he wished he had known earlier. Kelly’s timeless advice covers an astonishing range, from right living to setting ambitious goals, optimizing generosity, and cultivating compassion. Excellent Advice for Living is the ideal companion for anyone seeking to navigate life with grace and creativity: https://amzn.to/4adhQd7 Episode sponsors: ⁠ Ramp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ gives you everything you need to control spend, watch your costs, and optimize your financial operations —all on a single platform. Make history's greatest entrepreneurs proud ⁠⁠⁠by going to Ramp and learning how they can help your business control your costs and save time and money.⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://ramp.com Automate compliance, security, and trust with Vanta.⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Vanta helps you win trust, close deals, and stay secure—faster and with less effort⁠⁠⁠⁠. ⁠⁠⁠Find out how increased security leads to more customers by going to Vanta⁠⁠⁠. Tell them David from Founders sent you and you'll get $1000 off. https://www.vanta.com/founders Collateral⁠⁠ transforms your complex ideas into compelling narratives. Collateral crafts institutional grade marketing collateral for private equity, private credit, real estate, venture capital, family offices, hedge funds, oil & gas companies, and all kinds of corporations. Storytelling is one of the highest forms of leverage and you should invest heavily in it. You can do that by going to ⁠⁠https://collateral.com Some of my favorite quotes from the episode: 1. Choose to believe that the entire universe is conspiring behind your back to make you a success. 2. Mastering the view through the eyes of others will unlock many doors. 3. If you can avoid seeking the approval of others your power is limitless. 4. The reward for good work is more work. 5. Don’t be the best. Be the only. 6. The urgent is a tyrant. The important should be your king. 7. Find smart people who will disagree with you. 8. The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing. 9. The most counterintuitive truth of the universe is that the more you give to others the more you'll get. 10. Life gets better as you replace transactions with relationships. 11. Courtesy costs nothing. 12. Life lessons will be presented to you in the order they are needed. 13. Cultivate an allergy to average. 14. If you repeated what you did today 365 more times would you be where you want to be next year? 15. If you are alive that means you still have lessons to learn. 16. Master something.Through mastery of one thing you'll command a viewpoint to steadily find where your bliss is. 17. Trust is earned in drops and lost in buckets. 18. First, always ask for what you want. Works in relationships, business, life. 19. If nobody else does what you do you won't need a resume. 20. How to apologize: quickly, specifically, sincerely. 21. You choose to be lucky by believing that any setbacks are just temporary. 22. The best way to advise people is to find out what they really want to do and then advise them to do it. 23. It is certain that 99% of the stuff you are anxious about won't happen. 24. What is important is not what happened to you but what you did about what happened to you. 25. Your golden ticket is being able to see things from other people's point of view. 26. Pay attention to who you are around when you feel best. Be with them more often. 27. To get your message across follow this formula: simplify, simplify, simplify, then exaggerate. 28. You will thrive more when you promote what you love rather than bash what you hate. 29. To be interesting just tell your own story with uncommon honesty. 30. When you truly think for yourself your conclusions will not be predictable. 31. Don’t measure your life with someone else’s ruler. 32. For maximum results focus on your biggest opportunities, not your biggest problems. 33. Pay attention to what you pay attention to. 34. Do more of what looks like work to others but is play for you. 35. Don't bother fighting the old just build the new. 36. Don't compare your inside to someone else's outside. 37. When you are stuck explain your problem to others. 38. It is useful to organize your thoughts with someone you trust and admire. 39. Most stories are improved significantly if you delete the first page. Start with the action. 40. A long game will compound small gains that will be able to overcome even big mistakes. 41. Constantly search for overlapping areas of agreement and dwell there. 42. It is your destiny to work on things that only you can do. 43. Make stuff that is good for people to have. 44. You'll get 10 times better results by elevating good behavior rather than punishing bad behavior. 45. Life is not a straight line for anyone. 46. Aim for tasks that you never want to stop doing.

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Jan 25, 202637mWatch on YouTube ↗

At a glance

WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT

David Senra Walks Through Kevin Kelly's Maxims and Connects Them to Founders

  1. David Senra says he read Kevin Kelly's book in one sitting after finding it on a friend's Instagram story, then goes through his highlights and notes, noting that Kelly describes the bits as compressed, timeless advice he wished he'd known earlier.
  2. Many maxims about habits, deadlines, persistence and small daily gains are reinforced with examples from Ed Catmull, Christopher Nolan, Rockefeller, Kobe Bryant and Steve Jobs.
  3. A recurring theme Senra points out is seeing things from other people's perspective, along with kindness, forgiveness, gratitude, taking responsibility and giving more than you take.
  4. Senra links Kelly's advice on protecting new ideas, customer obsession, incentives and simple ideas to Charles Kettering, Henry Ford, David Ogilvy, Jeff Bezos and Charlie Munger.
  5. The episode closes with maxims on long-term thinking, rest and Sabbaths, trust, imagination and lifelong learning, plus sponsor reads for Ramp, Vanta and Collateral.

IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING

5 ideas

Deadlines accelerate creativity

Senra cites Ed Catmull's point that without a cut-by date people justify more time and money, and Christopher Nolan's view that a real deadline forces decisions.

Habit removes self-negotiation

Kelly's maxim says a habit takes an action out of negotiation with yourself, which Senra illustrates with Kobe Bryant writing out his summer training plan so he wouldn't bargain his way out of hard parts.

Understanding the other person's perspective is a master key

Senra notes that many of Kelly's maxims, from understanding what yes means in a negotiation to being curious about someone's view, come down to putting yourself in other people's shoes.

New ideas need protection from judgment

Kelly says to separate creating from improving, and Senra backs this with Kettering, Catmull, Henry Ford and Ogilvy, who all describe early ideas as fragile and needing nurturing.

Take responsibility and release grudges

Kelly's advice to own mistakes and forgive others is tied by Senra to Charlie Munger's view of admitting errors bluntly, and to the idea that hatred only poisons the hater.

WORDS WORTH SAVING

5 quotes

I think the world has enough critics, that we need more evangelists.

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The best way to get to understand somebody, the best way to get what you want, the best way to build a relationship is to put yourself in other people's shoes.

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they're all playing an infinite game in their own way. They're not measuring their life with someone else's ruler.

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I took the harder, better route, the route I should have taken to begin with, and that wouldn't have happened if I didn't find smart people that will disagree with me.

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by trying to explain what I learned from reading to somebody else, I actually understand it deeper.

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Habits over inspirationDeadlines and creative constraintsSeeing through others' eyesKindness, forgiveness and gratitudeProtecting fragile new ideasCompounding small gains and the long gameRest, Sabbaths and focus

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