Three Ways to Respond to "I Hate You"

Parenting with a partner who is skeptical or disagrees with your approach is hard and tiring. It's also common. This week, Dr. Becky addresses the challenges of parenting with a skeptical partner and gives tools for how co-parents can learn to speak the same language. Get the Good Inside App by Dr. Becky: https://bit.ly/3DHHbhy Follow Dr. Becky on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbeckyatgoodinside Sign up for our weekly email, Good Insider: https://www.goodinside.com/newsletter Order Dr. Becky's book, Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be, at goodinside.com/book or wherever you order your books. For a full transcript of the episode, go to goodinside.com/podcast To listen to Dr. Becky's TED Talk on repair visit https://www.ted.com/talks/becky_kennedy_the_single_most_important_parenting_strategy Today’s episode is brought to you by Airbnb: Let's be honest: parenting is expensive, especially around the holidays. And Dr. Becky hears all the time from parents that there are so many things they want to do that just don't fit into their budget, and it can feel kind of powerless. And then, once the holidays are over, they still end up having spent more than they usually do and feel stressed and behind. So now that the holidays are behind us, she wants to share an idea for a way to make some extra income in 2025…Hosting on Airbnb. Being an Airbnb host means that you are providing another family with an amazing experience— because I know you've created your home with a family in mind—and it's a great way to earn some extra money for all the different things you want to do this year. Your home might be worth more than you think. Find out how much at Airbnb dot com slash host. Today’s episode is brought to you by Mommy's Bliss: The season of germs is upon us. That’s why Dr. Becky loves Mommy’s Bliss: they offer the first Clean Label Project Certified line of pain and fever medicine for Infants and Kids, as well as safe and gentle organic cough syrups. Whether your kid is struggling with a cough, a fever, or the flu, Mommy’s Bliss has a product that isn’t just safe for them–it’s also made for them. That means free of dyes, artificial flavors and corn syrups. Because when your kid isn’t feeling well, you want something that’s going to give you peace of mind and bring them relief so your family can get back to your daily routine! You can find Mommy’s Bliss at major drugstores and retailers where you shop for your family’s health. Learn more about the upcoming Effective Alternatives to Punishments workshop: https://bit.ly/4g2tKGD

Dr. Becky Kennedyhost

Feb 11, 202532mWatch on YouTube ↗

EPISODE INFO

Released: February 11, 2025
Duration: 32m
Channel: Good Inside with Dr. Becky
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EPISODE DESCRIPTION

Parenting with a partner who is skeptical or disagrees with your approach is hard and tiring. It's also common. This week, Dr. Becky addresses the challenges of parenting with a skeptical partner and gives tools for how co-parents can learn to speak the same language. Get the Good Inside App by Dr. Becky: https://bit.ly/3DHHbhy Follow Dr. Becky on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbeckyatgoodinside Sign up for our weekly email, Good Insider: https://www.goodinside.com/newsletter Order Dr. Becky's book, Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be, at goodinside.com/book or wherever you order your books. For a full transcript of the episode, go to goodinside.com/podcast To listen to Dr. Becky's TED Talk on repair visit https://www.ted.com/talks/becky_kennedy_the_single_most_important_parenting_strategy Today’s episode is brought to you by Airbnb: Let's be honest: parenting is expensive, especially around the holidays. And Dr. Becky hears all the time from parents that there are so many things they want to do that just don't fit into their budget, and it can feel kind of powerless. And then, once the holidays are over, they still end up having spent more than they usually do and feel stressed and behind. So now that the holidays are behind us, she wants to share an idea for a way to make some extra income in 2025…Hosting on Airbnb. Being an Airbnb host means that you are providing another family with an amazing experience— because I know you've created your home with a family in mind—and it's a great way to earn some extra money for all the different things you want to do this year. Your home might be worth more than you think. Find out how much at Airbnb dot com slash host. Today’s episode is brought to you by Mommy's Bliss: The season of germs is upon us. That’s why Dr. Becky loves Mommy’s Bliss: they offer the first Clean Label Project Certified line of pain and fever medicine for Infants and Kids, as well as safe and gentle organic cough syrups. Whether your kid is struggling with a cough, a fever, or the flu, Mommy’s Bliss has a product that isn’t just safe for them–it’s also made for them. That means free of dyes, artificial flavors and corn syrups. Because when your kid isn’t feeling well, you want something that’s going to give you peace of mind and bring them relief so your family can get back to your daily routine! You can find Mommy’s Bliss at major drugstores and retailers where you shop for your family’s health. Learn more about the upcoming Effective Alternatives to Punishments workshop: https://bit.ly/4g2tKGD

SPEAKERS

Dr. Becky Kennedy
host
Clinical psychologist and parenting expert, host of Good Inside.

EPISODE SUMMARY

In this episode of Good Inside with Dr. Becky, featuring Dr. Becky Kennedy, Three Ways to Respond to "I Hate You" explores align with a common parenting language, not perfect agreement Skeptical co-parents often care deeply about kids’ futures, and skepticism can be treated as a near-cousin of curiosity rather than opposition.

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