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The Biology of Social Interactions & Emotions | Dr. Kay Tye

In this episode, my guest is Dr. Kay Tye, PhD, Professor of Systems Neurobiology at the Salk Institute for Biological Studies and a Howard Hughes Medical Institute (HHMI) Investigator. We discuss the neural circuit basis of social interactions and loneliness. We also discuss how animals and people establish themselves in a group hierarchy by rank and how the brain responds to dominance and subordination. Much of our discussion relates to how social media impacts our sense of social connectedness or lack thereof. The topics covered in this episode are directly relevant to anyone interested in the neuroscience of mental health, work-life balance, abundance versus scarcity mindset, and interpersonal dynamics. Thank you to our sponsors AG1: https://drinkag1.com/huberman Eight Sleep: https://eightsleep.com/huberman Levels: https://levels.link/huberman LMNT: https://drinklmnt.com/huberman InsideTracker: https://insidetracker.com/huberman Momentous: https://livemomentous.com/huberman Huberman Lab Social & Website Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hubermanlab Threads: https://www.threads.net/@hubermanlab Twitter: https://twitter.com/hubermanlab Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hubermanlab TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hubermanlab LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrew-huberman Website: https://www.hubermanlab.com Newsletter: https://www.hubermanlab.com/newsletter Dr. Kay Tye Academic profile: https://www.salk.edu/scientist/kay-tye Lab website: https://tyelab.org HHMI profile: https://www.hhmi.org/scientists/kay-tye Publications: https://tyelab.org/publications TED talk: https://www.ted.com/speakers/kay_tye X: https://twitter.com/kaymtye Journal Articles Input-specific control of reward and aversion in the ventral tegmental area: https://go.nature.com/3ubT3nT Extraneous factors in judicial decisions: https://bit.ly/3SLZiqL Total social isolation in monkeys: https://bit.ly/4bmL1Jo Dorsal Raphe Dopamine Neurons Represent the Experience of Social Isolation: https://bit.ly/4bAKtjk Neural mechanisms of social homeostasis: https://bit.ly/3OvNGXp The neural circuitry of social homeostasis: Consequences of acute versus chronic social isolation: https://bit.ly/48WjRYa Cortical ensembles orchestrate social competition through hypothalamic outputs: https://go.nature.com/4bmL73I Other Resources The Eisenhower Matrix: How to prioritize your to-do list: https://asana.com/resources/eisenhower-matrix Chimp Empire (Netflix series): https://www.netflix.com/title/81311783 Advice for a Young Investigator: https://amzn.to/3HO6tJU NIH Human Connectome Project (HCP): https://neuroscienceblueprint.nih.gov/human-connectome/connectome-programs People Mentioned S.M.: patient with bilateral amygdala damage: https://w.wiki/5N3g Harry Harlow: Psychologist, known for his social isolation experiments in monkeys: https://w.wiki/9562 Markus Meister: Professor of Biological Science at Caltech: https://bit.ly/3Osn3Ta Ben Barres: Neuroscientist at Stanford: https://stan.md/3HMBxtl Timestamps 00:00:00 Dr. Kay Tye 00:02:39 Sponsors: Eight Sleep, Levels & LMNT 00:06:40 Amygdala; “Valence” 00:12:43 Novelty; Reward & Punishment Response 00:20:06 Amygdala & Hunger; Social Interaction 00:26:21 Social Media & Social Connection; Tool: Email & Time Management 00:35:03 Sponsor: AG1 00:36:30 Social Media; Friction & Feedback, Leadership 00:43:44 Social Isolation, Harlow Experiments, “Loneliness Neurons” 00:51:47 Social Homeostasis, COVID-19 Pandemic & Loneliness 01:01:29 Quality of Social Contact, Social Homeostasis, Social Media 01:08:40 Sponsor: InsideTracker 01:09:42 Social Media, Relationships; Social Isolation & Exclusion 01:18:26 Empathy: Friend vs. Foe 01:28:40 Background & Empathy, Diversity, Emotional Regulation 01:34:34 Abundance vs. Scarcity Mindset 01:37:22 Social Rank & Hierarchy, Sibling Order, Development 01:45:54 Dynamic Hierarchy; Dominants vs. Subordinates; Mentors 01:55:32 Psychedelics: Research & Mechanisms; Psilocybin 02:06:28 Work-Life Balance, Fitness & Extracurriculars 02:11:56 Personal Life, Diversity, Happiness; Typical Day 02:15:42 Science & Academia; Future Directions 02:23:48 Research & Science Outreach 02:28:48 Zero-Cost Support, Spotify & Apple Reviews, YouTube Feedback, Sponsors, Momentous, Social Media, Neural Network Newsletter #HubermanLab #Science #Emotions Title Card Photo Credit: Mike Blabac - https://www.blabacphoto.com Disclaimer: https://www.hubermanlab.com/disclaimer

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Feb 5, 20242h 31mWatch on YouTube ↗

CHAPTERS

  1. 10:00 – 29:40

    Redefining the Amygdala: Beyond a Simple Fear Center

    Huberman introduces Tye’s work overturning the simplistic “amygdala equals fear” narrative. Tye explains that the amygdala, especially the basolateral complex, encodes emotional valence—both positive and negative—and helps filter which stimuli are meaningful. They discuss novelty responses, habituation, and how the amygdala fits into broader models of emotional evaluation.

    • Classic lesion studies (e.g., Kluver–Bucy) showed amygdala lesions flatten affect across many stimuli, not just fear-related ones.
    • The amygdala responds initially to novel stimuli, then rapidly stops responding if they do not predict significant outcomes.
    • Valence is defined as net positive vs. net negative, intentionally distinct from scalar ‘value.’
    • The basolateral amygdala contains distinct projections that preferentially encode reward or punishment and diverge downstream.
    • Fear and reward are processed in parallel and routed differently, rather than all “important” stimuli being treated identically.
  2. 29:40 – 43:25

    Body Signals, Autonomic Arousal, and Reweighting Emotional Priorities

    The discussion moves to how the amygdala interacts with body states and autonomic responses. Using examples like hunger and the “hangry judge” study, Tye explains how internal signals can rebalance fear vs. reward priorities in the amygdala, changing behavior in context-dependent ways.

    • Case studies like patient SM show that amygdala damage disrupts emotional evaluation but not basic panic/arousal mechanisms.
    • The amygdala receives hormonal and interoceptive signals (e.g., ghrelin), allowing it to integrate homeostatic needs with valence.
    • In one-day food-deprived mice, reward-encoding amygdala pathways gain dominance over fear pathways, inverting normal priorities.
    • Such flexibility is rapidly induced and reversible, suggesting dynamic weighting of survival needs.
    • Tye’s lab is exploring whether similar reweighting occurs with other stressors like exercise or different internal states.
  3. 43:25 – 1:11:40

    Social Media, Top-Down Control, and Protecting Cognitive Bandwidth

    Huberman and Tye examine social media through a circuit-level lens and discuss Tye’s extreme constraints on email and social media use. She emphasizes top-down control over incoming stimuli as critical for creativity and mental health, while still valuing anonymous feedback that social media can provide.

    • Tye checks email and social media for roughly an hour per week, delegating triage to assistants.
    • She frames this as prefrontal, top-down control over amygdala-driven reactivity to constant micro-stimuli.
    • Most digital inputs fall into “urgent but not important,” cluttering cognitive space needed for deep work and creativity.
    • Anonymous online feedback can be uniquely valuable for receiving honest, unfiltered criticism and learning from it.
    • Huberman relates this to course evaluations and YouTube comments as critical for improving teaching and communication.
  4. 1:11:40 – 1:33:20

    Isolation, Harry Harlow, and the Accidental Discovery of Loneliness Neurons

    Tye recounts how her lab stumbled onto social isolation as a research focus when a saline control group showed unexpected synaptic potentiation. This led to identifying dorsal raphe dopamine neurons that encode social deprivation—cells that feel aversive when stimulated but drive social seeking, analogous to hunger circuits.

    • Historical work by Harry Harlow on maternal separation in monkeys demonstrated severe, irreversible damage from early isolation, leaving a taboo around studying isolation in animals.
    • In a cocaine experiment, saline-injected mice (briefly removed from their cage mates) showed the same synaptic potentiation as cocaine, pointing to the isolation, not the injection.
    • Further experiments isolated the variable as acute social separation rather than novel cage exposure.
    • Dorsal raphe dopamine neurons responded to isolation; optogenetic activation of these neurons induced place aversion yet increased pro-social behavior.
    • Tye conceptualized these as “loneliness neurons,” encoding an unpleasant need state that motivates reconnection.
  5. 1:33:20 – 1:55:00

    Social Homeostasis: How the Brain Recalibrates to Lonely or Crowded Lives

    The conversation develops the concept of social homeostasis, using both pandemic experiences and cross-species behavior. Tye distinguishes between the initial deficit-detection phase of loneliness and a later adaptation to chronic isolation, highlighting the clinical importance of knowing which phase drives health harms.

    • Brief isolation followed by reunion produces robust pro-social rebound; chronic isolation yields avoidance, territoriality, or antisocial behaviors across species.
    • Tye’s model: the brain maintains a social “set point,” detects deficits, and activates an effector system (outreach, exploration, vocalization).
    • If corrective efforts fail or deprivation persists, the system shifts to a new lower-social set point; then previous normal contact feels like overload.
    • The key unresolved question: are the health costs (depression, shorter lifespan, disease vulnerability) driven more by the acute deficit phase or by the adaptive reset?
    • This distinction implies opposing treatment strategies—either supporting rapid adaptation to being alone or prolonging the “try to reconnect” phase to avoid maladaptive reset.
  6. 1:55:00 – 2:16:40

    Quality vs. Quantity of Social Contact and the Limits of Social Media

    Huberman and Tye unpack the “social nourishment” concept, emphasizing synchronous interaction, mutual investment, and identity context as key ingredients missing from most social media. They speculate on how different formats (text, calls, video, in-person) might differentially engage social circuits and neurochemistry.

    • Tye argues that social media posts are almost always addressed to “everyone,” so any given viewer receives negligible individual investment.
    • Asynchronous contact (e.g., liking a post from yesterday in another time zone) lacks shared temporal experience and inter-brain synchrony.
    • One-to-one messaging or calls may be closer to real social contact, especially voice and video, but still differ from embodied co-presence.
    • Social media often emphasizes experiences you’re excluded from, amplifying FOMO and comparison signals rather than satisfying social needs.
    • Tye introduces “mutual investment” as a core dimension of meaningful contact; anonymous likes or comments lack identity context, making their emotional value ambiguous.
  7. 2:16:40 – 2:30:00

    Social Exclusion, FOMO, and New Paradigms for Measuring Social Pain

    Tye describes her lab’s efforts to build ethologically grounded paradigms for exclusion and loneliness, such as a ‘chocolate milkshake exclusion’ task in mice. They aim to quantify subtle behaviors and neural signatures when an animal is physically present with peers but socially left out.

    • In one paradigm, three cage mates can access a chocolate milkshake while the fourth is physically separated and excluded.
    • The excluded mouse shows frantic attention to the group and attempts to reunite, resembling human fear of missing out.
    • Quantifying such behavior is challenging because there is no simple lever press or trial structure; behavior is continuous and unscripted.
    • The lab uses computer vision and advanced statistics to extract behavioral motifs and map them onto neural activity.
    • This work aims to identify which specific behaviors and circuits correspond to loneliness vs. mere separation or novelty.
  8. 2:30:00 – 2:47:20

    Abundance, Scarcity, and How Experience Shapes Empathy and Competition

    The discussion broadens to how experiential statistics—life histories of scarcity or abundance—shape whether others are perceived as allies or adversaries. Using anecdotes about food, kids from deprived environments, and dogs guarding toys, they explore how comparison and status processing are deeply wired yet context-dependent.

    • Abundance in resources does not automatically create an abundance mindset; people can feel deprived even amid plenty due to social comparison.
    • A child raised in severe scarcity may see every other person as a competitor and disregard norms that assume trust and future abundance.
    • Empathy appears to depend on whether another agent is modeled as aligned with or opposed to one’s goals (ally vs. adversary).
    • Competition and hierarchy can lock in during critical periods, shaping long-term roles and expectations (e.g., oldest vs. youngest siblings).
    • Tye highlights the importance of diverse experiential backgrounds in decision-making bodies to broaden default assumptions and models of others.
  9. 2:47:20 – 3:02:00

    Neural Bases of Social Rank and Predicting Winners Before the Contest

    Tye details experiments where mice form linear hierarchies and compete for access to a reward. By recording prefrontal cortex activity, her team decodes both stable rank and moment-to-moment competitive success probabilities, revealing different strategies used by dominants and subordinates.

    • Mice housed in groups of four form stable ranks (1–4), observable in controlled competition tasks over a narrow reward port.
    • Prefrontal cortex population activity contains a robust representation of each animal’s rank, independent of specific trials.
    • The same recordings allow prediction of which mouse will win the next competition bout even before the cue, above chance.
    • Dominant animals’ win predictions are relatively flat; subordinates’ win likelihood ramps up near the cue, suggesting they monitor dominant engagement and opportunistically act.
    • In a “rank reorganization” experiment, alphas are housed with alphas, betas with betas, etc.; early data suggest intermediates take longest to form new hierarchies, hinting at deep developmental imprinting of rank roles.
  10. 3:02:00 – 3:18:00

    Psychedelics, Hidden Brain States, and Self–Other Representations

    The conversation turns to psychedelics as tools to probe fundamental questions about hallucinations, mood states, and self–other boundaries. Tye describes using Neuropixels recordings and Hidden Markov Models under psilocybin to examine how internal brain state landscapes and transitions may be altered in ways that could underlie clinical benefits.

    • Tye has long been interested in commonalities among REM sleep, psychosis, and psychedelic-induced hallucinations: how the brain builds realities not tied to external input.
    • Her lab models behavior as transitions among hidden “mood” states inferred from neural and behavioral data, each with characteristic action statistics.
    • Key questions: Do psychedelics increase the number of accessible states, loosen transition probabilities, or push the system into a qualitatively new state?
    • Prefrontal representations of “self” vs. “other” can be quantified as distances in reduced neural state space; psychedelics might reduce this distance, aligning with subjective reports of unity and empathy.
    • They are also interested in biomarkers that might predict who benefits from psychedelic therapies, beyond set and setting variables.
  11. 3:18:00 – 3:31:00

    Work–Life Balance, Surfing, and Designing a Sustainable Scientific Life

    Huberman asks about Tye’s personal routines and her unusual path through yoga, breakdancing, and now surfing. She argues that maintaining a full, multi-dimensional life isn’t a distraction from science but a requirement for long-term creativity and stability, and she describes a typical day that integrates intense lab work with family and outdoor time.

    • Tye previously worked as a yoga instructor and semi-professional breakdancer, performing at Golden State Warriors games.
    • She frames hobbies and relationships as diversification of her “happiness portfolio,” so her well-being is not wholly contingent on lab success.
    • She has experienced periods of overwork that left her feeling like an “empty shell,” convincing her that personal life is not optional but essential for good mentorship and science.
    • A typical day includes early-morning surfing (cold exposure, exercise, light, community), parenting duties, meetings and whiteboard sessions with trainees, and early bedtime.
    • She views scientists as role models whose visible life choices teach trainees what’s possible; bringing one’s whole self to the role can expand those possibilities.
  12. 3:31:00

    Reimagining Academic Culture: From Elitism to Sustainable Ecosystems

    In the final segment, Tye discusses her efforts to reform academic culture, including writing a modern counterpart to Cajal’s ‘Advice for a Young Investigator.’ She highlights structural issues like rigid hierarchies and sexual misconduct, arguing for more sustainable, less elitist systems that retain talent and diversify pathways into research.

    • Tye notes that academia, second only to the military, has high rates of sexual misconduct and retaliation, likely linked to rigid power hierarchies.
    • She emphasizes that unlike the military, academia does not inherently require such extreme, fixed hierarchies to function.
    • Her upcoming book aims to offer alternative models to Cajal’s workaholic, exclusionary vision—models that include whole lives, families, and diverse identities.
    • She runs anonymous, extensive lab surveys every ~18 months to get unvarnished feedback on her mentorship and lab culture, and then iteratively adapts practices.
    • She advocates for expanding access to research experiences (e.g., first-time trainees composing ~25% of her lab in some summers) and for viewing science careers as ecosystems that must be flexible and resilient, not static towers.

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