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#1 Business Expert: Here’s how I went from $0 to 7 BILLION EMPIRE … (and how you can too)

What’s one habit that’s helped you succeed lately? What made you decide to stick with that habit?

Jay ShettyhostEmma GredeguestEmma Gredeguest
Nov 18, 202548mWatch on YouTube ↗

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At a glance

WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT

Emma Grede’s blueprint: self-belief, focus, and starting before ready

  1. Grede explains that worrying about others’ opinions blocks people from speaking up, taking risks, and putting themselves forward, and that progress comes from meeting your own standards instead.
  2. She highlights real gender barriers and double standards in business, arguing that women must name them, stop playing by “likable/demure” rules, and lead openly to avoid holding other women back.
  3. Her career approach emphasizes starting with yourself: be excellent at what you do today, volunteer with “I’ll do that,” and let competence (not vibes) build durable confidence.
  4. Rather than “finding your passion,” Grede recommends following what you’re good at and what gives you energy, then using deep focus as a force multiplier to create outsized results.
  5. In life and parenting, she rejects the myth of balance, advocating honest trade-offs, asking for help, and choosing personal non-negotiables instead of living by external standards.

IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING

5 ideas

Stop auditioning for others; build to your own expectations.

Grede’s turning point is shifting from proving yourself to others to meeting your own standards—what lets you sleep well at night becomes the benchmark, not outside approval.

Name real barriers, then refuse the “likable” trap.

She acknowledges structural obstacles and harsher backlash for women, but argues the response is to lean into truth and visibility so you don’t reinforce restrictive norms for those who follow.

Career momentum often comes from volunteering before you feel ready.

Her three-word mantra—“I’ll do that”—captures how taking on opportunities creates the pressure and reps that build capability, credibility, and access.

Excellence is portable—mastery in small roles signals bigger potential.

From “amazing sandwich maker” to “amazing jeans,” she stresses that doing today’s job exceptionally well is how people notice transferable skill and offer larger chances.

Don’t chase passion; track energy and aptitude, then deepen your focus.

She argues passion can be misleading, while strengths and energizing work are more reliable; going deep in one area unlocks compounding learning and standout performance.

WORDS WORTH SAVING

5 quotes

I honestly got to a certain point in my life where I thought, "Well, if not you, then who?"

— Emma Grede

The older you get, the more you realize no one knows anything.

— Emma Grede

So I've just decided, like, I'm not playing that game anymore. I'm gonna do me, be me, and everyone else-... is gonna have to like it.

— Emma Grede

I think that the three most important words for career acceleration is, "I'll do that."

— Emma Grede

You've got, like, one big relationship, one big love in your life, and that's you.

— Emma Grede

Read the available transcript
Fear of judgment and missed opportunitiesComparison and self-censorshipGender barriers and double standards at workStarting with self: excellence in the current role“I’ll do that” as a career acceleratorVisualization, self-talk, and narrative controlPurpose vs passion; energy-based career choicesCompetence → confidenceFocus as a force multiplier; depth over breadthStrengths/weaknesses awareness and complementary teamsTrade-offs, help, and non-negotiables in parentingStart small: test-and-learn for new ideas

SPEAKERS

  • Jay Shetty

    host

    Host of the Jay Shetty Podcast and interviewer for this live on-stage conversation.

  • Emma Grede

    guest

    Entrepreneur and business leader; featured guest discussing company-building, leadership, and promoting her podcast “Aspire with Emma Grede”.

  • Emma Grede

    guest

    Entrepreneur and business leader; brief additional diarized segment consistent with the featured guest’s reflections.

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