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The Money Expert: #1 Formula to Get RICH Off Your Normal Salary (It’s EASY!)

How do you track your spending? What’s the easiest way for you to save money? Today, Jay welcomes back Codie Sanchez, entrepreneur, investor, and founder of Contrarian Thinking, to share the mindset shifts needed to thrive financially in today’s world. Codie explains why renting can sometimes be the smarter move, how to negotiate with confidence, and why mastering the language of money, from credit scores to strategic debt, is essential before you can build real wealth. Together, Jay and Codie debunk the myths of financial literacy, showing that clarity and confidence matter far more than complicated strategies. This conversation takes an honest look at what it really takes to make money in a tough economy, whether that’s launching a side hustle without quitting your job or spotting opportunities that others overlook when markets are down. Codie highlights that building wealth isn’t about chasing trends or quick wins, but about making disciplined decisions, managing risk with intention, and turning problems into possibilities. Together, Jay and Codie also discuss how to grow within your career by understanding your true value, negotiating with confidence, and recognizing that profit and purpose don’t have to compete, they can align in practical, meaningful ways. In this interview, you'll learn: How to Negotiate Your Rent and Save More How to Use Credit the Right Way to Build Wealth How to Start a Business With Little to No Money How to Keep Your Job and Still Grow a Side Hustle How to Turn Problems Into Profitable Opportunities How to Talk About Money in Relationships How to Invest Your First $1,000 Wisely Growth doesn’t come from getting everything right, it comes from learning, experimenting, and treating challenges as opportunities. With curiosity and courage, even problems can become stepping stones forward. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:03 The Best Time to Build Wealth 05:26 Should People Own Homes Anymore? 06:21 Are You Financially Literate? 08:48 Simple Steps to Financial Freedom 12:54 How Much Money Do You Really Need to Start a Business? 15:57 The Three Qualities of a Great CEO 18:05 How to Increase Your Value as an Employee 21:01 The Path to Growth Inside a Company 25:05 The Truth About Hustle Culture 27:29 Passive Income: Real or Myth? 28:48 Why You Shouldn’t Turn Every Passion Into Profit 31:30 What Sets Top Performers Apart 35:10 The Fixer vs. The Freeloader Mindset 38:50 How to Choose the Right Leader to Learn From 40:42 The Power of Surrounding Yourself With the Right People 44:00 Setting Expectations That Lead to Success 48:52 The Lipstick Theory of Recessions 52:01 The Link Between Money and Dating 55:22 How to See Money as a Tool, Not a Goal 59:31 Who Should Really Pay on the First Date? 01:04:15 Understanding Negative Feminine Energy 01:07:49 Why Discussing a Prenup Can Strengthen Relationships 01:11:10 What Makes a Strong and Lasting Partnership 01:14:26 Should You Get Into Business With Your Partner? 01:18:52 What Makes a Deal Truly Great 01:22:52 Why Investing in Yourself Comes First 01:25:06 Investing 101: The Basics You Need to Know 01:26:44 Stocks vs. Bonds: What’s the Difference? 01:27:46 The Next Level of Investing Explained 01:30:39 The #1 Thing People Waste Money On Episode Resources: https://codiesanchez.com/ https://www.youtube.com/@CodieSanchezCT https://www.instagram.com/codiesanchez https://www.facebook.com/codiesanchezbiz/ https://www.tiktok.com/@realcodiesanchez https://www.linkedin.com/in/codiesanchez/ https://contrarianthinking.co/ https://www.instagram.com/jayshetty https://www.facebook.com/jayshetty/ https://x.com/jayshetty https://www.linkedin.com/in/shettyjay/ https://www.youtube.com/@JayShettyPodcast http://jayshetty.me

Codie SanchezguestJay Shettyhost
Sep 8, 20251h 35mWatch on YouTube ↗

CHAPTERS

  1. 0:00 – 3:45

    Why downturns can be the best time to build wealth (and what’s “on sale”)

    Jay and Codie open by reframing today’s difficult economy as a period where smart buyers can find discounts. Codie explains why wages haven’t kept up with asset prices and why real wealth is often built when sentiment is fearful, not euphoric.

    • Wages vs. housing price growth mismatch across generations
    • Buffett/Rothschild framing: buy when others are fearful
    • Market pullbacks create ‘sales’ across assets (example: Austin housing down)
    • Avoid buying into hype cycles (NFT bubble example)
  2. 3:45 – 5:01

    Homeownership reality check: renting can be the financially smarter move

    Codie challenges the cultural assumption that buying a home is always the ‘adult’ or ‘smart’ decision. She argues that, given today’s rates and price-to-income math, renting—especially negotiated well—can outperform buying for many people.

    • Why owning a home as an investment may not pencil out today
    • Interest rates + housing shortage + flat wages change the old playbook
    • Renting isn’t failure; it may signal financial intelligence
    • Negotiating rent in a softer market as a practical tactic
  3. 5:01 – 12:24

    Financial literacy as a language: credit cards, debit cards, and ‘good debt’

    Codie lays a foundation: making more money requires understanding how money systems work. Using credit vs. debit, she explains how credit underpins access and wealth-building in the U.S., and why blanket ‘debt is bad’ advice is incomplete.

    • Financial literacy is the gateway to earning and investing well
    • Debit vs. credit: protections, perks, and why credit builds a score
    • Credit cards aren’t evil if paid monthly; misuse creates ‘bad debt’
    • Wealthy people use leverage differently (asset-backed vs. personal)
  4. 12:24 – 14:10

    Starting a business without your own cash: access to capital and belief shifts

    The conversation turns to entrepreneurship funding myths. Codie argues people don’t lack money so much as knowledge of how to obtain it, pointing to grants, SBA programs, and investors looking for capable operators.

    • Reframe: ‘lack of knowledge on how to get money’ vs. lack of money
    • SBA grants and loans as underused options
    • Platforms and lenders can provide small-business debt
    • Mindset shift: money is ‘around you’ when you can deploy it well
  5. 14:10 – 16:40

    Side hustles without self-sabotage: keep the job, de-risk the leap

    Codie pushes back on all-or-nothing startup culture. She recommends using stable income to fund experimentation until the side venture reliably covers living costs, citing data that founders perform better with reduced financial stress.

    • Survivorship bias behind ‘quit and go all-in’ advice
    • Keep your job; use salary to fund the side venture
    • Exit only after side income matches cost of living
    • Data point: higher startup success odds with an income source
  6. 16:40 – 20:31

    What makes a great CEO—and how employees can earn more by proving value

    Codie defines CEO excellence as selling vision, diagnosing reality, and making strong decisions. She then flips to employee strategy: quantify your economic impact, expand it, and negotiate compensation from demonstrated profit contribution.

    • CEO traits: sell a big dream, diagnose well, decide well
    • Employees should quantify the dollars they generate/save
    • Use profit logic to negotiate (value created → share of upside)
    • Staying to diagnose and negotiate can beat constant job-hopping
  7. 20:31 – 24:40

    Career growth inside companies: from ‘bricklayer’ to ‘city planner’

    Jay shares a progression model for internal growth—moving from executing tasks to designing systems and shaping strategy. Codie adds her ‘NPC ladder’ framing and connects retention to leadership that shows a clear path upward.

    • Jay’s ladder: bricklayer → builder → architect → city planner
    • Growth is scope, judgment, and vision—not just more hours
    • Codie’s ‘NPC ladder’: top performers change the script
    • People often leave leaders, not jobs; clarity of progression matters
  8. 24:40 – 26:51

    Hustle culture vs. leverage: standing out in an AI, high-noise world

    Codie argues hard work alone doesn’t translate to wealth; leverage and differentiation do. With AI making ‘mid-level execution’ common, she emphasizes creativity, unique knowledge stacks, and a sprint/rest rhythm to outperform.

    • Hard work ≠ wealth; leverage and ownership drive outcomes
    • AI raises baseline competence—standing out becomes harder
    • Increase your knowledge stack and creative problem-solving
    • Naval’s model: be the lion—sprint and rest vs. constant grazing
  9. 26:51 – 33:25

    Passive income myth-busting and why monetizing every passion backfires

    Codie reframes ‘passive income’ as a tax label, not a no-effort reality, using vending machines as an example. She then warns against turning hobbies into businesses and introduces the ‘boring-sexy matrix’ where boring industries often pay more.

    • ‘Passive income’ rarely means zero work; beware red flags
    • People chase passive income because they dislike their jobs
    • Learn to love the business game rather than monetize hobbies
    • Boring-sexy matrix + entertainment/acting income realities
  10. 33:25 – 38:34

    Top performers and the ‘rules of the game’: obsession, respect, and problem-hunting

    They discuss what separates elite performers: obsession, respecting constraints, and treating problems as profit signals. Codie introduces ‘fixers vs. freeloaders’ and argues fixers reliably capture opportunity others avoid.

    • Obsession compounds; it’s hard to beat over time
    • Respect the rules (algorithms, markets, org dynamics) to win
    • Fixer vs. freeloader: ownership mindset creates profit
    • Problems are where opportunity and money hide
  11. 38:34 – 48:34

    Choosing leaders and environments: rocket ships, social contagion, and expectation setting

    Codie recommends joining fast-moving ‘rocket ships’ early in your career despite turbulence. She and Jay explore how social circles shape earning/investing behavior, then get practical about setting money boundaries with friends and teams.

    • Optimize for learning and velocity early: choose ‘rocket ships’
    • Turbulence is the price of speed and growth
    • Income/investing habits correlate with who you spend time with
    • Scripts for honest money conversations (splitting checks, budgeting)
  12. 48:34 – 59:02

    Money signals in the economy (Lipstick Theory) and why partnership affects wealth

    Codie shares the Lipstick Theory as a quirky recession indicator: consumers downshift from big luxuries to small treats. She then explains data suggesting marriage correlates with higher income and net worth, reframing partnership as a stability and focus advantage.

    • Lipstick Theory: small luxury spending rises in downturns
    • Consumers trade down from big luxuries to affordable indulgences
    • Marriage correlates with higher earnings and ~3x net worth over time
    • Partnership can reduce distraction and improve financial stability
  13. 59:02 – 1:07:55

    Money and dating norms: who pays, income expectations, and ‘negative feminine energy’

    They tackle modern dating economics: who should pay on the first date, why income matching is overemphasized, and how competition between genders changes expectations. Codie cautions ambitious women to avoid disrespect or demasculating dynamics and emphasizes respect/love needs.

    • Rule of thumb: the asker pays (or at least offers)
    • Women’s income filters vs. men’s preferences and the changing labor market
    • ‘Do you want to be right or win?’ as a practical dating lens
    • Avoid demasculating disrespect; respect (men) vs. love (women) dynamic
  14. 1:07:55 – 1:22:46

    Prenups, bank accounts, and building together: money conversations as compatibility tests

    Codie argues prenups are valuable because they force hard conversations early and reveal how couples handle conflict and shared vision. They discuss joint vs. separate accounts as less important than trust, communication, and clear expectations, then weigh the pros/cons of doing business with a partner.

    • Pro-prenup: reveals values, conflict style, and shared life vision
    • Money setups (joint vs. separate) matter less than communication
    • Working with a spouse increases friction—roles must be defined
    • Complementary strengths (visionary vs. executor) improve outcomes
  15. 1:22:46 – 1:35:32

    Investing ladder: invest in yourself, then index funds, then private markets—and stop ‘looking rich’

    Codie gives a step-by-step investing framework: start by investing in your skills, then use low-cost diversified index funds, then graduate to private/alternative investments only with experience. They close on automation, a 10% investing target, and the cultural trap of spending to signal status.

    • Stage 1: invest in yourself (highest upside, compounding returns)
    • Stage 2: low-cost diversified index funds (e.g., S&P exposure)
    • Stocks vs. bonds explained; diversification and inflation reality
    • Automate investing; aim for ~10% to ‘pay yourself first’
    • Biggest waste: spending to look rich (BNPL, influencer lifestyle illusion)

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