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150 min read · 30,001 words- 0:00 – 1:09
Meeting Miley: the distinctive voice and how it evolved
- MCMiley Cyrus
(drumming music) Joe Rogan podcast, check it out. The Joe Rogan Experience.
- JRJoe Rogan
Train by day, Joe Rogan podcast by night. All day. (heavy guitar music) Hello, Miley Cyrus.
- MCMiley Cyrus
All right.
- JRJoe Rogan
How are you?
- MCMiley Cyrus
I'm good. Joe, how you doing?
- JRJoe Rogan
Pleasure to meet you.
- MCMiley Cyrus
You also. I'm happy to be here.
- JRJoe Rogan
I'm happy to have you here.
- MCMiley Cyrus
Thank you very much.
- JRJoe Rogan
You have a fantastic voice. Not just a singing voice, but your talking voice is very unusual. It's like it makes you step back a little bit like, "Oh."
- MCMiley Cyrus
I've actually ... Uh, recently, I was walking around in Boston, and I went to a museum. And this, like, older man walked up to me, had no idea who I was. He was just enjoying the art also in the museum and started talking to me forever about my voice. And my ... And then there was a college, some sort of trip to the museum, and then everybody started freaking out. And it was so cool just to have someone stop me about my speaking voice 'cause that had never happened to me before. I think it's 'cause I was turned around, and I had the mullet, so I could've been, you know, anybody. I could've been anyone from Tennessee.
- JRJoe Rogan
It's a heavy voice.
- MCMiley Cyrus
It's a heavy voice. Um-
- JRJoe Rogan
You didn't always have a heavy voice though. Like, when ... Uh, my kids love Hannah Montana, by the way.
- MCMiley Cyrus
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
So when I, I would watch, your, your voice was different.
- 1:09 – 4:18
Vocal surgery, early touring, and learning how to protect the instrument
- MCMiley Cyrus
It's definitely changed. I actually ... I kind of learned a lot about the voice and how our experiences affect our voice. I had a surgery in November on my voice.
- JRJoe Rogan
Oh.
- MCMiley Cyrus
I had something called Raikhi's edema, which when my doctor told me about it, he said, "No one shy ever has this. This is for abuse of the voice."
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- MCMiley Cyrus
"This is for people that talk way too fucking much." And usually, this happens when you're, like, in your 60s or 70s, a couple other singers.
- JRJoe Rogan
How do I not have that?
- MCMiley Cyrus
I don't know. (laughs) I don't know.
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- MCMiley Cyrus
Mine, I think honestly, really, I, I started touring, you know, at probably 12 or 13, and not only was I ... The adrenaline that you have after a show, it's not really the singing that affects your voice as much. It's afterwards. You're totally on, and then it's really hard to get that sleep. You stay up, talking all night. Later, the talking all night turn into smoking all night, and now this is kinda where we're at.
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- MCMiley Cyrus
We got some dirt on her. You know, she ...
- JRJoe Rogan
Yeah.
- MCMiley Cyrus
The, the voice can be like, like a face. It collects wrinkles, and, and it tells a story. If you look at yourself, and you go, "Oh, I didn't have this until these- this trip. You know, I sat out in the sun," or, "I partied too much," or whatever, and your voice does the same thing. It collects dirt.
- JRJoe Rogan
It's very distinctive. Yeah.
- MCMiley Cyrus
Yes. It gives me away, um ... I mean, I'm pretty much one of the only chicks in LA with a mullet.
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- MCMiley Cyrus
So that gives me away also.
- JRJoe Rogan
Well, you're not in the right neighborhood. There's plenty of- plenty of them.
- MCMiley Cyrus
(laughs) I know. I gotta dry out to the- to the desert, I guess.
- JRJoe Rogan
Yeah. That's right. Yeah.
- MCMiley Cyrus
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
Yeah. Go out to Joshua Tree.
- MCMiley Cyrus
Yeah, exactly.
- JRJoe Rogan
Find the chicks that are tripping.
- MCMiley Cyrus
Exactly.
- JRJoe Rogan
Yeah. With handmade tattoos
- NANarrator
(overlapping) Yeah.
- MCMiley Cyrus
I have a couple of those too.
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- MCMiley Cyrus
(laughs)
- 4:18 – 7:05
Growing up working nonstop: Disney-era pressure, weed, and getting sober
- JRJoe Rogan
But it had to be really odd to be working that much and be a young girl.
- MCMiley Cyrus
The balance it trained me to have is something that I don't think you are gonna get taught any other way besides jumping in the deep end of the pool and hoping you know how to swim. That's the only way. I ... There was no way I could've prepared for the amount of balance I would have to learn to kinda teeter, because, you know, at one point, again, it, it went from it was school, then it went from, you know, h- how many- how much weed can I actually smoke and still play a teenage superstar on the Disney Channel?
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- MCMiley Cyrus
And then, like, and then, like-
- JRJoe Rogan
Uh, what's the answer to that question?
- MCMiley Cyrus
Uh, more than you would fucking think.
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- MCMiley Cyrus
Um, I remember one time when ... And I don't smoke anymore, and I'm sober. Uh-
- JRJoe Rogan
How long you been sober for?
- MCMiley Cyrus
But I, I've been sober since the- pretty much the vocal surgery kinda did it for me, um, because I just learned so much about the effects, which, again, you're just not taught. Um, it's not really the drinking. It's staying up all night. You know, once you have your drink, you end up smoking. And I kinda ... I- I have a ... I've become the face of a lot of things kind of, uh, against my will. I guess, uh, from my opinions, when you're someone in my position, your opinion becomes your identity.
- JRJoe Rogan
Mm-hmm.
- MCMiley Cyrus
And it also becomes kind of almost like a ... You kinda become this, like, preacher. You become this ... You know, they don't really let you just always have your own opinion, so I've decided to start telling people, "I live my own lifestyle. Alcohol was never my problem." There was other things that I end up, you know ... I like to go up, so I, I now just avoid really drinking 'cause I- I- I like to wake up at 110%. Um, but it's never really been my problem, and I could see myself having a drink of celebration in the future. But I get so fucking hungover now that I'm like, "Why would I celebrate with, like, just feeling like ...... a volcano's erupted in my brain, you know. So, so it's really just a personal preference, but it's definitely not anything that I promote in, I think it's a lifestyle everyone should be... I think everyone should experiment. It's a good time and you learn a lot of things about yourself and the people around you. But now, I'm, I'm watching, I have younger siblings and they're going through that and I don't know how my mom did it with me 'cause it's scary.
- JRJoe Rogan
Yeah, I don't think... I think if we're gonna acknowledge the fact that all these things exist, cocaine exists, pills exist, marijuana exists, we should teach people how to do it right.
- MCMiley Cyrus
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
Really, I mean-
- MCMiley Cyrus
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
... you're leaving children. It's the same thing with sex, right?
- MCMiley Cyrus
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
We leave children to their, their, there's, uh, th- the information that they're gonna get is from other kids.
- MCMiley Cyrus
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
And if you're learning about sex from another 14-year-old or you're learning about coke from a 14-year-old-
- MCMiley Cyrus
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
... that's not good.
- MCMiley Cyrus
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
Like, someone, uh, we, we play this game with children where we try to pretend that, you know, they live in a movie.
- 7:05 – 8:22
Teaching kids reality: drug/sex education and “realistic” children’s books
- MCMiley Cyrus
All right. Well, listen to this. This is actually funny you bring this up because I had the idea this week, not that I really have time to do this in the near future, but I would like to at some point in my life. I wanna do my own children's book series of realistic children's stories.
- JRJoe Rogan
Mm-hmm.
- MCMiley Cyrus
Because I don't like the idea that we teach them that this is sunshine world and everyone walks on a rainbow-
- JRJoe Rogan
Right.
- MCMiley Cyrus
... and everyone's equal. And you need to say, like, "That's not. What are you gonna do about it?"
- JRJoe Rogan
Right.
- MCMiley Cyrus
"That's not true. What are you gonna do about it?" And I think there's a way to not terrify children of life, even though I go in and out of periods where I think life is really overwhelmingly terrifying. Um, and that's coming from my position. And my position, I, I tell myself all the time, "If you're not enjoying this life, honey, you got it coming in the next one 'cause I better fucking love this life." It's the best one. Uh, I, I couldn't imagine being in a different body and having a different experience.
- JRJoe Rogan
It's an awesome life if you do it the right way.
- MCMiley Cyrus
It's an awesome life. And I also, I didn't hurt myself beyond repair in my experiences. I survived, and I don't even mean heart still beating survival. I mean, I have a lot of people that love me around. I didn't kick all the people that had my best interest at heart out. That's the, that's where you die-
- JRJoe Rogan
Mm-hmm.
- MCMiley Cyrus
... is you kick everyone that says-
- JRJoe Rogan
Yeah.
- MCMiley Cyrus
... "Hey, are you d- are you okay?" You know, out. "No, uh, of course I'm okay. You don't trust me. Get the fuck out."
- JRJoe Rogan
Right.
- 8:22 – 11:18
Billy Ray Cyrus stories: no Wi‑Fi life, pizza goals, and wild parenting
- MCMiley Cyrus
And so now that I have people that I've had in my life, I feel that I have people in my life that I've known for 15, 20 years, and not many people in my position get to say that. My parents are awesome. My dad's l- loopy as hell, but I ve- love him-
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- MCMiley Cyrus
... so much. Um, he, he has no way of ever hearing this 'cause my dad doesn't have wifi or, uh, anything but a Blackberry, so I can tell you what I got him for his birthday.
- JRJoe Rogan
Your dad has a Blackberry?
- MCMiley Cyrus
My dad has two Blackberries, which equal-
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- MCMiley Cyrus
... an iPhone, which is not true, but that's what he says. So for his birthday, he said that he wanted to see if he could go 365 days without eating pizza 'cause he had never done it before.
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- MCMiley Cyrus
So my dad has now gone a year without having pizza, and my dad loves bubble baths. He's gonna kill me for saying this, but his country ass loves bubble baths.
- JRJoe Rogan
That's hilarious.
- MCMiley Cyrus
And so he loves to smoke his joint, eat his pizza, and get a bubble bath. So he said, "That's what I'm gonna do for my birthday." So for his birthday, I've organized a five-foot pizza to be delivered to his farm, so he can have all he can eat. And I'm the pizza delivery person on the box. I had someone draw it where it's me with-
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- MCMiley Cyrus
... my tongue out and a mullet delivering the pizza. And I got a bathtub on Craigslist, and I put it... My dad has 500 acres, so I put it in the middle of the farm filled with bubble gum, just like my music video. And so my dad's gonna have a bubble gum bathtub and a five-foot pizza for his birthday.
- JRJoe Rogan
That's adorable.
- MCMiley Cyrus
That's next week.
- JRJoe Rogan
That, I like the fact that he has no wifi and no internet. Good for him.
- MCMiley Cyrus
No wifi, no internet. Every now and then-
- JRJoe Rogan
It probably feels good that way.
- MCMiley Cyrus
... he'll drive to my uncle's house to FaceTime us every now and then.
- JRJoe Rogan
Oh, wow.
- MCMiley Cyrus
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
Wow. He has to make a drive to FaceTime.
- MCMiley Cyrus
You got it. It's not far. All of us are just, like, my dad's kept us a, a, a pebble's throw away, for sure. We all live on property. We all live really close to each other.
- JRJoe Rogan
So if you did this thing, like, if you really decided to do, uh, children's books, like realistic children's books-
- MCMiley Cyrus
Mm-hmm.
- JRJoe Rogan
... like, how would you do that? Would you get a ghost author and sort of come up with the ideas of what you were trying to get across to kids?
- MCMiley Cyrus
Well-
- JRJoe Rogan
What, what do you wish somebody told you?
- MCMiley Cyrus
I like that you mentioned that no one talks to us about drugs. I know this is gonna be controversial to introduce drugs to kids. I think that there's a way, and I'd have to think about it. Um, Wayne Coyne, who's a good friend of mine, and I did the Dead Pets record with him. Flaming Lips have been my favorite band since I was in fifth grade, and he's obviously an amazing artist. And he just had his first child, year and a half years old. He's six. He just had a baby. They're coming to visit me right now. And, um, I would have him do all the illustrations, so it stays in that kind of surrealist world 'cause I think, I think that's what would get the kids to wanna read this book is that-
- JRJoe Rogan
Mm-hmm.
- 11:18 – 18:07
Tabloids, divorce, and taking back the narrative in real time
- MCMiley Cyrus
I'm gonna stop. I feel that s- I worry sometimes that I can get over things easily. I don't fall to the floor and crawl up in a ball the way that I used to, and I think that's a part of me growing up. Like, when, you know, I recently just went through a very public divorce that fucking sucked. What really sucked about it wasn't the fact that me and someone that I loved realized that we don't love each other the way that we used to anymore. That's okay. I can accept that. I can't accept the villainizing and the, um-... just all those stories that, like, it's just amazing to me that the public kinda thinks that there's no gap of time that they didn't see that could possibly be what led to this. Like, it's not, "One day you were happy on the carpet, and the next day you were making out with your friend in Italy. What the fuck?"
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- MCMiley Cyrus
Well, there was a lot of time in between that, that you didn't see. It didn't go-
- JRJoe Rogan
Yeah.
- MCMiley Cyrus
I didn't, like... I didn't, you know-
- JRJoe Rogan
Yeah. But you can't rely on someone else's narrative, right?
- MCMiley Cyrus
No.
- JRJoe Rogan
Especially someone who doesn't know you. You really shouldn't even read what people write about you.
- MCMiley Cyrus
But s-... Well, what's crazy is m- my dad, again... You know, my dad's been a real figure in my life. And, um, my dad, when he got his Grammy nomination, he wore a d-... He went to the Grammys in a John 3:16 shirt, and he-
- JRJoe Rogan
Hmm.
- MCMiley Cyrus
... he didn't get the Grammy. And the next day, the New York Post or someone put, "Even God can't save Billy Ray Cyrus and his career."
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- MCMiley Cyrus
And he was sitting next to Johnny Cash. They were going to s- something. I have a Johnny Cash tattoo that was handwritten, uh, to my dad fr- from around that time. And he, he said, "What the hell?" Just like you say to me right now. "You're my Johnny Cash." You know, he said, "What the hell are you doing reading that?"
- JRJoe Rogan
Yeah.
- MCMiley Cyrus
And my dad said, "I just never really picked u- picked up the paper again." But again, my dad didn't buy that paper. It was just kind of in your face. And-
- JRJoe Rogan
He should've thought that was funny.
- MCMiley Cyrus
He, he does now. Now, he just says, "Well, whatever will get Johnny Cash to come and sit next to me and talk to me."
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- MCMiley Cyrus
Now, he... Now, he loves it. Um, and it's been really good to have him go before me, you know? It's, it's kinda that buddy system. I think it'd be really scary if I wouldn't have been able to see that, but-
- JRJoe Rogan
Right.
- MCMiley Cyrus
... to your point of I don't click on this shit, you know? It, it comes into my life by-
- JRJoe Rogan
Other people, right.
- MCMiley Cyrus
If I walk by a magazine stand, which I like to walk on the street-
- JRJoe Rogan
Yeah.
- MCMiley Cyrus
... and it says, like, "Miley's on drugs and pregnant." And then I think, "One of those things are true-"
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- MCMiley Cyrus
"... but not the other. Fuck you for lying about me."
- JRJoe Rogan
Yeah. But that's all they have. I mean, what... When someone's in the public eye and someone's as prominent as you are, you become, uh, a way for them to access money.
- MCMiley Cyrus
Right.
- JRJoe Rogan
That's all you are.
- 18:07 – 20:24
Weed, mental health risk, and genetic realities behind addiction
- MCMiley Cyrus
Um...And yeah, I just think also, I mean, when we're talking about realistic children's books, I think the stigma that kind of, uh, surrounds, you know, youth growing up, rebelling and then craziness, and then what's the line between that and- and mental illness. And, you know, I do have some kinda genetic family history of alcohol. I mean, that totally gets erased when you're a celebrity. It's like, "Hollywood did this to you." It's like, no, dude. My great-grandma was an alcoholic, you know? My granddad was an alcoholic. My grandma's an alcoholic. Um, you know, so I- I obviously had... It wasn't Hollywood, you know?
- JRJoe Rogan
Mm-hmm.
- MCMiley Cyrus
It's genetic.
- JRJoe Rogan
I think for you, I mean, I- I don't think there's anything wrong with writing a book and writing a- a realistic children's book.
- MCMiley Cyrus
Mm-hmm.
- JRJoe Rogan
But I think you could do a lot of good by just making little YouTube videos.
- MCMiley Cyrus
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
Just you make little YouTube videos just talking and explaining, "Hey, this is what I did, and this is where I fucked up."
- MCMiley Cyrus
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
"And this is why you shouldn't do it this way. These are the drugs you gotta be really careful about."
- MCMiley Cyrus
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
"These are drugs that are really dangerous." And look, if you wanna have, like, one drink, you wanna have one drink-
- MCMiley Cyrus
Yeah, if you can.
- JRJoe Rogan
Like, just have one fucking drink.
- MCMiley Cyrus
If you can.
- JRJoe Rogan
If you can.
- MCMiley Cyrus
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
Yeah. If you wanna, uh, if you wanna smoke weed, take a hit.
- MCMiley Cyrus
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
Like, don't get crazy.
- MCMiley Cyrus
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
Like, figure this out. Like, you can have a good experience on marijuana, or you could fuck up your life and have a schizophrenic breakdown-
- MCMiley Cyrus
And that's one thing that I felt like-
- JRJoe Rogan
... and get super paranoid.
- MCMiley Cyrus
... you know, when I was smoking weed, like, my mom, all the weed that I don't smoke, she takes care of, both of my parents.
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- MCMiley Cyrus
So I have nothing against weed. My whole family's a bunch of stoners. I- I just felt like when you're talking about kinda some of the- the episodes that they can kinda bring on-
- JRJoe Rogan
They can, yeah.
- MCMiley Cyrus
... you know, I maybe have a little some of those kind of tendencies already. Um-
- JRJoe Rogan
And that's- that's something that people who love marijuana don't like to talk about.
- 20:24 – 24:33
Anxiety at 17 and finding Dr. Daniel Amen: brain scans and measurable mental health
- MCMiley Cyrus
I- I read and I, uh, kind of... I was, uh, going on a, I was going on a trip when I was maybe 17 years old, and I was walking through the airport, and I saw a book that said Change Your Brain, Change Your Life by Dr. Daniel Amen, who's now been my therapist for 10 years.
- JRJoe Rogan
Ah.
- MCMiley Cyrus
And I couldn't get on this plane. I was having a full anxiety attack with smoking a lot of weed-
- JRJoe Rogan
How old were you?
- MCMiley Cyrus
... with taking a lot of shrooms. I was 17.
- JRJoe Rogan
17 smoking a lot of weed and taking a lot of shrooms.
- MCMiley Cyrus
Taking a lot of shrooms. And I started getting a little-
- JRJoe Rogan
Yeah.
- MCMiley Cyrus
I started getting a little cray-cray, you know, sometimes-
- JRJoe Rogan
Don't recommend that.
- MCMiley Cyrus
... doing some things with, you know, causing some fights with my boyfriend that were unnecessary. They got heightened. Um, I remember one time I wrecked my car into my gate, and I said, "This is all your fault!" I was the one driving the damn car. How is this your fault? I did not have a great idea of reality at that time.
- JRJoe Rogan
Right.
- MCMiley Cyrus
So I was going to, I was leaving the country for the first time without my family. I was going to Costa Rica, and I was walking through the airport, and I saw this book Change Your Brain, Change Your Life. I'm like, "I- I wanna change my life." I don't like where this is going, and my brain is actually, I don't like who I'm living with. The person upstairs is, like, annoying the hell out of me. So I got this book, and it got me to get onto the plane. Now, I had a few anxious breakdowns on that when, you know, you, when you go to places like going in the middle of the jungle, you take all those little planes, and all of a sudden you're on a four-wheeler going to wherever you're going.
- JRJoe Rogan
Mm-hmm.
- MCMiley Cyrus
Every now and then I'd have to stop 'cause I would get so lightheaded and stabbing chest pains and all this. And he said, "Drop weed, first of all. Get rid of the weed, get rid of the psychedelics." And I also cut gluten from my diet from a little bit of a time so I could get an idea of like, what's my body on a natural level? And I started doing, you know, kinda blood work, and I- I did some SPECT scans, which he specializes in, so like actually looking at my brain. 'Cause what I really like about the SPECT scan is, you know, you wouldn't tell me I have a broken arm without freaking looking at it. I could tell you ow, it hurts, blah, blah, blah, but like, you know-
- JRJoe Rogan
And what is a SPECT scan? Mm-hmm.
- MCMiley Cyrus
So a SPECT scan, um, we might have to look up exactly what it stands for (laughs) because I don't, I don't remember this. But basically, it's kinda like an X-ray, and it kinda shows you almost like in those thermal-type colors of the activity of your brain.
- JRJoe Rogan
Here it comes.
- MCMiley Cyrus
There we go.
- JRJoe Rogan
Single-photon emission computed tomography.
- MCMiley Cyrus
Yeah, so I have one of these.
- JRJoe Rogan
Nuclear medicine study that evaluates blood flow and activity t- in the brain.
- MCMiley Cyrus
So that's my doctor, Amen Clinics.
- JRJoe Rogan
Mm.
- MCMiley Cyrus
That's- that's his, uh, website right there.
- JRJoe Rogan
Mm.
- MCMiley Cyrus
And so I- I have a couple of these. Um...
- JRJoe Rogan
How's your brain look?
- MCMiley Cyrus
You know what? Surpr- he says... This isn't right. Surprisingly good for the abuse that it's had.
- JRJoe Rogan
Well, you gotta think about the amount-
- 24:33 – 35:14
Head injury, impulsivity, and rebuilding cognition with diet (leaving strict veganism)
- MCMiley Cyrus
Oh, it's bad. My dad had me... This is really bad, but he can't go to jail, I don't think, 'cause it's long enough time away. He had me in a baby backpack and I was on a dirt bike with my dad.
- JRJoe Rogan
(inhales deeply)
- MCMiley Cyrus
And he was riding and a tree had fallen and he ducked and I didn't and I hit my head on the tree.
- JRJoe Rogan
Oh, Jesus Christ.
- MCMiley Cyrus
It was bad. So that's what's wrong. Everyone's asked me that for years.
- JRJoe Rogan
Well that, you know, that's a common theme with wild people. Do you know that?
- MCMiley Cyrus
Yes.
- JRJoe Rogan
Sam Kinison got hit by a car when he was, like, a little kid and, and, and his brother Bill said it completely changed his life.
- MCMiley Cyrus
We have just different standards.
- JRJoe Rogan
He was this, like, real com... Same thing with Roseanne Barr. She got hit by a car when she was 15. Before that, she was, like, mild-mannered, b- b- really good at math. After she got hit by a car, she had to spend nine months in a mental institution, couldn't count anymore-
- MCMiley Cyrus
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
... and she became this wild lady who, who everybody knows as Roseanne.
- MCMiley Cyrus
Right. I mean, maybe I, maybe I'm thankful for it. Maybe it, like, I don't know, knocked me into this identity or something.
- JRJoe Rogan
I think, I think there's something to... I'm not kidding-
- MCMiley Cyrus
He knows that there's something to that. Dr. Amen, we've talked about this a lot. So when I get really overwhelmed, I also have a tendency that if I know something's stupid, I just gotta try it to know that it's stupid, which is, makes it stupid 'cause I already knew about it. Sometimes I'm like, "Is it better to know it's dumb and do it or to not know it's dumb and do it?"
- JRJoe Rogan
But don't you think part of that-
- MCMiley Cyrus
That's the head injury.
- JRJoe Rogan
Well, maybe. But also, development-
- MCMiley Cyrus
It's the final home of your brakes. You know?
- JRJoe Rogan
But just the way you developed as a human being, being that famous at, you know, 12 years old doing stadiums.
- MCMiley Cyrus
But I do like, I like looking at my brain and going, "Okay, listen, like, someone cut my brakes, right, on my brain." And I have to take all the things, omega... I- I've been, was vegan for a very long time and I've had to introduce fish and omegas into my life because my brain wasn't functioning properly.
- JRJoe Rogan
Mm.
- MCMiley Cyrus
Um, and-
- JRJoe Rogan
Don't tell that to the vegans.
- MCMiley Cyrus
I know.
- JRJoe Rogan
They'll come for you.
- MCMiley Cyrus
That's... They're gonna come for me, but that's okay.
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- MCMiley Cyrus
Um, I'm used to people coming for me and it's gonna be-
- JRJoe Rogan
You need to eat more celery.
- 35:14 – 41:55
Resilience, relationships, and autonomy: being labeled ‘cold’ for moving on
- MCMiley Cyrus
... 'cause, like, I love dudes, you know? And I, I actually relate to dudes a lot more. Um, but I think men in my life have told me that I'm cold or I'm a cold fucking bitch because I leave when things are done. I was actually gonna say, you know-
- JRJoe Rogan
Well, maybe you've been dating bitches.
- MCMiley Cyrus
I'm really into a lot of freaky things, but I don't fuck dead guys. And when it's over, it's over, and you're dead to me, and we move on.
- JRJoe Rogan
Wow.
- MCMiley Cyrus
You know? So that's how I feel about it.
- JRJoe Rogan
That's heavy. That's heavy.
- MCMiley Cyrus
And, uh, I'll do a lot of things, but I don't do that. And so I, um, think that that's where I've gotten the idea, which actually I'm glad you just said that to me because I, I get this kind of beaten into the brain from all different angles. My mom's like... You know, everyone else is proud of me for being, like you said, resilient.
- JRJoe Rogan
Yeah.
- MCMiley Cyrus
And I have a lot of guilt. I'm a very guilty person.
- JRJoe Rogan
But that sounds like you're talking to guys who want you to feel guilty because-
- MCMiley Cyrus
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
... you don't feel emotional about it ending.
- MCMiley Cyrus
And this is the first time-
- JRJoe Rogan
People need to learn how to just let shit go if they like you or if they love you.
- MCMiley Cyrus
If they love you, they have to.
- JRJoe Rogan
If they love you, they-
- MCMiley Cyrus
But if they don't have to, that's a hard thing.
- JRJoe Rogan
... should want you to be happy. Just let it pass and then be friends.
- MCMiley Cyrus
Okay, so-
- JRJoe Rogan
If they can't do that, that's on them. That's not on you-
- MCMiley Cyrus
That's why I'm looking for an older man-
- JRJoe Rogan
... because you're resilient.
- MCMiley Cyrus
... because these, like, guys that are... You know, I definitely should be with someone, I think, that-
- JRJoe Rogan
You gotta find Nick Nolte.
- MCMiley Cyrus
This is what I'm thinking. (laughs) This is what I'm think, this is what I'm thinking. I don't need a man or a woman that's gonna take care of me. I can take care of me 'cause I've got money, I've got all the things that I need to take care of myself. I need them to be able to take care of them.
- JRJoe Rogan
Yeah.
- MCMiley Cyrus
Because somehow I keep getting into, to-
- JRJoe Rogan
Well, you need someone with autonomy.
- MCMiley Cyrus
Yes.
- JRJoe Rogan
That's what you need. You need someone who d- d- they don't need your constant approval and affection and attention-
- 41:55 – 1:14:44
Exercise as therapy: high energy, chronic pain, and the need for rigorous training
- JRJoe Rogan
Do you, you have so much energy, like the way you talk and all the sentences run on into the next.
- MCMiley Cyrus
(laughs)
- JRJoe Rogan
Do you exercise?
- MCMiley Cyrus
Yes, I exercise.
- JRJoe Rogan
W- what do you do?
- MCMiley Cyrus
I love Pilates, and, uh, it's not super, I guess, cardio.
- JRJoe Rogan
I think you need to do something aggro.
- MCMiley Cyrus
I need to run a little bit more. I-
- JRJoe Rogan
You need to do something aggro.
- MCMiley Cyrus
I got a bag being put in my house right now, so I'm gonna, next time I'm here, I'll show you. I'll be able to-
- JRJoe Rogan
Okay, but-
- MCMiley Cyrus
... beat the shit out of it.
- JRJoe Rogan
... protect your hands. Like, if you, if you do-
- MCMiley Cyrus
Oh, yeah. These nails come off. I just have them taped on.
- JRJoe Rogan
Okay. Okay.
- MCMiley Cyrus
This is Dolly style. Everything about me is taped on, honey.
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- MCMiley Cyrus
Uh, it's an easy-
- JRJoe Rogan
Dolly style.
- MCMiley Cyrus
... at night, you just go and I like, "Ah." Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
But I know-
- MCMiley Cyrus
It's all just tape.
- JRJoe Rogan
... people that have-
- MCMiley Cyrus
It's an illusion.
- JRJoe Rogan
... that play guitar and, and do-
- MCMiley Cyrus
Oh, yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
... musical instruments and they hurt their hands punching things.
- MCMiley Cyrus
I actually had a, uh, I had a guy f-... told me that I had grubby little kid hands. And I liked that about it because I did have dirt. And that was because this was at a time where I was doing drugs, and I wanted to know where the hell the gophers go.
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- MCMiley Cyrus
So, there was a gopher hole in my backyard. And I'm like, "Where do they keep going?"
Episode duration: 2:06:31
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