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Joe Rogan Experience #1541 - Bridget Phetasy

Writer, stand-up comedian, and cultural commentator Bridget Phetasy’s writings can be found in The Spectator, Quillette, and The New York Times. In addition, she’s the host of the YouTube program Dumpster Fire, and the podcast Walk-Ins Welcome. @phetasy

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  1. 0:0015:00

    (drumming) Joe Rogan podcast,…

    1. NA

      (drumming) Joe Rogan podcast, check it out.

    2. The Joe Rogan Experience.

    3. JR

      Train by day, Joe Rogan podcast by night, all day. (rock music plays) Oh, hello, Bridget.

    4. BP

      Hello.

    5. JR

      Welcome.

    6. BP

      We're gonna save the world-

    7. JR

      W- yeah, that's what I heard you were gonna say.

    8. BP

      ... right now.

    9. JR

      Th- I'm sorry for being late for the most California reason ever.

    10. BP

      (laughs)

    11. JR

      I d- I really, I thought I was meditating for 20 minutes and I was 45 minutes in, I was like, "What happened?"

    12. BP

      Last time we talked, you hadn't even started meditating yet, so tell me about this journey.

    13. JR

      Well, I d- I would do it occasionally.

    14. BP

      Yeah, but you weren't really into it.

    15. JR

      But most of the time, I was getting in the tank.

    16. BP

      Uh-huh.

    17. JR

      Which is kind of like meditating.

    18. BP

      Uh-huh.

    19. JR

      But, you know, the, the tank is its own thing.

    20. BP

      Yeah.

    21. JR

      Uh, but, yeah, I've been doing... I, I, uh, had this guy James Nestor on, he's the author of Breathe. Breath, Breathe, Breath.

    22. BP

      Breath. Breath.

    23. JR

      Breath. Breath. Breath. The book is Breath. I always forget which ones has the E at the end.

    24. BP

      (laughs)

    25. JR

      (laughs) Um, but, uh, I g- I really got into breathing exercises afterwards.

    26. BP

      Uh-huh.

    27. JR

      And so, I mean, I'm calling it meditating, but I'm really doing both. I'm meditating and doing... And while I'm doing these breathing exercises, I'm just concentrating on breath. It is the-

    28. BP

      Trippy.

    29. JR

      It is the best fucking stress reliever.

    30. BP

      Yeah.

  2. 15:0030:00

    Oh, I haven't seen…

    1. JR

      I saw a video. There's a really terrible video that's going around right now that people are using as evidence that cops are racist because they didn't shoot this white guy who wound up shooting and killing a cop in Oklahoma. Did you see it?

    2. BP

      Oh, I haven't seen it.

    3. JR

      It's a-

    4. BP

      I've been blissfully offline.

    5. JR

      Every time I drink coffee with cream I say, "I'm not gonna do that again," 'cause I do it on the podcast and then I get phlegm and I have to... (coughs)

    6. BP

      Oh. That's all right. It makes you human, Joe.

    7. JR

      (clears throat) Sorry for people listening.

    8. BP

      (laughs)

    9. JR

      It's annoying, bro. But it's, it's a bad video. Um, they pull this guy over. They mace him. Um, they, they, they, they, they hit him with the pepper spray. They tase him. They do everything. And he's just as f- drugged up or a psycho.

    10. BP

      Yeah.

    11. JR

      Who knows? And they get into some sort of a wrestling exchange and he gets the cop's gun and unloads-

    12. BP

      Whoa.

    13. JR

      ... into this guy's bo-... And you hear the cop-

    14. BP

      Wow.

    15. JR

      You... From the cop's body camera, you see him get shot and you see him scream.

    16. BP

      This is the fucking thing about our dystopia that I hate. I've seen someone die, like, every day for the t- past two weeks online. You know, where it's just-

    17. JR

      But, but here's my point. This... People are looking at this saying, "Oh, the cops are racist 'cause if that was a Black guy, they would have shot him."

    18. BP

      Right.

    19. JR

      My position is, okay, this is... These are two totally different cops and maybe they didn't shoot him because they would have never shot anybody. May- maybe these t-

    20. BP

      Right, right, right.

    21. JR

      ... these cops never would have shot a Black guy or a white guy or an Asian guy or anybody. But the point is, this is how dangerous it is to be a cop.

    22. BP

      Right.

    23. JR

      And this is why non-lea... There's two cops on one guy and they can't control this motherfucker.

    24. BP

      Yeah.

    25. JR

      And this is why non-lethal methods are... Th- the cops are reluctant to use them sometimes.

    26. BP

      Yeah.

    27. JR

      And this is also... It just shows you how fucking hard it is to be a cop. You get this crazy dude and you can't tase him, you can't pepper spray him.

    28. BP

      No.

    29. JR

      He still gets your gun and, and shoots and kills one of you.

    30. BP

      (laughs) You're-

  3. 30:0045:00

    It is a good…

    1. BP

      And it seemed like there were reasonable conversa-... It seemed pretty, you know, reasonable. It wasn't, like, screaming on one side and then other... It was, like, pretty chill.

    2. JR

      It is a good question, right? Like, if there's something that's openly racist and represents one of the worst aspects of our country's history, like, w- how do you treat it? Do you just leave a statue up? Or should we have, like... Maybe we should have, like, a, a graveyard for Confederate statues, and you could, you could go, "And this one was actually in w- uh, Huntsville, Alabama."

    3. BP

      (laughs)

    4. JR

      "It was actually in front of the courthouse until last year. Isn't that crazy?"

    5. BP

      Mm-hmm. (laughs)

    6. JR

      I'm like, (laughs) y- you could go on a tour. And, like, instead of taking them down and smashing them, wouldn't it be interesting if there was a place you can go where you could see all of them? But then-

    7. BP

      I-

    8. JR

      ... people would go that would be like-

    9. BP

      And-

    10. JR

      ... "We need to put these back!"

    11. BP

      (laughs) Yeah.

    12. JR

      "Put them back where they belong!"

    13. BP

      Well, I, I feel kinda like, yeah, we don't need them, you know, and some... Uh, I, but the problem is there's a process that we usually go through to take them down.

    14. JR

      Yeah.

    15. BP

      So I would generally err on the side of going through the process, but...

    16. JR

      Yeah, but the process doesn't work sometimes.

    17. BP

      Yeah, exactly.

    18. JR

      And sometimes people just feel like they just wanna pull them down. Espe-... This is another thing that's going on right now. This is the perfect storm, the convergence of all these different things that are happening at the same time, and one of them being the COVID lockdown.

    19. BP

      Yeah.

    20. JR

      Social media, the COVID lockdown, the polarization of our country with Trump, and then, you know, this, this weird thing where everybody has to pretend that Biden isn't dying.

    21. BP

      (laughs)

    22. JR

      ... like, this is all happening together at the same time. Like, everyone has to pretend he's gonna do a great job.

    23. BP

      Yeah.

    24. JR

      "I'm gonna vote for him. We just need to get Trump out of office." Like, oh my God. Like-

    25. BP

      Yeah.

    26. JR

      ... can we freeze this?

    27. BP

      Yeah.

    28. JR

      Can we freeze this and rethink this?

    29. BP

      Y-

    30. JR

      Do you guys have anybody else on deck?

  4. 45:001:00:00

    Oh, it's Turning Point?…

    1. JR

      of Rally Forge, said in an emailed statement Wednesday that the posts were nothing more than, in his quote, "Real kids operating real social media profiles and promoting mainstream American values." He said, "What these young Arizona activists are doing is honest and sincere political activism in the 21st century and in the age of COVID-19," whose firm was linked by the Post to the Turning Point project.

    2. BP

      Oh, it's Turning Point? Okay.

    3. JR

      Yeah. It did not respond to questions.

    4. BP

      I was wondering.

    5. JR

      Uh, "Neither Turning Point Action nor the affiliated Turning Point USA responded for request."

    6. BP

      (laughs)

    7. JR

      "Turning Point is a conservative youth outreach organization. Its founder, Charlie Kirk, was a featured speaker at the Republican National Convention." Yeah. Um, so-

    8. BP

      So it's like a sweat shop of, like-

    9. JR

      So they're paying kids?

    10. BP

      (laughs)

    11. NA

      Yeah, I was trying to figure out how much they're paying this, so you're like, "Is this is like a job, or..."

    12. BP

      Like, it's just these little political activist kids.

    13. JR

      Imagine if there was a lot of money in it, 'cause you got, like, real writers.

    14. BP

      (laughs)

    15. JR

      Start... Like, people like you start-

    16. NA

      That's why I would wonder, like, if it's a good-

    17. JR

      (laughs)

    18. NA

      ... shoe money to run.

    19. BP

      Oh, I could start some serious dissent.

    20. JR

      That's what I'm saying.

    21. NA

      (laughs)

    22. JR

      (laughs)

    23. BP

      Everybody on both sides should be happy I'm not on either one of these fucking sides, and you too.

    24. NA

      (laughs)

    25. BP

      (laughs)

    26. JR

      (laughs) For real, right?

    27. BP

      They should be thanking us-

    28. JR

      For real.

    29. BP

      ... that we're not picking a fucking side.

    30. JR

      Oh, yeah.

  5. 1:00:001:10:15

    Yeah. …

    1. JR

      and we don't have a history of overcoming issues and we don't have tools in terms of like whether it's exercise or meditation or yoga or whatever you do to alleviate tension, and then you have the fucking gasoline which is social media-

    2. BP

      Yeah.

    3. JR

      ... and you're throwing gasoline on your fire instead of figuring out a way to put out the coals, you're just gonna have madness. And there's so many people that are unhinged-

    4. BP

      Yeah. Yeah.

    5. JR

      ... right now. Unhinged.

    6. BP

      And it's... And they've been alone and isolated, and it, it just shows how much you need that social interaction-

    7. JR

      Yes.

    8. BP

      ... because people, I feel like, are losing their manners, you know? I've heard from many people... And it... My, my sister texted me. She said, "I just saw a real-life Facebook fight at dinner." And it was like... And someone else texted me and he said, "I just saw a real-life Twitter interaction in the grocery store." So this behavior that generally is relegated to the way we are when we're anonymous or not anonymous online with each other that you would never necessarily be if you were face to face, because everybody's been online, it's like they're starting to behave that way in real life.

    9. JR

      Yeah.

    10. BP

      That's not good.

    11. JR

      Well, that's what everybody's afraid of, was afraid of when it comes to, like, video games.

    12. BP

      Yeah.

    13. JR

      People are afraid that, like, violent video games were forcing people or were going to cause people to be violent in real life. I don't think that's real 'cause, uh-

    14. BP

      Mm, I think they've done studies that that's not real.

    15. JR

      As a matter of fact, I think-

    16. BP

      They've, they've never proven that t-... I think there's-

    17. JR

      I think it's the opposite.

    18. BP

      ... actually violence has gone down.

    19. JR

      Yes.

    20. BP

      Yeah.

    21. JR

      I think it's the opposite. Um, uh, but I think that there's something about the way human beings are just interacting with other human beings. Those video games, you're not shooting a real person. You're shooting a v- a v- an a- avatar, you know?

    22. BP

      Yeah.

    23. JR

      You're shooting a thing and it's fun. The, the thing about interaction with people is you're really hurting someone's feelings.

    24. BP

      Yeah.

    25. JR

      And then you get used to doing that. And then you don't... You're not around people a lot.

    26. BP

      Yeah.

    27. JR

      Most of your interactions are just this way. And then when you are around people, you behave in the same way that you would if people weren't in front of you.

    28. BP

      Yeah. I mean, I think about how much...... um, like how many mental health tools I need. I don't, I'm n- I, I'm like you, I have mental health problems. I've had anxiety in my past. I had debilitating hypochondria that I overcame.

    29. JR

      How'd you overcome it?

    30. BP

      Man, I, I should really write a book about it. I should write, Kill Your Hypochondria B- Before It Kills You, because it was debilitating. (laughs)

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