The Joe Rogan ExperienceJoe Rogan Experience #1604 - Jamar Neighbors
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150 min read · 30,130 words- 0:02 – 1:33
Reuniting over Comedy Store memories and the meaning of getting your name on the wall
- JNJamar Neighbors
(drum roll) Joe Rogan podcast, check it out.
- JRJoe Rogan
The Joe Rogan Experience.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Train by day, Joe Rogan podcast by night. All day. (rock music plays)
- JRJoe Rogan
All right, we might ... Salute, my brother.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yes, sir.
- JRJoe Rogan
So good to see you.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Man, you too, bro.
- JRJoe Rogan
Dawg, brings me back to The Comedy Store. Ugh. Ugh, the days. I'm gonna be- I'm gonna be, one day I'm gonna be looking back on those days and just going, "What a, what a lucky time we had there."
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
You know? We were so lucky. So lucky to be in that spot at that time in that moment in history. You know?
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah. Dude, I, um, n- ... Some guy wanted me to write something about, like, s- a haunted comedy club, so, like, one of their last days that I was out there before I came out here. So I walked all the way down the street, and then I walked all the way to the, um, to The Comedy Store. And it was closed, it was shut down and it's abandoned.
- JRJoe Rogan
That is weird.
- JNJamar Neighbors
It is. And I was just looking at, I was just looking at the whole place, taking it in. And I was just like, "Damn." I was like ... And I just walked off. (laughs) Like, God, I, I looked at my name, and I was up there like, "Damn, man, I worked so hard to get that shit on there."
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
And I just walked off. I took nothing, like, like, nothing, (laughs) like, back to go write about. And I was just like, "Damn, I worked so hard to get that. All right." (laughs) You know, like ...
- JRJoe Rogan
Yeah, getting your name up on the wall of that place is like (blows out air through teeth) ... I mean, for a comedian, it's like the, that's the stamp.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Hell, yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
You got the stamp.
- 1:33 – 4:01
Why it took Jamar so long to get passed: Mitzi, showcases, and “going dirty too early”
- JNJamar Neighbors
Hell, yeah. And, and they wouldn't d- and they wouldn't, (laughs) they wouldn't pass me for the longest, dude.
- JRJoe Rogan
How long?
- JNJamar Neighbors
Like ... Oh, man. So I started going there at 19, and, um-
- JRJoe Rogan
When you were 19 years old?
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah. Yeah. I've been doing comedy for, like, 17 years.
- JRJoe Rogan
What year was it when you got passed?
- JNJamar Neighbors
Probably, like, 2000 and f- ... When is ... I'm trying to do the math for this. Like, 2014 maybe. Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
So that was, like, right when I was coming back.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And they would, they, they would never pass ... I remember, I remember doing a showcase in front of Mitzi. (laughs) I did a showcase in front of Mitzi. This is when Mitzi came in and she was all, like, you know, much respect, but, like, the crap hit him, like, really light.
- JRJoe Rogan
Yeah. Yeah.
- JNJamar Neighbors
And they sat her in the back, and everybody was like, "Oh my God, it's Mitzi. Oh my God, it's Mitzi. Oh my God, it's Mitzi." We all went up, and we all did our sets. Like, it was me, it was, uh, it was, it was Jerrod, it was Angelo Bowers, it was Josh Adame. It was, like, all of us. And then, so we all go up and do our sets and shit. And mind you, like, this is a open mic, so, um, I go up, and, um, the first joke I said, I was up there like, I was just like, "Yeah, man." I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, "Michael Jackson could, could fuck anybody he want to. You know what I'm saying?"
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
I was like, I was like ... You know, before, before, before everybody's was doing th- that type of joke.
- JRJoe Rogan
Go ahead.
- JNJamar Neighbors
I, I was really like, I was really like, "Michael Jackson could do whatever the fuck he want to do. Da-da-da-da-da-da-da." And then, um, and then, uh, Mitzi gets up (laughs) and walks out. Right?
- JRJoe Rogan
Oh, no.
- JNJamar Neighbors
She just walks out. And then, um, I thought that my friend in back, I mean, that my friend, uh, Angelo walked her, because he went up after me. And then, uh, the next day, remember Tommy?
- JRJoe Rogan
Yeah.
- JNJamar Neighbors
The next day, uh, Tommy was at the, like, "What in the fuck did you think you were doing?" And I was like, "Me?" He was ... I was like, um, uh, I was like, "I was j- I was doing my standup." I was like, "I rocked that shit." And I was at, like, "It was only four people in here." He was at the, like, "You went dirty, bro. It was only 6:00. Mitzi called you a pig." (laughs)
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
(laughs) And I'm so ... And I was like ... (laughs)
- JRJoe Rogan
"You went, you went dirty. It was only 6:00." Like, there's an hour-
- JNJamar Neighbors
I was like-
- JRJoe Rogan
... where you can tell non-dirty jokes.
- JNJamar Neighbors
It's fucked up 'cause I was like, "I talk like this all the time." I was like, "3:00 if we're in the morning."
- JRJoe Rogan
Ah.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Or like 9:00. No matter.
- JRJoe Rogan
That's hilarious.
- JNJamar Neighbors
So I walked Mitzi, and that's why ... uh, that's one of the reason it took me forever to get passed.
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- 4:01 – 6:23
Jealousy, development spots, and forcing stage time by any means
- JNJamar Neighbors
(sighs) So, yeah. So, uh, th- then, then, then my friends started getting passed. Uh, uh, Willy Hunter and, uh, and Jerrod got passed. And I was still, I was still in the development, like, in the Belly Room. They still passed me to the Belly Room.
- JRJoe Rogan
Mm-hmm.
- JNJamar Neighbors
And then, so I would work in there and stuff like that. And then, um ... And then, uh, uh, I, I would go up. Like, like, I would start coming back, and I, I went up and everything like that. And I would kill every fucking time, like, during the open mic and during, like, the, the friends and family part. And, um, a- ... I got frustrated because all my friends ... I ain't gonna lie, I got frustrated 'cause all my friends were getting passed, and I was at the, like, "Man, I'm, I'm funny as fuck too."
- JRJoe Rogan
Yeah.
- JNJamar Neighbors
You know, like, like, "What the fuck?" So every time after I would, I would kill at the store, I would reach out to ... I would look at Tommy in the booth, and I'd be like, "Yo, Tommy." And I was like, "You see what I just did in here."
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
I was like, "You passing me this week?"
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
And then he'd be, like, he'd be, like, he was just laughing in the back. And I'd be like, "Okay."
- JRJoe Rogan
Oh.
- JNJamar Neighbors
And I was like, "I'll be back next week, and we'll do it again." Like ... (laughs)
- JRJoe Rogan
Oh, man. When he had power over the store, that was a terrible position.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
Terrible po- ... To have a, um, a insane person in charge of running the c- the greatest comedy club in the world's ever known.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah, man. But-
- JRJoe Rogan
(sighs) Those days.
- JNJamar Neighbors
But I ... But I appreciate, I actually appreciate how hard he made it for me, though. You know what I'm saying?
- JRJoe Rogan
It just... Yeah. It, adversity makes you stronger if you do stick it out. But when you're a young comic and your friends are doing well and you're not ...
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
Like, I remember when I was an open mic-er, I was dirty. And, uh, the other guys that were clean started to get work as hosts in town. And I could only get, like, road gigs.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
And I remember feeling so jealous. Like, "God."... why can't I get in the ... I got to go to see them, like I'd be, I'd be hanging out with them, I'd go to see them at a club and they would, they would host in front of like 300 super polite people at a really nice club. Everyone was seated and laughing at everything. And I would go to these dirty bars in New Hampshire. Yeah. And I was like- Yeah. ... "Oh my god- Yeah. ... I've taken a bad path." (laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
Like, like, like my friends, uh, like my friends would, um, like my friends would get like shows and stuff. But like, and like, um, he was like, um ... It was like Jerrod, it was like Angelo Bowers and like all these guys 'cause they, they, like, they came, like they came on the scene, those guys came on the scene already knowing who they were. Like I, I was, I was more of like a I was still figuring it out kinda sorta and all this stuff. I like, I, I'm a lot to figure out for myself too.
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- 6:23 – 9:21
Bringer shows explained: the pay-to-play trap and why it stunts growth
- JNJamar Neighbors
You know what I'm saying? So I'm like, um, so I was like, "Damn man, nobody would book me." I'm like, "Man, fuck." So what I would do is I would go on Craigslist and I would, um, I would, um, I would book bringer shows, but I would never bring anybody. And that's how I would get my shows. They'd be like-
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
... "Oh, are you gonna bring 15 people?" I'm like, "Yeah, I'm gonna bring 15 people." And I show up and I bring nobody, but they would still let me go up. And I was like, "All right, well this is what's gonna happen. You're not gonna bring anybody, but what you're gonna do is you're gonna go up there-"
- JRJoe Rogan
Explain a bringer show to people 'cause a lot of people don't know what a bringer show is.
- JNJamar Neighbors
So bringer show is like when you're like a younger comic and you wanna do shows and stuff, there are promoters who are like, "Hey, you can do, you can do, um, you can do a show here in the Belly Room, but you have to bring 20 people." Right?
- JRJoe Rogan
Was it that many?
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
Is it 20?
- JNJamar Neighbors
Sometimes it'd be 20, sometimes it'd be 15.
- JRJoe Rogan
But the Belly Room only seats like 80.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah. Yeah. And some people, it-
- JRJoe Rogan
What's the matter, Jamie?
- GUGuest
When I was doing music coming up very just like this, the place we used to play would make us sell 100 tickets to play.
- JRJoe Rogan
What?
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- GUGuest
(laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
And they, and, and, and, and here's how, and here's, and here's what they used to do. They used to say shit like, uh, they used to say shit like, "Listen," he was like, eh, eh, "this is comedy. Every show's a bringer show." You know what I'm saying? He was like, "You're gonna be, have to bring people for the rest of your life." You know what I'm saying? So-
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
And I was up there like, "Nigga, my grandma is not going to come out to every single fucking show." (laughs) Like I don't know 20 people.
- JRJoe Rogan
That's a crazy number. That's a crazy number. I'd, I, they didn't have that in Boston when I started out.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
They just had open mic nights and people either came or they can't.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah. See, see, over there, uh, I don't, I, I haven't done, no I've done Boston like one time, but I haven't done like their scene. And, um-
- JRJoe Rogan
What'd you do out there?
- JNJamar Neighbors
Uh, I did a, I did a show, uh-
- JRJoe Rogan
Did you do Laugh Boston, that club?
- JNJamar Neighbors
I think it was an independent show that like Black Thought was running or some... No, no, no, no, no, that's Philly. No, no. Okay. I've never done Boston.
- JRJoe Rogan
Oh, okay.
- JNJamar Neighbors
I was in Philly and Boston. All right. Yeah. But I, um, but out ... Oh fuck, I forgot what the fuck I was gonna say.
- 9:21 – 11:04
Austin scouting trip: shows, Vulcan, Kill Tony, and the gravity shift from LA
- JRJoe Rogan
What are you doing out here?
- JNJamar Neighbors
Uh, so I- I'm doing shows all week. I've been doing shows all week. I, I told myself earlier I was here from the 28th through the first in December, and, uh, uh, from the 28th, December 21st, uh, to the first. And, uh, just to get a little taste of Austin.
- JRJoe Rogan
Why? You thinking about coming out here?
- JNJamar Neighbors
Wink, wink.
- JRJoe Rogan
Wink, wink. (laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
Wink, wink.
- JRJoe Rogan
Jamar.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Whoa, whoa, whoa. (laughs)
- JRJoe Rogan
Come on.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Austin-
- JRJoe Rogan
I'm bringing everybody out here. Let's do it.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Joe, you know good as hell well, we all following you. (laughs)
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
You know it. Right?
- JRJoe Rogan
Listen, once I open the club, I'm gonna put the bat signal up.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yo. Yo. And then so, uh, so I said, "All right." My, my, uh, my birthday was January 25th, you know? And then so I said, "Well, you know, what are you ..." I always think at the beginning of the year, like, "What are you gonna do for your birthday?" You know? And I'm like, "Mm." I'm like, "All right. You can either go hang out with your family. Uh, you can go fuck some hoes at Jeff Ross' house."
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
Or, uh, or, or you could take care of your little career and uh, and uh, go to Austin and do shows for a week." And I was at the like, "All right. Well, I've done all except for one, so I'm gonna go to Austin and do shows for a week." And I just booked it and I came out here.
- JRJoe Rogan
Nice.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah, man.
- JRJoe Rogan
We've been doing shows at, uh, there's a place in town called Vulcan Gas Company. That's a great little spot.
- JNJamar Neighbors
I did that yesterday.
- JRJoe Rogan
Oh, it's nice, right?
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah. I love it.
- JRJoe Rogan
It's a great spot. A little weird people above you.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
A little weird, but-
- JNJamar Neighbors
The stage is kind of skinny too.
- JRJoe Rogan
Yeah.
- JNJamar Neighbors
But-
- 11:04 – 13:16
Tony Hinchcliffe’s “Corvette Confidence” and what makes a killer roaster
- JNJamar Neighbors
I lo- I love Tony. I like his, uh, like I lo- I lo- I think he, I think he's such a funny person, but I like his confidence.
- JRJoe Rogan
Oh yeah.
- JNJamar Neighbors
(laughs) Like ...
- JRJoe Rogan
It's ridiculous.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Like (laughs)
- JRJoe Rogan
It's ridiculous. Doesn't even make any sense.
- JNJamar Neighbors
So he had that, he had that confidence like d- when we'd do the, the open mic at the Improv, like when we were like little dudes and he'd be like-
- JRJoe Rogan
Look at him. (laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah. (laughs)
- JRJoe Rogan
Look at him with the ... That's the Undertaker's championship belt that he gave me. And of course I have to, I had to give it to Tony. Like there's no way I couldn't. Like Tony needed that in his life.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
And him with the Undertaker's belt on it said, "You got to take your shirt off photo."
- JNJamar Neighbors
(laughs)
- JRJoe Rogan
... with the Undertaker's belt on. (laughs)
- GUGuest
Yo.
- JRJoe Rogan
Look at him.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah. Fucking Tony Hinchcliffe.
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
And like, and like-
- JRJoe Rogan
Best roaster in the fucking game.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
That dude-
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
... he's so quick.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's fucking... Yeah, it's fucking the truth, dude. He, um... But yet, he had that confidence in an open mic and then so, people, like when we were coming up, people would be like, people like, "Damn." Like, "How... Why... How does... How is he even feeling like that?"
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
Like, like, he... Like, like, "How does he even feel like that? Like, we don't even know our next joke and he's just up there like-" (laughs)
- JRJoe Rogan
Super confident. Well, you know, he drove... You know he bought that Corvette.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
He started calling it Corvette Confidence.
- 13:16 – 20:39
Pandemic-era violence and LA’s confusing restrictions (including ‘no TVs outside’)
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh, man. I fucking... Yeah. So thinking about moving out here, but, uh, I was telling them outside, somebody got shot outside of my Airbnb a day ago.
- JRJoe Rogan
Out here?
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah, in front of my Airbnb, in the middle of me about to call a Uber.
- JRJoe Rogan
I wonder what like the numbers are in the country in terms of like when the pandemic started to now, like how much violence has gone up.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
It probably going up a lot. A lot.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Do you think it's because, uh... Do you think it's because you can get away with it more 'cause everybody wearing masks?
- JRJoe Rogan
I think there's that. I think there's also... When you have economic instability, when so many people lost their jobs-
- JNJamar Neighbors
Mm-hmm.
- JRJoe Rogan
... and so many pe- they don't know where they're going to make money, people get desperate, and then people get angry, they get evicted, they get forced out of their homes, they get l- they lose their jobs, they lose their car, their car gets repossessed, and they don't... You know, you... There's people that are being almost forced into crime-
- JNJamar Neighbors
Mm-hmm.
- JRJoe Rogan
... in this, in this time-
- JNJamar Neighbors
Mm-hmm.
- JRJoe Rogan
... that haven't been in their whole life. Like there's people that are like, you know, they're kind of maybe would be slightly inclined to do something shady, but they got a good job and they're gonna, like, keep, keep on keeping on.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah, yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
But then when that job is gone-
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
... and then, and then there's no money coming in, people start plotting and scheming and it's just natural.
- JNJamar Neighbors
It's like-
- JRJoe Rogan
They get desperate.
- JNJamar Neighbors
It's like that movie, uh... What's that Jim Carrey movie? The, uh, Fun with Dick and Jane where, uh, where they lost everything and then started-
- JRJoe Rogan
I never saw that one.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah, yeah. (laughs) Where they lost everything so they started going on like a crime spree and all that shit.
- JRJoe Rogan
Oh, really?
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah, yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
Like a Bonnie and Clyde type deal?
- JNJamar Neighbors
(laughs) Yeah. So what happened... So what happened is that, like... Okay, so when, when COVID hit or whatever, everybody started getting unemployment, right?
- JRJoe Rogan
Mm-hmm.
- JNJamar Neighbors
So, uh, so you're talking about like scheming and all this shit. So, um, (laughs) I went over my aunt's house and my big brother was over there and he was up to like, uh, he was up to like, "Yeah, man." He was up to like, "So, uh, so what you gonna do?" And I was like, "Uh, you know, man. I mean, you know, I might... may draw and do some art and sell that and stuff." He was up to like, "Or..." And my little brother is in prison so he's like, "Or we can get that nigga Chase social security number in there and get... and then, and then, and then, and then type that in and get his, uh, and get his unemployment."
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- 20:39 – 21:51
Outdoor comedy experiments: window sets, amphitheaters, and why clubs matter
- JRJoe Rogan
These, uh, outdoor shows are different too. It's, uh, it's weird doing an outdoor show. Like, the- the comedy, the- the laughter is great, it's fun, people are all excited, but there's an echo. You know, I never liked outdoor amphitheater shows.
- JNJamar Neighbors
No?
- JRJoe Rogan
I- I've done a few of them, but they're just not as good.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Like them festival shows?
- JRJoe Rogan
Yeah.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Like Audible and shit?
- JRJoe Rogan
They're not as good. They're not as good. What you really wanna do is you wanna w- uh, the- the best shit is like less than f- you know, less than 500 people's really ideal.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
Like the main room is ideal.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Lit, yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
Packed main room, packed OR, uh, Comedy Works in Denver.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
You know, uh, Cap City in Austin when it was open, that kinda shit. Low ceiling, pow!
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
The laughter rocks the fucking place.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
Ah!
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
It's wild. That's what you want.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Outdoor shows, like we were doing this, uh, we were doing this one at- at a- at an amphitheater in, um, uh, off of ... Fuck, what is that? The- it's like off of 3rd Street in like, uh, in Beverly. I mean, like 3rd Street in Beverly run. Uh, like Beverly, uh, what is it? Pan Pacific Park.
- JRJoe Rogan
Mm-hmm.
- JNJamar Neighbors
And, uh, they have an amphitheater out there and we were doing shows out there. People would roll up on their bikes and shit and just sit down in the amphitheater. And it was dope, you know, it reminded me of, uh, remember Charlie Barnett?
- JRJoe Rogan
Yes.
- JNJamar Neighbors
The guy that-
- JRJoe Rogan
Yes. Yes.
- JNJamar Neighbors
... New York Comic.
- JRJoe Rogan
Very much so.
- JNJamar Neighbors
It reminded me of doing performances like that.
- JRJoe Rogan
Yes.
- 21:51 – 25:51
Apartment Show Jammers: building a DIY ‘club’ at home during lockdown
- JNJamar Neighbors
Like, where it's like ... You know, like, like, uh, so it had that vibes, you know? Or at least that, or at least that was- that was what I tried to bring to it. But, um, but it's uh ... So they weren't bad. I, for a- I, for a second was the only person doing indoor shows, like I- I- I think Tony told you I was running this show outta my apartment.
- JRJoe Rogan
Yeah. (laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
(laughs) It was called the- it was called the Apartment Show Jammers, because- because this is wh-
- JRJoe Rogan
Didn't Tony do it?
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah, he did do it.
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
You know, man-
- GUGuest
How many people did you have in there?
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yo, man, it was, hey, yo, it was lit. It was like 20 people in that bitch.
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
Like super spreader, bro. Like ... (laughs)
- GUGuest
No testing.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Hell no, hell no.
- GUGuest
(laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
I full- I can't afford that goddamn COVID shit, like them damn tests.
- GUGuest
I get it.
- JNJamar Neighbors
And all that stuff, so I was- I was giving people hand sanitizer and I provided a mask and ... 'Cause what was happening was I started it in, uh, last- last June. Like right when, um, like right when COVID hit and comics were like going crazy because we, you know, we didn't have our passion to, you know, f- fuck with or whatever. And I was like, "Damn." And I said, "You know what I'm about to do?" I said, "Fuck it." I said, uh, I said, "I'm about to go buy a, um, I'm about to go buy a stereo, I'm about to go buy a microphone and, um, I'm gonna start a comedy club in my house."
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
(laughs) And my sister was up there like, my sister was like, "Yeah, yeah." She was like, "I'll work the door," and this, this, and that.
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
And I was just like, "All right, for sure."
- JRJoe Rogan
So how did you get the people in there?
- JNJamar Neighbors
Uh, (laughs) Instagram.
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
I was like-
- JRJoe Rogan
Really?
- JNJamar Neighbors
I- I- I'd f- I put out feelers, so I was like, I was like, "All right, y'all, I'm thinking about throwing an apartment show in my house. How do I get people here?"
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
And then people were like, "I'll come, I'll come." People were Dming me and shit like that, and I hit up my comic friends and I was like, "Y'all trying to do some comedy?" And we did it, it was like 20 people up in that motherfucker, like ...
- JRJoe Rogan
Nobody got sick?
- 25:51 – 41:57
The weirdest gigs: bachelor parties, strip clubs, and bombing in silence
- JNJamar Neighbors
Where's the weirdest place you performed?
- JRJoe Rogan
Well, I did, uh, bachelor parties with no microphone.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Hm.
- JRJoe Rogan
That was rough.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Hm.
- JRJoe Rogan
That was rough. Just a bunch of drunk dudes and, you know, obviously they don't have any money otherwi- ... They woulda, woulda bought a stripper.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.
- JRJoe Rogan
Hired a stripper to come.
- JNJamar Neighbors
And it wasn't no stripper there?
- JRJoe Rogan
No, just me.
- JNJamar Neighbors
(laughs)
- JRJoe Rogan
Those were the roughest ones. I did a Jack and Jill strip club in Rhode Island. That was the weirdest one, 'cause a Jack and Jill strip club is like ... They ... There was a time where they tried to have strip clubs where a man performs and a woman performs and couples would go.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Like a, a man and a female stripper?
- JRJoe Rogan
Like a man would strip and then a female would strip, and the couple would sit there and watch both of 'em. It was so strange. And the people that went up, they looked like the type of people you would expect at this kinda place.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Right.
- JRJoe Rogan
And, y- you know, and the audience, there was maybe six people in the audience. And, you know, you know how sometimes you bomb, and it's like, you know, you just ... It just feels terrible? This is ... I wa- ... I was bombing, and it felt like I was performing in front of people that didn't understand a word I was saying. I didn't get any noise.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
There was nothing. It didn't even feel bad.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
I was like, "What is this?"
- JNJamar Neighbors
(laughs)
- JRJoe Rogan
I mean, I was, you know, young in the game anyway. I was only probably doing comedy a year and a half or so. It was ... 'Cause it was, it was a terrible gig. It was for this dude, um ... Oh, man. I'm trying to remember the guy, the booking agent's name. But he had a bunch of these weird fucking gigs in Rhode Island.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Uh-huh.
- JRJoe Rogan
Like they were all, they were all real shady, like strange bars and ... You'd go to. And he'd always get paid.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
But they were always very weird. And this one, there was, you know, like I said, like six people in the audience, and the type of people that you would see in an audience that would come to see a guy strip and a girl strip were very strange.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Wha- wh- what would they look like?
- JRJoe Rogan
Just like older people that just didn't have any hope and just sitting there, just, just looked confused as to why they were even there.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
And again, there was only six of 'em in the whole audience. And the ... But there was one dude who was ... There was a pool table in the back. There was one dude playing pool. And I came over to talk to him, and he was just a regular dude from New Jersey. And he's like, "Man, what the fuck is this place?" I go, "What are you doing here?" And he goes, "I'm in town visiting my family. I had to get out of the fucking house."
- 41:57 – 55:23
Roast Battle + The Wave: controlled chaos as the ‘palate cleanser’ for dark jokes
- JRJoe Rogan
How did you get involved in doing the roast battle shit? Because when you guys would do ... when it, when it was you and, and Jeremiah and-
- JNJamar Neighbors
And Willie.
- JRJoe Rogan
... and Willie, and you guys would act out and when it would someone would kill somebody with a roast, you guys would pile onto the stage and act out various scenarios and it made the show.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Bro.
- JRJoe Rogan
It made the show.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Thank you. I really appreciate that because people online was eating us up. They was up there like, "Who in the fuck are these idiots?"... keep- but I, uh-
- JRJoe Rogan
No, you can't- see, you can't read those.
- JNJamar Neighbors
But, but a- s- but it wasn't about that for us. Like, we was just trying to have fun. So in the beginning stages of, uh, uh, of the Rose Battle, and shout out to Jeff for letting us do that. You know what I'm saying?
- JRJoe Rogan
Oh, yeah. It's a wild move.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah, it is. Um, but you, but I feel like a show like that, where you, where you're constantly spouting, like, these insults and shit like that, and a lot of them are really fucking dark, you need a palate cleanser. It don't matter. Like-
- JRJoe Rogan
That's a good way to put it.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah. S-
- JRJoe Rogan
That's a very good way to put it.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah. So, uh, so at the beginning, like, when it first started, like, the origins of it and shit, when it first started, like, me, Willie, and Jeremiah, we'd be sitting, like, just watching these motherfuckers, like, just talk shit about each other. And, oh, I, I naturally have a big laugh and whatever. It's, uh, damn near over-exaggerated and shit. And then so Jeremiah and we, we all, like, would start watching it or whatever. And then I would laugh and I would do, like, different shit. I would, like, get, like, I would, like, start dancing and shit on stage-
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
... and shit like that or whatever. And then, uh, Jeremiah and them start coming in and all this stuff. And then so that shit escalated. So one time, one time, like, one week, we were like, "Hey, man, let's go to Goodwill." And, and every time, uh, and every time somebody says something funny, I was just like, "Uh, we just go up there and like, and like what, like, these different props and shit, right?" And then so, uh, yeah. (laughs)
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
And, and so, so then it would get, like, really fucking elaborate. We would do, like, costumes and shit like that. But it all started from just over-laughing and just, like, trying to just fuck around and kind of troll the fucking battlers kind of, sort of-
- JRJoe Rogan
Yeah.
- JNJamar Neighbors
... and the whole thing or whatever. But that's how it started. And, um, yeah, man.
- JRJoe Rogan
Did you guys get together and plan out, like, various little things that could possibly be happening if someone kills somebody? And if, and how did you know when to bring out which one?
- JNJamar Neighbors
So, um, okay, so, so we would get very, uh, so we would go prop shopping.
- JRJoe Rogan
(laughs)
- JNJamar Neighbors
(laughs) Some of that shit didn't make sense. But like, we would go, we would go prop shopping and shit. But, um ...
- JRJoe Rogan
Is there a video compliment- compilation of like the best of The Wave?
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah, it is. It is.
- JRJoe Rogan
Oh, find that.
- JNJamar Neighbors
There is? Oh, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- GUGuest
I was gonna say, there shouldn't be if there isn't.
- JRJoe Rogan
Yeah, there has to be.
- 55:23 – 56:13
Rebuilding the magic in Austin: Joe’s vision for a comic-run club with a ‘laboratory’ room
- JRJoe Rogan
Well, there's a, there's a real value in a little club like that, a tiny spot.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Mm-hmm.
- JRJoe Rogan
And that's one of the things that I wanna have out here. I-
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
... I wanna have a small club too.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
I, I don't think you just, you should just have a big club like the Main Room. I think you need a Belly Room.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
I think you need a little laboratory.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yep.
- JRJoe Rogan
You know, just to fuck around, and-
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
Like, it would be really hard to create a show like that or like a lot of other ... Like, Kill Tony started out in the Belly Room too.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yep, I remember that.
- JRJoe Rogan
Yeah, like, you need a laboratory.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
You need a place where you're just kind of fucking around. There's lower expectations.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
It's more of a hang.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
When you get to a large audience, everybody's like, "Wow, this place is packed. This is a big thing."
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah, like you do that-
- JRJoe Rogan
This is a big deal.
- JNJamar Neighbors
... small club to go do the big club.
- JRJoe Rogan
Yes.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
Exactly.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yep.
- JRJoe Rogan
But (clears throat) I feel like it's like, like training. Like, you need to do running, and then you also need to hit the bag.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yep.
- 56:13 – 1:11:11
Fitness as comedy prep: boxing fights, training extremes, and the mohawk wig origin story
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yep. It's so funny. I remember, um, I remember, I still do, but like I, I would, um ... You speak about training and stuff like that, like, I would go to the gym for fucking, for fucking six hours, Joe, six hours every motherfucking day, bro. Uh, uh, just to mentally prepare myself for doing comedy.
- JRJoe Rogan
Six hours?
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah, bro.
- JRJoe Rogan
What would you do for six hours?
- JNJamar Neighbors
Anything I could think of. (laughs) Like-
- JRJoe Rogan
Really?
- JNJamar Neighbors
... anything I could fucking ... I accidentally learned how to box just by being in, in the gym for six hours. Like, like, like, for like, like, every fucking, um, like, every fucking day.
- JRJoe Rogan
You learned boxing by yourself?
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah, yeah. I would take, I would take little ... I would take little ... I would see people in the gym and stuff like that. I would take-
- JRJoe Rogan
What gym were you working out at?
- JNJamar Neighbors
Uh, Fortune Boxing Gym.
- JRJoe Rogan
Oh, okay.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Justin Fortune.
- JRJoe Rogan
Justin Fortune, yeah.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- JRJoe Rogan
He's legit.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah, I love Justin.
- JRJoe Rogan
Joey Diaz used to go there too.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Yeah, yeah, all the (clears throat) yeah, all, like, you see fucking Sylvester Stallone brother in that motherfucker.
- JRJoe Rogan
Hey, yo.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Like-
- JRJoe Rogan
Hey, yo.
- JNJamar Neighbors
And I-
- JRJoe Rogan
I'm here to work out, yo.
- JNJamar Neighbors
Just to fucking mentally prepare myself for a fucking 15-minute set at the Comedy Store (laughs) like was fucking retarded.
- JRJoe Rogan
That's good. So you just hit a fight, didn't you? Didn't you take a fight?
- JNJamar Neighbors
(laughs) Yeah, I did.
- JRJoe Rogan
We talked about it before.
- JNJamar Neighbors
I, I was-
- JRJoe Rogan
We talked about it. It was almost a year ago.
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