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Joe Rogan Experience #2283 - Billy Corgan

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  1. 0:000:37

    Billy Corgan addresses the Bill Burr “half-brother” rumor and how it exploded

    1. NA

      (drumming) Joe Rogan podcast, check it out.

    2. BC

      The Joe Rogan Experience.

    3. JR

      Train by day, Joe Rogan podcast by night, all day. (instrumental music) All right, we're ... What's happening, man? Good to see you.

    4. BC

      Thank you for having me back.

    5. JR

      My pleasure. Um, how many times a day do you get bombarded by the whole Bill Burr thing?

    6. BC

      When it gets into the family-

    7. JR

      (laughs)

    8. BC

      ... and people I haven't talked to for 20 years.

    9. JR

      Ugh, then do you have to break character and tell the truth?

    10. BC

      No. You know, the thing is, i- i- this is what's crazy, okay? Uh, you want the whole setup story?

    11. JR

      Sure, sure, sure.

  2. 0:374:24

    Howie Mandel, the on-camera ‘skit’ that wasn’t, and calls for a DNA test

    1. BC

      I could be quick about it. Uh, so, uh, where I tape my podcast is in one of Howie Mandel's buildings, and he has another building in this area. So, uh, I was working on something, and, and I was supposed to go on Howie's show that day. And they said, "Howie will meet you out in the street or something, for whatever reason." So I go out in the street, and the first thing Howie says to me when he sees me, he goes, "Here comes Bill Burr." And I go, "You too?" Like, "Do you know this story?" And he said, "No, I don't know about it." And I said, "You know what? Heck with it, I'm just gonna s- tell it on your show, so don't ask me any more." And I went on the show, and I told the story about my, how 10 years ago, my stepmother came to me and said, "Do you know who Bill Burr is?" I'd never heard of Bill, didn't know who he was, 'cause I don't really consume much, you know, popular culture. I had no idea he was a famous comedian. He could've been the lawnmower guy. Looked up Bill, first thing I saw was like, oh my God, he looks just like Daddy. When I was 18 years old, at an IHOP my, on my 18th birthday, my father told me, "You have a half-brother that I sired at the same time as you whose name is Bill." So suddenly, these facts come together of my mother telling me these stories. I talked to my dad subsequently about it, and he was very cagey about it. And when I said, "Why won't you tell me where this person is or who this person is?" He said, um, "I'm trying to protect you." So when my stepmother had told me, it kinda made sense, like, well, if, if my half-brother is this super famous comedian, my dad, in a way, wouldn't want me to know, because he wouldn't want me to feel like I was number two-

    2. JR

      (laughs)

    3. BC

      ... because Bill's so famous. I know it sounds crazy, right?

    4. JR

      You think that's why he was trying to protect you?

    5. BC

      Well, I don't know. So, so fast forward to Howie saying something on the street. So I was like, "You know what? I'm just gonna say something." And I swear to God, hand on my heart, last time I was with you in California, I almost pulled you aside after we were on, and I was gonna tell you the story, 'cause I knew you knew Bill, and I was gonna back channel, see if there was anything to the story from Bill's side.

    6. JR

      Wow!

    7. BC

      So imagine seven, I think six or seven years since we talked on your show.

    8. JR

      Yeah, I don't even know-

    9. BC

      2018, 2018 somebody said to me today, but... So anyway, started talking already, but the point is, is-

    10. JR

      Yeah.

    11. BC

      ... so here I am, fast forward, I'm just sick of seeing memes of my face with Bills and uh, so I just decide on the spur of the moment, you know? So Howie of course loves it, but I said on, on Howie's show that first time, "I don't think Bill's my half-brother. I don't think, I don't think there's anything there other than a, like an uncanny resemblance." Fast forward, the thing comes out, it gets a little bit of social media, and then it goes away. And I think, "Good." And Bill didn't say anything, so I figured Bill was kind of like, whatever, it was a mild amusement. You know, he could've made a joke out of the whole thing, and he didn't. So then Howie calls me, and I'm in LA working recently, and Howie's like, "Will you come on the show? Bill's gonna be on." And I said, "Is Bill cool with it?" "Oh, yeah. No problem." So then I go there, and it's like, it turns into this thing that you see happening on camera. It's like, it's weirdness times... it's like a, like a sk- like a skit, but it's real. And, and Bill's on me, then Bill's on Howie, and it gets just go... Okay, so I just told you basically everything I know, okay? I have people I've known for 20, 30 years coming up to me, going, "What do you think?" And I say, "I don't, I don't, I don't think we're related. I mean, yeah, there's a resemblance, but I don't think we're related." "Well, did you get a DNA test?" And I'm like, "No, I don't... There's nothing to get a DNA test for." "Well, I think he's your brother." So people that know me, and I'm telling them I don't think he's my brother, now they want a DNA test to prove it.

    12. JR

      (laughs)

    13. BC

      That's how much it- it's taken on a life of its own.

    14. JR

      Do you think it's just because they want a DNA test 'cause it's fun if he's your brother?

    15. BC

      No, no, they're convinced-

    16. JR

      For real, for real?

    17. BC

      Yes.

    18. JR

      Really?

    19. BC

      For real, I swear to God. I mean, pe- people I'm close to, people that were at my wedding, I'm like, they're like, "No, you need a DNA test."

    20. JR

      Did Bill's dad know... well, did your dad know Bill's mom?

  3. 4:2410:07

    A chaotic father: rumors of many children and a missing list of names

    1. BC

      No, my father wouldn't talk to me about it at all. Okay, some more context.

    2. JR

      Okay.

    3. BC

      My stepmother in that same time, 10 years ago, when she told me that she thought Bill Burr was my half-brother-

    4. JR

      Jesus.

    5. BC

      ... this guy I don't know, r- right?

    6. JR

      Yeah.

    7. BC

      I mean, it's just imagine if like, "Hey, hey, do you know Joe Polanski?"

    8. JR

      Right.

    9. BC

      And you look up, and it's a famous comedian. That's, you know what I mean? That was-

    10. JR

      Right, right, right.

    11. BC

      So, in that same, uh, thing with my stepmother, she told me that she thought my father had sired 12 children.

    12. JR

      Whoa.

    13. BC

      Il- il- you know, uh-

    14. JR

      All over the place.

    15. BC

      All over the place. He was a traveling, uh, musician, and a whore, to his own admittance. So it kinda makes sense. He once told me he'd slept with 1,000 women, so-

    16. JR

      Jesus.

    17. BC

      12 out of 1,000, (laughs) you know what I mean? It's the-

    18. JR

      Normal odds.

    19. BC

      The ma- yeah, the math are-

    20. JR

      It's actually pretty good.

    21. BC

      Yeah. Um, and so, um, when I went to my father, and I told him what my stepmother had said, he got really cagey and wouldn't tell me anything. He promised me that he would write down the names of the, of the illegitimate children on a piece of paper so I could find them after he died.

    22. JR

      Oh my God.

    23. BC

      A- and he died, he's died, and there's no paper.

    24. JR

      Oh my God.

    25. BC

      (laughs)

    26. JR

      (laughs)

    27. BC

      So now I got people wanting DNA tests because they're convinced that Bill is my half-brother.

    28. JR

      Is Bill willing to do a DNA test?

    29. BC

      I think that's ridiculous, (laughs) you know what I'm saying? It's like-

    30. JR

      No, you have to do it.

  4. 10:0714:25

    Comedy craft vs. music craft: Carrot Top, pitching bits, and why comics hate premises

    1. BC

      Yeah.

    2. JR

      And you easily could've been a comedian as well. Just-

    3. BC

      I, I don't think I'm that funny, but-

    4. JR

      You're funny. There's a lot of people-

    5. BC

      See, see-

    6. JR

      ... that are professional comedians-

    7. BC

      Okay.

    8. JR

      ... that aren't as funny as you.

    9. BC

      Okay. Uh, I assume you know Carrot Top.

    10. JR

      Sure, very well.

    11. BC

      Okay, okay. So Carrot Top and I have become friends recently.

    12. JR

      He's great.

    13. BC

      Love him. This ... Total sweetheart.

    14. JR

      Sweetheart of a guy.

    15. BC

      And really moused-

    16. JR

      Genuine.

    17. BC

      E- eh, just a great guy to know.

    18. JR

      Yeah.

    19. BC

      But as you know, because you do this for a living, suddenly everybody wants to start pitching you bits.

    20. JR

      Mm.

    21. BC

      So I made the mistake-

    22. JR

      Ah!

    23. BC

      ... of pitching Carrot Top a bit. I thought I had a good bit for him, and he didn't respond. Do you know what I mean?

    24. JR

      Yeah.

    25. BC

      And then I texted him, uh, like an hour later and said, "Hey, did you get that bit I sent?" He goes, "Yeah, that's why I didn't respond."

    26. JR

      (laughs) Yeah, people get tired of that. Also, it's like most comics, they want it to be their idea. Like, the whole idea you're ... What you're doing on stage is essentially like, "Here's the world through my eyes."

    27. BC

      Ah, I see, I see. Yeah, it's like somebody telling me how to write a song. I get that.

    28. JR

      Right.

    29. BC

      Um-

    30. JR

      I- It's one thing for another c- ... Like, comics give each ... We give each other tags. Like if someone says something, I said, "You know what else you can add to that? Add this."

  5. 14:2523:10

    Chappelle, Pryor, and the power of comedians to ‘heal’—plus Hollywood awards skepticism

    1. BC

      I actually know Dave from way back in the day.

    2. JR

      He's the best.

    3. BC

      When he first, first kind of burst on the scene, we used to hang out a little bit. So I feel like it's cool that I knew him.

    4. JR

      Like what year is this?

    5. BC

      Like earl- like w- remember he did s- like a couple things on SNL, like really early on? Or he was kind of around TV. It was like when he f-

    6. JR

      Mm-hmm.

    7. BC

      The first year he was on television, I remember I'd see him in New York and he was hanging out with some other... Maybe it was 'cause he was hanging out with SNL people.

    8. JR

      Oh.

    9. BC

      And I'd see him out in New York back as guests with like na- late 90s?

    10. JR

      Yeah.

    11. BC

      Early 2000s. And so-

    12. JR

      Okay.

    13. BC

      ... I knew him when, I don't wanna say he was a nobody, but I, like-

    14. JR

      He wasn't famous yet.

    15. BC

      ... he was, he wasn't a known... I, I, I'd seen him on TV but he wasn't like a household name like he is now.

    16. JR

      Right, right, right.

    17. BC

      And so it's... So there w- there was this one night where I was out... I did a benefit for Roger Waters and, uh, and military vets. It was amazing, in New York. It was all these guys who were like single, double and triple amputees playing Pink Floyd music. And so I did this concert with them, with, um, Roger. So afterwards, somebody came and said, "Oh, Chappelle's in this hotel," you know? And I hadn't seen him for a few years and I said, "Oh, I, I know him." And, and you could see people think like, "You don't know him."

    18. JR

      (laughs)

    19. BC

      You know what I mean? So when he came by, I was like, "Oh," you know? It was like that moment, like, "See, motherfuckers? I do know him."

    20. JR

      (laughs)

    21. BC

      So, what a great guy though. Such a, what a-

    22. JR

      He's a genuine person, yeah.

    23. BC

      What a... Yeah.

    24. JR

      He's another sweetheart. Just a sweet, sweet guy. Easy to hang out with, very fun.

    25. BC

      Oh, yeah. I mean, the guy, like guys with that kind of mind is just, it's just, it blows my mind 'cause they just... I mean, you could, I, I just, I don't know. I could sit and listen to for hours.

    26. JR

      He's also, he's kind of a legend for what he did. You know, he left-

    27. BC

      Oh, walked away?

    28. JR

      ... left Comedy Central in the height of Chappelle's Show, passed up on a $50 million deal, went to Africa, hung out there, and then came back and didn't do standup for 10 years. Didn't do standup.

    29. BC

      I didn't know that... I didn't know that he didn't do standup for 10 years part.

    30. JR

      He would do standup occasionally for free.

  6. 23:1026:24

    Old Hollywood mythmaking to dark modern stories: studios, coverups, and a plastination scandal

    1. JR

      Right, just like those Hollywood tour people that you would get in LA.

    2. BC

      Yeah.

    3. JR

      Yeah. Those were the, the weirdest fucking people.

    4. BC

      Well, I always get offended when I walk down Hollywood Boulevard and they, they think I wanna go on it, you know what I mean? It's like I don't know what it is they, I feel like, "I don't wanna go on your tour."

    5. JR

      You look like a guy ...

    6. BC

      Totally, I get offended like, "I don't wanna go on your tour."

    7. JR

      Who, who'd get on a tour, just got off the boat.

    8. BC

      Yeah.

    9. JR

      Just came here from Nebraska.

    10. BC

      Totally, yeah.

    11. JR

      (laughs)

    12. BC

      Like, "Gee, I wonder where the stars live," you know?

    13. JR

      That's such a creepy thing to do. Just drive around and point, "That's where Ben Affleck sleeps."

    14. BC

      But they've been doing it since the '30s.

    15. JR

      Yeah, forever, yeah.

    16. BC

      I mean, I, I have some of the old brochures, you know, see where Greta Garbo lives and all that stuff.

    17. JR

      It's just always been weird. Well, back then it was even weirder because those were the first stars.

    18. BC

      Well, back then, I mean, they, they, they went way out of their way to turn them into gods, you know, the, they airbrushed the shit out of every photo and, and they-

    19. JR

      Right.

    20. BC

      ... they'd cover up scandals. There's that one famous scandal where one of the top male stars, maybe it was Gary Cooper or Cary Grant, ran somebody over in a car.

    21. JR

      Really?

    22. BC

      You don't know about that?

    23. JR

      No.

    24. BC

      You might wanna look that one up.

    25. JR

      I know the Fatty Arbuckle one.

    26. BC

      It was, w- w- w- w- it w- no. It was a top A-level star-... I think he was drunk, ran over somebody in a car, and somebody from the studio went to jail for, like, seven years and took the wrap.

    27. JR

      Whoa.

    28. BC

      So that the star could stay out, and the studio paid the guy, like, a stipend to go to jail.

    29. JR

      Wow.

    30. BC

      It's a very famous story. So some guy did seven years or something. (laughs)

  7. 26:2429:54

    Plastic surgery culture and tourism, aging in entertainment, and performance longevity

    1. BC

      Have you heard the ones where, like, um, 'cause there's so much plastic surgery in Asia, where guys are suing their wives because they marry some woman-

    2. JR

      Oh, yeah.

    3. BC

      ... that they think is hot, and then the kid comes out and the kid's not very good-looking.

    4. JR

      Jawline's totally different, different nose. Yeah, there's a lot of plastic surgery over there. In Korea, it's nuts. They do their eyes in this, like, strange doorway.

    5. BC

      Somebody told me as much as 75% of the women in South Korea have-

    6. JR

      What?

    7. BC

      ... surgery. Yeah.

    8. JR

      Is it really?

    9. BC

      Somebody who's Korean told me that. I don't know if that's true.

    10. JR

      Google that, Jamie. We need to find this out. This is important information.

    11. BC

      'Cause last time I was in Korea I was like, "Wow, these women here are really hot." Like, this was, like, woman after woman after woman, and somebody pulled me aside and said, "Bro, that's, like, that's just all plastic surgery. That's not real."

    12. JR

      Wow. Wow.

    13. NA

      One third as many, as up to 50% or higher, maybe. Some people have said.

    14. JR

      A lot of liars. A lot of them ladies are lying about it.

    15. NA

      (laughs)

    16. JR

      Up to 50% or higher. Well, higher could be like 75%. (laughs)

    17. BC

      I like, I like this whole new business of, um, like, plastic surgery tourism, where it's, like, cheaper to get on a plane and go somewhere-

    18. JR

      Oh, like, go to Turkey and get your hair transplanted.

    19. BC

      Yeah, somebody was recently trying to talk me into going to South Korea to get some work done on my face.

    20. JR

      (laughs)

    21. BC

      (laughs) It's, like, so, like, what?

    22. JR

      I guess the idea would be you could go recover over there. Your neighbors don't have to see you with bandages over your head.

    23. BC

      No, I think it's the idea-

    24. JR

      Your face all swollen.

    25. BC

      ... it's cheap... it's cheaper.

    26. JR

      Yeah, cheaper.

    27. BC

      Cheaper and better, because they can do stuff there that we c- we can't do here yet.

    28. JR

      Oh, really? What can they do there that we, we, if we can't do here?

    29. BC

      Apparently they have, apparently they have some new thing that's unbelievable.

    30. JR

      What is it?

  8. 29:5441:11

    Fight-world stories: Buffer brothers, Holyfield–Lewis chaos, and private gigs for the ultra-rich

    1. BC

      ... the Buffers, right? Both of them.

    2. JR

      Oh, yeah. Isn't it crazy that they didn't know each other until they were like 30?

    3. BC

      I only have, I-

    4. JR

      He didn't even know he had a brother.

    5. BC

      I only have-

    6. JR

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    8. BC

      I only have one Michael Buffer story, if you wanna hear it. (laughs)

    9. JR

      Sure.

    10. BC

      So I went to see, uh, uh, Holyfield-Lennox Lewis at Madison Square Garden.

    11. JR

      Oh, wow.

    12. BC

      And I was hanging out with all the, all the cool people at the time. So I'm in the fourth row, and it was infamously a draw. It was almost all English tourists that had come in for the fight. They were booing the national anthem. I mean, it was a pretty riotous-

    13. JR

      Whoa.

    14. BC

      ... at- atmosphere. And, uh, you know, I'm, I'm, I'm, I don't know anything about fights, but it was a pretty boring fight, and it, I, I, it ... Lewis seemed to be a little bit more agile 'cause of youth and all that. Anyway, so right when I, uh, you know, they're, they're in ... Whatever they're doing, HBO, if they're over there in the corner, they're doing their bit. You know what I mean? They're talking before they go to the scorecards. And a guy leans forward, the, the ref, to tell someone in the second row, might have been Don King, and I hear 'em go, "It's a draw." Right? So I, I knew it was a draw like 60 seconds before they announced it.

    15. JR

      Whoa.

    16. BC

      And I was with a lot of well-known people, and I said, "Run." And they're like, "What do you mean?" I said, "We gotta run." Like, and I started grabbing people and we ran out of Madison Square Garden. And we're almost totally out the building, you know, kind of where you get to the concourse part? And you hear the decision and it's like brr, and people start, like here comes the riot vibe.

    17. JR

      Really?

    18. BC

      So somehow we ended up, because it got so-

    19. JR

      Was it because the decision was bad?

    20. BC

      Well, the English people didn't like that it was a draw.

    21. JR

      Oh.

    22. BC

      'Cause Holyfield was on the older side and ...

    23. JR

      Right.

    24. BC

      I don't know, it's not a well-renowned fight, it just-

    25. JR

      I g- I can't remember it.

    26. BC

      It was just a draw. It was a stone-cold boring fight, but because it was a draw and all these English people were mad and Don King was involved, so it was like all that typical brouhaha that was going on in boxing at the time.

    27. JR

      Right.

    28. BC

      Anyway, so because of the, suddenly the riotous or po- potentially riotous s- situation, the police started like making people go different ways, like funneling traffic or something. And it was almost like they got like code red or something, 'cause it like suddenly got really weird. So then we couldn't get out of the building. So somebody was like, somebody recognized somebody in our party said, "F- c- follow me." And so then next thing we know, you know, we get, we end up like in the VIP backstage part where it's safe.

    29. JR

      (sighs)

    30. BC

      And, and there's, and there's, you know, uh, Michael Buffer on a chair. And he wasn't talking to me, but he's talking to somebody, and I heard him just go, "That's bullshit."

  9. 41:1143:59

    ‘Tommy collects billionaires’: pitching, opportunists, and a mystery character in entertainment circles

    1. BC

      Yeah, um, uh, Jimmy Chamberlain of the Pumpkins, the drummer, uh, is friends with Jimmy John, s- the sub, the sub king.

    2. JR

      Ah, okay.

    3. BC

      So I know Jimmy John a little bit. And we were at dinner one night in Nashville at a, at a place he owns, or with other people, and one of my buddies started pitching him on a, like some kind of money thing. And I just saw his face change, 'cause everybody in the world wants to pi-... We're back to pitching ideas, right?

    4. JR

      Of course.

    5. BC

      And, uh, and, and, and Jimmy John knows this mutual friend, so i- i- it's not as rude as it might sound coming out of my mouth. But at some point, i- i- he looks at him, he goes, "Tommy, you know how I got that money? I made a lot of fucking sandwiches."

    6. JR

      (laughs)

    7. BC

      That was the way he shut him down.

    8. JR

      The...

    9. BC

      Like, like-

    10. JR

      Yeah.

    11. BC

      ... I know how... I know what I had to go through to make that money. Like, you just-

    12. JR

      Right.

    13. BC

      You just see me as a walking ATM.

    14. JR

      Yeah. Well, it just changes the dynamic of the friendship now, too. Now he's not gonna be able to trust your friend.

    15. BC

      Well, nobody, nobody trusts-

    16. JR

      'Cause he's always gonna think-

    17. BC

      Nobody trusts Tommy.

    18. JR

      Tom's a mess?

    19. BC

      Tom, Tommy's infamous, actually.

    20. JR

      Infamous.

    21. BC

      Yes, man. Everybody-

    22. JR

      Infa-dash-mess. (laughs)

    23. BC

      Um, I've literally been walking down the street in foreign countries and strangers will come up to me and say, "Oh, you know Tommy?" It's like he's just a legendary character in the entertainment business.

    24. JR

      What was he trying to pitch Jimmy John on?

    25. BC

      Uh, some kind of investment scheme, or something.

    26. JR

      Ooh.

    27. BC

      Because, uh, uh, my friend Tommy collects billionaires.

    28. JR

      Oh, boy.

    29. BC

      I c- I c- I call it, uh, he plays billionaire lotto.

    30. NA

      Mm.

  10. 43:5953:33

    Billy’s father as a ‘character’: addiction, guns, mob ties, and a childhood around drugs

    1. BC

      The story I wanted to tell you about my father was when I was on your show, um, I told you a story about how I found a, uh, uh, dub- a double-barreled sawed-off shotgun under my father's bed. It was in a guitar case.

    2. NA

      Right.

    3. BC

      Well, my father heard the show about a month after I told the story on your show. And so I get this text from my father. This is when he's still alive, obviously, and, and, and he goes, "Yeah, I heard what you said on, on Joe's show." (laughs) And I'm like, you know, you're looking at your phone like, "Here it comes," you know, 'cause I thought he was gonna be pissed at me. He goes, "There's one thing you left out of the story." Waiting, text. "Th- the shotgun wasn't loaded." (laughs) That's all he wanted me to know. Like somehow I made it better. (laughs)

    4. NA

      How bizarre. Your f- your father sounds like a fucking character.

    5. BC

      He was unbelievable. Unbelievable.

    6. NA

      What, what did he play?

    7. BC

      Guitar.

    8. NA

      Wow.

    9. BC

      Great, great, great musician. Really, truly great musician. He's the, he's the classic guy that shoulda made it and didn't.

    10. NA

      Wow.

    11. BC

      So when I made it, it made the whole thing really weird.

    12. NA

      Oh.

    13. BC

      Because he looked at me and said, "How did my schlubby kid make it and I didn't?"

    14. NA

      Wow.

    15. BC

      "He must've got lucky. He must've done something."

    16. NA

      Wow.

    17. BC

      "'Cause if it didn't work for me, how could it work for him?" So that was a weird, a weird thing. But he was talented. I mean, he really was talented.

    18. NA

      That's great. Did he... Did you get a l- did you feel resentment? Did you get along with him after that? Or was it weird?

    19. BC

      It was a, uh... My father had a lot of issues with drugs, so it was always kind of like it can be with addicts. It was like-

    20. NA

      Mm.

    21. BC

      ... depending on the day.

    22. NA

      Mm.

    23. BC

      One day, he would tell me I was the greatest thing that ever happened to him, and I was the number one son and da da da, and two weeks later, he's telling me he wished I'd never been born and I should've been aborted.

    24. NA

      Ah.

    25. BC

      So it was a weird... It was weird. It was a weird thing. So that's why, that's why that story's funny to me, because he didn't mind that I told you about finding a sawed-off shotgun. He minded that I implied it was dangerous when he made sure that it wasn't loaded, so it was okay. (laughs)

    26. NA

      (laughs)

    27. BC

      That's the way his brain worked.

    28. NA

      Do you believe him that it wasn't loaded?

    29. BC

      Yeah, yeah.

    30. NA

      Yeah.

  11. 53:331:03:45

    Weed laws, ‘identity stoners,’ and subcultures: from 4/20 to Juggalos to body modification extremes

    1. BC

      Is weed legal in Texas? I don't think it was.

    2. JR

      It's not. It's weird. It's decriminalized. There was actually a lawsuit that Ken Paxton tried to stop Dallas from decriminalizing weed, and they just lost in court. So Dallas now, marijuana is decriminalized for personal use. It's stupid. It should be the whole country. It should be legal, just like whiskey is. Don't do it if you don't wanna do it, but, you know, you should probably know what the effects are and we should probably study what the actual correct dose is per person, like we know with drinks. Like, one drink is one drink, right? You know what it is.

    3. BC

      Yeah.

    4. JR

      You, you go to the, the bar, you get a shot of tequila. That's what it is. It's one shot of tequila. Everybody's pretty much ... It's standard. With weed, you don't know what the-

    5. BC

      Oh, I see. Yeah.

    6. JR

      You don't know what's the right amount. Like, should I take two hits or three hits? What ... You can build up a tolerance, like your dad. You're smoking weed ... Like, if I smoked weed all day long, I'd be a fucking mess. I'd be paranoid and freaked out. I'd be like, "Everyone's out to get me."

    7. BC

      He, he was. But he was.

    8. JR

      (laughs)

    9. BC

      (laughs)

    10. JR

      And he just kept doing it. That's what's even crazier. And weed back then was not weed today. It's ... You probably could get some weed that's commensurate with weed today, Acapulco Gold or something wacky, but generally-

    11. BC

      They have all these crazy strains now, right? Isn't that the ...

    12. JR

      Now they have scientists, botanists got involved in the game.

    13. BC

      Yeah.

    14. JR

      And they, they're, they're making super weed.

    15. BC

      I noticed one thing 'cause I was in LA for a couple months this winter, and ...... when they first, whatever, decriminalized in LA, it seemed like everywhere you went, everybody was smoking weed. It became like a thing.

    16. JR

      Mm-hmm.

    17. BC

      You couldn't go anywhere without smelling, you know, the telltale smoke. And now it seems to have calmed down-

    18. JR

      Mm-hmm.

    19. BC

      ... and I think it's almost like now it's like Holland back in the day-

    20. JR

      Yeah, normalized.

    21. BC

      ... where it's, like, so normal-

    22. JR

      Yeah.

    23. BC

      ... that it's no longer a thing to, like, openly smoke weed. Like-

    24. JR

      Yeah.

    25. BC

      ... so I think it's gone back to a, "Oh, it's not that big a deal," which I think is probably best. Because there was a year there where you would go there and everybody was stoned.

    26. JR

      Mm-hmm.

    27. BC

      You couldn't get service at a restaurant.

    28. JR

      (laughs)

    29. BC

      Like, I mean, it was like people were staring off into space and-

    30. JR

      Edibles. Yeah. Well, for sure you're gonna have, like, a normalization period after a while, where it's like weed's normal. It's just like everyone's not drunk all the time, even though you can get liquor everywhere.

  12. 1:03:451:08:30

    Family intimacy, affection, and phobias: contrasting upbringings and Howie Mandel’s germ fears

    1. BC

      Yuri, uh, uh, because of all this body talk... My wife loves all sorts of weird body talk. Um, and she- she wanted me to send you a message 'cause she's l- literally about to have a baby, like, right now.

    2. JR

      Oh, congratulations.

    3. BC

      So we were somewhat concerned coming in because it was possible I may not be able to come because of her about to have this baby. So, um, when we were talking, um, last night, I said, "Please don't have the baby today." You know?

    4. JR

      (laughs)

    5. BC

      "I wanna be on the Joe show." And she said, "You tell Joe that if I start to have the baby, um, I expect him to give you some of his NetJet points so you can get home."

    6. JR

      Ah.

    7. BC

      It's a very, very rich person joke, but-

    8. JR

      That's hilarious. Uh, what does that have to do with body modification? Nothing?

    9. BC

      Because she loves talking about this type of shit.

    10. JR

      Why does she like talking about that stuff?

    11. BC

      I don't know. It's like... But- but in my family, we didn't talk about anything. Sex, you know, was all just kind of implied.

    12. JR

      Oh, I see.

    13. BC

      That's what I'm saying. I grew up in a family where nobody hugged, nobody kissed. Everyone hated each other, and- and nobody talked about the secrets-

    14. JR

      Damn.

    15. BC

      ... of life.

    16. JR

      Damn.

    17. BC

      You know, good or bad. It was all kind of in the shadows.

    18. JR

      Damn.

    19. BC

      You know what I mean? And she grew up in a family where it's like... 'Cause she has five brothers and a- a sister, so they talk about everything, like, to the point where you're just like... At dinner, like, you're talking about all this, like, weird body stuff. I don't wanna be graphic 'cause it turns me off, you know, but they- they seem to think it's funny.

    20. JR

      When did you learn to hug people and be, like, outwardly nice?

    21. BC

      Um, it's funny you ask me that. My... I didn't grow up with my mother. Um, my mother went crazy when I was four, and I never lived with her again. And we started to become close again when I was in my 20s. And I d- I remember this one time where I walked through her door, and it was that thing where I wanted to hug her because I never really hugged her my whole life. And I just made this decision at 24, like, I was gonna hug my mother and give her a kiss on the cheek.

    22. JR

      Yeah.

    23. BC

      And it was like that was the opening of this (laughs) other life where people hug and kiss each other. You know what I mean? I mean, obviously, I had fooled around with girls-

    24. JR

      Right.

    25. BC

      ... but it was only within the context of- of being romantic. I had no physical affection in my life outside of that. Now, my kids are all over me, and, you know, I got a nine- and six-year-old, so it's like I'm used to kids, like, you know, rug rats cr- climbing all over you, but I didn't grow up in that at all. Like, I had no... The idea of affection was- was alien.

    26. JR

      Wow.

    27. BC

      In fact, when I first started chasing girls at 17, 18, l- you know, girls wanna hold your hand or hug you or, you know, in the car, and I was like... It was so freaky to me.

    28. JR

      When did you relax with the body? (laughs)

    29. BC

      (laughs) I'm not sure I ever did.

    30. JR

      Well, I gave you a hug when I saw you today. It seemed pretty normal.

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