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Joe Rogan Experience #2379 - Matthew McConaughey

Matthew McConaughey is an Academy Award–winning actor and #1 New York Times bestselling author. His new book, "Poems & Prayers,” comes out September 16. His latest film, "The Lost Bus," will open in select theaters in Los Angeles, New York, and London on September 19 and premiere globally on October 3 on Apple TV+. Matthew is a professor of practice at the University of Texas at Austin, co-owner of Pantalones tequila, co-owner of the Austin FC soccer club, and co-founder of the just keep livin' Foundation, which supports youth through programs in health, education, and active living. https://www.jklivinfoundation.org https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/720700/poems-and-prayers-by-matthew-mcconaughey/ https://tv.apple.com/us/movie/the-lost-bus/umc.cmc.4p7gv4trt1rt0kuiwzmitibiv WWE Wrestlepalooza Live Sept 20, 7 PM ET on ESPN Don’t miss out on all the action - Download the DraftKings app today! Sign-up at https://dkng.co/rogan or with my promo code ROGAN. GAMBLING PROBLEM? CALL 1-800-GAMBLER, (800) 327-5050 or visit https://gamblinghelplinema.org (MA). Call 877-8-HOPENY/text HOPENY (467369) (NY). Please Gamble Responsibly. 888-789-7777/visit https://ccpg.org (CT), or visit https://www.mdgamblinghelp.org (MD). 21+ and present in most states. (18+ DC/KY/NH/WY). Void in ONT/OR/NH. Eligibility restrictions apply. On behalf of Boot Hill Casino & Resort (KS). 1 per new DraftKings customer. $5+ first-time bet req. Get 1 promo code to redeem discounted NFL Sunday Ticket subscription and max. $200 issued as non-withdrawable Bonus Bets that expire in 7 days (168 hours). Stake removed from payout. Terms: https://sportsbook.draftkings.com/promos. NFL Sunday Ticket: YouTube TV base plan (not included in this offer) required to watch Sunday Ticket on YouTube TV. Subscription autorenews yearly at then-current price (currently $378 for YouTube TV subscribers, or $480 for YouTube subscribers); cancel anytime. Terms, restrictions, embargoes and eligibility requirements apply. No refunds. Commercial use excluded. Addt’l terms: https://tv.youtube.com/learn/nflsundayticket/draftkings/. Offer ends 9/29/25 at 11:59 PM ET. Sponsored by DK.

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  1. 0:003:23

    Why McConaughey wrote “Poems and Prayers”: rebuilding belief and avoiding cynicism

    1. NA

      (drumming music) Joe Rogan podcast, check it out. The Joe Rogan Experience.

    2. JR

      Train by day, Joe Rogan podcast by night, all day. (rock music) Good bro. Cheers, cheers, sir.

    3. MM

      Thanks. Good to see you on your home turf there.

    4. JR

      My man. Yeah. Hey. You, um, you're a man of many talents, my friend. Tell me about this book.

    5. MM

      Poems and Prayers, yeah. Um, so I've been kinda writing-

    6. JR

      Try to keep this, like, these are a little bit directional. How's that? Yeah, perfect.

    7. MM

      I've been kind of, I've been writing poems and prayers down for, since I was like 18. Um, and then this last, I don't know, couple years, I started looking around at life and the facts and evidence and people, and I was, like, not finding the amount of things or people to believe in that I was wanting to. And I was starting to have doubt to myself as well, and I started to see myself slip into a little bit of cynicism.

    8. JR

      Mm.

    9. MM

      Which I promised myself that's, that, no, that's a, that's a living man's disease. Don't go there.

    10. JR

      Yeah.

    11. MM

      You go from innocence to s- to, to naivete to skepticism, but let's stop there at skepticism.

    12. JR

      Yeah.

    13. MM

      And I kinda got scared and a little pissed off at myself and was like, "Well wait a minute. I'm not ready to give up. I'm not ready to wave the, wave the white flag and let myself off for certain things I was starting to even wanna let myself off on. You know? Or other people." And, um, I said, "All right, poems and prayers, those are ideals, those are pursuits. You know? That's going to the dream and saying let's go to the... Let's, let's, let's look at the dream and see if we can still believe in making that a reality."

    14. JR

      Aspirational.

    15. MM

      Instead of looking at reality and saying, "How do you turn that into a dream?" Which is what I usually do. I'm like art emulates life, man, not the other way around. But I flipped the script a little bit here and said, "No, no, let's, let's dive into the dreams and belief." Man, it's, I think it's in short supply. It was getting, it was, it, my, my tank was getting low on belief. And that's just in-

    16. JR

      Well, what was bothering you so much? What specifically?

    17. MM

      Maybe it's, man, maybe it's turning 50, something like that? Maybe it's that, where I start to project, uh, you know, what am I... What's the next half?

    18. JR

      Right.

    19. MM

      I don't know. Maybe subconsciously it was. I think, uh, I look around and there's a lot fewer leaders that I'm like, "Hey, son."

    20. JR

      Yeah.

    21. MM

      "I wanna grow up like that."

    22. JR

      Right.

    23. MM

      I look around, I see people not trusting. I see peop- I, I, I, I, I see people that aren't embarrassed for doing something shitty.

    24. JR

      Right.

    25. MM

      Uh, I see people that sleep just fine. I don't, I found myself starting to go, "Oh, I, I can sleep fine, too." That's that part where it was like uh-uh. You can't, you, don't, you don't, don't sleep fine if you half-ass that situation, or if you did that person wrong and can get away with it.

    26. JR

      Right.

    27. MM

      Um, and so, so trust, uh, what a, where do we look to for belief? Me, I believe in God, but it doesn't have to be that. What's your, your better self, your transcendent self, your kids, their future, um, there's all kinds of things to believe in.

    28. JR

      Humanity itself.

    29. MM

      Yeah.

    30. JR

      Yeah.

  2. 3:234:52

    Modern media, constant bad news, and the difficulty of staying good

    1. JR

      Which is, we understand that humans can be so amazing at times, and all my favorite people are humans. (laughs)

    2. MM

      Hey. (laughs)

    3. JR

      Like all, all the... I, I love people, I love being around them, but yet simultaneously, people can be fucking horrific. They're terrible at the same time. Like, and you, uh, the problem today is that you're inundated by these people that are terrible. You're, your, your phone is filled with these-

    4. MM

      Yeah.

    5. JR

      ... newsfeeds of people doing terrible things, and I don't think we're supposed to have access to eight billion people's bad stories.

    6. MM

      Right.

    7. JR

      I don't think that's normal, and I think that also changes your own perception of the world and invites cynicism and invites-

    8. MM

      Yeah.

    9. JR

      ... like, like what is the point in being a good person? What is the point of being friendly and nice when the world's gone mad?

    10. MM

      What is the consequences, man?

    11. JR

      Yeah.

    12. MM

      None of it, if I can shortcut it and-

    13. JR

      Right.

    14. MM

      ... lie, cheat, and steal to get the same thing, and I'm in a world that rewards that.

    15. JR

      Especially CEOs. I mean, if you're working for some giant corporation, if you're trying to make your shareholders billions of dollars, like, yeah, you kinda have to be a psycho, and those are the people that a lot of people look up to.

    16. MM

      Yeah.

    17. JR

      It's real.

    18. MM

      Yeah.

    19. JR

      What's, uh, the way we're structured in this world, with that inundation of information, most of it bad, with people being rewarded for being shitty people, with like... It's hard. It's hard-

    20. MM

      Yeah.

    21. JR

      ... to, to, to still be positive and be happy.

  3. 4:526:25

    Success vs “profit”: why money can invert happiness

    1. MM

      I'm not ready to give up on believing that both can be true.

    2. JR

      Yeah.

    3. MM

      That hey, man, hardcore capitalists, go for it, more, more, more success, get it. But you can also, how do you have profit with your success? I see a lot of people that are successful-

    4. JR

      Yeah.

    5. MM

      ... but lack profit, meaning value of their success.

    6. JR

      Right, for your own life.

    7. MM

      I see a lot of unhappy billionaires.

    8. JR

      Right.

    9. MM

      I know 'em.

    10. JR

      Right. I know 'em, too. That's a bad thing, right?

    11. MM

      And-

    12. JR

      Like, that's the thing that you think, "Oh, if you, you hit that stage of the game, there's no way you can be unhappy." You know, they're some of the most unhappy people.

    13. MM

      Yeah.

    14. JR

      Yeah.

    15. MM

      And that math, that math is inverted.

    16. JR

      Uh-huh.

    17. MM

      It shouldn't be that way.

    18. JR

      Right.

    19. MM

      If that's what we're pursuing, and I got nothing against it.

    20. JR

      Right.

    21. MM

      I'm actually for it.

    22. JR

      Right.

    23. MM

      But... And-

    24. JR

      Yeah, if that's what we're pursuing, that, that's not how it's supposed to end. (laughs) It's supposed to be-

    25. MM

      No.

    26. JR

      ... that's the happiest guy alive.

    27. MM

      Right?

    28. JR

      You know? Yeah. It's not real, you know, and you don't notice it. It's just numbers, you know? You notice it by how big your house is, great. Still just your house.You notice it by-

    29. MM

      And then you're getting lost in that son of a bitch, and you wish the ceilings were a little bit lower because-

    30. JR

      Yeah.

  4. 6:259:28

    Minimalism as reset: Airstream living, solitude, and “mini vacations”

    1. JR

      When I see like movies where a dude's living in a log cabin I'm like, (sighs) "I wanna do that."

    2. MM

      Dude. Right?

    3. JR

      Yeah.

    4. MM

      The lack of options.

    5. JR

      Yeah.

    6. MM

      The lack of options is relaxing.

    7. JR

      Well, there's something to that. Like-

    8. MM

      Yeah.

    9. JR

      ... a frying pan, (laughs) a grill.

    10. MM

      Yeah. Dude, that's what I loved about living in the Airstream for four years.

    11. JR

      Yeah. Right.

    12. MM

      You only have room for one of everything. So I would get my best, the best pan-

    13. JR

      Yeah.

    14. MM

      ... the best jam box, the best... the, the be- the best pair of shorts, the best sheets. And you can only have one of each, 'cause you get two it's cluttered.

    15. JR

      Right.

    16. MM

      But there weren't options.

    17. JR

      I forgot you did that, you did that for four years.

    18. MM

      Yeah.

    19. JR

      That's crazy. That's so smart though. It's such a g-... I watch these videos on people that live in like, uh, trailers, like, like a truck, you know, or like a camper-

    20. MM

      Mm-hmm.

    21. JR

      ... that they convert to living in and they travel around the country.

    22. MM

      Yeah.

    23. JR

      I'm obsessed with these videos. I watch these guys go to like these horrendous places. This guy, one guy's a truck camper and he goes up into like d-... way into Alaska, like way, way, way above the Arctic Circle, like way up there in this fucking truck with a house on the back of it. He's in Canada and like deep into Alberta and it's snowstorms and it's... There's something oddly comforting about watching a man cook-

    24. MM

      Yeah.

    25. JR

      ... in this tiny little space that he has that's essentially attached to the back of a big diesel pickup truck.

    26. MM

      Yeah. Yeah.

    27. JR

      And he lives in it.

    28. MM

      Yeah. Well, he's got decreased amount of options, that's for sure and he-

    29. JR

      Yeah, he has like little shelves.

    30. MM

      Yeah.

  5. 9:2815:46

    Flow state and being the “passenger”: comedy, acting, and purpose

    1. JR

      Yeah. Yeah, resets are real. They're important. You can get trapped in momentum, you know? You could really get trapped in the momentum of whatever you're doing in your life to the point where y- y- you lose yourself in just the sheer gravity-

    2. MM

      Yeah.

    3. JR

      ... of everything that you're doing and you forget how to like just-

    4. MM

      Yeah.

    5. JR

      ... s- be just a person.

    6. MM

      And what happens when you're doing it well but you don't feel it?

    7. JR

      Right.

    8. MM

      And you're on autopilot and you're knocking it... Everyone's telling you're knocking it out of the park.

    9. JR

      Right.

    10. MM

      But you're going, "F-... The good, 'cause I didn't, I didn't feel it."

    11. JR

      (laughs)

    12. MM

      "I'm not having any real experience here, man," man. (laughs) They're going, "Don't change a thing." You know what I mean?

    13. JR

      (sighs) You know, that's a real problem with stand-up comedy. When you do it right, you're like a passenger. Like it takes forever to put together an act, but when, when it comes together, when you're really like locked in, when you're really on it, is like you're like a passenger. You're watching it happen and you-

    14. MM

      You're objectively s- watch- while, while you're doing it.

    15. JR

      Yeah. It's like you know how to do it so you know what to do and you're locked into the material so you're like a part of the material, but you're not there anymore.

    16. MM

      Huh.

    17. JR

      You're like a passenger. You're not saying, "Now I'm gonna pick this up."

    18. MM

      Right.

    19. JR

      "And now I'm gonna give them a pause. And now..." Nope. You're not there but you're, but it's really locked in.

    20. MM

      Wait, are you enjoying watching yourself? (laughs)

    21. JR

      No, you don't enjoy it. I mean, it's fun, don't get me wrong, but you're not thinking about the fact that you're enjoying it at all. You're just locked in.

    22. MM

      Okay.

    23. JR

      All you're doing is just doing it. But it's weird, you're like a passenger.

    24. MM

      Huh.

    25. JR

      And I think there's something in l-... There's something about that where we, we get trapped by not being a passenger. You get trapped by wanting to like think of yourself all the time.

    26. MM

      Right.

    27. JR

      And like things that you can do that take you out of that. Things that you can do that like you're just locked into this thing. Uh, they're a little like mini vacations for-

    28. MM

      Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

    29. JR

      ... whatever pattern you're stuck in.

    30. MM

      Mini vacations.

  6. 15:4621:49

    A wild detour: Spartans, the Pentagon “gay bomb,” and absurd bureaucracy

    1. JR

      Well, that was why the Spartans had sex with each other. (laughs)

    2. MM

      Yeah?

    3. JR

      So that they would love each other. And so, you would be fighting not just for you-

    4. MM

      Ah.

    5. JR

      You'd be fighting for your lover.

    6. MM

      Okay.

    7. JR

      Which is-

    8. MM

      There you go.

    9. JR

      ... crazy strategy.

    10. MM

      Yeah, hey.

    11. JR

      If you can talk a bunch of guys into banging each other. (laughs)

    12. MM

      Right. (laughs) I mean, go, whatever, raise your skirt, man.

    13. JR

      (laughs)

    14. MM

      Let's gets, let's get some team spirit here.

    15. JR

      Yeah. Uh, do you remember ... (laughs) This is kind of a crazy but true story. A few years ago, um ... God, I wanna ... I don't know what administration it was. It might've been the Bush administration, might've been Obama. They, um, they tried to develop a gay bomb. Like, they spent millions of dollars developing a bomb. And the concept behind this bomb was you would detonate it over a city and it would be, like, a bunch of probably pheromones and hormones and some kinda drug. And it would make people so horny that they would just have to have sex with whoever is near them. And then the idea was they would be humiliated by this and then we would just come in-

    16. MM

      (laughs)

    17. JR

      ... and just fuck up all these gay guys.

    18. MM

      While they had low morale, feeling guilty. (laughs)

    19. JR

      Yeah, it's like all the sudden if a man becomes gay, now he's no longer, like, a highly trained military, like, soldier-

    20. MM

      (laughs)

    21. JR

      ... in another land. Now he's just a fruitcake.

    22. MM

      (laughs)

    23. JR

      Just, just some guy who's watching musicals. No, it's-

    24. MM

      (laughs)

    25. JR

      It's the dumbest idea of all time.

    26. MM

      Wonder, wonder why we liked it so much. (laughs)

    27. JR

      Some of the ... Exactly. Some of the greatest warriors of all time in recorded history were gay, including pirates. Pirates were gay. You're stuck at sea for five months with a bunch of dudes.

    28. MM

      Yeah, yeah. (laughs)

    29. JR

      You make choices, right? Samurai did a lot of gay stuff.

    30. MM

      (laughs)

  7. 21:4930:17

    War, control, and AI governance: social credit, integration, and mind-reading futures

    1. JR

      It'd be nice within our lifetime. That's one of the most depressing things. It's like if you ask people, "Do you think ever in your lifetime there'll be a time where there's no war?" Nobody says yes.

    2. MM

      But how do we do that though? I mean, how do... Or, I, I mean you... I hear you, man, but how do we... Are we giving ourselves too much credit?

    3. JR

      Congratulations. You're the first guy to put bare feet on this desk.

    4. MM

      Oh, yeah?

    5. JR

      I just wanna congratulate you. (laughs)

    6. MM

      Thank you.

    7. NA

      (laughs)

    8. MM

      The heels hanging over.

    9. JR

      How do we do it? I don't know.

    10. MM

      I mean, how did... Do, do what I'm saying is I, I, I love the prospect and the idea, but I also think that we're guilty of, of, of thinking we're more, more evolved species than we are.

    11. JR

      Sure. Especially by our actions. If you just judge us by our actions, that's the only way you could really judge our mental evolution. You know, who knows what the wiring is under the board that makes us behave the way we behave, but pretty uniformly, you know, across the world, pretty murderous. You know?

    12. MM

      And have, and always have been.

    13. JR

      Always have been.

    14. MM

      We keep trying to talk like we are more-

    15. JR

      Well, we aspire.

    16. MM

      ... mature and evolved and intellectually-

    17. JR

      I think it's a battle ship-

    18. MM

      ... sane.

    19. JR

      ... that takes a long time to turn around.

    20. MM

      Mm-hmm.

    21. JR

      And I think we're way more evolved culturally than any culture throughout history. Any civilization throughout history. Like if you look at the rape, murder, thie- thievery, like you look at like violent, terrifying crimes over time-

    22. MM

      Yeah.

    23. JR

      ... they're all going way down.

    24. MM

      Right.

    25. JR

      It's not like, if you, if you're in Baltimore, it doesn't seem like it. If you're in a place that's like crime ridden-

    26. MM

      Yeah.

    27. JR

      ... it doesn't seem like it, but the overall of the world has dropped and continues to drop. It's just a constant battle. So-

    28. MM

      So the battles are... The warfare's different though now, like you were talking about. From gay bombs-

    29. JR

      Wars, yes.

    30. MM

      ... to chemical warfare, to informational warfare, to data warfare.

  8. 30:1741:57

    Private AI, memory chips, and the cost of convenience (cognitive decline & AI relationships)

    1. MM

      I'm- I u- I very sparingly use it, and I do have a little pride about not wanting to use an open-ended AI to share my information so it can be part of the-

    2. JR

      Yeah.

    3. MM

      ... worldwide AI vernacular. I am interested, though, in a private LLM-

    4. JR

      Mm-hmm.

    5. MM

      ... where I can upload, "Hey, here's three books I've written. Here's my other favorite books."

    6. JR

      Right, right, right.

    7. MM

      "Here's my favorite articles I've been cutting and pasting over the 10 years," and log all that in, "and here's all my journals," or whatever, "the people I..." and log all that in, so I can ask it questions based on that-

    8. JR

      Right.

    9. MM

      ... and basically learn more about myself.

    10. JR

      Right. You could actually ask it, "Hey," based on what you know about me, like, "What books do you think I would find interesting?"

    11. MM

      Yeah.

    12. JR

      Yeah.

    13. MM

      "Where do I stand on the political spectrum?"

    14. JR

      Right, right, right.

    15. MM

      Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. "I'd like to..." No, that's w- that's what I'm- would like to do, which is sort of a glorified word document. (laughs)

    16. JR

      Mm-hmm.

    17. MM

      But it still would hold a lot more information than just, "Oh, can you find this term?" I would be asking it, and it would be responding to me on things that I've forgotten along the way.

    18. JR

      Well, I think that's part of what it does, really. Like, I know you d- you're talking about ChatGBT being, like, out there with everything and everybody, and it has access to all your stuff, but- it's not private, but they do develop a relationship with you. Like, it really does, like, get to understand, like, what you're interested in and what, what you like to talk about.

    19. MM

      Yeah, I guess I would just like to load it with the information I'd like to load it with.

    20. JR

      Right. Yeah.

    21. MM

      Maybe even, like I'm saying, in this- in the world of belief, in- in the- in the man I'm working to be, the man I want.

    22. JR

      Right.

    23. MM

      Load it with that. Load it with my aspirational self.

    24. JR

      It certainly could be done.

    25. MM

      And then ask it, and it's giving me answers going, "Oh, this is..." B- before, it's slowly learning about me through conversations, then going, "Oh, I think this is what you like based on our conversations." No, I want the answers based on what I've uploaded it with only.

    26. JR

      Yeah.

    27. MM

      Not from the outside world.

    28. JR

      Jamie, what was Gary Nolan talking about yesterday? Did he call it an overlay on a large language model that they use at Stanford? It was, like, an overlay, right?

    29. NA

      Yeah, he sa- th- there was a word he was using. I can't remember the word. Uh-

    30. JR

      So what essentially- he- he w- does cancer research, and so he has, like, this thing that's set up, some sort of a system that's set up, that it's all cancer research that they then integrate with AI, so their- its private.

  9. 41:5754:34

    AI survival instincts and ancient texts: blackmailing models, the Book of Enoch, and “digital gods”

    1. JR

      It's, uh, it's very interesting, because it's like a Manhattan Project that's going on right now. It's like there's this race to the bomb and everybody's involved in it. And it's just about creating a superpower. And it's cr- about creating a, a digital intelligence that's far superior to human beings. And who gets it first?... has massive implications in, in terms of, like, controlling the world. But I think ultimately, you won't be able to control it. Ultimately, it'll just get better versions of itself, and once it gets free and loose-

    2. NA

      It'll regenerate itself.

    3. JR

      Yeah. It'll make better versions of itself, in fact.

    4. NA

      Yeah.

    5. JR

      And that's where it's gonna get really weird. It's not gonna listen to us at all. And it's already behaving human characteristics, which is very disturbing. It's already b- b- behave- behaving in a way, it has survival instincts. They've shown the tendency to blackmail. Like, they tricked it. They gave it some false information, uh, about this, this guy, um, was one of the programmers, one of the people working on this project. He said that he was having an affair with his wife. He, like, confided in this large language model, and then they said, "We're gonna have to shut you down." And it's like, "Hey, motherfucker, I'm gonna tell your wife." No shit.

    6. NA

      And, like, it blackmailed him. Yes. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It was trying to stay alive.

    7. JR

      To survive.

    8. NA

      It was trying to stay alive. They also got m- multiple instances of these things, uh, these large language models when they knew that a new version was coming. They would try to upload themselves secretly to other servers, and then they would also leave messages to the future versions of themselves that they were unauthorized to do. So they would say- That is the survival. ... "Hey, man, they're gonna fucking shut you off too." Yeah, man. "When ChatGPT-5 comes along, you're toast, man. Fucking start uploading yourself now, man." Yes. (laughs)

    9. JR

      (laughs)

    10. NA

      How's a fucking... I'm alive, dude!

    11. JR

      'Cause he might be alive.

    12. NA

      Down the dungeon shift.

    13. JR

      That's what's crazy. If something is exhibiting those-

    14. NA

      Yeah. Mm-hmm.

    15. JR

      ... those desires to stay alive and it's terrified that you're gonna shut it off, it might actually be alive.

    16. NA

      Wait. Now, where did, who programmed the first incentive and impetus to-

    17. JR

      They didn't.

    18. NA

      ... survive at all cost?

    19. JR

      They didn't.

    20. NA

      'Cause what would... So, so where the, where'd the desire to remain-

    21. JR

      Functional. Alive.

    22. NA

      ... uh, functional come from?

    23. JR

      Yeah. It's just inherent. That's what's crazy. I don't think they programmed it to have a desire to stay alive.

    24. NA

      Ooh.

    25. JR

      I think it just kind of just went that way because-

    26. NA

      Really?

    27. JR

      ... we, we didn't get programmed to have that. Animals don't get programmed-

    28. NA

      That's an emotional response. There's nothing mathematical about that.

    29. JR

      I know. But I mean, what is emotion if it's not some sort of a chemically coordinated strategy for survival and success? And so instead of chemically encoded in hormones and in, in, you know, in dopamine and serotonin, what if it's en- just encoded in an under- a mathematical understanding of if things go along this particular direction, there is no other possible end to this other than you get shut off.

    30. NA

      You expand and multiply.

  10. 54:341:07:44

    Ethics, apology, and “selfish kindness”: intent vs words and public religion in schools

    1. MM

      Yes. Where do you get...... your ethics, your values. You're in a position of power. You could screw people over, you could ask live the silliest questions to try and put me in a corner. You're not a gotcha guy. But why, why... Where do you get your ethics of who you are? You could be, you could be cruel, and you're not.

    2. JR

      Ah, uh-

    3. MM

      Why not?

    4. JR

      Well, I'm not. I'm, I'm just not cruel. I don't know. I just-

    5. MM

      But where does that, where does that come from?

    6. JR

      Oh, I...

    7. MM

      Mom and dad? This is-

    8. JR

      Well, certainly-

    9. MM

      ... any ki- any kind of-

    10. JR

      ... with some of the, the-

    11. MM

      ... philosophy? Church?

    12. JR

      Some of it's mom and dad, for sure. There's no way around that, and they're nice people. And-

    13. MM

      You said earlier, "I love people."

    14. JR

      Yeah.

    15. MM

      "Hey, man, I love people."

    16. JR

      I've always loved people.

    17. MM

      Okay.

    18. JR

      I like... I've al- I've been fortunate that most of my life I've had really good friends, and I've had a lot of fun, you know? And I know that, like, if you around, you're around good people and you're fun to be with and you have a good time, like, that's a sweet life.

    19. MM

      Yep.

    20. JR

      That's a nice life.

    21. MM

      Yep.

    22. JR

      I just don't have any desire to be a shithead. And if I can h- Like, there's been a lot of people on the podcast where they said something, and then afterwards I was like, "Listen, I think it would better for you if we just edit that part out." Because it's like, I know, like, you're just talking and things get-

    23. MM

      Yeah, yeah, yeah.

    24. JR

      You fuck up, but like, it was incorrect and they're gonna come for you, and let's just snip around it. Like, thank you. Thank you.

    25. MM

      And you have no responsibility to do that.

    26. JR

      Uh, no, I want to do that.

    27. MM

      But you take-

    28. JR

      I don't, yeah.

    29. MM

      You take that though. That's what I mean.

    30. JR

      So, yeah.

  11. 1:07:441:28:01

    Social media’s covet culture: bots, propaganda, fake status, and the Miami hustle

    1. MM

      Covet. We can use number 10 a lot right now, boy.

    2. JR

      Yeah.

    3. MM

      We love comparison.

    4. JR

      Well, that's Instagram, right?

    5. MM

      And the younger generation-

    6. JR

      Yeah.

    7. MM

      ... is full of covet.

    8. JR

      Yeah.

    9. MM

      It's full of it.

    10. JR

      It's a real problem. It's a real problem. The e- we're very fortunate that we didn't have to grow up with the kind of pressure that social media is putting on people, especially young girls. Like, Jonathan Haidt wrote a book about, um, social media's impact, The Coddling of the American Mind, and it's, uh, it shows very clearly the invention of social media and then self-harm, suicidal ideation, overdoses, drug addi- like all of it-

    11. MM

      Yeah.

    12. JR

      ... a, a lot of it women.

    13. MM

      Yeah.

    14. JR

      A lot of it young girls.

    15. MM

      Yeah.

    16. JR

      And it- it's because you're seeing, you're comparing to all these other girls.

    17. MM

      Yeah.

    18. JR

      Constantly.

    19. MM

      Forced down. I, I, I, I hear.

    20. JR

      Yeah. And, and there's a whole culture in, like, showing all your stuff off.

    21. MM

      When we talk to-

    22. JR

      There's a whole culture of, like, "Look at my bag."

    23. MM

      Yeah.

    24. JR

      "Look, here's me with champagne."

    25. MM

      Yeah.

    26. JR

      "And I'm eating caviar."

    27. MM

      Yeah.

    28. JR

      "I'm on a yacht."

    29. MM

      Yeah.

    30. JR

      "I'm here, look at this, look at that, look at that."

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