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Lewis HowesCasey Neistat on Writing Your Own Rules - with Lewis Howes
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Meeting at VidCon and the reality of YouTube fame
Lewis and Casey recall first properly meeting at VidCon, especially the “refuge” of the Instagram lounge amid the chaos. Casey describes the intensity of concentrated YouTube fandom and how excitement can quickly become overwhelming.
- •VidCon felt like a crowded, high-energy “mosh pit” weekend
- •The Instagram lounge served as a calm escape (and had memorable cookies)
- •Casey describes being swamped by fans asking for selfies
- •The experience shifted from exciting to overwhelming once outside the refuge areas
Casey’s pivot: leaving HBO/film to embrace new media
Casey gives an abbreviated bio: early filmmaking, then mainstream milestones like an HBO season and successful films. He explains why his mainstream peak pushed him to leave TV/film and focus on new media distribution and audience relationships.
- •Casey started making movies as a teenager and built momentum by 2007–2008
- •He had a one-season HBO show he wrote, directed, and starred in
- •He felt mainstream success peaked around 2010, then chose to leave TV/film
- •He shifted focus to “new media” for distribution and a different viewer relationship
Why mainstream media felt stifling—and why there’s no single path
Lewis asks what didn’t work about mainstream, and Casey describes politics, bureaucracy, and creative stagnation as major turnoffs, referencing the VMAs as a reminder. He emphasizes that creative careers have no defined path—each person must pave their own.
- •Casey says mainstream media’s bureaucracy marginalizes the creative spirit
- •He contrasts “fed” TV viewing with chosen online viewing
- •He rejects the idea of a universal formula for creative success
- •He describes his own trajectory as moving away from the establishment toward forward-thinking spaces
Early online income: branded content before massive audience scale
Casey explains that traction and “success” online didn’t arrive as quickly as people might assume. Early income came through branded content, where decision-makers valued his style even when his audience size was smaller.
- •Casey’s early online income came from branded content, not YouTube ads
- •Brands valued his tone/style even without huge view counts
- •He mentions doing deals with major companies like Nike and Google
- •He frames branded deals as the first clear “quantification” of success online
Rejecting traditional ad agencies—and the Nike deal that changed everything
Casey recounts being a poor fit for union-set TV commercials and choosing to stop making them. He tells the story of a small Nike project that later led to a major multi-video deal with full creative discretion.
- •He felt TV commercial sets made his role feel unnecessary and results “looked the same”
- •He told his commercial production company he wanted direct-to-brand online deals; they said it would never happen
- •He stopped working with them and pursued his own direction
- •A small early Nike bike video eventually led to a major three-video deal
‘Make It Count’: spending the budget on a world trip—and proving the power of ethos
Casey explains how the third Nike video became a radical pivot: he used the budget to travel until the money ran out, then shaped that experience into the piece. Despite minimal product presence, it performed massively and reinforced his belief that brand ethos—and creative trust—wins.
- •Casey chose to abandon the original third-video plan and travel the world with the budget
- •He says the video became one of Nike’s most-watched online videos (for a time holding the top spot)
- •The narrative aligned with “Make it count”/“Just do it” despite lacking product focus
- •He contrasts Nike’s willingness to take creative risks with the restrictive control he experienced at the VMAs
TV versus online: numbers, choice, and the deeper audience relationship
Lewis asks if Casey would ever return to TV, and Casey rejects the idea, pointing to his current viewership and the distinct online relationship. He explains that online viewers actively choose content, unlike passive TV consumption, and says that difference reshaped his thinking after HBO.
- •Casey says he wouldn’t take a TV show offer again
- •He shares his channel averages roughly around a million views a day in aggregate
- •He argues online viewing is chosen, while TV content is “fed” to viewers
- •He describes learning the importance of this relationship during his HBO experience
How Casey thinks about YouTube success: not gear, but craft and accessibility
Lewis presses for the key to success on YouTube; Casey says he can’t define the formula but can name what it isn’t—expensive gear. He emphasizes doing great work with simple tools and highlights how online video is more democratic than the gatekept mainstream system.
- •Casey says the key is not having the best gear
- •He notes his HBO show was shot on a cheap point-and-shoot camera
- •He mentions a highly watched “Bike Lanes” video shot on a very basic camera
- •He stresses accessibility: an internet connection and cheap camera can be enough
Early life, fatherhood at 16–17, and the motivation of responsibility
Lewis asks about Casey’s upbringing, dropping out, running away, and becoming a young father. Casey calls early fatherhood the greatest thing that happened to him personally, describing how it shifted him from self-centered behavior to living for someone else.
- •Casey describes struggling in school, dropping out in 10th grade, and leaving home at 15
- •He became a father shortly after turning 17
- •He says fatherhood gave him a purpose bigger than himself
- •He contrasts earlier troublemaking with the urgency of supporting his child
From welfare to New York: taking a leap, saying yes, and getting early breaks
Casey describes hardship jobs, including dishwashing and a bike messenger stint that even lost him money due to cellphone charges. He recounts moving to New York at 19 with $800, meeting people through persistence, and landing a pivotal paid project that led to more opportunities.
- •He describes “hunger” as a powerful motivator during welfare and low-wage work
- •He shares advice he gives: get a job doing something you hate to clarify what you love
- •At 19, he moved to New York with $800 and a three-month place to stay
- •He got an early project making a birthday video that involved interviewing prominent figures, building momentum through saying yes to everything
Pre-YouTube virality: ‘iPod’s Dirty Secret’ and momentum into mainstream work
Casey tells the story of making ‘iPod’s Dirty Secret’ after Apple wouldn’t replace an iPod battery, and how it spread widely through email before social media. That visibility led people to seek more of his work, helping build traction that later connected to larger mainstream opportunities.
- •He made ‘iPod’s Dirty Secret’ after a first-gen iPod battery issue and Apple’s replacement policy
- •The video spread via email and reached millions of views pre-YouTube
- •He says the term “viral movie” was coined in relation to that film (as he recalls)
- •The attention drove interest in other projects, including the ‘Science Experiments’ series and later mainstream steps
Beme and the daily vlog grind: building empathy, building a company, building momentum
Casey explains how his dissatisfaction with mainstream success led to refocusing on sharing ideas—and eventually to Beme, conceived while he was at MIT. He details Beme’s capture mechanic (four-second clips via the proximity sensor), its goal of “sharing how you see it,” and how daily vlogging exploded his growth while demanding punishing editing hours; he closes with his “three truths” and definition of greatness.
- •He describes incubating Beme’s idea while at MIT and wanting to remove the “burden of creation” from sharing video
- •He explains Beme’s interface: no record button, no preview/review, four-second clips posted immediately
- •He contrasts Beme with other platforms as “anti-duck face selfie” and frames the mission as promoting empathy by sharing perspective
- •He shares the impact of daily vlogging (rapid growth) and the intense routine of editing for many hours daily
- •He offers three truths: share life, work hard and be brave, and value health; he defines greatness as dying broke and leaving the world better
