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Lewis HowesREBEKAH NEUMANN: Real Life Interview With WeWork Co-Founder
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55 min read · 10,926 words- 0:00 – 0:36
Every child is “gifted and talented”: rejecting narrow labels
- RNRebekah Neumann
Like, I don't believe in the concept of some kids being gifted and talented. I think that's one of the most bogus things I've ever heard of in my entire life. Every human is gifted and talented.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah.
- RNRebekah Neumann
It's just if we're lazy and we're gonna limit gifted and talented to one athlete, you know, IQ, whatever, that's, that's- the, the issue's on the adults, not the children, 'cause the children are all perfect. [upbeat music]
- 0:36 – 2:03
What WeGrow is: elevating consciousness through superpowers and happiness
- LHLewis Howes
All right. Welcome everyone to the School of Greatness Podcast. We've got Rebekah Neumann in the house. Good to see you. Thank you so much for being here. I appreciate it. I'm in your house, actually. This is the WeWork headquarters. And thank you again for having me. This is exciting.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Thanks for having me.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah, this is fun. Now, you are, just so I got it clear, you're a founding partner and chief brand officer of WeWork, but also founder and CEO of WeGrow-
- RNRebekah Neumann
Yeah
- LHLewis Howes
... which is a whole new organization within WeWork. Is that right?
- RNRebekah Neumann
Exactly.
- LHLewis Howes
And what is the mission of WeGrow? Just so I understand clearly.
- RNRebekah Neumann
The mission of WeGrow, and quite honestly, the collective we that we're all living under, is to elevate the world's consciousness.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm.
- RNRebekah Neumann
At WeGrow, specifically through unleashing every human's superpowers and expanding happiness.
- LHLewis Howes
Okay. And it's, and WeGrow is starting as a school-
- RNRebekah Neumann
Yes
- LHLewis Howes
... but it's going to be evolving into much more, I'm as- I'm assuming, right?
- RNRebekah Neumann
It's kind of a practice and a new approach to life.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm-hmm.
- RNRebekah Neumann
We have started with children, but we're as soon as next week, starting to pilot some of the curriculum on our WeGrown-ups.
- LHLewis Howes
Really?
- RNRebekah Neumann
Uh-huh.
- LHLewis Howes
Is that what you call, is that what you call us? [laughs]
- RNRebekah Neumann
Just for the moment.
- LHLewis Howes
For fun. Yeah. [laughs]
- RNRebekah Neumann
Yeah. Why not?
- LHLewis Howes
Now, why did you wanna get into this? 'Cause you guys started WeWork-
- RNRebekah Neumann
Right
- LHLewis Howes
... eight years ago, roughly.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Uh-huh.
- LHLewis Howes
2010, 2011-
- RNRebekah Neumann
That sounds right
- LHLewis Howes
... was the ideas-
- RNRebekah Neumann
Yeah
- 2:03 – 2:59
Origins of WeWork: community roots and helping entrepreneurs focus on what they love
- LHLewis Howes
And how did the idea actually start with WeWork?
- RNRebekah Neumann
The idea for WeWork started because, gosh, it came from a lot of things coming together. First of all, my husband and Miguel, the co-founders-
- LHLewis Howes
Uh-huh
- RNRebekah Neumann
... both grew up on kind of communes, my husband on a kibbutz in Israel, Miguel on a commune in Oregon.
- LHLewis Howes
Okay.
- RNRebekah Neumann
So they very much, from their childhood, understood the power of community. They both also were, um, struggling entrepreneurs in DUMBO, Brooklyn when I met Adam, and they thought that they needed, if they could create a platform that would help entrepreneurs and creators really do what they love and not worry so much about the logistics, that that would be a great gift to give the world.
- LHLewis Howes
So they were struggling entrepreneurs themselves.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Oh, yeah. When I met my husband, um, he couldn't buy me dinner-
- LHLewis Howes
Really?
- RNRebekah Neumann
... or even afford a taxi.
- LHLewis Howes
Really?
- RNRebekah Neumann
Really.
- LHLewis Howes
And what year was this when you guys met?
- RNRebekah Neumann
We met 11 years ago.
- LHLewis Howes
Okay.
- RNRebekah Neumann
And we got married a few months after that.
- LHLewis Howes
[laughs] Really? Wow.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Yeah, it was quick.
- LHLewis Howes
You guys acted fast.
- RNRebekah Neumann
We did.
- LHLewis Howes
And then you ha- you still-
- 2:59 – 5:09
Why she stopped dating: grief, betrayal, and a self-discovery journey
- RNRebekah Neumann
Before that time, from about 23 to 29, when I met him, I actually didn't date anyone. Yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
For six, five, six years-
- RNRebekah Neumann
Yeah, no
- LHLewis Howes
... you didn't date anyone?
- RNRebekah Neumann
No dating.
- LHLewis Howes
You didn't go on one date?
- RNRebekah Neumann
I didn't go on one date.
- LHLewis Howes
And what was that reasoning?
- RNRebekah Neumann
I was, um, studying life and wanted to have a deeper understanding of who I was and what my purpose was and kind of why I was on this planet before I opened up to welcoming in a partner.
- LHLewis Howes
Wow.
- RNRebekah Neumann
I know. It's a little out there, but that's what happened.
- LHLewis Howes
I like that.
- RNRebekah Neumann
[laughs]
- LHLewis Howes
So what made you, what made you get to that place of like, okay, um, did you have a bad experience with a partner when you were 21?
- RNRebekah Neumann
Right.
- LHLewis Howes
Or did you say, "Okay, this really isn't for me. Let me just-"
- RNRebekah Neumann
Yeah
- LHLewis Howes
... "be single for a while"?
- RNRebekah Neumann
I think it was a combination of a few things. The first thing is when I was 11, my brother passed away.
- LHLewis Howes
Wow.
- RNRebekah Neumann
So at a very youn- and I was very close to him. He was 23. At a very young age, I started to understand that life is about something much bigger than anything material or superficial. Um, I grew up in a, you know, comfortable home and all of that, but when you, someone you love dies, it puts everything in perspective and you realize that there's a bigger purpose to life. Um, and when I was in college, my parents split up, and right after college, I went through a terrible breakup-
- LHLewis Howes
Mm
- RNRebekah Neumann
... and my boyfriend ended up running off with my best friend, so.
- LHLewis Howes
No way.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Yeah. That was intense, and there was a lot of betrayal and pain, but [clears throat] ultimately, um, thank God, that led me on a journey of self-discovery, 'cause I had to kind of refind myself and my center and my, you know, raison d'être.
- LHLewis Howes
There you go.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
Is there anything that you still hold onto, any pain?
- RNRebekah Neumann
No.
- LHLewis Howes
You feel like you've forgiven-
- 5:09 – 6:41
Spiritual study and a core belief: unity as the underlying reality
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah. And now, did I understand that in your, your 20s, you studied Buddhism and business. You're an artist, a yoga instructor, actor, producer, director-
- RNRebekah Neumann
And stock trader
- LHLewis Howes
... and stock trader.
- RNRebekah Neumann
[laughs]
- LHLewis Howes
For many years, a stock trader, right?
- RNRebekah Neumann
No, the stock trading was a, was a quick little thing I did.
- LHLewis Howes
Okay.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Um, yeah. I did not know what I wanted to do. I went to Cornell. When I graduated from Cornell, the kind of job to get was to go, to go into a sales-
- LHLewis Howes
Sure
- RNRebekah Neumann
... and trading analyst program-
- LHLewis Howes
Financing
- RNRebekah Neumann
... at one of the banks.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah, yeah.
- RNRebekah Neumann
So I jump into, jumped into that. It was not my calling, and very soon after that, I went to India to Dharamsala, where the Tibetan community in exile is living, and I studied with, um, you know, His Holiness the Dalai Lama-
- LHLewis Howes
Wow
- RNRebekah Neumann
... and his monks. I also studied Tibetan Buddhism at Cornell.
- LHLewis Howes
Wow.
- RNRebekah Neumann
I love to study all different spiritual paths. Um, to me, ultimately, what's so beautiful is that they all say the same exact thing.
- LHLewis Howes
Which is what?
- RNRebekah Neumann
Which is that if we can all come together and be in a true state of unity and we, then the world will be in a beautiful place. And not only that, but that is the true reality. We just can't see it. I can't see it or feel it with our five senses but on an energy level, we are all one entity. So the joke's on us 'cause like we think we're different, but we're not.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah.
- RNRebekah Neumann
We look different, our story's different, our history's different, but spiritually we're all aligned.
- LHLewis Howes
How are we very similar, do you think?
- RNRebekah Neumann
We're... You, you and I?
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah.
- RNRebekah Neumann
From-
- LHLewis Howes
You and I, but also just-
- RNRebekah Neumann
Yes
- LHLewis Howes
... any human that you meet.
- 6:41 – 8:49
Redefining success: impact, fulfillment, and creating from love
- RNRebekah Neumann
Well, I can jump into you and I, if you want.
- LHLewis Howes
Let's do it.
- RNRebekah Neumann
So my... One of my superpowers is, is intuition-
- LHLewis Howes
Uh-huh
- RNRebekah Neumann
... so I feel things.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Um, I think we're similar 'cause I think what drives you is goodness and kindness and compassion, and I feel that you are authentically trying to make the world a better place, and that you're in your life's work, and that your work is a genuine act of sharing.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm-hmm.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Um, and I'm driven by the same things, and I started WeGrow, our school, as an act of sharing, and WeWork was started as an act of sharing. Our intention was never to find a way to make the most money. Um, when I met my husband I had just come off a month in the woods up at Omega, eating strictly vegan, meditating a few hours a day, and getting certified as a Jivamukti yogi. So my intention when I met him was just, how do we expand this good vibration to the planet? And-
- LHLewis Howes
Wow
- RNRebekah Neumann
... that's sort of what's motivated everything from the beginning. It's not some brand thing we are layering on top to sound conscious. It's authentically our DNA.
- LHLewis Howes
So you weren't trying to make money. Was he, c- since he was struggling?
- RNRebekah Neumann
When I initially met him-
- LHLewis Howes
He couldn't, he couldn't pay for food, right?
- RNRebekah Neumann
... he was, you know, he was trying and failing.
- LHLewis Howes
[laughs] Right.
- RNRebekah Neumann
'Cause if you only focus on trying to make money-
- LHLewis Howes
Mm-hmm
- RNRebekah Neumann
... first of all, it might not happen, and second of all, even if it does, you might not be happy.
- LHLewis Howes
You're miserable. Yeah.
- RNRebekah Neumann
So we have really focused on redefining success to include fulfillment-
- LHLewis Howes
Mm-hmm
- RNRebekah Neumann
... happiness and generosity.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah, absolutely. I think it's really... You know, I've interviewed a lot of people and I think the, the ones that have figured it out are the ones that make it about impact and fulfillment.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Mm-hmm.
- LHLewis Howes
And then typically the money will follow if you-
- RNRebekah Neumann
Right
- LHLewis Howes
... if you follow the impact and fulfillment or if you pursue that first, and you pursue the thing that you truly love.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Exactly.
- LHLewis Howes
'Cause I think that's the thing that's gonna help us overcome challenges. If we don't love something or if we're not at least curious about loving it-
- 8:49 – 17:51
Fear, anger, and “vibration”: emotional awareness and how kids absorb energy
- LHLewis Howes
Do you ever hate anything?
- RNRebekah Neumann
No.
- LHLewis Howes
Has there been a time in your life where you just hated something?
- RNRebekah Neumann
I feel scared of things and sad about things.
- LHLewis Howes
Like what?
- RNRebekah Neumann
Have I ev- uh, any, uh, cruelty. I feel really sad about cruelty to animals.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm-hmm.
- RNRebekah Neumann
I feel horri- I could cry, but I feel terrible about kids suffering.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Um, I feel bad about what we're doing to the planet.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah.
- RNRebekah Neumann
But I don't hate anyone 'cause I think most people that are not acting correctly just don't know better.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah. How do we educate people more?
- RNRebekah Neumann
[laughs] That's what we, we're trying to do with our school.
- LHLewis Howes
[laughs] Yeah.
- RNRebekah Neumann
We gotta start with kids, but then we gotta bring it to grownups.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah.
- RNRebekah Neumann
If we can teach people that by being conscious and sharing they're gonna be more fulfilled and successful, that that's kind of the winning formula-
- LHLewis Howes
Mm-hmm
- RNRebekah Neumann
... find your superpower, find your super passion, and use it to share and make the world better. If people understand that that'll... will also equal all of the material things they want, then hopefully, um, we'll get people more on that wagon. And also, if people can come to realize that we're all one-
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah
- RNRebekah Neumann
... then they'll treat others the way that they wanna be treated.
- LHLewis Howes
Who came up with the word WeWork?
- RNRebekah Neumann
Ha, that's a good one. So my friend Andrew Finkelstein, uh, who I went to college with, was a friend of my husband's. They had met on the roof of their apartment building. And, um, he introduced my husband and I, and he also came up with the name WeWork. We had a bunch of bad names. The, the-
- LHLewis Howes
[laughs]
- RNRebekah Neumann
... first iteration of this company was called Green Desk.
- LHLewis Howes
Oh, man.
- RNRebekah Neumann
So there was Green Desk before WeWork.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah.
- RNRebekah Neumann
And we were looking for a name for the company and failing miserably. And then Andrew, who is a... He's an agent at WME.
- 17:51 – 23:08
Why WeGrow: redesigning school around spirit, body, mind, passion, and movement
- LHLewis Howes
And when I was over there yesterday, I, I peaked in for like three minutes, it was a complete opposite of what I went to school-
- RNRebekah Neumann
Yeah
- LHLewis Howes
... as, right? Which, you know, I'm, I'm dyslexic or, you know, whether you l- wanna label it or not-
- RNRebekah Neumann
Right
- LHLewis Howes
... but I grew up very-
- RNRebekah Neumann
I wouldn't label it, but go on [laughs]
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah, right. Um, but you wanna label it, right? I grew up, um, unfortunately in the school system I was in, they would rank our grade cards-
- RNRebekah Neumann
Mm
- LHLewis Howes
... based on like all the kids in the class.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Mm.
- LHLewis Howes
So I was always in the bottom four based on how many students there were. They would see the number on the grade card.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Good for you.
- LHLewis Howes
Right? Yeah, it's fun. Really helped me, like with my confidence. Um, [clears throat] and the testing and just how everything was structured. I was an athlete, that's how I got my learning and my teaching. It was like on the sports-
- RNRebekah Neumann
Through your body
- LHLewis Howes
Through my body
- RNRebekah Neumann
Exactly
- LHLewis Howes
... after school at 3:30 when the bell rang, it was like, "Thank goodness. Now I can go learn something."
- RNRebekah Neumann
Yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
Because it was like, my coach is gonna teach me something.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
I'm gonna learn something through making mistakes.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Mm-hmm.
- LHLewis Howes
I wanna get to collaborate with my teammates and-
- RNRebekah Neumann
Physically
- LHLewis Howes
... connect with them.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah, move around.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Yes, movement.
- LHLewis Howes
That's where I thrived.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Totally.
- 23:08 – 24:52
Nature days and “conscious entrepreneurship”: the farm program and mentorship model
- LHLewis Howes
I like it. [laughs] I like it. And what I heard so far, I just was getting some, some, some insights, uh, yesterday, is that once a week they go to a local farm. Is that what they do?
- RNRebekah Neumann
They do. They spend one full day a week in nature farming and just running and being and, you know, meditating in nature and-
- LHLewis Howes
With anim- like, farm animals, too, or is it just kinda like-
- RNRebekah Neumann
There will be animals. There are not currently.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah. Yeah.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Um, but they plant seeds. They harvest their crops.
- LHLewis Howes
Wow.
- RNRebekah Neumann
They bring them back to the city. They run a farm stand at WeWork, and then they donate all of the proceeds to a nonprofit that they are actually personally involved in and invested in-
- LHLewis Howes
Wow
- RNRebekah Neumann
... that they choose.
- LHLewis Howes
So they... I, 'cause I saw them come upstairs yesterday and, like-
- RNRebekah Neumann
Did you see the farm stand?
- LHLewis Howes
I saw the farm stand.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Oh, nice.
- LHLewis Howes
And, like, I didn't see them actually selling, but I heard someone tell me, like-
- RNRebekah Neumann
Yeah
- LHLewis Howes
... they have, like, little hustlers, like, running around, like-
- RNRebekah Neumann
Oh, yeah
- LHLewis Howes
... trying to sell you, like, carrots and stuff and-
- RNRebekah Neumann
They're into it.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah.
- RNRebekah Neumann
They're super motivated.
- LHLewis Howes
Just charming you and, like-
- RNRebekah Neumann
Yep.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah.
- RNRebekah Neumann
They don't need our help. I mean, the second the stand opens, even the first one, every... This is the second year we're doing this. They are off to the races. And, um, I think it's really empowering to n- for them to understand this is not about ma- turning them into, you know, entrepreneurs that are focused on making money at this age or anything like that. That is not the point. But for them to understand that they can actually plant something, pull it out of the earth, sell it, and then help... Last year it was animals. Like, it's a full circuit of what I call conscious entrepreneurship-
- LHLewis Howes
Mm
- RNRebekah Neumann
... creating for the benefit of. And they are learning everything from marketing to math to science, and then whatever it is that they don't understand, we call the WeWork employees in that department, let's say it's branding, and they come down and they give a master class.
- LHLewis Howes
Wow.
- RNRebekah Neumann
So last year their T-shirts, instead of "Do what you love," said, "Eat what you love." And they come up with this, and it's just fun, and it's completely student-created, and, um, I can't imagine doing it any other way.
- 24:52 – 34:11
Scaling the school: grades, high school possibilities, mobility, and blended learning
- LHLewis Howes
Oh, man. So you wouldn't have it any other way. I think it's brilliant. And right now, what are the age groups of, of students at the school? Or the, I guess the grades?
- RNRebekah Neumann
Sure. So this year, our founding year, we have ages three through fourth grade, and next year we're gonna have ages two through sixth grade.
- LHLewis Howes
Gotcha. And so it's almost all of elementary school, right?
- RNRebekah Neumann
Almost.
- LHLewis Howes
'Cause it starts first or kindergarten, I guess.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Correct.
- LHLewis Howes
Okay.
- RNRebekah Neumann
And then we're going to go through high school, and open around the planet-
- LHLewis Howes
Really?
- RNRebekah Neumann
... so you can actually move around and be mobile with your family, if that's something that-
- LHLewis Howes
What would high school look like in this-
- RNRebekah Neumann
I, I could only-
- LHLewis Howes
... curriculum?
- RNRebekah Neumann
... begin to imagine. I haven't completely dug my brain into it yet.
- LHLewis Howes
[laughs]
- RNRebekah Neumann
But I would imagine kids are gonna be in full entrepreneurial endeavors.
- LHLewis Howes
Really?
- RNRebekah Neumann
Oh, yeah, 100%. I, I, I, I'm sure a lot of these children, by the time that they're in high school, are already gonna be creating what they're gonna be doing for their life. And I bet you some of them are gonna choose not to even go to college.
- LHLewis Howes
Hmm, and just start working or-
- RNRebekah Neumann
And if they do, they will, you know?
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah.
- RNRebekah Neumann
That's great.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah.
- RNRebekah Neumann
But yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
What's the vision for this then? 'Cause right now it's one school with one-
- RNRebekah Neumann
Right
- LHLewis Howes
... two grades, I guess. Right? A couple of grades.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Right now it has a bunch of grades.
- LHLewis Howes
A bunch of grades.
- RNRebekah Neumann
It's one location. We're gonna scale to another location next year, which we're gonna announce soon.
- 34:11 – 36:30
WeGrow’s rigor and autonomy: self-made schedules, mixed ages, and responsibility
- RNRebekah Neumann
They, we are all about at WeWork and WeGrow tenacity and grit-
- LHLewis Howes
Mm
- RNRebekah Neumann
... and pushing ourselves to our limits.
- LHLewis Howes
In school too?
- RNRebekah Neumann
100%. There's a, a lot of academic rigor and-
- LHLewis Howes
Can you give me an example of-
- RNRebekah Neumann
Well, so here's an example of how we do it differently but in a really rigorous way. The kids are responsible for creating their own work schedule. So we don't say, "Today, now we are gonna do math, and now we're gonna teach you math, and now we're gonna teach you this." Instead, we say, "Today, we need, you're gonna need to get through X, Y, and Z. Here's your work schedule. You create when you wanna do it, and you go through the Montessori materials, basically teach yourself." So they own their education instead of... The whole education system as it currently exists was created so people would go to assembly lines during the Industrial Revolution and take orders. Well, there's not a lot of orders being given at WeGrow. The kids are responsible for their own education. And because we have mixed ages and tons of materials in every room, if a kindergarten child is ready, like there is one to do second grade math, she's doing second grade math. It doesn't matter what grade you're in.
- LHLewis Howes
Really?
- RNRebekah Neumann
All I said is just make sure that they're being pushed as far as they want and can go.
- LHLewis Howes
What happens if they're like, "Eh, I don't really wanna do this work right now"?
- RNRebekah Neumann
They don't. That doesn't happen-
- LHLewis Howes
Really?
- RNRebekah Neumann
... 'cause they're passionate.
- LHLewis Howes
Really?
- RNRebekah Neumann
And if they don't wanna do something right now, then that would be okay. They would just have to get to it later. They could focus on something else for-
- LHLewis Howes
In the day.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Yeah. We give them some creative-
- LHLewis Howes
So you tell, you can't leave until you finish-
- RNRebekah Neumann
No
- LHLewis Howes
... the certain lesson plan or-
- RNRebekah Neumann
No, but that also bleeds into, like, how we handle homework. Because they have their own work schedule, if there's something they need to finish up that they didn't do during the day, they can take their own responsibility and bring it home and then bring it back.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm.
- RNRebekah Neumann
There, there are many entrepreneurs in that sense. I mean, in today's world-
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah
- RNRebekah Neumann
... no one is gonna tell you and give you some map of exactly how you're meant to live or create. I mean, and I don't think you would want that. That wouldn't be fun and interesting 'cause it wouldn't be your own version.
- LHLewis Howes
Right. Right.
- RNRebekah Neumann
But yes, definitely the, um, masculine and feminine and the yin and the yang are important to me. And I think that we all have masculine and feminine in each one of us. And I think men who have, are in touch with their feminine side, I, they think it's beautiful. I think vulnerability is strength in men.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm-hmm.
- RNRebekah Neumann
And I think women who are in touch with their masculine side, also beautiful.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah.
- 36:30 – 41:58
Leading WeWork’s growth: humility, staying out of ego, and authentic intention
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah. Why do you think WeWork has taken off the way it has? Again, I th- I think it's the number 210,000 members. I read it online, but I'm not sure if it's-
- RNRebekah Neumann
I, I'm not-
- LHLewis Howes
It's probably-
- RNRebekah Neumann
... so good with the numbers.
- LHLewis Howes
Okay. Gotcha.
- RNRebekah Neumann
But if you read it in, [laughs] if it is-
- LHLewis Howes
That's what I read. But it could be, like-
- RNRebekah Neumann
Yeah
- LHLewis Howes
... six months outdated at this point.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Yeah. No. [laughs]
- LHLewis Howes
I mean, I heard you had 3,000 employees a year ago, and now it's almost 8,000. It's, like, growing so fast.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
How do you manage... Oh, that's two questions. One, how do you manage that growth coming from a ... struggling actor, uh, you know, with a struggling entrepreneur husband mentality, how do you guys like say, "Wow, this thing is taking off. We've never had something take off like this"? How do you emotionally handle that and deal with all 7,000 people and just managing people and all that energy? That's the first question. I'll let you answer that first.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Okay. So to answer that, the, the main thing is to stay humble-
- LHLewis Howes
Mm
- RNRebekah Neumann
... all the time. The second you go into ego, it's game over. You disconnect from your blessings. You disconnect from your joy. You disconnect from your people. So do not ever go into ego, and do not ever think that you're great 'cause great things are happening.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm.
- RNRebekah Neumann
So we're always humble and profoundly grateful.
- LHLewis Howes
I like that.
- RNRebekah Neumann
That's the first thing.
- LHLewis Howes
I like that.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Um, and the other thing is that we're constantly growing. If the world is growing and moving fast and you're not growing, you're not gonna be synced up, so you have to be changing in yourself as fast as your reality is changing while staying humble.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm.
- RNRebekah Neumann
[laughs] Go figure.
- LHLewis Howes
No, I like this. I like this. So it's not saying like, "Look what I've created," you know?
- RNRebekah Neumann
Well, we haven't created it, obviously.
- LHLewis Howes
Mm-hmm.
- RNRebekah Neumann
It's being created partly through us.
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah, you're channeling it.
- RNRebekah Neumann
We're doing our part, but the members are creating this, and the students and families are creating WeGrow, and there is a movement that goes way beyond us, um, of co-creators.
- 41:58 – 45:37
Personal practices, food, and compassion: vegan choices and “energy” in what we eat
- LHLewis Howes
What's, um, what's the thing that you're most proud of that most people don't know?
- RNRebekah Neumann
Hmm. That's interesting as well. I'm really flexible. [laughs]
- LHLewis Howes
Emotionally-
- RNRebekah Neumann
Um, uh, I am a-
- LHLewis Howes
... spiritually, physically
- RNRebekah Neumann
... physically. Yeah. I mean, I, I, I-
- LHLewis Howes
You're a yogi instructor
- RNRebekah Neumann
... I've been a yogi-
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah
- RNRebekah Neumann
... and I, you know, haven't had any meat since I'm 12, and-
- LHLewis Howes
Since 12, wow.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Yeah. Um-
- LHLewis Howes
That's interesting. Yeah
- RNRebekah Neumann
... but I'm... I think, uh, being flexible and having a flexible spine, I'm sure you know this as an athlete, but a yogi in India once told me if your spine stays nimble, you, you won't age. It's all in the spine.
- LHLewis Howes
Is that why you look 21?
- RNRebekah Neumann
I don't know if I look 21, but, um-
- LHLewis Howes
[laughs]
- RNRebekah Neumann
... trying to work on my spine. Yes.
- LHLewis Howes
Beautiful. Yeah.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
Flexible spine.
- RNRebekah Neumann
I mean, that's a random thing. [laughs] I don't know-
- LHLewis Howes
Sure, sure
- RNRebekah Neumann
... if it's something I'm most proud of, but it's a random thing. Yeah.
- LHLewis Howes
That most people don't know. Yeah, okay.
- RNRebekah Neumann
The not eating meat is a big one for me as well.
- LHLewis Howes
Since 12, wow.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Yeah. I have no judgments if people eat meat. I understand-
- LHLewis Howes
Yeah
- RNRebekah Neumann
... they eat meat. I get it, but I do think for the environment and for health and for animals, eventually, you know We can move in the direction of not eating meat, that would be-
- 45:37 – 52:24
Closing reflections: three truths, how to help, and her definition of greatness
- LHLewis Howes
Um, this is a question I ask at the end. It's called the three truths. I ask everyone this.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Okay.
- LHLewis Howes
Three truths. Now imagine, hypothetically, that you've lived as long as you wanna live.
- RNRebekah Neumann
That might be forever.
- LHLewis Howes
There you go. And imagine-
- RNRebekah Neumann
[laughs]
- LHLewis Howes
... and imagine that at, at some point your, your physical body has to go.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Okay.
- LHLewis Howes
And it's your last day.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Mm-hmm.
- LHLewis Howes
Let's just imagine, hypothetically.
- RNRebekah Neumann
I imagine that regularly.
- LHLewis Howes
Okay.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Yeah. [laughs]
- LHLewis Howes
You've accomplished and created and become and, and done and lived everything you wanna do. Your family is happy, and they've lived the lives that they want. You've seen it all.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Mm-hmm.
- LHLewis Howes
You've created it all, the business or non-business or structure or non, whatever it is, you've done it.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Mm-hmm.
- LHLewis Howes
And, um, you've empowered the world.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Mm-hmm.
- LHLewis Howes
For whatever reason, everything you've said and shared and written has gotta come with you when you pass, and so no one has access to your, your materials anymore personally, your vo- your, your audio or video or written words. But you get to write down three truths that you get to leave behind, these three lessons, truths, ideals that you would share with the world.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Mm-hmm.
- LHLewis Howes
That this is what they would have to be reminded by you of your lessons. What would you say are your three truths?
- RNRebekah Neumann
Wow. I would say the first is that only love is real, the second is that we are all one, and the third would be to treat people, animals, and the planet the way they want to be treated.
- LHLewis Howes
Those are powerful. I like those.
- RNRebekah Neumann
Let's do it.
- LHLewis Howes
I like those a lot.
- RNRebekah Neumann
[laughs] Let's...
- LHLewis Howes
What is the... What is something that we can support as a community? The listeners right now or people watching this, how can we support your mission, WeWork or WeGrow?
- RNRebekah Neumann
Mm.
Episode duration: 52:40
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