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They're About To Reset the Rules of Wealth — Your Last Chance To Get Ahead Is Now | Codie Sanchez

🔔 Subscribe for more great content: https://www.youtube.com/lewishowes ▶️ Recommended for you: https://youtu.be/cKwykBHgNio What if the grind you think makes you successful is the very thing keeping you broke and exhausted? Codie Sanchez, a former Goldman Sachs employee who has run 1,621 businesses through her company’s systems, sat down with Lewis to talk about money, freedom, and why most entrepreneurs across the US earn less than California’s $78,000 minimum wage. Her book Own or Be Owned is built on one uncomfortable question: do you own a business, or does it own you? She tells the story of walking into a bank for a loan and finding the account she thought held a million dollars almost empty. That night she sat in the dark and called her dad, who told her you are not really in the game until you have had a night like that. She never ran a business without systems again. The fixes she shares are simpler than you expect. Most businesses are underpriced by 30 to 300 percent, fewer than a third have recurring revenue, and hard work has almost nothing to do with how much money you make. She also explains why more than 80 percent of kids want nothing to do with their parents’ business. You will finish this one ready to raise your prices and build a life where work fits around the people you love. Own or Be Owned: Build a Business So Good It Doesn't Need You https://amzn.to/4gMh7Sb Main Street Millionaire: How to Make Extraordinary Wealth Buying Ordinary Businesses https://amzn.to/4xEEGno Codie's Instagram https://www.instagram.com/codiesanchez/ Codie's YouTube @CodieSanchezCT Big Deal Podcast @PodcastBigDeal Codie's Website https://contrarianthinking.com/ Listen to this episode on the go! 🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-school-of-greatness/id596047499 🟢 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/07GQhOZboEZOE1ysnFLipT?si=a03d916bade54d4f For more info about this episode, go to https://lewishowes.com/1983 💰 get my NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLING book "Make Money Easy" today!https://lewishowes.com/moneyyou 📙 get my NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLING book "The Greatness Mindset" today! https://lewishowes.com/gmyo 📤 sign up for my FREE newsletter https://lewishowes.com/greatnessdelivered Follow Lewis! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lewishowes/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lewis Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lewishowes/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/LewisHowes 💻 Website: http://lewishowes.com/ 📲 For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960 Get More Greatness! Greatness Clips: https://www.youtube.com/@GreatnessClips Spanish: https://www.youtube.com/@LewisHowesEspañol Portuguese: https://www.youtube.com/@LewisHowesPortugues Lewis Howes Shorts: https://www.youtube.com/@lewishowesshorts 00:00 The Grind Myth 04:18 Why Entrepreneurs Go Broke 07:12 Rethinking Time & Money 14:07 Builders vs. Takers 17:34 3 Millionaire Mindshifts 25:40 The New American Dream 29:00 The Billionaire Playbook 33:28 3 Steps to More Profit 40:03 The Owner Mindset 45:11 Hitting Rock Bottom 50:15 Asset vs. Expensive Job 52:02 Finding Hidden Money 56:45 Business Builder Archetypes 01:04:20 Buy Boring Businesses 01:09:03 Codie's True Legacy Put ChatGPT to work on your most ambitious ideas and projects. WaldenU.edu #greatness #inspiration #motivation

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Sep 21, 20261h 13mWatch on YouTube ↗

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CHAPTERS

  1. 0:00 – 3:57

    Rejecting the grind-to-misery narrative and designing work around life

    Codie Sanchez argues that much online business advice comes from people who stayed miserable before, during, and after “success.” She says hard work matters, but it’s possible to choose a life you like and fit work into it—an idea that became urgent for her while pregnant after years of trying.

    • •Codie Sanchez says many internet business “gurus” have lives you wouldn’t want, so their advice shouldn’t be the default.
    • •She contrasts grinding to misery with choosing routines and boundaries that support life and health.
    • •Her pregnancy prompts a re-evaluation of pace, priorities, and why she was trying to “keep up” with people she doesn’t even like.
    • •She describes the pressure of entrepreneurial “trauma bonding,” where people insist it must be brutally hard to be real.
  2. 3:57 – 7:11

    Why many entrepreneurs earn so little: revenue obsession vs. profit discipline

    Codie Sanchez says most entrepreneurs make surprisingly low incomes and often less than minimum wage because their businesses aren’t optimized for profit. She and Lewis Howes discuss how revenue can hide thin margins, why entrepreneurs pay themselves last, and why lifestyle-focused cash flow can beat flashy scale.

    • •Codie Sanchez says most entrepreneurs make $46,000 to $64,000 a year and many make less than minimum wage.
    • •She argues profit isn’t treated as “sexy,” so many businesses don’t prioritize paying themselves first.
    • •They discuss how big revenue numbers can still mean low profit due to margins, expenses, and taxes.
    • •Codie Sanchez shares an example of optimizing for lifestyle cash flow rather than top-line growth.
    • •She notes people often appear to be doing better than they are, and everyone has hidden struggles.
  3. 7:11 – 10:08

    Time and freedom as the real goal: stepping away from hero culture and proving energy

    Pregnancy shifts Codie Sanchez’s thinking toward time, freedom, and building by choice rather than necessity. She criticizes “hero” behavior in companies—where one person fixes everything—and describes the emotional cost of constantly trying to prove yourself.

    • •Codie Sanchez says life events will eventually reduce your control and capacity, so building for resilience matters.
    • •She describes “being a hero” as an addictive pattern that keeps responsibility and stress concentrated in one person.
    • •She says many entrepreneurs are fueled by a chip on their shoulder, which can work but becomes corrosive over time.
    • •She warns that proving-yourself energy can damage relationships and leave you loving things that can’t love you back.
    • •Her push is to build big things by choice, not out of financial or emotional necessity.
  4. 10:08 – 13:59

    Legacy without resentment: integrating family and business so kids aren’t competing with work

    Codie Sanchez worries children can grow up resenting the business that took their parent away, which is why many don’t want to inherit it. She and Lewis Howes discuss how involvement, opportunity, and integration can change how a family relates to a business—without forcing a child to take it over.

    • •Codie Sanchez says many kids avoid taking over parents’ businesses because it felt like their biggest competition growing up.
    • •She says more than 80% of kids want nothing to do with their parents’ business.
    • •She emphasizes creating room for children to engage with parts of a legacy in their own way.
    • •Lewis Howes shares his experience being exposed to his father’s insurance work but not feeling called to it.
    • •Codie Sanchez frames life as malleable and says people can design their lives more intentionally than they realize.
  5. 13:59 – 17:33

    Builders vs. takers: the mindset shift behind escaping paycheck-to-paycheck

    Codie Sanchez separates people into “builders” who believe in abundance and “takers” who believe they must take what others create. She says becoming a builder doesn’t require entrepreneurship, but it does require believing you can create value—because she believes money tends to flow toward builders.

    • •Codie Sanchez says the first self-check is whether you’re building or waiting to be given what others built.
    • •She argues everyone can become a builder, including employees who build inside organizations.
    • •She says money is attracted to builders and repelled by takers, framing money as something that wants to multiply.
    • •She describes her own past limiting beliefs about rich people and money.
    • •She claims truly wealthy people often aren’t much smarter or working much harder now—more about leverage, decisions, and narratives.
  6. 17:33 – 25:15

    Three millionaire mindshifts: belief, self-knowledge, and building what the market pays for

    Codie Sanchez lays out three core factors: believing you can become a millionaire, knowing yourself (identity and strengths), and aligning with what the market will pay for. She also emphasizes learning through failure and detaching identity from outcomes.

    • •Codie Sanchez says the first determinant is whether you genuinely believe you can become a millionaire.
    • •She breaks money down as a byproduct of skill plus output: believe, build skills, then apply them.
    • •She says “know thyself” matters, referencing archetypes and the risks of patterns like being a “ball hog.”
    • •She stresses that the third factor isn’t about you: it’s what the market wants and will pay for.
    • •She highlights celebrating failure and iterating, sharing examples of “failure resumes” and tracking negative feedback as proof of trying.
  7. 25:15 – 28:57

    The new American Dream: questioning old assumptions amid higher costs and tighter job markets

    Codie Sanchez describes economic pressures that make traditional milestones feel harder, then challenges listeners to reconsider what they were “sold” as the American Dream. She praises younger people for questioning defaults and starting more businesses—while noting profitability is uneven and concentrated.

    • •Codie Sanchez lists pressures: housing costs, high interest rates, wages not matching productivity, job market difficulty, and rising education costs.
    • •She asks whether common goals (like a degree or a house) are always the right choice for everyone.
    • •She says younger generations are questioning everything and valuing flexibility over being tied to a mortgage.
    • •She cites a jump in new business starts from 2019 to 2025, while noting fewer profitable small businesses.
    • •She describes a widening gap where top performers are far more profitable than the middle, and urges people not to feel behind based on online appearances.
  8. 28:57 – 32:45

    The billionaire playbook: systems, terms, and boring consistency over genius narratives

    Codie Sanchez says extreme wealth often comes from a few key decisions—especially implementing repeatable systems and negotiating strong terms. She contrasts the “fake narrative” of genius with what she sees as the real driver: following proven playbooks consistently instead of chasing shiny ideas.

    • •Codie Sanchez says many billionaires attribute success to systems they repeat and terms they set, not constant grinding.
    • •She describes buying businesses, installing systems, fixing a few key problems, and selling on good terms as a repeatable approach.
    • •She emphasizes “stealing homework” by copying proven playbooks rather than trying to be uniquely brilliant.
    • •She says many people fail because they chase new objects instead of sticking to implementation.
    • •Lewis Howes reflects on saying yes to too many opportunities early, then refocusing on what brought joy, impact, and income.
  9. 32:45 – 39:59

    Three-step profit growth: richer customers, better pricing, and recurring revenue (LTV thinking)

    Codie Sanchez says making more money is often simpler than people think and outlines three common levers: sell to richer customers, raise/adjust pricing, and build recurring revenue. She connects these to lifetime value (LTV) and argues that learning the “language of money” helps people operate at a higher level.

    • •Codie Sanchez’s first step: sell more to rich customers, noting people often project their own wallet size onto buyers.
    • •Second step: pricing—she claims most businesses are underpriced and says she found none overpriced among the businesses she reviewed.
    • •Third step: recurring revenue—she argues many businesses rely too heavily on one-off transactions instead of “sell once, get paid continuously.”
    • •She says the most successful companies maximize lifetime value and suggests using LTV language even as an employee.
    • •She describes learning money acronyms early in her career by writing them down and studying them later.
  10. 39:59 – 45:08

    Owner mindset without ownership: initiative, accountability, and why most employees don’t do it

    Codie Sanchez argues you can become wealthy without owning a company, but you must adopt an owner mindset—taking responsibility for outcomes and proactively improving what you touch. She says employees who think about making the business more money and speak the language of money become unusually valuable.

    • •Codie Sanchez says ownership isn’t required to be rich, but an owner mindset is required to progress.
    • •She defines owner mindset as taking responsibility for both good and bad outcomes rather than blaming circumstances.
    • •She gives an example of an employee proactively optimizing something tied to LTV and how rare—and valuable—that is.
    • •She says if someone believes “they’ll never pay me more,” either they work somewhere terrible or they have a non-owner mindset.
    • •She suggests directly asking business owners what’s broken and offering to fix it, then asking to be paid for that value.
  11. 45:08 – 50:02

    When your business owns you: a cash crisis, painful lessons, and adopting a private-equity cadence

    Codie Sanchez shares a defining moment when she discovered a business bank account she believed had significant funds was nearly empty, creating an immediate payroll and survival crisis. She explains how that experience led her to build tighter systems—tracking, diagnosis, scoring, strategy, and quarterly reviews—similar to how she says private equity operates.

    • •Codie Sanchez recounts discovering the account was near zero when she tried to get a loan, triggering fear about payroll and obligations.
    • •She describes how a leader hid bad news and how her lack of tracking allowed it to happen.
    • •Her father reframes the crisis as part of “being in the game” and focuses on fixing the problem rather than dwelling on blame.
    • •She compares unsystematic entrepreneurship to riding a bronco without “airbags,” eventually leading to a crash.
    • •She outlines a medical-style framework: diagnose, score, create a strategy, and review every 90 days—then says pros already run businesses this way.
  12. 50:02 – 1:13:59

    Asset vs. expensive job: key-man risk, hiring leaders, the OWN levers, and Codie’s definition of success

    Codie Sanchez explains how to tell whether you own an asset or just created an exhausting job, emphasizing key-man risk and the need for capable leaders around you. She then applies her approach to Lewis Howes’ business—starting with profit-and-loss truth, finding “hidden money,” and improving pricing and terms—before closing with her evolving dream of enabling more people to own and have sovereignty.

    • •Codie Sanchez says if the business collapses when you leave for weeks, you likely have a job, not a business, and you may have key-man risk.
    • •She argues many founders surround themselves with a “sea of assistants” instead of hiring people better than them in key domains.
    • •She says the starting point for improvement is the profit-and-loss statement to find inefficiencies and “hidden money.”
    • •She emphasizes pricing, terms, and identifying the most profitable customer type as high-leverage changes that don’t require more of the founder’s time.
    • •Codie Sanchez shares her personal evolution—from proving people wrong to wanting to help more people own a piece of something and have sovereignty over their lives.

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