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Masters of ScaleHow to rebuild yourself after a major life change (cognitive scientist Maya Shankar)
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WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT
Cognitive Scientist Maya Shankar on Navigating Change and Rebuilding Identity
- Maya Shankar describes losing her violin career at 15 and learning to define identity by why she does something rather than what she does.
- She explains the end of history illusion, the tendency to believe we are done changing, and argues big changes often produce lasting positive change within us.
- Shankar recounts building a behavioral science team in the Obama White House without a budget or mandate, using tactics like default options, reframed messaging, and aligned incentives.
- She offers practical tools for change: start small, break goals into mini milestones to avoid the middle problem, and use the peak-end rule to make tasks more memorable.
- She shares how self-affirmation exercises and awe, especially moral beauty, helped her through grief after miscarriages and helped others imagine new possible selves.
IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING
5 ideasDefine yourself by your why, not your what
Shankar says that what she loved about the violin was human connection, which survived losing the instrument and gave her a softer landing.
We underestimate how much we'll change
The end of history illusion makes us acknowledge past change yet assume the present self is final, so Shankar urges curiosity about how our values and beliefs are shifting.
Align incentives to drive change in big systems
Shankar says colleagues had little reason to take risks, so she framed her behavioral tools as helping them reach their own goals, while building an organic coalition from all levels.
Small framing changes can have big effects
Switching school lunch to opt-out enrolled 12.5 million more kids, and telling veterans they had earned a benefit rather than being eligible raised access by nine percent.
Start tiny to build a new identity
Shankar says writing one minute a day makes you a writer, priming a self-reinforcing cycle, as shown by Dwayne's poetry and Christine's cooking after blindness.
WORDS WORTH SAVING
5 quotesYou can future-proof yourself and your identity by defining yourself not simply by what you do, but by why you do that thing.
— Maya Shankar
The difference between writing zero minutes a day and writing one minute a day is that in the one-minute world, you're a writer.
— Maya Shankar
We reserve, it seems, so much compassion for others and so little for ourself.
— Maya Shankar
When big changes happen to us, they also inspire lasting change within us.
— Maya Shankar
When we witness people behaving in ways that defy our understanding of what humans are capable of, that changes our own understanding of what we're capable of.
— Maya Shankar
SPEAKERS
Maya Shankar
guestCognitive scientist and author of "The Other Side of Change," and host of the podcast "A Slight Change of Plans."
Jeff Berman
hostHost of Masters of Scale.
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