6 Words to Tell Yourself Every Morning

ℹ️ EPISODE INFO

Released

April 2, 2026

Duration

1h 32m

Channel

The Mel Robbins Podcast

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📝 EPISODE DESCRIPTION

Order your copy of The Let Them Theory 👉 https://melrob.co/let-them-theory 👈 The #1 Best Selling Book of 2025 🔥 Discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words. Let Them. — You will not believe how much better you feel when you say these 6 words. This is one of the most transformative conversations ever, on the Mel Robbins Podcast. And it’s about… your clothes. If you’ve ever stood in front of your closet thinking: “I have nothing to wear.” “Nothing fits right.” “I don’t feel good in my body.” “Whatever… I’ll just wear the same thing again.” This conversation will change that. Erin Walsh is a celebrity stylist and Women’s Wear Daily Stylist of the Year who teaches the psychology of getting dressed with intention. She is also Mel’s stylist who dressed her for the Golden Globes! In this conversation, Erin will show you how to stop walking into your closet and picking the same jeans, the same black shirt, the same outfit on repeat. Instead, Erin will teach you the 6 words that will transform the clothes you already own into tools to help you become the “supernova” version of yourself. No shopping. No trends. No pressure to be “a fashion person.” You need to start this tomorrow morning, here’s why: You have to get dressed every day, so why not get intentional about it? In this episode, you’ll learn: -A brand-new way to get dressed that makes you feel BETTER, not worse -Why your clothes are keeping you stuck - and how to change that -Why you don’t need to buy anything to feel fabulous -How to stop hiding and start dressing to feel confident, powerful, and beautiful -The mindset shift that changes your mood, confidence, and energy all day -Why “I have nothing to wear” is almost never true (and what’s really going on underneath it) -Why “cleaning out your closet” feels impossible and how to do it the right way -One simple trick that will finally help you donate clothes you never wear (this is so freeing!) -The BEST and most unique gift idea for every woman you love (my daughters will be getting this every year for the holidays. It’s brilliant!) -The ONLY item to buy if you feel like you need something new Mel and Erin put the method to the test with women on Mel’s team: a new mom, a postmenopausal woman, and a breast cancer survivor. You’ll hear the real emotion (yes, some tears), the honesty, and the surprising transformation that happens when you stop getting dressed to hide – and start getting dressed to live the life you always wanted. For more resources related to today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page: https://www.melrobbins.com/episode/episode-383/ Follow The Mel Robbins Podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themelrobbinspodcast I’m just your friend. I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I’ll see you in the next episode. In this episode: 0:00 Meet the Guest 2:38 How to Dress for Confidence (Your Outfit Changes Your Mood + Energy) 12:23 The 6 Words To Instantly Transform How You Feel 17:28 What to Wear When You Hate Everything in Your Closet 25:39 How to Find Your Personal Style (Dress for the Feeling You Want) 31:46 Closet Cleanout: How to Let Go of Clothes You Spent Money On 37:43 How to Look Better Instantly: Tailoring, Structure, and Proportions 40:32 Stop Hiding in Clothes That Don’t Fit 43:46 What to Wear Postpartum (To Embrace Your Body) 1:03:17 A Practical Guide to Finding Your Style During Menopause 1:14:14 How to Make Getting Dressed Fun Again — Follow Mel: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@melrobbins Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melrobbins LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com​ — Sign up for Mel’s newsletter: https://melrob.co/sign-up-newsletter A note from Mel to you, twice a week, sharing simple, practical ways to build the life you want. — Subscribe to Mel’s channel here: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins​?sub_confirmation=1 — Listen to The Mel Robbins Podcast 🎧 New episodes drop every Monday & Thursday! https://melrob.co/spotify https://melrob.co/applepodcasts https://melrob.co/amazonmusic — Looking for Mel’s books on Amazon? Find them here: The Let Them Theory: https://amzn.to/3IQ21Oe The Let Them Theory Audiobook: https://amzn.to/413SObp The High 5 Habit: https://amzn.to/3fMvfPQ The 5 Second Rule: https://amzn.to/4l54fah

🎤 SPEAKERS

• Mel Robbins

  host

  Host of The Mel Robbins Podcast and bestselling author and motivational speaker.

• Erin Walsh

  guest

  Celebrity stylist known for teaching an “intentional dressing” approach to confidence and embodiment.

🧾 EPISODE SUMMARY

In this episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast, featuring Mel Robbins and Erin Walsh, 6 Words to Tell Yourself Every Morning explores use clothing intentionally to embody confidence, energy, and self-worth daily Erin Walsh reframes clothing as an embodiment tool—starting each morning with the six-word question “How do I want to feel?”—to align your outer appearance with your desired inner state.

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