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8 Things To Tell Yourself Every Morning

Order your copy of The Let Them Theory 👉 https://melrob.co/let-them-theory 👈 The #1 Best Selling Book of 2025 đŸ”„ Discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words. Let Them. — You can reprogram your mind for success. In today’s episode, Mel shows you how to start your day right, with 8 simple sentences that reset your mindset and rewire your brain for the day ahead. Every morning is an opportunity to take control of your thoughts and your focus. Don’t waste it. Using research and her own proven affirmations, Mel will teach you how to train your brain to see more opportunity, focus on the positive and get excited about your life again. Speak these 8 lines to yourself every morning, and over time you’ll become almost unrecognizable to yourself. These affirmations won’t just set the tone for your day. They’ll inspire you to: -Finally tackle the thing you’ve been avoiding for months -Expect good things and create more of them -Stay open and present -Notice opportunities you usually miss -Calm your morning anxiety -Move through the day with more confidence -Celebrate your effort and use it as fuel -Release the pressure to be perfect -Speak up, share your ideas, and stop shrinking yourself Mel also teaches you what she calls the most important skill she has ever learned: The ability to be in a good mood for no reason. Mel has spent years honing this skill and she says she owes her success to it. Today she is showing you how she rewired her brain to constantly default to a good mood (instead of a bad mood, which she did for years). Learn the 8 sentences that help you stay happy. Use these affirmations to help you control your mood and your mind. They are the positive morning motivation you need to spark self love, inspire discipline, and erase self doubt.Use these sentences to create a healthy mind, and create a fresh start every day. In less than 2 minutes, you can change how you start your day. For more resources related to today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page: https://www.melrobbins.com/episode/episode-324/ Follow The Mel Robbins Podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themelrobbinspodcast I’m just your friend. I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I’ll see you in the next episode. In this episode: 00:00 Welcome 01:48 Mantra #1: Today Is Going To Be A Great Day 9:22: Mantra #2: Something Cool Is Going To Happen For Me Today 19:22 Mantra #3: No Matter What Happens Today, I Can Handle It 29:21 Mantra #4: An Exciting New Chapter In My Life Is Starting Today 39:58 Mantra #5: I Need To Give Myself More Credit For How Hard I’m Trying 49:19 Mantra #6: I’m Allowed To Be A Work In Progress 52:23 Mantra #7: If I Keep Showing Up, Life Will Reward Me 55:30 Mantra #8: I Have An Important Contribution To Make To The World — Follow Mel: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@melrobbins Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melrobbins LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com​ — Sign up for Mel’s newsletter: https://melrob.co/sign-up-newsletter A note from Mel to you, twice a week, sharing simple, practical ways to build the life you want. — Subscribe to Mel’s channel here: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins​?sub_confirmation=1 — Listen to The Mel Robbins Podcast 🎧 New episodes drop every Monday & Thursday! https://melrob.co/spotify https://melrob.co/applepodcasts https://melrob.co/amazonmusic — Looking for Mel’s books on Amazon? Find them here: The Let Them Theory: https://amzn.to/3IQ21Oe The Let Them Theory Audiobook: https://amzn.to/413SObp The High 5 Habit: https://amzn.to/3fMvfPQ The 5 Second Rule: https://amzn.to/4l54fah

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Sep 10, 20251h 3mWatch on YouTube ↗

At a glance

WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT

Reprogram Your Morning Mindset With Eight Simple, Powerful Sentences

  1. Mel Robbins lays out eight short morning sentences designed to deliberately reprogram your brain toward optimism, resilience, and self-belief. Drawing on insights from psychiatrists and neuroscientists, she explains how language directs your brain’s filters (the reticular activating system) and counters chronic worry, anxiety, and negative self-talk. Each mantra targets a specific mental pattern—expecting good things, trusting your ability to cope, embracing fresh starts, honoring your effort, tolerating imperfection, persisting through setbacks, and recognizing your unique contribution. Practiced daily for 30–60 days—spoken or written—these sentences aim to shift your default state from bracing for the worst to maintaining a good attitude for no reason.

IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING

5 ideas

Start each day by declaring it will be great and expecting something cool.

Saying “Today is going to be a great day” and “Something cool is going to happen for me today” directs your brain to scan for positive experiences instead of threats, shifting your daily filter toward optimism and anticipation.

Use language to counter anxiety: remind yourself you can handle whatever comes.

The mantra “No matter what happens today, I can handle it” directly challenges the core anxious belief that you’re not capable, grounding you in resilience when facing uncertainty, difficult events, or ambiguous situations (like a vague email from your boss).

Treat each day as the start of an exciting new chapter.

Saying “An exciting new chapter in my life is starting today” signals readiness for change and primes you to take small, fresh actions—like signing up for a class or taking a new route home—that accumulate into real life shifts.

Intentionally program your brain using repetition and the RAS.

Your reticular activating system lets in what it believes is important; repeating meaningful mantras (spoken or written) teaches your brain to prioritize evidence of your strength, opportunities, and good experiences—similar to suddenly seeing a car model everywhere once you’re interested in it.

Give yourself more credit for how hard you’re trying.

The sentence “I need to give myself more credit for how hard I’m trying” redirects your focus from the one thing you didn’t do or did imperfectly to the many invisible efforts you make daily, fueling motivation instead of self-sabotage.

WORDS WORTH SAVING

5 quotes

If you're not programming your brain on purpose, it's still getting programmed.

— Mel Robbins

One of the single best skills that you need to develop in life is to have a good attitude for no reason.

— Mel Robbins

No matter what happens today, I can handle it.

— Mel Robbins

Your brain looks for whatever you tell it to expect and look for.

— Mel Robbins

If I keep showing up, life will reward me.

— Mel Robbins

The eight morning sentences/mantras and what each is designed to doProgramming the brain intentionally vs. being programmed by negativity and past experiencesThe science behind mindset: directing your mind, RAS (reticular activating system), and cortisol awakening responseAnxiety, worry, and self-doubt as learned defaults—and how language can counter themDeveloping the skill of having a good attitude and good mood “for no reason”Self-compassion and giving yourself credit for effort instead of only outcomesPersistence, being a work in progress, and believing you have a unique contribution

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