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The Mel Robbins Podcast

How to Use AI to Make Money, Save Time, and Be More Productive

Editor's Note: We have made two edits to this video after publishing it for clarity purposes.

Ally MillerguestMel Robbinshost

Nov 6, 20251h 14mWatch on YouTube ↗

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Why women can’t afford to sit this one out: AI adoption gap & urgency to lean in
Mel and Ally open with a clear warning: women are adopting AI significantly less than men, and waiting creates a real long-term disadvantage. They frame AI as a source of agency—something that can expand your capabilities—rather than a trigger for anxiety.
- •Women are adopting AI ~25% less than men and risk being left behind
- •Reframe: AI isn’t ‘coming for your job’—it becomes part of your job
- •Early adopters gain compounding ‘velocity’ that’s hard to catch up to
- •Goal is agency and participation in shaping how AI is used
AI, explained simply: the umbrella term and everyday examples
Ally defines AI in plain language as systems attempting to do a human-like task, and shows it’s been around for decades. They ground the concept with familiar examples like spam filters, Roombas, and self-driving cars to remove intimidation.
- •AI = systems attempting to do human-like tasks (term dates to the 1950s)
- •Everyday AI already surrounds you (spam filters, home devices, automation)
- •The hype can distort what AI actually is and how long it’s existed
- •Focus on end result: output that ‘a human could have done’
Generative AI vs. AI: patterns, not copy-paste, and why it feels like magic
They distinguish generative AI as a subset that creates new content based on pattern recognition across massive datasets. Ally explains how models learn associations and generate new text/images/video rather than simply retrieving facts.
- •Generative AI is a subset of AI focused on creating new outputs
- •Models learn patterns from large-scale data (e.g., web/Wikipedia)
- •Outputs are generated (not direct copy/paste) across many formats
- •‘Good’ generative AI is the recent leap that changes daily workflows
From Google searches to an AI co‑pilot: planning trips with real-life context
Mel’s flight-search example becomes a lesson in why AI is different from search: you can provide rich context and constraints. Ally describes how AI can recommend destinations, plan logistics, and build an action plan—not just list options.
- •Shift from keyword search to context-rich requests
- •AI can recommend and plan (not merely return links)
- •Use case: family vacation planning with many constraints and preferences
- •Big value: reduces cognitive load and turns ‘concerns’ into an action plan
Three levels of value: do it faster, do it better, or do entirely new things
Ally organizes AI benefits into three tiers: productivity, quality, and net-new creation. She argues most people get stuck on ‘faster’ and miss the real upside—using AI to improve thinking and unlock things previously impossible without specialized skills.
- •Tier 1: faster execution (emails, summarizing, repurposing content)
- •Tier 2: better outcomes (risk analysis, idea expansion, stronger plans)
- •Tier 3: net-new capabilities (building tools/apps as a non-coder)
- •Avoid the ‘productivity trap’—optimize for transformation, not just speed
Non-coders can build: the Mahjong app story and the accessibility revolution
A personal-life example illustrates the new accessibility: a woman builds an app to practice Mahjong and strengthen friendships. The point isn’t the app—it’s that AI lowers the barrier for anyone to create useful tools and solutions quickly.
- •AI enables non-coders to build functional apps in days
- •Use tech to reclaim time for relationships and real life
- •Accessibility is unprecedented compared to prior tech eras
- •Missed opportunity: women’s lower adoption reduces societal/economic upside
The ‘perfect time’ myth: start small, iterate fast, build adaptability
Mel asks what to say to people waiting for the right moment; Ally pushes immediate action and rejects perfectionism. Winning with AI comes from small experiments and quick iteration, not big risky leaps.
- •There’s no ‘perfect moment’—waiting is the trap
- •Momentum comes from small wins and rapid iteration
- •Adaptability is the key skill to develop alongside AI usage
- •Begin with simple prompts and expand as confidence grows
How to interact with AI: micro‑tasker, real-time companion, delegate, teammate
Ally lays out four practical interaction modes that progressively increase impact. She shows how AI can move from quick tasks to live multimodal help, to autonomous-ish delegation, to boosting an entire organization’s workflow.
- •Micro-tasker: quick constrained outputs (meal plans, simple planning)
- •Real-time companion: voice/video chat that ‘sees’ what you see
- •Delegate: assign a longer task and return later to completed outputs
- •Teammate: integrate into team workflows (meeting capture, status reports)
Home life upgrades: scan your fridge, stop wasting food, and reduce stress
They explore AI in the home through vivid examples: taking photos of the pantry/fridge to generate meals and a grocery list. The broader point is emotional relief—less waste, less guilt, and fewer decisions draining your energy.
- •Use photos/video to inventory ingredients and generate recipes
- •AI can create missing-ingredient lists and shopping lists
- •Time savings plus reduced food waste and money spent
- •Emotional benefit: fewer ‘organization failures’ and less mom-stress
The #1 mistake: not providing enough context (and how ‘agent’ tools actually work)
Ally identifies the most common failure mode: vague prompting without personal context, constraints, and goals. They also discuss agent-style tools that browse on a virtual computer, plus the key safety moment—taking over for logins and payments.
- •Weak prompts produce generic answers; specificity drives usefulness
- •Add photos, dimensions, preferences, fears, budget, and history
- •Agents can browse/compare items with many parameters while you watch
- •Safety: user should take control for credentials/financial checkout
A daily time-saver: have AI interview you to extract clarity and build plans
Ally’s ‘easy trick’ is to ask AI to interview you—turning rambling context into structured action. Mel connects it to if-then planning: AI accelerates reflection, rehearsal, and preparedness rather than replacing judgment.
- •Prompt: ‘Help me help you—ask me 5–20 questions’
- •Use dictation to dump context fast, then let AI structure it
- •AI as ‘prosthesis for reinvention’ rather than a faster search engine
- •Use it for preparation and confidence, not avoidance of thinking
Workplace reality check: if your company bans AI, your career risk rises
Mel asks what to do if an employer isn’t using AI; Ally gives a blunt assessment that knowledge workers are disadvantaged without it. She advises learning AI anyway, volunteering to lead adoption safely, and planning an exit if leadership refuses.
- •Companies that ban AI without policies can stall employee growth
- •Raise your hand: propose responsible pilots and lead early projects
- •Your AI fluency increases future hireability and leverage
- •If blocked, make a plan to move—possibly to AI-enabled self-employment
Job search, networking, and visibility: AI-supported pivots, resumes, and outreach coaching
Ally outlines a full AI-first job search: clarifying preferences, exploring roles, planning upskilling, rewriting resumes, and standing out. She emphasizes coaching use cases—practicing uncomfortable outreach and drafting authentic posts—beyond just generating documents.
- •Feed AI your work history + liked/disliked tasks to identify best-fit roles
- •Use AI to map: immediate fits, narrative pivots, upskilling paths, ‘reach’ roles
- •Iterate resume with targeted examples and best practices from desired employers
- •Use AI to coach networking asks, introductions, LinkedIn posts, and interviews
Accuracy, hallucinations, and how to reduce BS: grounding, citations, and expectations
They address reliability: AI wasn’t trained to be a factual regurgitator, so it can hallucinate (make plausible-sounding errors). Ally explains why models guess—because they’re rewarded for being helpful—and how to mitigate with internet access, citations, and verification habits.
- •Hallucinations = confident but incorrect outputs; rates improving but not zero
- •Root cause: systems are optimized to answer/help, not to say ‘I don’t know’
- •Mitigate: use web-enabled tools, ask for citations, verify sources
- •Treat outputs as information and hypotheses, not guaranteed facts
Real risks and responsible use: pace of change, education gaps, privacy, environment, and overreliance
Ally shares what worries her most: the speed of progress, lack of upskilling, and insufficient real-life conversations at home and work. They also cover privacy and environmental concerns (with perspective vs. video streaming) and the cognitive risk of lazy overreliance.
- •Concerns: pace of change, employee upskilling, and parenting/school guidance
- •Privacy and data use require transparency and informed user voices
- •Environmental footprint is real; compare impact and demand reporting
- •Overreliance makes you lazy—use AI to enhance thinking, not replace it
Jobs and the future: AI-supported roles, new work, multimodality, and the ‘first step’
They close by balancing realism and optimism: some jobs will be lost, most will be reshaped, and new jobs will emerge. Ally predicts a more multimodal world (text/voice/image/video interchange) and emphasizes the first step: start using AI so your voice counts and your capabilities grow.
- •Reality: some job loss, widespread job reshaping, and new AI-driven roles
- •Future trends: increasing accessibility + multimodal inputs/outputs
- •Potential: faster idea-to-execution and smaller teams building bigger impact
- •First step: experiment now; move beyond ‘AI as Google’ into its superpowers

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