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The Hidden Reason You Feel Exhausted & How to Feel Better Now

If you’ve been feeling exhausted, tired, bloated, anxious, in pain, or just not like yourself, get ready for an explanation you’ve never heard before. Today, Mel sits down with one of the most respected medical researchers in the world, gastroenterologist Dr. Brennan Spiegel, to uncover the overlooked, invisible force that’s having a shocking impact on your energy, strength, gut health, mood, and every single cell in your body – even how fast your body ages. Whether you’re dealing with fatigue, back pain, swelling, digestion issues, or a heaviness in your body that you can’t shake, Dr. Spiegel says these are all signs you shouldn’t ignore. What Dr. Spiegel reveals will challenge the way you think about your body and, more importantly, give you a completely new, practical way to start feeling better immediately. And it may give you the words and the insight you’ve been missing to help your aging parents and other loved ones finally start feeling better, too. By the end of this episode, you’ll understand: -Why a “bendy” pinky might be a clue to what’s going on in your gut -10 foods that boost serotonin production in your body -The most effective treatment for IBS - and it’s probably not what you’ve tried -A quick way to notice how the force of gravity is showing up in your body -How to make yourself taller in just a few minutes -Why standing on one leg is linked to a longer life -How a weighted vest can change your posture almost immediately -A surprising reason rollercoasters feel unbearable for some people -What “gravity management” looks like in real life -One small habit that can improve how your body handles gravity Dr. Spiegel says that powerful, invisible force shaping every moment of your life is one you can learn to work with – and he’ll show you how. This is one of those conversations that will change how you see your body, your health, and what it means to be fully alive on this planet. For more resources related to today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page: https://www.melrobbins.com/episode/episode-402/ Follow The Mel Robbins Podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themelrobbinspodcast I’m just your friend. I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I’ll see you in the next episode. In this episode: 00:00 Meet the Guest 01:53 The Hidden Force Behind Your Health Problems 07:03 Why You Feel Tired, Weak, and Drained 12:16 This Simple Habit Is Crushing Your Organs 15:52 The Warning Signs You’ve Been Ignoring 22:51 The Hidden Link Between Gut and Mood 26:50 The 10 Foods Your Body Needs 29:31 The 10-Second Test That Reveals Your Lifespan 33:46 The Dead Hang Challenge 37:02 Grip Strength Matters 38:47 Your Body Needs More Water Than You Think 40:27 Why You Feel Off: You Were Built For This Planet 43:21 How To Feel Calm Instantly 47:01 How to Know You’re On the Right Track — Follow Mel: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@melrobbins Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melrobbins LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com​ — Sign up for Mel’s newsletter: https://melrob.co/sign-up-newsletter A note from Mel to you, twice a week, sharing simple, practical ways to build the life you want. — Subscribe to Mel’s channel here: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins​?sub_confirmation=1 — Listen to The Mel Robbins Podcast 🎧 New episodes drop every Monday & Thursday! https://melrob.co/spotify https://melrob.co/applepodcasts https://melrob.co/amazonmusic — Looking for Mel’s books on Amazon? Find them here: The Let Them Theory: https://amzn.to/3IQ21Oe The Let Them Theory Audiobook: https://amzn.to/413SObp The High 5 Habit: https://amzn.to/3fMvfPQ The 5 Second Rule: https://amzn.to/4l54fah

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Jun 8, 202654mWatch on YouTube ↗

CHAPTERS

  1. Meet Dr. Brennan Spiegel & the core claim: many symptoms are “gravity intolerance”

    Mel introduces gastroenterologist and researcher Dr. Brennan Spiegel, who argues that a surprising number of common health complaints share a root issue: how well your body tolerates gravity. He frames exhaustion, pain, dizziness, swelling, anxiety, and gut problems as signals that your systems are struggling to “stand up to the planet.”

  2. What gravity is—and what “tolerating gravity” means inside your body

    They define gravity simply as Earth’s constant pull and explore why every organ system must manage it. Dr. Spiegel explains that tolerating gravity isn’t just standing upright—it’s keeping blood, lymph, oxygen, and posture functioning smoothly against that pull.

  3. Why he started researching gravity: a family story and the “Gravity and the Gut” insight

    Dr. Spiegel traces the idea back to his mother-in-law’s decline while bedridden, followed by digestive slowing and depression. Observing that prolonged lying down changed her physiology and mood led him to connect posture, movement, and gut function—eventually publishing on gravity’s role in GI health.

  4. Tensegrity: how back pain, posture, and IBS connect

    Dr. Spiegel explains the body as a tensegrity structure—systems connected by “seams” and suspension-like support. In clinic, he links IBS with low back pain and emphasizes that strengthening and movement can reduce gut symptoms by improving overall structural support against compression.

  5. The everyday habit crushing your organs: slumping, phone-neck, and “kinking the garden hose”

    They make the effect of gravity tangible by examining sitting and slouching: shoulders forward, chest dropping, diaphragm lowering, and abdominal compression. Dr. Spiegel compares the digestive tract to a garden hose—posture can “kink” flow, contributing to discomfort and sluggish digestion.

  6. Warning signs you’re ignoring: dizziness, fatigue, swelling, pain, and the “heavy/down” mood link

    Dr. Spiegel lists common red flags that suggest declining gravity resilience—from lightheadedness on standing to chronic musculoskeletal pain and feeling emotionally “down.” They connect language and architecture (high ceilings vs low) to a real neurophysiological preference for expansiveness and “up.”

  7. Quick self-check: hypermobility tests and why “bendy” can mean GI vulnerability

    They walk through simple flexibility tests (pinky bend, thumb-to-forearm) as clues to hypermobility. Dr. Spiegel suggests that being “stretchy” externally can mirror internal connective tissue laxity, allowing the gut’s suspension to sag and contribute to symptoms like gas or bacterial overgrowth.

  8. The hidden gut–mood–gravity link: serotonin as a ‘gravity management’ chemical

    Dr. Spiegel reframes serotonin not only as a mood chemical but as a physical enabler of upright life—supporting muscle tone, vascular function, and lymphatic return. Because most serotonin is produced in the gut and influenced by the microbiome, digestion and diet become central to energy, mood, and resilience.

  9. “Stack 10” foods: boosting tryptophan to support serotonin and resilience

    Dr. Spiegel shares his memorable nutrition framework, “Stack 10,” emphasizing tryptophan-rich foods that support serotonin production. They also connect serotonin support to sunlight, sleep, and exercise as a broader “gravity resilience” lifestyle stack.

  10. The 10-second balance test: one-leg standing as a longevity signal

    They introduce standing on one leg as a simple assessment of overall gravity management across vestibular function, strength, tendons, and proprioception. Dr. Spiegel cites evidence linking poor balance (especially in older adults) with higher mortality risk and encourages training rather than panic.

  11. Training for a ‘bigger planet’: weighted vest, ankle weights, standing desks, and micro-movements

    Dr. Spiegel explains why he uses a weighted vest (and sometimes ankle weights) to build strength and posture throughout the day. The idea is to overload gravity slightly so normal life feels easier—while reinforcing upper-back engagement and upright mechanics.

  12. Dead Hang Challenge & grip strength: a fast-read measure of whole-body fitness

    They define a dead hang (hanging from a pull-up bar with feet off the ground) and set “one minute” as the challenge goal. Dr. Spiegel explains grip strength as a validated marker of overall health and even cardiovascular fitness, using a dynamometer example and basic benchmarks.

  13. Hydration and aging: why resilience declines and how water supports the ‘pumps and tubes’

    They discuss how gravity doesn’t change but our capacity to manage it does—through weakness, stress, posture shifts, and weight gain. Dr. Spiegel emphasizes hydration as essential for circulation and brain energy, suggesting many people underdrink and linking hydration, sleep, and exercise to cognitive health.

  14. Calm instantly: grounding breath reset, vagus nerve regulation, and the ‘chair pushing you up’ reframe

    Dr. Spiegel offers a practical breathing reset: sit upright without tension, imagine being pushed up by the chair, and breathe slowly from abdomen to chest and back down. He ties this to vagus nerve regulation, shifting from fight-or-flight to rest-and-digest, helping you feel steadier and calmer.

  15. How to know you’re improving: feeling lighter, less pain, more confidence—and a no-blame closing

    They describe progress markers: less musculoskeletal pain, better posture endurance, improved energy and mood, and a growing sense of confidence in the world. Dr. Spiegel closes with an empowerment message—this isn’t about self-blame, but rebuilding strength through small daily practices that help you ‘stand up’ longer.

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