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900k Q&A - Unreleased Andrew Tate Episode, Toxic Comments & Steroids

I hit 900k Subscribers on YouTube!! To celebrate, I asked for questions from YouTube, Twitter, Locals and Instagram, so here's another 90 minutes of me trying to answer as many as possible.

Chris Williamsonhost
Jun 10, 20231h 40mWatch on YouTube ↗

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Chapter summaries

  1. 900k subscriber milestone, Q&A rules, and why he values thoughtful questions

    Chris opens the 900,000-subscriber Q&A by explaining how he gathered and condensed thousands of questions. He thanks the audience for the show’s rapid growth and sets the tone: he wants high-quality, good-faith engagement from viewers.

    • •900k milestone and gratitude for audience support
    • •How questions were sourced (Instagram, Twitter, Locals, YouTube) and condensed
    • •Setting expectations for the episode’s pace and breadth
    • •Preference for thoughtful, balanced discourse from the core audience
  2. Secret product with James Smith + how Chris thinks about role models

    Chris teases a new, still-secret product he’s building with James Smith, describing the testing process and why it’s meaningful as his first major product release. He then reflects on role models, noting that many former “idols” have become peers and friends, and he’s focusing more on positive-minded exemplars.

    • •New project with James Smith: months of work, heavy iteration, announcement timeline
    • •Pride in releasing a first ‘name-behind-it’ product
    • •Role models shifting from distant idols to friends/peers
    • •Admiring optimistic thinkers (e.g., Naval) and the ‘idols → rivals → friends’ idea
  3. Music corner and personal aesthetics: Sleep Token, favorite albums, moustache and haircut choices

    Chris raves about Sleep Token’s new album and lists a few all-time favorites, emphasizing genre-blending and craftsmanship. He then pivots to lighter Q&A topics: growing out hair in Austin heat, and the return of the moustache as a playful style experiment.

    • •Why the Sleep Token album impressed him (genre fusion, quality)
    • •A couple of standout favorite albums from past years
    • •Austin heat driving practical grooming decisions
    • •Moustache as a self-aware ‘70s cop/pornstar’ look
  4. Does hard work guarantee success? Risk, iteration, and shrinking failure probability

    Responding to a nuanced question, Chris agrees that hard work doesn’t always produce success—there’s always “dice rolling.” He argues, however, that consistency, talent, strategy, and iteration drastically reduce the chance of long-term failure, and shares a story of a DJ friend whose persistence paid off.

    • •Hard work can fail—chance and circumstance always exist
    • •Consistency + skill + iteration reduce failure likelihood over time
    • •Personal anecdote: DJ/producer persistence leading to major success
    • •‘You either stop or you win’ framing for long time horizons
  5. Tour expansion plans and blunt career-change advice

    Chris discusses where live shows might go next, including the possibility of Canada and a larger global tour if the upcoming run goes well. He then advises someone wanting a career change to stop outsourcing their life decisions to hesitant people around them.

    • •How current live tour success could enable a larger global tour
    • •Potential future regions: Canada, Australia, more of the US/UK/Europe
    • •Career-change decision-making: align with values and act
    • •Skepticism about most people’s advice; trust your own assessment
  6. Cleaning up the comment section: bans, negativity, and a potential Discord community

    Chris explains why he started banning commenters: viral reach brings in cynical, low-effort negativity that degrades discussion. He outlines a “one-and-done” ban policy for behavior he considers unserious, then explores the idea of building a Discord/Slack-style community if enough people want it.

    • •How virality changes audience composition and comment quality
    • •His threshold: criticism is fine; unthinking negativity isn’t
    • •New enforcement approach: ‘one-and-done’ bans to sanitize discussion
    • •Considering a Discord community and what it could enable
  7. Getting less self-conscious + dating tradeoffs (IQ vs ‘boobs’) and what men value

    Chris unpacks why humans overestimate how much others notice them, tying it to ancestral status concerns and modern social anxiety. He then tackles a provocative dating question, arguing mate choice is multi-factorial—attractiveness, personality, agreeableness, and compatibility all interact.

    • •Ancestral roots of self-consciousness and status vigilance
    • •Perspective shift: you don’t fixate on strangers, so they don’t fixate on you
    • •Dating preferences: intelligence matters, but not always as much as people claim
    • •Tradeoffs aren’t binary; traits come bundled with downsides and correlations
  8. The unreleased Andrew Tate episode and Chris’s boundaries around integrity

    Chris reveals he recorded a podcast with Andrew Tate during COVID but chose not to publish it due to platform policy risk and because the moment had passed. He uses it to explain his broader philosophy: resisting opportunistic releases and trying to treat guests fairly even when clicks are tempting.

    • •Unreleased Tate conversation: lockdowns, vaccines, government overreach topics
    • •Why it stayed on a hard drive: misinformation enforcement and timing
    • •Refusing to capitalize on peak Tate interest for short-term growth
    • •Maintaining creator integrity despite constant incentives to ‘take the bag’
  9. Monetising Modern Wisdom without selling out + live tour meetups

    Chris says the show is under-monetised compared to peers, largely because he’s cautious about products, sponsors, and guest choices that might misalign with the show’s values. He also confirms post-show meetups/afterparties for select live events, prioritising accessibility over VIP tiers.

    • •Monetisation gap: large audience, comparatively modest revenue
    • •Tradeoff: integrity and alignment vs maximal commercialisation
    • •Small team constraints make new products a ‘heavy lift’
    • •Live tour plan: inclusive meet-and-greets/afterparties rather than VIP gating
  10. Dark side of the manosphere + cancellations, remote tools, and guest wishlist

    Chris critiques manosphere ideas that frame women as enemies/resources and that promote discipline everywhere except sexual ethics. He then answers practical creator questions: whether guests cancel due to past ‘problematic’ guests, what remote recording software he uses, and thoughts on guests like Russell Brand and others.

    • •Manosphere critique: adversarial framing toward women is corrosive
    • •Hypocrisy critique: ‘discipline’ ideology that stops at sexual behavior
    • •Guest cancellations: he hasn’t observed cancellations due to prior guests
    • •Remote recording recommendation: StreamYard with local recordings
    • •Russell Brand interest (population collapse) and other guest suggestions
  11. Daily life as Chris + population collapse and demographic consequences

    Chris describes his real day-to-day as structured and often repetitive, punctuated by occasional standout experiences with guests and friends. He then shares his view on population decline: society will respond slowly, and the demographic groups that reproduce will increasingly shape future culture and politics.

    • •Regimented routine behind a ‘cool’ public-facing job
    • •Balancing grind with wanting more fun and life slack
    • •Population collapse: likely continued decline and hard transitions
    • •Differential fertility reshaping culture (religious vs secular/liberal groups)
  12. Becoming articulate, what he wants to cover next (AI risk), and how live events will feel

    Chris lays out how to become more articulate: intentional practice, recording yourself, and coaching—mostly reps. He then shares topic priorities he wants to revisit (AI existential risk) and describes the planned structure and production style for his live events.

    • •Articulation: precision, practice, feedback loops, and speech coaching
    • •Reps matter more than ‘hacks’—coaching is marginal gains on top
    • •Renewed interest in AI x-risk; planned guests to map the landscape
    • •Live event structure: story-driven lessons, tactical takeaways, and immersive production
  13. The cost of running the show: sacrifice, learning overload, and turning discipline into routine

    Chris explains the biggest sacrifice is the constant workload and the fact that the operation depends heavily on him as the bottleneck. He shares how he processes information (notes and repeated recall) and outlines a weekly rhythm that relies more on habits than heroic willpower.

    • •‘If I don’t do it, it doesn’t get done’: founder bottleneck reality
    • •Information processing: note-taking + teaching via recall
    • •Learning principle: repeated recall beats repeated exposure
    • •Time management via weekly routines and habit scaffolding over ‘discipline’
  14. Why he talks about men’s dating struggles + advice to a 13-year-old and aspiring podcasters

    Chris defends covering male dating difficulties even though he’s not in the hardest-hit demographic, arguing under-discussed issues deserve attention. He then gives age-appropriate advice to a very young viewer (prioritise life experience and social development) and encourages new podcasters to start before they feel ready.

    • •Double-bind: insiders get called bitter; outsiders get called out of touch
    • •Independent platforms should cover underrepresented issues affecting lives
    • •For young teens: avoid ‘monk mode’; focus on experiences and good peers
    • •Starting a podcast: no one is qualified at the beginning; low early visibility reduces fear
  15. Traditional women being proactive + did he expect this growth + toughest periods, merch, and sobriety

    Chris discusses how traditional women can increase chances of being pursued without abandoning preferences: put yourself in the right rooms and signal openness. He reflects on the show’s long runway before growth, shares mental health struggles in his twenties tied to sleep, gives merch updates, and argues elective sobriety is a powerful social filter.

    • •Dating dynamics post-MeToo: men’s fear of being ‘creepy’ vs women wanting approaches
    • •Actionable advice: place selection + friendliness/receptiveness cues
    • •Growth reflection: same ideas for years; status changes reception of words
    • •Hardest life phases: depressive cycles, event-business burnout, sleep issues
    • •Merch timeline tied to tour; sobriety as a high-leverage experiment
  16. Behind the scenes, next decade vision, steroids & intro song, ‘gym for getting a girlfriend,’ and closing logistics

    Chris says behind-the-scenes work is mostly unglamorous research and coordination with a small team, then describes a wide-open sense of opportunity over the next decade. He answers quick hitters (steroids: no; intro song ID), gives practical advice for meeting partners (go where your type is; get reps talking to women), and closes with lessons on applying knowledge, overcoming limiting beliefs, being an outlier, and operational constraints like Spotify video.

    • •Behind-the-scenes reality: research-heavy, small team, minimal glamour
    • •Next 10 years: keep having great conversations, expand impact, maintain freedom
    • •Quick answers: not on steroids; intro song is ‘Kryspop – Fly Away (JPB remix)’
    • •Dating: ‘your gym’ is reps + environments with compatible people (co-ed sports, groups)
    • •Implementation: focus on one change at a time; avoid ‘mental masturbation’
    • •Confidence: evidence via an ‘undeniable stack of proof’ beats wishful thinking
    • •Operational friction: why Spotify video is nontrivial with current ad/hosting setup
    • •Final call-to-action: raise the comment-section standard; bans for low-effort toxicity

Publisher timestamps

  1. 0:00Intro
  2. 0:40New Project with James Smith
  3. 1:33Current Role Model
  4. 2:35New Sleep Token Album
  5. 3:28‘The’ Moustache
  6. 3:54Does Hard Work Always Equal Success?
  7. 8:00Coming to Montreal?
  8. 8:30Advice on Changing Career
  9. 9:26Banned from Comments
  10. 11:31Discord Server?
  11. 12:21Becoming Less Self-Conscious
  12. 14:17IQ Vs Boobs
  13. 16:07Podcast with Andrew Tate
  14. 18:22Challenges in Monetising the Podcast
  15. 20:55Meet & Greets on the Live Tour
  16. 21:50Darkest Elements of the Manosphere
  17. 25:14Guest Cancellations
  18. 26:03Software for Remote Podcasts
  19. 26:44Russell Brand
  20. 27:35Guest Suggestions
  21. 28:06Indian Food
  22. 28:16What It’s Like to be Chris
  23. 29:31Population Collapse
  24. 31:45How to Become Articulate
  25. 32:44Chris’s Hairstyle
  26. 33:11What Chris Would Like to Discuss
  27. 34:27Structure of Live Events
  28. 36:11Biggest Sacrifice to Make MW
  29. 37:33Processing So Much Learning
  30. 39:14Advice to a 20-Year-Old
  31. 41:02Time Management
  32. 42:58Why Chris is Interested in Men’s Dating Struggles
  33. 46:35Advice to a 13-Year-Old
  34. 49:12Advice for Starting a Podcast
  35. 50:10Advice to More Traditional Women
  36. 53:09Did Chris Think the Podcast Would Become This Big?
  37. 54:33Hardest Period of Chris’s Life
  38. 56:22Modern Wisdom Hoodies
  39. 57:02Cutting Out Alcohol
  40. 59:30Behind The Scenes of MW
  41. 1:01:00Chris’s Next 10 Years
  42. 1:03:07Is Chris Taking Steroids?
  43. 1:03:17Modern Wisdom Intro Song
  44. 1:04:39How to Get a Girlfriend
  45. 1:07:12Dream Q&A Question
  46. 1:08:18Applying Knowledge into Daily Life
  47. 1:11:00Course on Improving Communication
  48. 1:14:16Overcoming Limiting Beliefs
  49. 1:17:44Being an Outlier
  50. 1:19:32Hamza & Iman Ghadzi
  51. 1:20:03How to De-Sedate Men
  52. 1:23:34Andy Frisella
  53. 1:24:47Worse Dates than Chris’s Love Island Date?
  54. 1:26:21Making Friends at University
  55. 1:28:49Becoming Comfortable on Camera
  56. 1:31:42How to Learn Lots & Stay Curious
  57. 1:33:39How to Stop Overthinking & Start Doing
  58. 1:34:59How to Build Confidence with a Disability
  59. 1:35:59Preparation for Each Episode
  60. 1:38:18Video on Spotify
  61. 1:39:35Conclusion

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