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A Hacker In Your Pocket | How Your Smartphone Is Short Circuiting Your Brain

Jonny and Yusef from PropaneFitness.com join me as we discuss the topic of phone addiction. The problem of excessive tech use is almost universally acknowledged by pretty much anyone with a smartphone, but very few of us are aware of the teams of software engineers, warehouses of supercomputers and decades of research goes into manipulating you to click that link, watch that video or download that app. An argument is often made that technology is neutral and that it is our decision of how we use it, but our phone's intrusion into our lives is so calculated and manipulative that the deck is stacked firmly against us making a choice we're fully in control of. I genuinely believe that Humane Technology and Ethical Persuasion will be a huge topic over the coming years, hopefully we can kickstart your interest into the subject here... On this episode, learn the tactics used by social media websites to manipulate you to stay on site, discover our favourite strategies for taking back control of your phone use and find out why you definitely shouldn't buy a dildo on Facebook Marketplace. Extra Reading: Distraction Is Destruction Podcast (YouTube) www.HumaneTech.com Newsfeed Hider For Chrome Moment App - Listen to all episodes online. Search "Modern Wisdom" on any Podcast App or click here: iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/gb/podcast/modern-wisdom/id1347973549 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0XrOqvxlqQI6bmdYHuIVnr?si=iUpczE97SJqe1kNdYBipnw Stitcher: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/modern-wisdom - I want to hear from you!! Get in touch in the comments below or head to... Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Email: modernwisdompodcast@gmail.com

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Jun 5, 20181h 13mWatch on YouTube ↗

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  1. 0:003:14

    Why phone addiction is a bigger scandal than data privacy

    1. CW

      (wind blowing) Hi, friends. So it's been a couple of weeks since the last episode. I know that I promised (laughs) I was going to do one every single week, and I've, uh, fallen within the first month of that. However, I have a good excuse. I was away in Palma on a yacht and then in Dubai with my dad. It's a hard life, I know. (laughs) This week I'm sitting down with Yusuf and Johnny from Propain Fitness, and this is probably my most anticipated episode to date. When I say "mine," I mean by myself, not by anybody else. Um, we're gonna be discussing the ethical use of technology and how social networks, social media manipulates our cognitive biases and uses unseen persuasion techniques to keep you on site. Now all of this might sound a little tinfoil-hatty, but I promise you it's not. It is, as far as I'm concerned, probably one of the biggest and most important issues that we've got going on at the moment if you think about how ubiquitous phone use is amongst everybody on the planet. The Cambridge Analytica scandal which recently came out where it turned out that some users on Facebook's data had been illegally acquired and manipulated caused absolute uproar. And all that was happening there was people were being targeted with ads, and some of their data had been stolen. Your phone is stealing your time, and that's the one resource that we can't get any of it back. That, to me, is a much bigger scandal that needs to be spoken about. Our phones are with us more than any partner, any friend, any family member, any pet, probably any other item that we own. They're with us every single step of the way, and they're possessions that we cherish to a degree and that we live our lives through. They're a window between us and the world. They mediate our experience of the external world. And they manipulate our experience and our judgment of other people, both celebrity and friend. It's something that we put an awful lot of faith into. And yet our brains are being hacked by billion-dollar companies, and behind every press of every button on your phone, there is a team of software engineers who have manipulated you into pressing that particular button in order to keep you on site because they need your attention because that is how the money is made on that particular platform. (inhales) So hopefully you'll come out of this understanding the tactics that are being used to keep you on your phone. You'll be more aware of why and how this is happening. And also we will give you some tips and some strategies that you can implement to mitigate the amount of time that you get trapped within your phone. So without further ado, here we go.

  2. 3:146:03

    Chaotic cold open banter before the real topic begins

    1. JO

      I think someone was selling a dildo on Facebook Marketplace yesterday. Rampant Rabbit.

    2. YU

      Who, that, did you, is that the thing where you said-

    3. JO

      I might, I might've sent it to you both.

    4. YU

      Yeah. You said, "Don't, don't believe when you say it's not being used."

    5. JO

      Yeah. Well, I mean, why, why else are you selling it? Like, who buys-

    6. YU

      Well, because it hasn't been used.

    7. JO

      Maybe it was a gift, and they thought-

    8. YU

      Yeah, they have two of them.

    9. JO

      Hmm. Still, I wouldn't trust it. I would, I mean-

    10. CW

      Someone could have, someone could have been purchased too thinking that they wanted that.

    11. JO

      They bought it online. (laughs)

    12. CW

      And they didn't. They, they overestimated their sexual appetite.

    13. JO

      capacity. I see. So either-

    14. YU

      Or if she's doing it.

    15. JO

      ... they double-tapped the Add to Cart button or they tried it, didn't like it. Either way, I'm not putting it in my vagina. I think it's a...

    16. CW

      Well, it's not just the vagina, is it potentially?

    17. JO

      Or, or bum. Yeah, you're right.

    18. YU

      I think you can put it anywhere, and that's what's, that's what's so great about them.

    19. JO

      Yeah, we shouldn't discriminate. I think that's very judgmental of us to assume vagina.

    20. CW

      Judgmental on who? People that prefer anal?

    21. JO

      Yeah.

    22. YU

      People with or without vaginas.

    23. JO

      We need to be nice to...

    24. CW

      Docking. You could use it for docking.

    25. YU

      Docking.

    26. CW

      Use the second one for docking.

    27. YU

      Can you explain in the clearest possible way what docking is?

    28. JO

      It's when a man interpenetrates another man with his...

    29. YU

      With a tool.

    30. JO

      A tool.

  3. 6:0311:46

    From 'Distraction is Destruction' to realizing the game is rigged

    1. CW

      Um, so this is a podcast I've wanted to do for ages, but we keep on having to put it off for different reasons. Um, we did a podcast called Distraction is Destruction.

    2. JO

      Excellent podcast.

    3. CW

      Excellent podcast. Propamedapp.com/ ...

    4. JO

      It's us.

    5. CW

      Forward slash ...

    6. JO

      Uh.

    7. CW

      (laughs)

    8. JO

      Forward slash distraction.

    9. YU

      Don't ask us that.

    10. JO

      I think. We'll, we'll change the link for you guys.

    11. CW

      Yeah. It's-

    12. JO

      I kind of, I kind of remember that.

    13. YU

      That, was that the one with the ... (clicks fingers)

    14. JO

      Yeah. It was.

    15. CW

      With the arm, with the arm things.

    16. YU

      Mm-hmm.

    17. CW

      So basically, we, we all are trying to reduce our phone time. Well, this was, what? About a year ago maybe.

    18. YU

      Mm-hmm.

    19. CW

      Trying to reduce our phone time. And, um, decided to do a podcast on how it felt when we use our phone too much and tactics that you can do to reduce that. That to me felt like my first Christmas. And over the last six months, all of the stuff that I've learned feels like finding out that Santa Claus isn't real.

    20. YU

      (laughs)

    21. CW

      That's-

    22. YU

      As in, it's all a lie to keep you inside and you can't get out?

    23. CW

      Just that-

    24. JO

      The odds are stacked against you with-

    25. CW

      I just entered into this world, like a year ago, of-

    26. YU

      Mm-hmm.

    27. CW

      ... phone use is maybe something that I need to consider a little bit more deeply than I have done. And then now, it's just opened up this entire world of cognitive bias manipulation and persuasive techniques, and a whole lot of other stuff. Um, so-

    28. YU

      It's interesting, 'cause I used to really care about it, and I've just resigned to the fact that I don't care.

    29. CW

      I've, I, without exaggeration, this is probably w- one of the top five passionate topics I've got in my life at the moment.

    30. YU

      Really? (laughs)

  4. 11:4614:37

    The Burj Khalifa story: present self vs future self

    1. CW

      really, like, uh, I genuinely don't think that there's a topic which can be more ubiquitous for people to need to know about. Like, at the moment, it's, uh, for me, it's really, really important, and hopefully people find a little bit of value in this. Um, so basically, I think it's like common... I'd say it's commonly accepted amongst almost everybody, even like my mom and my dad know that they probably use their phones a little bit too much.... and a perfect example of this, I couldn't believe it. So I've just been away in Dubai. I was at the top of the Burj Khalifa with my dad who hasn't been on holiday for 17 years. Wow. Right? So I'm nearly a kilometer up in the air, lion's share of a kilometer, 148th floor, largest, tallest building in the world. Lar- um, tallest observatory platform in the world. And we got there. Dad hasn't been on holiday in nearly two decades, right? And we'd flown seven and a half hours and paid however much money and all the rest of it. And I went to the bathroom and I came back out to see that he was sat down on the couch on his phone. (laughs) And I was like, "Dad, what are you doing on m- on your phone?" And he was like, uh, "Oh, I'm just, uh, just answering some work emails." "You do remember that this was your retirement trip, Dad?" (laughs) "Your holiday was for your retirement. You're retiring and you're answering work emails." And I was just like, I mean, what a perfect example. His phone will have buzzed and- Yep. And the thing is ... So the argument is that-

    2. JO

      That little red circle on the-

    3. CW

      ... and it pops up.

    4. JO

      ... on the app.

    5. CW

      The th- the thing is- Go check it. ... d- d- does he want to check his phone when he's at, uh, the 148th floor of the Burj Khalifa? No. He doesn't want to check his phone. However, he has checked his phone. Does that mean that that's something he wants to do?

    6. JO

      It's wizardry, isn't it? Someone's made you do something that you wouldn't have ... If someone said, "Do you want to check your phone and check-"

    7. CW

      (laughs)

    8. JO

      "... and respond to a work email?" The answer would always be, "No, I don't want to check my phone and respond to my work email." But they've managed to still make you do that.

    9. CW

      You see, that- that's the part where I don't know where I lie on that, because I- I think I do want to check my phone. So I think a lot of the time (laughs) ...

    10. JO

      (laughs)

    11. CW

      Like, I- we- I was in Budapest with Becca and the whole time I've got my phone in my pocket. (laughs) . And if anyone had ever sai- said to me-

    12. JO

      "Do you want to check your phone?"

    13. CW

      ... "Jonny mate, have five minutes to yourself. Go over there."

    14. JO

      (laughs) Yes (laughs) .

    15. CW

      (laughs) And I would be like, "Woo-hoo!"

    16. JO

      (laughs)

    17. CW

      (laughs) So I think, I think I'd be okay with it. I think-

    18. JO

      I see what you're saying.

    19. CW

      I understand what you're getting at, but-

    20. JO

      But I- so I think what Tristan was getting at was the- the present self versus future self. And it's like, you sit on your phone and scroll the news feed for half an hour in the morning.

    21. CW

      Mm-hmm.

    22. JO

      But then if you were to ask yourself, "Was that time well spent?"

    23. CW

      Got it.

    24. JO

      "Would you have wanted to have spent today half an hour scrolling the news feed?"

    25. CW

      Check. Got it. Especially when you've got to consider, as we say, time is the one resource that you're not gonna get any of it back.

    26. JO

      Yeah, yeah.

    27. CW

      And you specifically, as a person who likes to be as efficient as he can with his day, like, the time that you spend on your phone which isn't contributing-

  5. 14:3716:36

    The attention arms race: autoplay, engagement metrics, and profit

    1. JO

      Mm-hmm.

    2. CW

      ... directly to the objectives that you've got to complete that day, who's made you choose? Is it leisure time? Does it count as leisure time? So the question is, and the main, the main question of this is, does it net a positive for you?

    3. JO

      Mm-hmm.

    4. CW

      Because if it nets a positive for you overall, then sweet. But, the problem is, that it's a zero sum game where all different platforms online are competing for our attention. So if YouTube adds autoplay, which they only did within the last 18 months, or last two years, YouTube adds autoplay under the next video, that upped their, um, time on site by between five and 10%.

    5. JO

      YouTube ads or YouTube videos?

    6. CW

      YouTube added.

    7. JO

      Added. Oh, okay. Ads.

    8. CW

      Autoplay of the next- Oh, right. (laughs)

    9. JO

      Ads, with a double D.

    10. CW

      I thought, yeah. I was still- That's just an ad- ... trying to- That's just an advertiser. That's a, that's a market- (laughs) That's a market- (laughs) ... mind there, isn't it? Yeah (laughs) . Um, so YouTube- My eyes. Oh my God, I need- (laughs) . (laughs) . ... to, I need to go and do this. Um- Do we need to- ... YouTube, YouTube added in autoplay the next video, that increased their time on site by five to 10%. There's only so many hours in the day so that five to 10% has come from somewhere. It's either come from someone's spare time or it's been taken from Facebook or Twitter or- Mm-hmm. ... Google or whatever it is. And what that means is that Facebook now needs to do autoplay videos as you scroll down. They need to up their armory. It's like an arms race. Mm-hmm. It's an arms race to see who can use the most number of manipulative cognitive bias, uh, affecting techniques- To get you. ... to get you to stay on site. And the fact of the matter is that the economy reflects the more time that someone spends on a site, the more value that company has. Mm-hmm. Because the revenue is generated through advertising and advertising is mostly based on how much exposure are people gonna get. How much exposure is directly equal to how much time on site. If you can get people to stay on site, irrelevant of whether or not they want to, you make more money. Yeah.

    11. JO

      So-

    12. CW

      A bit shit when you look at it like that.

    13. JO

      The ... An example-

    14. CW

      It is a bit shit.

  6. 16:3618:00

    Why it’s not your fault: dark patterns and engineered rabbit holes

    1. JO

      ... that I think, that I think he mentioned in this and it, it definitely catches me every single time.

    2. CW

      (laughs) .

    3. JO

      And this is, th- th- this really hurts my pride because I, I see, I like to see myself as somebody who is-

    4. CW

      Is it the gay porn websites?

    5. JO

      ... able to ... It's, it's the gay porn. I every-

    6. CW

      (laughs) .

    7. JO

      Always find myself (laughs) -

    8. CW

      Like, "Bloody hell." (laughs)

    9. JO

      It's, I- I like to pride myself in somebody who can maintain cognitive effort on a single task, having meditated for so long, or at least tried to train for this thing.

    10. CW

      I, you're easily the best person I know at that single thing.

    11. JO

      And yet-

    12. CW

      The best meditator. The b- the best, like single focus. Like, if he's gonna do something- Cal Newport deep work. ... sit and do it, yeah.

    13. JO

      And yet, I am still defenseless against like, "Okay, I need to quickly check when that person's birthday is on Facebook."

    14. CW

      Go on.

    15. JO

      And then 10 minutes later-

    16. CW

      (laughs) .

    17. JO

      ... you've closed the tab, you've done-

    18. CW

      (clears throat) .

    19. JO

      ... loads of other things and you're like, "Hang on."

    20. CW

      "I didn't even do the thing I went on there for."

    21. JO

      Every time.

    22. CW

      And again, this is, this is not ... The, the, the ... One of the main points I want to get across to you in this podcast is that if this is happening to you, not only is it not just you that it's happening to, but it's not your fault. And I think that-

    23. JO

      Mm-hmm.

    24. CW

      ... realizing ... One of the main steps that I think needs to happen is that firstly people need to realize that there is a problem, that if they were to look back at their day and portion out how much time they spend on their phone, that it is a regrettable action. Like, and this isn't me saying that people shouldn't use Facebook and shouldn't use Twitter and shouldn't use Instagram-

    25. JO

      But only-

    26. CW

      ... because it does as good.

    27. JO

      ... if it gives you a net benefit to do so.

    28. CW

      A net positive, for sure. And there is a-

    29. JO

      But use it consciously, is what you're saying.

  7. 18:0034:01

    Slot machines in your pocket: variable rewards, dopamine, and notification design

    1. CW

      There i- there is a, there is a, um, a Goldilocks zone of how much time you should be spending on there and what you're doing with your time on there as well. But the problem is, that these sites are designed-

    2. JO

      (laughs) .

    3. CW

      ... in a way-... to manipulate your cognitive biases so that you do not leave and so that you don't do the thing that you went on there to do, so that you look at the ads, so that you watch the videos, so that you do whatever. So I mean, there's a couple of examples that are really, really good. Variable schedule rewards are the dopamine release technique that slot machines work on. So you press the button, you wait. Something's gonna happen. It's either something good or something that's neutral, usually. Twitter, if you open up Twitter on your phone now, press the button. Now wait.

    4. JO

      (laughs)

    5. CW

      And then you wait for the notifications to load. You'll see that the app loads, then your newsfeed loads, and then your mentions load with a number sometimes.

    6. JO

      Have, have either of you got... 'Cause I don't have Twitter on my phone, so I've never seen this. So tell me.

    7. CW

      I, basically, basically all that happens is there's a, there's a wait. There's a pause between-

    8. JO

      And that's on purpose?

    9. CW

      ... you loading up. Yeah. They could program it so that it occurred immediately, but they don't. And the reason is, the amount of time it, it takes for that to load.

    10. JO

      Yes.

    11. CW

      So you've got a loading screen there. Loading.

    12. JO

      God, that is painful, isn't it?

    13. CW

      Yeah.

    14. JO

      When there is.

    15. CW

      Then that'll open, then that'll go, then that'll happen, and then you'll see how many me- mentions you've got that come up. And the reason for that is it is the exact same amount of time wait that a slot machine takes.

    16. JO

      Then you go, "Ooh."

    17. CW

      "Ooh, I've got that."

    18. JO

      then there's the, "Ooh." (laughs)

    19. CW

      "I've got this." Exactly the same on Instagram.

    20. JO

      So that's where the, the, you know, the alarm bell-

    21. CW

      Mm-hmm.

    22. JO

      ... became a blast.

    23. CW

      Yeah.

    24. JO

      Yeah. That, that's it. So-

    25. CW

      Exactly. While you wait because it, it's that variable schedule reward-

    26. JO

      That's what you... So Facebook have started doing the same thing.

    27. CW

      ... makes you hold your breath. Look at Instagram. Load up Instagram and your newsfeed will load and there will be a half a second wait between that and your, and your mentions and your, um, the red little tab coming up.

    28. JO

      So it's the same tactics that make casinos so compulsive and gambling so addictive, that, um-

    29. CW

      And casinos so profitable for you.

    30. JO

      Yeah. So we, we are addicted to random rewards more so than predictable rewards, which I find absolutely insane. That you... There was a study where they took a bunch of monkeys in a room, gave them, made them do a bunch of tasks, and when they discovered one button to press, it would give them a banana. And they would repeat it and, uh, and when they stopped that from happening, they stopped the, they disconnected the button from the reward, the monkeys kept doing it for a bit and then they stopped. Whereas on another iteration of the study, they gave the monkeys random rewards and the monkeys started to develop weird rituals that they thought were creating the reward.

  8. 34:0138:58

    Outrage, echo chambers, and feed optimization reshaping mood

    1. CW

      Um, and here's, here's one of the big-

    2. YU

      So people need phone macros?

    3. CW

      Yeah, pretty much. Here's one of the big things, and it's that outrage online always travels further than positivity. And because of the way that the newsfeed optimization works, this is specific to Facebook, outrage is more attractive than positivity. That means that you are more likely to click on outrage. All that the computer is then going to start feeding you is more of what you want.

    4. YU

      More outrage.

    5. CW

      Hang on, but, but what about the sweet analogy? I, I, I, I ate the sweets, but I kind of didn't want to eat the sweets, but I did kind of want to eat the sweets. I don't want to click on the outrage. I don't want to be delivered more outrage.

    6. YU

      Mm-hmm.

    7. CW

      But all that the computer's doing is delivering more of what its job is, which is to maximize time on site and to maximize clickthroughs.

    8. YU

      Plus when you have a sweet, I think it creates the immediate desire for mo- another sweet.

    9. CW

      Mm-hmm.

    10. YU

      As soon as you've had the sweet, you don't think, "That was lovely. Enough, enough's enough." You think, "That was nice. I'll have another one."

    11. JO

      In fact, that's a really good analogy because we know that your, the bacteria that develop in your gut as a result of certain foods will cause, they'll interact with your brain and cause you to crave more of the same food. And so that's a double-edged sword. As with outrage, that if you consume lots of outrage, that's going to then change your mental environment over time and change the general tone and emotion that you're experi- the mood that you're experiencing throughout the day.

    12. CW

      Well, one of the, one of the-

    13. JO

      The same way people do gratitude journals because they want to fill themselves with positivity-

    14. CW

      Mm-hmm.

    15. JO

      ... and-

    16. CW

      One of, one of the main things is that because, because of how Facebook works and because it delivers news to people who they know want to see it, there was a time online where if the word Trump was in an article, it would be top of your newsfeed, irrelevant of what you'd clicked on. There was a brief period where that happened.

    17. JO

      What, so, so Trump just-

    18. CW

      Trump.

    19. JO

      Literally Trump?

    20. CW

      To the top.

    21. JO

      Everything.

    22. CW

      To the top. It literally did.

    23. JO

      Oh, trumped yeah.

    24. CW

      It trumped it. Top Trumps.

    25. JO

      Wow.

    26. CW

      Um, and yeah, Facebook, the thing with Facebook is that because it will get you to click on things that you have a particular cognitive bias towards-

    27. JO

      Yeah.

    28. CW

      ... it segregates you into these echo chambers online-

    29. JO

      Mm-hmm.

    30. CW

      ... with other like-minded people that share the shit that you want to click on-

  9. 38:5842:04

    Profit motives vs ethics: ‘time well spent’ messaging and platform incentives

    1. CW

      Look, look at what's, look at what's the number one news source for most people.

    2. YU

      Is it Facebook?

    3. CW

      Facebook.

    4. JO

      Hmm.

    5. CW

      It's Twi- it's actually Twitter.

    6. YU

      People are finding out-

    7. CW

      Actually-

    8. YU

      ... about Facebook news, news leaks-

    9. CW

      On Facebook.

    10. YU

      ... data leaks on, on Facebook.

    11. CW

      On Facebook.

    12. JO

      And, and surely Facebook can just remove-

    13. CW

      Just-

    14. JO

      ... anything that was news feeds-

    15. CW

      No. No.

    16. JO

      ... that mentions ... (cross talk)

    17. CW

      Well, do you remember when, do you remember when Google got pulled for putting their own, um-

    18. YU

      Ads in, yeah, at the top.

    19. CW

      ... shopping, uh, things at the top of, of particular lists? There's like, this fair use policy thing, isn't it? Like, where, "Well, this is my platform. I can do-"

    20. YU

      Mm-hmm.

    21. CW

      "... with it what I want." Well, no, actually you're supposed to be, um, neutral in a way. But okay, you're neutral at del- at the content that you deliver, but not neutral at delivering the content?

    22. YU

      Mm-hmm. It's a tough one though, isn't it?

    23. CW

      It is really. It's-

    24. YU

      'Cause in one way, like, they're not a charity. They, you know, they're a business.

    25. CW

      Mm-hmm.

    26. YU

      Profit-driven. Like of course they're gonna advertise their own services on their own platform.

    27. CW

      Mm-hmm.

    28. YU

      But-

    29. CW

      I think, I think the other thing to consider is as well that everyone believes that, uh, uh, if you were to, if you were to look at this from a, um, a very critical perspective, you would think that all of the guys in Silicon Valley are wearing black hoods and long noses-

    30. YU

      Mm-hmm.

  10. 42:0447:13

    PornHub as an attention-optimization case study (and cultural mirror)

    1. CW

      Should we have a look at some stats on PornHub?

    2. YU

      (laughs)

    3. JO

      So the, I, I want take, I take my hat off to the an- analyst, the analyst.

    4. CW

      Nice.

    5. JO

      Who, hey. (laughs)

    6. YU

      Hey.

    7. JO

      Um, who does the PornHub annual stats-

    8. YU

      They are-

    9. JO

      ... 'cause right, they're well-constructed.

    10. YU

      I imagine it's a, it's a data team, I would've thought.

    11. CW

      Ah, probably. (laughs)

    12. YU

      Like it is. It's not a, it's not a bloke with a spreadsheet.

    13. CW

      Just a team.

    14. YU

      Like... (laughs)

    15. CW

      "Bloody hell, mate, you know how much porn we've watched this year?"

    16. YU

      (laughs)

    17. CW

      Um...

    18. YU

      "It's gone up, you know." (laughs)

    19. CW

      Uh, (laughs) what, what has?

    20. YU

      (laughs) Precisely.

    21. CW

      28, 28.5 billion annual visits to PornHub. This is the most interesting stat, right? 28.5-

    22. JO

      That's only four per year per person.

    23. YU

      ... four what?

    24. JO

      Four visits per year per person.

    25. CW

      That's presuming that all seven million-

    26. JO

      Every person.

    27. YU

      This is every person in the world-

    28. CW

      ... seven, every person on the planet is accessing PornHub.

    29. JO

      Including newborns and- (laughs)

    30. YU

      (laughs) Yeah. People on their deathbed.

  11. 47:1352:35

    Practical tactics part 1: environment design (sleep, mornings, screens, notifications)

    1. CW

      So, uh, right. Let's do some reductions of phone use strategies, 'cause mine have developed since last year-

    2. JO

      Have they?

    3. CW

      ... since we last did that. My, my main one-

    4. YU

      What's developed?

    5. CW

      My, my, my main one is that when you are in, in, in an inertial frame of reference, the likelihood of you staying on your phone is higher. So if you're lying down, it's more likely than if you're sitting. And if you're sitting, it's more likely than if you're standing. And if you're standing, it's more likely than if you're walking. Uh, so the fact is-

    6. YU

      Jumping. Flying.

    7. CW

      ... jumping. Yeah, yeah. Flying.

    8. YU

      (laughs)

    9. CW

      Flying, flapping, fapping.

    10. JO

      Snatching.

    11. CW

      Fapping.

    12. YU

      Yeah.

    13. CW

      Snatching. Do not try and snatch with-

    14. JO

      Chin-ups.

    15. CW

      ... unless you're Dmitry Kokov.

    16. YU

      Uh, it's impossible, isn't it? To use your phone while you're doing a chin-up.

    17. JO

      It depends how strong you are.

    18. CW

      One-handed chin-up, fine. Um, basically-

    19. YU

      Deadlift.

    20. JO

      Oh, yeah.

    21. CW

      Deadlift.

    22. YU

      Deadlift.

    23. CW

      Deadlift.

    24. YU

      Impossible.

    25. CW

      Um, basically, don't use your phone, don't use your phone when you're in a inertial frame of reference. So if you are, um... (laughs) Yusuf's just trapped his between his chin and his... Between his beard, his Arab beard.

    26. YU

      What's it, what's he trapped?

    27. CW

      His phone.

    28. YU

      Oh right.

    29. JO

      (laughs)

    30. CW

      His penis.

  12. 52:351:05:53

    Extreme option: the ‘shit phone’ day and confronting boredom

    1. YU

      Um, so the one, I mean, you both experienced when I went through my phase with my shit phone.

    2. CW

      Mm-hmm.

    3. YU

      I think for me, that is the one that I would aspire to, to be at.

    4. CW

      Briefly explain that.

    5. YU

      So I bought a £20 phone on Amazon which is the most basic phone you can imagine. Oh, it has a torch.

    6. JO

      What did he call it again?

    7. YU

      Shit phone.

    8. JO

      The, the bharsta.

    9. YU

      Oh yeah. (laughs)

    10. CW

      (laughs) The, the bharsta.

    11. JO

      You motherfucking bastard.

    12. YU

      Yeah, the bharsta. Um, so-

    13. JO

      B-H-A-R-S-T-A.

    14. YU

      So, which is a reference to a YouTube video 'cause we all spend too much time on YouTube.

    15. CW

      On YouTube that we can actually reference something like that.

    16. JO

      150 million views alone.

    17. YU

      I, if anyone would like access to the funniest collection of YouTube videos, I, I, that is no exaggeration. Youssef's, how many? 700?

    18. CW

      Probably, uh-

    19. YU

      Like, it is curated content, like it is really high quality content.

    20. CW

      That's time well spent.

    21. YU

      That is time excellently spent. Excellently well spent?

    22. CW

      Fine.

    23. YU

      So yeah, um, and for a 24-hour period once a week, take your SIM card out of your iPhone or, or your Android and put it into the shit phone. And then you wake up the next day and it is weird.

    24. CW

      What were the barriers that you found for that strategy?

    25. YU

      So you, so the hard- the hardest thing is or was, day... Like, I would go with my girlfriend somewhere, so like, she'd be shopping or we'd be like, we'd go to Tesco and you find yourself in these periods of dead time where you, you go to check it anyway.

    26. CW

      Mm-hmm.

    27. YU

      So I'd find myself getting it out of my pocket and looking at it and then thinking-

    28. CW

      What an idiot.

    29. YU

      ... "What the fuck am I doing?"

    30. CW

      I mean, that's the, that's the bit-

  13. 1:05:531:08:25

    Practical tactics part 2: hard rules, offline blocks, and tracking reality

    1. JO

      I think the easiest way to do it for me, and this is the, this harks back, I'm sure that if there's anyone who understands habit setting better than I do or we do, that they, there'll, this will be a common tactic. But I made the rule about when I was going out for drinks. If I was on a stint of sobriety and it was my birthday and I knew that I wanted to have some drinks but not too many, I had to set myself a hard line rule.

    2. YU

      Mm.

    3. JO

      And it's the same with the phone. When you're trying to stop yourself from doing something your mind wants to do but in retrospect you don't-

    4. YU

      Mm-hmm.

    5. JO

      ... the, what was it? The current self versus the remembered self. Yeah.

    6. CW

      Um, you need to set very, very hard lines. And one of the easiest ones to do is to say, "Right, up until a particular point I'm not going to look at my phone in the morning."

    7. JO

      The best-

    8. CW

      "After a particular point, I'm not going to look at my phone in the night."

    9. JO

      Yeah. Well, the, the most productive time I've ever had in my life, and I, I don't know why I don't go back to it.

    10. YU

      (laughs) I thought you were gonna say.

    11. JO

      Is when I was, I was no wifi until 3:00 PM.

    12. CW

      How did you do that? Did you not automate that? You literally just went over and flicked the switch?

    13. JO

      Yeah. So just, um, go to bed, turn everything o- turn wifi and connection off on everything. And then next day wake up purely offline, work until 3:00 PM.

    14. CW

      Is... Mm-hmm.

    15. JO

      And then have 30-

    16. CW

      If you're a knowledge worker, you're asked to communicate with other people, that's probably gonna be difficult, isn't it?

    17. JO

      Um, then I would, I would manually turn it on for that one task and then turn it back off again.

    18. CW

      Oh my God.

    19. JO

      Um.

    20. CW

      That is serious.

    21. JO

      And I had a 30-minute allocation for social media, WhatsApp messages-

    22. CW

      Wow.

    23. JO

      ... at 6:00 PM and it was beautiful. It was bar-

    24. CW

      I mean, that is, that is the absolute-... extreme-

    25. JO

      And then I slipped out of the habit, and now my life's a mess.

    26. CW

      So, so- (laughs)

    27. YU

      The, the thing is ... So, I, I, what, what I found, I a- I said to Dan, "What are you doing to-"

    28. CW

      Digital audio.

    29. YU

      ... digital audio broadcasting.

    30. CW

      Broadcasting.

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