Modern WisdomA Hacker In Your Pocket | How Your Smartphone Is Short Circuiting Your Brain
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Why phone addiction is a bigger scandal than data privacy
- CWChris Williamson
(wind blowing) Hi, friends. So it's been a couple of weeks since the last episode. I know that I promised (laughs) I was going to do one every single week, and I've, uh, fallen within the first month of that. However, I have a good excuse. I was away in Palma on a yacht and then in Dubai with my dad. It's a hard life, I know. (laughs) This week I'm sitting down with Yusuf and Johnny from Propain Fitness, and this is probably my most anticipated episode to date. When I say "mine," I mean by myself, not by anybody else. Um, we're gonna be discussing the ethical use of technology and how social networks, social media manipulates our cognitive biases and uses unseen persuasion techniques to keep you on site. Now all of this might sound a little tinfoil-hatty, but I promise you it's not. It is, as far as I'm concerned, probably one of the biggest and most important issues that we've got going on at the moment if you think about how ubiquitous phone use is amongst everybody on the planet. The Cambridge Analytica scandal which recently came out where it turned out that some users on Facebook's data had been illegally acquired and manipulated caused absolute uproar. And all that was happening there was people were being targeted with ads, and some of their data had been stolen. Your phone is stealing your time, and that's the one resource that we can't get any of it back. That, to me, is a much bigger scandal that needs to be spoken about. Our phones are with us more than any partner, any friend, any family member, any pet, probably any other item that we own. They're with us every single step of the way, and they're possessions that we cherish to a degree and that we live our lives through. They're a window between us and the world. They mediate our experience of the external world. And they manipulate our experience and our judgment of other people, both celebrity and friend. It's something that we put an awful lot of faith into. And yet our brains are being hacked by billion-dollar companies, and behind every press of every button on your phone, there is a team of software engineers who have manipulated you into pressing that particular button in order to keep you on site because they need your attention because that is how the money is made on that particular platform. (inhales) So hopefully you'll come out of this understanding the tactics that are being used to keep you on your phone. You'll be more aware of why and how this is happening. And also we will give you some tips and some strategies that you can implement to mitigate the amount of time that you get trapped within your phone. So without further ado, here we go.
- 3:14 – 6:03
Chaotic cold open banter before the real topic begins
- JOJonny
I think someone was selling a dildo on Facebook Marketplace yesterday. Rampant Rabbit.
- YUYusef
Who, that, did you, is that the thing where you said-
- JOJonny
I might, I might've sent it to you both.
- YUYusef
Yeah. You said, "Don't, don't believe when you say it's not being used."
- JOJonny
Yeah. Well, I mean, why, why else are you selling it? Like, who buys-
- YUYusef
Well, because it hasn't been used.
- JOJonny
Maybe it was a gift, and they thought-
- YUYusef
Yeah, they have two of them.
- JOJonny
Hmm. Still, I wouldn't trust it. I would, I mean-
- CWChris Williamson
Someone could have, someone could have been purchased too thinking that they wanted that.
- JOJonny
They bought it online. (laughs)
- CWChris Williamson
And they didn't. They, they overestimated their sexual appetite.
- JOJonny
capacity. I see. So either-
- YUYusef
Or if she's doing it.
- JOJonny
... they double-tapped the Add to Cart button or they tried it, didn't like it. Either way, I'm not putting it in my vagina. I think it's a...
- CWChris Williamson
Well, it's not just the vagina, is it potentially?
- JOJonny
Or, or bum. Yeah, you're right.
- YUYusef
I think you can put it anywhere, and that's what's, that's what's so great about them.
- JOJonny
Yeah, we shouldn't discriminate. I think that's very judgmental of us to assume vagina.
- CWChris Williamson
Judgmental on who? People that prefer anal?
- JOJonny
Yeah.
- YUYusef
People with or without vaginas.
- JOJonny
We need to be nice to...
- CWChris Williamson
Docking. You could use it for docking.
- YUYusef
Docking.
- CWChris Williamson
Use the second one for docking.
- YUYusef
Can you explain in the clearest possible way what docking is?
- JOJonny
It's when a man interpenetrates another man with his...
- YUYusef
With a tool.
- JOJonny
A tool.
- 6:03 – 11:46
From 'Distraction is Destruction' to realizing the game is rigged
- CWChris Williamson
Um, so this is a podcast I've wanted to do for ages, but we keep on having to put it off for different reasons. Um, we did a podcast called Distraction is Destruction.
- JOJonny
Excellent podcast.
- CWChris Williamson
Excellent podcast. Propamedapp.com/ ...
- JOJonny
It's us.
- CWChris Williamson
Forward slash ...
- JOJonny
Uh.
- CWChris Williamson
(laughs)
- JOJonny
Forward slash distraction.
- YUYusef
Don't ask us that.
- JOJonny
I think. We'll, we'll change the link for you guys.
- CWChris Williamson
Yeah. It's-
- JOJonny
I kind of, I kind of remember that.
- YUYusef
That, was that the one with the ... (clicks fingers)
- JOJonny
Yeah. It was.
- CWChris Williamson
With the arm, with the arm things.
- YUYusef
Mm-hmm.
- CWChris Williamson
So basically, we, we all are trying to reduce our phone time. Well, this was, what? About a year ago maybe.
- YUYusef
Mm-hmm.
- CWChris Williamson
Trying to reduce our phone time. And, um, decided to do a podcast on how it felt when we use our phone too much and tactics that you can do to reduce that. That to me felt like my first Christmas. And over the last six months, all of the stuff that I've learned feels like finding out that Santa Claus isn't real.
- YUYusef
(laughs)
- CWChris Williamson
That's-
- YUYusef
As in, it's all a lie to keep you inside and you can't get out?
- CWChris Williamson
Just that-
- JOJonny
The odds are stacked against you with-
- CWChris Williamson
I just entered into this world, like a year ago, of-
- YUYusef
Mm-hmm.
- CWChris Williamson
... phone use is maybe something that I need to consider a little bit more deeply than I have done. And then now, it's just opened up this entire world of cognitive bias manipulation and persuasive techniques, and a whole lot of other stuff. Um, so-
- YUYusef
It's interesting, 'cause I used to really care about it, and I've just resigned to the fact that I don't care.
- CWChris Williamson
I've, I, without exaggeration, this is probably w- one of the top five passionate topics I've got in my life at the moment.
- YUYusef
Really? (laughs)
- 11:46 – 14:37
The Burj Khalifa story: present self vs future self
- CWChris Williamson
really, like, uh, I genuinely don't think that there's a topic which can be more ubiquitous for people to need to know about. Like, at the moment, it's, uh, for me, it's really, really important, and hopefully people find a little bit of value in this. Um, so basically, I think it's like common... I'd say it's commonly accepted amongst almost everybody, even like my mom and my dad know that they probably use their phones a little bit too much.... and a perfect example of this, I couldn't believe it. So I've just been away in Dubai. I was at the top of the Burj Khalifa with my dad who hasn't been on holiday for 17 years. Wow. Right? So I'm nearly a kilometer up in the air, lion's share of a kilometer, 148th floor, largest, tallest building in the world. Lar- um, tallest observatory platform in the world. And we got there. Dad hasn't been on holiday in nearly two decades, right? And we'd flown seven and a half hours and paid however much money and all the rest of it. And I went to the bathroom and I came back out to see that he was sat down on the couch on his phone. (laughs) And I was like, "Dad, what are you doing on m- on your phone?" And he was like, uh, "Oh, I'm just, uh, just answering some work emails." "You do remember that this was your retirement trip, Dad?" (laughs) "Your holiday was for your retirement. You're retiring and you're answering work emails." And I was just like, I mean, what a perfect example. His phone will have buzzed and- Yep. And the thing is ... So the argument is that-
- JOJonny
That little red circle on the-
- CWChris Williamson
... and it pops up.
- JOJonny
... on the app.
- CWChris Williamson
The th- the thing is- Go check it. ... d- d- does he want to check his phone when he's at, uh, the 148th floor of the Burj Khalifa? No. He doesn't want to check his phone. However, he has checked his phone. Does that mean that that's something he wants to do?
- JOJonny
It's wizardry, isn't it? Someone's made you do something that you wouldn't have ... If someone said, "Do you want to check your phone and check-"
- CWChris Williamson
(laughs)
- JOJonny
"... and respond to a work email?" The answer would always be, "No, I don't want to check my phone and respond to my work email." But they've managed to still make you do that.
- CWChris Williamson
You see, that- that's the part where I don't know where I lie on that, because I- I think I do want to check my phone. So I think a lot of the time (laughs) ...
- JOJonny
(laughs)
- CWChris Williamson
Like, I- we- I was in Budapest with Becca and the whole time I've got my phone in my pocket. (laughs) . And if anyone had ever sai- said to me-
- JOJonny
"Do you want to check your phone?"
- CWChris Williamson
... "Jonny mate, have five minutes to yourself. Go over there."
- JOJonny
(laughs) Yes (laughs) .
- CWChris Williamson
(laughs) And I would be like, "Woo-hoo!"
- JOJonny
(laughs)
- CWChris Williamson
(laughs) So I think, I think I'd be okay with it. I think-
- JOJonny
I see what you're saying.
- CWChris Williamson
I understand what you're getting at, but-
- JOJonny
But I- so I think what Tristan was getting at was the- the present self versus future self. And it's like, you sit on your phone and scroll the news feed for half an hour in the morning.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- JOJonny
But then if you were to ask yourself, "Was that time well spent?"
- CWChris Williamson
Got it.
- JOJonny
"Would you have wanted to have spent today half an hour scrolling the news feed?"
- CWChris Williamson
Check. Got it. Especially when you've got to consider, as we say, time is the one resource that you're not gonna get any of it back.
- JOJonny
Yeah, yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
And you specifically, as a person who likes to be as efficient as he can with his day, like, the time that you spend on your phone which isn't contributing-
- 14:37 – 16:36
The attention arms race: autoplay, engagement metrics, and profit
- JOJonny
Mm-hmm.
- CWChris Williamson
... directly to the objectives that you've got to complete that day, who's made you choose? Is it leisure time? Does it count as leisure time? So the question is, and the main, the main question of this is, does it net a positive for you?
- JOJonny
Mm-hmm.
- CWChris Williamson
Because if it nets a positive for you overall, then sweet. But, the problem is, that it's a zero sum game where all different platforms online are competing for our attention. So if YouTube adds autoplay, which they only did within the last 18 months, or last two years, YouTube adds autoplay under the next video, that upped their, um, time on site by between five and 10%.
- JOJonny
YouTube ads or YouTube videos?
- CWChris Williamson
YouTube added.
- JOJonny
Added. Oh, okay. Ads.
- CWChris Williamson
Autoplay of the next- Oh, right. (laughs)
- JOJonny
Ads, with a double D.
- CWChris Williamson
I thought, yeah. I was still- That's just an ad- ... trying to- That's just an advertiser. That's a, that's a market- (laughs) That's a market- (laughs) ... mind there, isn't it? Yeah (laughs) . Um, so YouTube- My eyes. Oh my God, I need- (laughs) . (laughs) . ... to, I need to go and do this. Um- Do we need to- ... YouTube, YouTube added in autoplay the next video, that increased their time on site by five to 10%. There's only so many hours in the day so that five to 10% has come from somewhere. It's either come from someone's spare time or it's been taken from Facebook or Twitter or- Mm-hmm. ... Google or whatever it is. And what that means is that Facebook now needs to do autoplay videos as you scroll down. They need to up their armory. It's like an arms race. Mm-hmm. It's an arms race to see who can use the most number of manipulative cognitive bias, uh, affecting techniques- To get you. ... to get you to stay on site. And the fact of the matter is that the economy reflects the more time that someone spends on a site, the more value that company has. Mm-hmm. Because the revenue is generated through advertising and advertising is mostly based on how much exposure are people gonna get. How much exposure is directly equal to how much time on site. If you can get people to stay on site, irrelevant of whether or not they want to, you make more money. Yeah.
- JOJonny
So-
- CWChris Williamson
A bit shit when you look at it like that.
- JOJonny
The ... An example-
- CWChris Williamson
It is a bit shit.
- 16:36 – 18:00
Why it’s not your fault: dark patterns and engineered rabbit holes
- JOJonny
... that I think, that I think he mentioned in this and it, it definitely catches me every single time.
- CWChris Williamson
(laughs) .
- JOJonny
And this is, th- th- this really hurts my pride because I, I see, I like to see myself as somebody who is-
- CWChris Williamson
Is it the gay porn websites?
- JOJonny
... able to ... It's, it's the gay porn. I every-
- CWChris Williamson
(laughs) .
- JOJonny
Always find myself (laughs) -
- CWChris Williamson
Like, "Bloody hell." (laughs)
- JOJonny
It's, I- I like to pride myself in somebody who can maintain cognitive effort on a single task, having meditated for so long, or at least tried to train for this thing.
- CWChris Williamson
I, you're easily the best person I know at that single thing.
- JOJonny
And yet-
- CWChris Williamson
The best meditator. The b- the best, like single focus. Like, if he's gonna do something- Cal Newport deep work. ... sit and do it, yeah.
- JOJonny
And yet, I am still defenseless against like, "Okay, I need to quickly check when that person's birthday is on Facebook."
- CWChris Williamson
Go on.
- JOJonny
And then 10 minutes later-
- CWChris Williamson
(laughs) .
- JOJonny
... you've closed the tab, you've done-
- CWChris Williamson
(clears throat) .
- JOJonny
... loads of other things and you're like, "Hang on."
- CWChris Williamson
"I didn't even do the thing I went on there for."
- JOJonny
Every time.
- CWChris Williamson
And again, this is, this is not ... The, the, the ... One of the main points I want to get across to you in this podcast is that if this is happening to you, not only is it not just you that it's happening to, but it's not your fault. And I think that-
- JOJonny
Mm-hmm.
- CWChris Williamson
... realizing ... One of the main steps that I think needs to happen is that firstly people need to realize that there is a problem, that if they were to look back at their day and portion out how much time they spend on their phone, that it is a regrettable action. Like, and this isn't me saying that people shouldn't use Facebook and shouldn't use Twitter and shouldn't use Instagram-
- JOJonny
But only-
- CWChris Williamson
... because it does as good.
- JOJonny
... if it gives you a net benefit to do so.
- CWChris Williamson
A net positive, for sure. And there is a-
- JOJonny
But use it consciously, is what you're saying.
- 18:00 – 34:01
Slot machines in your pocket: variable rewards, dopamine, and notification design
- CWChris Williamson
There i- there is a, there is a, um, a Goldilocks zone of how much time you should be spending on there and what you're doing with your time on there as well. But the problem is, that these sites are designed-
- JOJonny
(laughs) .
- CWChris Williamson
... in a way-... to manipulate your cognitive biases so that you do not leave and so that you don't do the thing that you went on there to do, so that you look at the ads, so that you watch the videos, so that you do whatever. So I mean, there's a couple of examples that are really, really good. Variable schedule rewards are the dopamine release technique that slot machines work on. So you press the button, you wait. Something's gonna happen. It's either something good or something that's neutral, usually. Twitter, if you open up Twitter on your phone now, press the button. Now wait.
- JOJonny
(laughs)
- CWChris Williamson
And then you wait for the notifications to load. You'll see that the app loads, then your newsfeed loads, and then your mentions load with a number sometimes.
- JOJonny
Have, have either of you got... 'Cause I don't have Twitter on my phone, so I've never seen this. So tell me.
- CWChris Williamson
I, basically, basically all that happens is there's a, there's a wait. There's a pause between-
- JOJonny
And that's on purpose?
- CWChris Williamson
... you loading up. Yeah. They could program it so that it occurred immediately, but they don't. And the reason is, the amount of time it, it takes for that to load.
- JOJonny
Yes.
- CWChris Williamson
So you've got a loading screen there. Loading.
- JOJonny
God, that is painful, isn't it?
- CWChris Williamson
Yeah.
- JOJonny
When there is.
- CWChris Williamson
Then that'll open, then that'll go, then that'll happen, and then you'll see how many me- mentions you've got that come up. And the reason for that is it is the exact same amount of time wait that a slot machine takes.
- JOJonny
Then you go, "Ooh."
- CWChris Williamson
"Ooh, I've got that."
- JOJonny
then there's the, "Ooh." (laughs)
- CWChris Williamson
"I've got this." Exactly the same on Instagram.
- JOJonny
So that's where the, the, you know, the alarm bell-
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- JOJonny
... became a blast.
- CWChris Williamson
Yeah.
- JOJonny
Yeah. That, that's it. So-
- CWChris Williamson
Exactly. While you wait because it, it's that variable schedule reward-
- JOJonny
That's what you... So Facebook have started doing the same thing.
- CWChris Williamson
... makes you hold your breath. Look at Instagram. Load up Instagram and your newsfeed will load and there will be a half a second wait between that and your, and your mentions and your, um, the red little tab coming up.
- JOJonny
So it's the same tactics that make casinos so compulsive and gambling so addictive, that, um-
- CWChris Williamson
And casinos so profitable for you.
- JOJonny
Yeah. So we, we are addicted to random rewards more so than predictable rewards, which I find absolutely insane. That you... There was a study where they took a bunch of monkeys in a room, gave them, made them do a bunch of tasks, and when they discovered one button to press, it would give them a banana. And they would repeat it and, uh, and when they stopped that from happening, they stopped the, they disconnected the button from the reward, the monkeys kept doing it for a bit and then they stopped. Whereas on another iteration of the study, they gave the monkeys random rewards and the monkeys started to develop weird rituals that they thought were creating the reward.
- 34:01 – 38:58
Outrage, echo chambers, and feed optimization reshaping mood
- CWChris Williamson
Um, and here's, here's one of the big-
- YUYusef
So people need phone macros?
- CWChris Williamson
Yeah, pretty much. Here's one of the big things, and it's that outrage online always travels further than positivity. And because of the way that the newsfeed optimization works, this is specific to Facebook, outrage is more attractive than positivity. That means that you are more likely to click on outrage. All that the computer is then going to start feeding you is more of what you want.
- YUYusef
More outrage.
- CWChris Williamson
Hang on, but, but what about the sweet analogy? I, I, I, I ate the sweets, but I kind of didn't want to eat the sweets, but I did kind of want to eat the sweets. I don't want to click on the outrage. I don't want to be delivered more outrage.
- YUYusef
Mm-hmm.
- CWChris Williamson
But all that the computer's doing is delivering more of what its job is, which is to maximize time on site and to maximize clickthroughs.
- YUYusef
Plus when you have a sweet, I think it creates the immediate desire for mo- another sweet.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- YUYusef
As soon as you've had the sweet, you don't think, "That was lovely. Enough, enough's enough." You think, "That was nice. I'll have another one."
- JOJonny
In fact, that's a really good analogy because we know that your, the bacteria that develop in your gut as a result of certain foods will cause, they'll interact with your brain and cause you to crave more of the same food. And so that's a double-edged sword. As with outrage, that if you consume lots of outrage, that's going to then change your mental environment over time and change the general tone and emotion that you're experi- the mood that you're experiencing throughout the day.
- CWChris Williamson
Well, one of the, one of the-
- JOJonny
The same way people do gratitude journals because they want to fill themselves with positivity-
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- JOJonny
... and-
- CWChris Williamson
One of, one of the main things is that because, because of how Facebook works and because it delivers news to people who they know want to see it, there was a time online where if the word Trump was in an article, it would be top of your newsfeed, irrelevant of what you'd clicked on. There was a brief period where that happened.
- JOJonny
What, so, so Trump just-
- CWChris Williamson
Trump.
- JOJonny
Literally Trump?
- CWChris Williamson
To the top.
- JOJonny
Everything.
- CWChris Williamson
To the top. It literally did.
- JOJonny
Oh, trumped yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
It trumped it. Top Trumps.
- JOJonny
Wow.
- CWChris Williamson
Um, and yeah, Facebook, the thing with Facebook is that because it will get you to click on things that you have a particular cognitive bias towards-
- JOJonny
Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
... it segregates you into these echo chambers online-
- JOJonny
Mm-hmm.
- CWChris Williamson
... with other like-minded people that share the shit that you want to click on-
- 38:58 – 42:04
Profit motives vs ethics: ‘time well spent’ messaging and platform incentives
- CWChris Williamson
Look, look at what's, look at what's the number one news source for most people.
- YUYusef
Is it Facebook?
- CWChris Williamson
Facebook.
- JOJonny
Hmm.
- CWChris Williamson
It's Twi- it's actually Twitter.
- YUYusef
People are finding out-
- CWChris Williamson
Actually-
- YUYusef
... about Facebook news, news leaks-
- CWChris Williamson
On Facebook.
- YUYusef
... data leaks on, on Facebook.
- CWChris Williamson
On Facebook.
- JOJonny
And, and surely Facebook can just remove-
- CWChris Williamson
Just-
- JOJonny
... anything that was news feeds-
- CWChris Williamson
No. No.
- JOJonny
... that mentions ... (cross talk)
- CWChris Williamson
Well, do you remember when, do you remember when Google got pulled for putting their own, um-
- YUYusef
Ads in, yeah, at the top.
- CWChris Williamson
... shopping, uh, things at the top of, of particular lists? There's like, this fair use policy thing, isn't it? Like, where, "Well, this is my platform. I can do-"
- YUYusef
Mm-hmm.
- CWChris Williamson
"... with it what I want." Well, no, actually you're supposed to be, um, neutral in a way. But okay, you're neutral at del- at the content that you deliver, but not neutral at delivering the content?
- YUYusef
Mm-hmm. It's a tough one though, isn't it?
- CWChris Williamson
It is really. It's-
- YUYusef
'Cause in one way, like, they're not a charity. They, you know, they're a business.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- YUYusef
Profit-driven. Like of course they're gonna advertise their own services on their own platform.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- YUYusef
But-
- CWChris Williamson
I think, I think the other thing to consider is as well that everyone believes that, uh, uh, if you were to, if you were to look at this from a, um, a very critical perspective, you would think that all of the guys in Silicon Valley are wearing black hoods and long noses-
- YUYusef
Mm-hmm.
- 42:04 – 47:13
PornHub as an attention-optimization case study (and cultural mirror)
- CWChris Williamson
Should we have a look at some stats on PornHub?
- YUYusef
(laughs)
- JOJonny
So the, I, I want take, I take my hat off to the an- analyst, the analyst.
- CWChris Williamson
Nice.
- JOJonny
Who, hey. (laughs)
- YUYusef
Hey.
- JOJonny
Um, who does the PornHub annual stats-
- YUYusef
They are-
- JOJonny
... 'cause right, they're well-constructed.
- YUYusef
I imagine it's a, it's a data team, I would've thought.
- CWChris Williamson
Ah, probably. (laughs)
- YUYusef
Like it is. It's not a, it's not a bloke with a spreadsheet.
- CWChris Williamson
Just a team.
- YUYusef
Like... (laughs)
- CWChris Williamson
"Bloody hell, mate, you know how much porn we've watched this year?"
- YUYusef
(laughs)
- CWChris Williamson
Um...
- YUYusef
"It's gone up, you know." (laughs)
- CWChris Williamson
Uh, (laughs) what, what has?
- YUYusef
(laughs) Precisely.
- CWChris Williamson
28, 28.5 billion annual visits to PornHub. This is the most interesting stat, right? 28.5-
- JOJonny
That's only four per year per person.
- YUYusef
... four what?
- JOJonny
Four visits per year per person.
- CWChris Williamson
That's presuming that all seven million-
- JOJonny
Every person.
- YUYusef
This is every person in the world-
- CWChris Williamson
... seven, every person on the planet is accessing PornHub.
- JOJonny
Including newborns and- (laughs)
- YUYusef
(laughs) Yeah. People on their deathbed.
- 47:13 – 52:35
Practical tactics part 1: environment design (sleep, mornings, screens, notifications)
- CWChris Williamson
So, uh, right. Let's do some reductions of phone use strategies, 'cause mine have developed since last year-
- JOJonny
Have they?
- CWChris Williamson
... since we last did that. My, my main one-
- YUYusef
What's developed?
- CWChris Williamson
My, my, my main one is that when you are in, in, in an inertial frame of reference, the likelihood of you staying on your phone is higher. So if you're lying down, it's more likely than if you're sitting. And if you're sitting, it's more likely than if you're standing. And if you're standing, it's more likely than if you're walking. Uh, so the fact is-
- YUYusef
Jumping. Flying.
- CWChris Williamson
... jumping. Yeah, yeah. Flying.
- YUYusef
(laughs)
- CWChris Williamson
Flying, flapping, fapping.
- JOJonny
Snatching.
- CWChris Williamson
Fapping.
- YUYusef
Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
Snatching. Do not try and snatch with-
- JOJonny
Chin-ups.
- CWChris Williamson
... unless you're Dmitry Kokov.
- YUYusef
Uh, it's impossible, isn't it? To use your phone while you're doing a chin-up.
- JOJonny
It depends how strong you are.
- CWChris Williamson
One-handed chin-up, fine. Um, basically-
- YUYusef
Deadlift.
- JOJonny
Oh, yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
Deadlift.
- YUYusef
Deadlift.
- CWChris Williamson
Deadlift.
- YUYusef
Impossible.
- CWChris Williamson
Um, basically, don't use your phone, don't use your phone when you're in a inertial frame of reference. So if you are, um... (laughs) Yusuf's just trapped his between his chin and his... Between his beard, his Arab beard.
- YUYusef
What's it, what's he trapped?
- CWChris Williamson
His phone.
- YUYusef
Oh right.
- JOJonny
(laughs)
- CWChris Williamson
His penis.
- 52:35 – 1:05:53
Extreme option: the ‘shit phone’ day and confronting boredom
- YUYusef
Um, so the one, I mean, you both experienced when I went through my phase with my shit phone.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- YUYusef
I think for me, that is the one that I would aspire to, to be at.
- CWChris Williamson
Briefly explain that.
- YUYusef
So I bought a £20 phone on Amazon which is the most basic phone you can imagine. Oh, it has a torch.
- JOJonny
What did he call it again?
- YUYusef
Shit phone.
- JOJonny
The, the bharsta.
- YUYusef
Oh yeah. (laughs)
- CWChris Williamson
(laughs) The, the bharsta.
- JOJonny
You motherfucking bastard.
- YUYusef
Yeah, the bharsta. Um, so-
- JOJonny
B-H-A-R-S-T-A.
- YUYusef
So, which is a reference to a YouTube video 'cause we all spend too much time on YouTube.
- CWChris Williamson
On YouTube that we can actually reference something like that.
- JOJonny
150 million views alone.
- YUYusef
I, if anyone would like access to the funniest collection of YouTube videos, I, I, that is no exaggeration. Youssef's, how many? 700?
- CWChris Williamson
Probably, uh-
- YUYusef
Like, it is curated content, like it is really high quality content.
- CWChris Williamson
That's time well spent.
- YUYusef
That is time excellently spent. Excellently well spent?
- CWChris Williamson
Fine.
- YUYusef
So yeah, um, and for a 24-hour period once a week, take your SIM card out of your iPhone or, or your Android and put it into the shit phone. And then you wake up the next day and it is weird.
- CWChris Williamson
What were the barriers that you found for that strategy?
- YUYusef
So you, so the hard- the hardest thing is or was, day... Like, I would go with my girlfriend somewhere, so like, she'd be shopping or we'd be like, we'd go to Tesco and you find yourself in these periods of dead time where you, you go to check it anyway.
- CWChris Williamson
Mm-hmm.
- YUYusef
So I'd find myself getting it out of my pocket and looking at it and then thinking-
- CWChris Williamson
What an idiot.
- YUYusef
... "What the fuck am I doing?"
- CWChris Williamson
I mean, that's the, that's the bit-
- 1:05:53 – 1:08:25
Practical tactics part 2: hard rules, offline blocks, and tracking reality
- JOJonny
I think the easiest way to do it for me, and this is the, this harks back, I'm sure that if there's anyone who understands habit setting better than I do or we do, that they, there'll, this will be a common tactic. But I made the rule about when I was going out for drinks. If I was on a stint of sobriety and it was my birthday and I knew that I wanted to have some drinks but not too many, I had to set myself a hard line rule.
- YUYusef
Mm.
- JOJonny
And it's the same with the phone. When you're trying to stop yourself from doing something your mind wants to do but in retrospect you don't-
- YUYusef
Mm-hmm.
- JOJonny
... the, what was it? The current self versus the remembered self. Yeah.
- CWChris Williamson
Um, you need to set very, very hard lines. And one of the easiest ones to do is to say, "Right, up until a particular point I'm not going to look at my phone in the morning."
- JOJonny
The best-
- CWChris Williamson
"After a particular point, I'm not going to look at my phone in the night."
- JOJonny
Yeah. Well, the, the most productive time I've ever had in my life, and I, I don't know why I don't go back to it.
- YUYusef
(laughs) I thought you were gonna say.
- JOJonny
Is when I was, I was no wifi until 3:00 PM.
- CWChris Williamson
How did you do that? Did you not automate that? You literally just went over and flicked the switch?
- JOJonny
Yeah. So just, um, go to bed, turn everything o- turn wifi and connection off on everything. And then next day wake up purely offline, work until 3:00 PM.
- CWChris Williamson
Is... Mm-hmm.
- JOJonny
And then have 30-
- CWChris Williamson
If you're a knowledge worker, you're asked to communicate with other people, that's probably gonna be difficult, isn't it?
- JOJonny
Um, then I would, I would manually turn it on for that one task and then turn it back off again.
- CWChris Williamson
Oh my God.
- JOJonny
Um.
- CWChris Williamson
That is serious.
- JOJonny
And I had a 30-minute allocation for social media, WhatsApp messages-
- CWChris Williamson
Wow.
- JOJonny
... at 6:00 PM and it was beautiful. It was bar-
- CWChris Williamson
I mean, that is, that is the absolute-... extreme-
- JOJonny
And then I slipped out of the habit, and now my life's a mess.
- CWChris Williamson
So, so- (laughs)
- YUYusef
The, the thing is ... So, I, I, what, what I found, I a- I said to Dan, "What are you doing to-"
- CWChris Williamson
Digital audio.
- YUYusef
... digital audio broadcasting.
- CWChris Williamson
Broadcasting.
Episode duration: 1:13:18
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