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Modern WisdomHow Narcissists Hijack Your Brain - Dr Peter Salerno
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EPISODE INFO
- Released
- March 7, 2026
- Duration
- 1h 45m
- Channel
- Modern Wisdom
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EPISODE DESCRIPTION
Dr Peter Salerno is a social psychologist, professor, and researcher. Why are narcissists so manipulative? At some point in your life, you’ve probably encountered a narcissist. They can take control of a situation so subtly that before you realise it, you’re caught under their influence. So how can you spot a narcissist early, and what can you do to protect yourself from their manipulation? Expect to learn why people repeatedly tend to hurt others deliberately, which parts of the brain are actually involved in empathy and self-control, why the idea that “hurt people hurt people” is so attractive, why narcissists often pull someone close and then suddenly push them away, how to spot when flirting or drama turn into manipulation, if someone can be genuinely in emotional pain and still choose to hurt others and much more… - 0:00 How Peter Discovered His Niche 3:31 The Personality Types That Create the Most Conflict 10:05 What Actually Causes Cluster B Disorders? 12:54 Is Antagonistic Behaviour in Our Genes? 17:42 How Have Cluster B Traits Evolved Over Time? 21:54 The Neurology Behind Disordered Personalities 31:06 Are Narcissists Constantly Devaluing Everything? 39:48 Are Personality Disorders Intentional? 43:48 Are There Other Cluster Disorders? 46:50 Why “Hurt People Hurt People” Is So Compelling 53:30 What is Narcissism Really About? 01:02:00 Are Narcissists Just as Dangerous as Psychopaths? 01:04:55 Which Disordered Personalities Often Appear Together? 01:09:21 The Toughest Personality Disorder to Treat 01:12:38 How Real Change Happens in Personality Disorders 01:18:58 Who Gets Tangled into Disordered Relationships? 01:24:11 How Sexuality is Utilised in Personality Disorders 01:28:26 Things Cluster B Personalities Would Never Do 01:32:43 How to Produce a Cluster B Personality 01:38:15 How Likely Are We to Be Histrionic? 01:40:16 What Are the Biggest Sex Difference in Personality Disorders? 01:44:53 Where to Find Peter - Get a Free Sample Pack of LMNT’s most popular flavours with your first purchase at https://drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom Get 35% off your first subscription on the best supplements from Momentous at https://livemomentous.com/modernwisdom Get 15% off your first order of my favourite Non-Alcoholic Brew at https://athleticbrewing.com/modernwisdom New pricing since recording: Function is now just $365, plus get $25 off at https://functionhealth.com/modernwisdom - Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic here - https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch in the comments below or head to... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/
SPEAKERS
Chris Williamson
hostDr. Peter Salerno
guest
EPISODE SUMMARY
In this episode of Modern Wisdom, featuring Chris Williamson and Dr. Peter Salerno, How Narcissists Hijack Your Brain - Dr Peter Salerno explores How Cluster B personalities manipulate, evolve, and resist change therapeutically Salerno describes his work helping people recover “reality confidence” after toxic relationships, framing the aftermath as traumatic cognitive dissonance created by sustained deception and coercive narrative control.
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