This Is What Billionaires Regret Before Dying - Noah Kagan

Noah Kagan is an entrepreneur, founder of AppSumo and a YouTuber. Does money make you happy? What about a lot of money? Like billions of dollars a lot of money. Noah has spent years around some of the richest people in the world and deconstructed some of their biggest regrets, thinking patterns and hacks for success. Expect to learn the most common traits of super-rich people, the advice Noah wished people would stop talking about, why having a day job can be riskier than starting your own business, how much money Noah spent on coaches, his best tips on how to overcome self-doubt and much more… - 00:00 When Chris Emailed Noah in 2019 08:42 The Pitfalls of Leverage 11:34 Common Traits of Very Wealthy People 16:40 Finding a Specific Niche to Focus on 19:57 Taking a Less Aggressive Strategy in Business 25:53 Is Wealth Worth it? 30:38 The Biggest Regrets of Rich People 35:24 How to Enjoy the Journey of Success More 46:07 Having Faith in Your Mission 51:52 When Can Success Be Enough? 1:02:01 Noah’s Experience With Coaches 1:10:20 Believing That Your Situation is Unique 1:19:56 How We Shift Our Own Narratives 1:24:26 Why Money Isn’t a Good Enough Goal 1:27:28 The Greater Risk of Inaction 1:36:58 Being Comfortable With Asking & Rejection 1:43:29 Where to Find Noah - Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic here - https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch in the comments below or head to... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/

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Mar 22, 20241h 46mWatch on YouTube ↗

WHAT IT’S REALLY ABOUT

Billionaires’ Regrets, Real Wealth, And Starting Businesses Without Excuses

Chris Williamson and Noah Kagan explore the psychology behind ambition, success, and fulfillment, using Noah’s experiences with billionaires, AppSumo, and his new book ‘Million Dollar Weekend’ as anchors.
They contrast obsessive perfectionism versus ‘move fast’ experimentation, emphasizing that most people quit too early and spread themselves too thin instead of going deep on one winning thing.
Noah shares patterns he’s seen in billionaires: they focus on one big market for decades, often at the cost of family and contentment, and many privately regret neglecting relationships.
The conversation closes on practical courage: shrinking fear through small “asks,” re-framing rejection, using coaches, and building a life that balances world‑class work with inner peace.

IDEAS WORTH REMEMBERING

5 ideas

Play to your natural strengths instead of copying others’ styles.

Chris accepts that he’s slow and detail‑oriented rather than a ‘move fast, break things’ founder; by leaning into that, he wins “in the weeds” instead of trying to compete on speed he doesn’t naturally have.

Most success comes from going deep on one thing for a long time.

Noah notes that every billionaire he’s worked with became rich from a single focus (e.g., Kinko’s, Facebook, Patron) pursued over decades, not from constant diversification or serial “quick wins.”

Stick with what’s working and quit what isn’t—fast.

They argue people invert persistence: they cling to failing ideas for years but abandon promising ones too early. Test quickly, then double down for years once you see real pull from the market.

Protect motivation through the hardest, lowest‑reward early phase.

Drawing on Paul Graham, Chris points out that starting requires huge energy for minimal results; without support, celebrating small wins, and systems, you risk arriving at success with zero motivation left.

Rejection and asking are trainable skills that unlock opportunity.

Noah’s ‘coffee challenge’ (ask for a 10% discount) and his DocuSign experiment show that practicing small, safe asks shrinks fear, normalizes ‘no,’ and directly leads to customers and revenue.

WORDS WORTH SAVING

5 quotes

Perfectionism is procrastination masquerading as quality control.

— Chris Williamson

All the billionaires I’ve worked with got rich on one thing.

— Noah Kagan

I’m not here just to make so much money that I can have the nicest cemetery grave.

— Noah Kagan

If you would do this thing for free, you will win, because the person that loves walking will way outwalk the person who has to walk.

— Chris Williamson

The magic you are looking for is in the work you’re avoiding.

— Chris Williamson

Persistence, follow‑up, and detail‑orientation vs. moving fast and breaking thingsStarting and compounding creative or business projects over years, not monthsCommon traits and hidden regrets of billionaires and ultra‑wealthy foundersFinding and sticking with one scalable opportunity in a growing marketFear of asking, rejection therapy, and building the ‘ask’ muscleInternal vs. external validation, self‑criticism, and contentmentUsing coaching, therapy, and deliberate discomfort for personal growth

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