Understanding the Psychology of Perfectionism - Dr Paul Hewitt

Dr Paul Hewitt is a clinical psychologist, professor, and leading researcher on perfectionism. Why do so many of us struggle with perfectionism? For some, it started in childhood—but its impact as an adult can be exhausting. So how do you actually break the cycle and get comfortable with things being imperfect? Expect to learn what the archetypal perfectionist is and how they became themselves, the behaviour of a perfectionist and how to differentiate between productive and toxic perfectionism, if perfectionism is related to burnout, why having high standards might not be a great thing, how to get out of the perfectionism trap, and much more… - 0:00 The Traumas That Create Perfectionists 7:11 Inside Their Minds: An Imperfect Nightmare 16:30 Will Anything Ever Be Enough? 27:10 The Three Levels of Perfectionist Hell 32:51 The Link to Depression 38:23 The World Sees Through Your Mask 45:49 Performance Enhancer or Toxic Fuel? 54:08 The Standards That Kill Healthy Relationships 59:58 Why Imperfection Feels Like Failure 01:08:48 The First Steps to Healing 01:19:00 If You Have a Perfectionist in Your Life... 01:23:55 Dive Deeper - Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic here - https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch in the comments below or head to... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/