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Why Is Everyone So Anxious & Avoidant? - Connor Beaton

Connor Beaton is a men’s life coach, founder of ManTalks and an author focusing on men’s wellness and personal growth. Attachment styles are the hot new idea to understand how we relate and connect to others. Today we get a great overview of the entire field, an understanding of the limitations of Attachment Theory and practical insights on how to improve yours. Expect to learn how to identify what your attachment style is, where the core of attachment comes from, which attachment style suits you most and what sort of partner you should be looking for, how to move out of an anxious attachment style, how to cope with someone who is disregulated in their attachment, evidence-based suggestions to improve attachment and much more... - 00:00 What is Attachment Theory? 05:15 Why Is This Useful in Evolution? 12:53 How Attachment Styles Are Formed 23:07 Attachment Before & After 18 Months 26:15 How to Discover Your Own Style 30:47 The Core of Anxious Attachment 34:42 Tactics to Regulate Anxious Attachment 46:31 Is Anxious Attachment More in Women? 53:27 Understanding Avoidant Attachment 1:03:11 What Does Being Avoidant Feel Like? 1:12:29 How to Regulate Avoidant Attachment 1:24:49 Can You Improve Attachment on Your Own? 1:30:18 Having a Foggy Memory of Childhood 1:35:48 How to Help an Anxious/Avoidant Partner 1:42:44 Where to Find Connor - Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic here - https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch in the comments below or head to... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/

Chris WilliamsonhostConnor Beatonguest
May 9, 20241h 43mWatch on YouTube ↗

CHAPTERS

  1. 0:00 – 5:15

    What is Attachment Theory?

  2. 5:15 – 12:53

    Why Is This Useful in Evolution?

  3. 12:53 – 23:07

    How Attachment Styles Are Formed

  4. 23:07 – 26:15

    Attachment Before & After 18 Months

  5. 26:15 – 30:47

    How to Discover Your Own Style

  6. 30:47 – 34:42

    The Core of Anxious Attachment

  7. 34:42 – 46:31

    Tactics to Regulate Anxious Attachment

  8. 46:31 – 53:27

    Is Anxious Attachment More in Women?

  9. 53:27 – 1:03:11

    Understanding Avoidant Attachment

  10. 1:03:11 – 1:12:29

    What Does Being Avoidant Feel Like?

  11. 1:12:29 – 1:24:49

    How to Regulate Avoidant Attachment

  12. 1:24:49 – 1:30:18

    Can You Improve Attachment on Your Own?

  13. 1:30:18 – 1:35:48

    Having a Foggy Memory of Childhood

  14. 1:35:48 – 1:42:44

    How to Help an Anxious/Avoidant Partner

  15. 1:42:44 – 1:43:58

    Where to Find Connor

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