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You Attract What You Think You Deserve - Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey is the world’s #1 dating coach, a YouTuber, public speaker and an author. Navigating modern love can feel like solving an impossible puzzle, but in truth, there are specific skills and tips that can elevate your romantic life. Matthew has spent 15 years coaching millions of men and women through their relationship struggles, and today we get his best insights. Expect to learn if dating coaches are actually any easier to date, whether love should feel easy or if we need to become stronger, how you can realise the behaviours that are making you miserable, why being single is so hard for many people, the biggest problem with avoiders, how to get better at having a hard conversation and much more... - 00:00 Are Dating Coaches Hard to Date? 06:13 How We Use Dating to Make Us Feel Better 10:21 Flipping Between Comforting & Inspiring Relationships 20:03 How We Condition Ourselves to Feel Love & Peace 30:01 Overcoming Imposter Syndrome Through Working Hard 36:23 Why the Internet Isn’t Talking About Love Anymore 48:28 Being Comfortable With Healthy Love 52:28 Feeling Guilty About Having Needs 1:01:37 How to Become Better at Hard Conversations 1:08:35 The Downsides of Being a Fixer 1:18:18 How to Communicate When You’re in the Wrong 1:28:07 Why Men Bottle Up Their Trauma 1:48:50 Working Hard to Rewire Your Thinking 1:55:34 Where to Find Matthew Get a 35% discount on all Cozy Earth products at http://www.cozyearth.com/modernwisdom (discount automatically applied) Get a Free Sample Pack of all LMNT Flavours with your first box at https://www.drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom (automatically applied at checkout) Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic here - https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch in the comments below or head to... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/

Chris WilliamsonhostMatthew Husseyguest
Apr 1, 20241h 58mWatch on YouTube ↗

CHAPTERS

  1. 0:00 – 6:13

    Are Dating Coaches Hard to Date?

  2. 6:13 – 10:21

    How We Use Dating to Make Us Feel Better

  3. 10:21 – 20:03

    Flipping Between Comforting & Inspiring Relationships

  4. 20:03 – 30:01

    How We Condition Ourselves to Feel Love & Peace

  5. 30:01 – 36:23

    Overcoming Imposter Syndrome Through Working Hard

  6. 36:23 – 48:28

    Why the Internet Isn’t Talking About Love Anymore

  7. 48:28 – 52:28

    Being Comfortable With Healthy Love

  8. 52:28 – 1:01:37

    Feeling Guilty About Having Needs

  9. 1:01:37 – 1:08:35

    How to Become Better at Hard Conversations

  10. 1:08:35 – 1:18:18

    The Downsides of Being a Fixer

  11. 1:18:18 – 1:28:07

    How to Communicate When You’re in the Wrong

  12. 1:28:07 – 1:48:50

    Why Men Bottle Up Their Trauma

  13. 1:48:50 – 1:55:34

    Working Hard to Rewire Your Thinking

  14. 1:55:34 – 1:58:54

    Where to Find Matthew

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