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My First Million10 Lessons We Learned From Filming 131 Episodes of My First Million In 2023
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100M-view milestone, episode workload, and how the show fits their business lives
Shaan and Sam open with a provocative hook, then react to the scale of the show’s year—nearly 100 million views and 131 episodes. They explain why the podcast stays fun: it works best when it’s a byproduct of doing interesting business activities they can then distill into episodes.
- •They recap the year’s headline: roughly 95M total views/downloads with 10 days left in the year
- •131 episodes is a lot of work, but they compare the process to exercising—hard to start, usually satisfying after
- •Shaan says the podcast is easiest when it’s downstream of investing, building, and talking to interesting people
- •They note some strong episodes come from last-minute ideas and improvisation
Platform breakdown and what actually drove top episodes
Sam shares detailed distribution stats across YouTube and the podcast RSS feed, then compares the top-performing episodes on each platform. They discuss why some titles are inherently clickable and how YouTube and audio audiences behave differently.
- •YouTube accounts for the majority of the year’s views, with the RSS feed contributing the remainder
- •Top episodes differ between YouTube and podcast apps, with some overlap
- •They attribute performance partly to strong, clickable titles—and delivering on the promise
- •Sam suspects the Dharmesh Shah episode’s success may have been amplified by his promotion
Growing YouTube: the "gentleman’s agreement" and making calls-to-action less cringe
They describe how explicitly asking viewers to subscribe noticeably increased subscriber growth. Shaan explains their approach to doing “cringe” creator tactics in a playful, non-cringe way, including the “gentleman’s agreement” and “Thrill of the Shill,” while Sam admits they failed by not being consistent.
- •They saw a clear chart change when they started asking for subscriptions
- •Shaan resisted typical creator CTAs and instead reframed it as a "gentleman’s agreement"
- •They also reframed ad reads as “Thrill of the Shill” to make promos fun for hosts and listeners
- •Sam says novelty faded and they became inconsistent, forcing them to invent new bits
Base hits beat home runs: consistency as the hidden growth engine
Shaan contrasts his tendency to chase big viral moments with others who win through steady output. Using Twitter growth examples, he concludes consistency scales better and credits the podcast’s discipline—driven by Sam’s structure—for the show’s reliable progress.
- •Shaan describes the show’s growth as steady with few spikes—“tortoise, not the hare”
- •He compares different Twitter growth styles: controversy, cookie-cutter consistency, and viral swings
- •He admits his “home run” approach required pulling rabbits out of a hat and couldn’t be repeated often
- •He credits their fixed recording cadence for avoiding the pitfalls of irregular output
The "Like what?" test—did you actually learn the right lesson?
Shaan shares a question he heard from Chris, Andrew Wilkinson’s business partner, that changed how he evaluates “lessons learned.” The question—“Like what?”—exposes when people haven’t distilled real takeaways, or when they’ve internalized the wrong lesson from a success or failure.
- •Chris challenges the default narrative that failure automatically produces learning
- •When pressed, many people can’t name specific lessons—or reveal they learned the wrong one
- •Shaan applies it to his own year: virality made him believe he didn’t need consistency
- •He says spotting the correct takeaway is rarer than people assume
Is social-media popularity worth it? Choosing the “thinker” path intentionally
Sam questions whether chasing social media scale is worth it, especially for people who could stay private. Shaan responds that for many it’s a “stupid game,” but for him the goal is different: becoming a “thinker” who learns, synthesizes, and teaches—making content a natural output.
- •Sam argues many successful people may be better off staying private rather than pursuing followers
- •Shaan says chasing popularity can turn life into performance for an audience that doesn’t really know you
- •He clarifies his motivation: he wants a career built around learning and teaching, not fame for its own sake
- •They align on choosing the right game rather than defaulting into it
Getting uncomfortable negotiating: Sam’s contract renegotiation lessons
Sam recounts renegotiating post-acquisition arrangements and how Shaan took the lead. Sam initially felt Shaan was being difficult and overly detailed, but later recognized the value of being willing to sit in discomfort, sweat specifics, and shape outcomes by understanding the other side’s needs.
- •Sam describes himself as conflict-averse and prone to leaving money and terms on the table
- •Shaan insisted on many revisions and word-level contract changes, which Sam initially judged as rude
- •They emphasize enduring discomfort longer instead of “pushing the button” to end the pain quickly
- •Sam connects it to sales: ask what the other side wants and tailor a solution to their needs
Real estate and taxes: realizing taxes are the biggest expense
Shaan says his income rose significantly, but he neglected tax planning and felt regret. He describes finally acting on tax strategy late in the year by investing with someone he trusts in real estate, motivated in part by a conversation with Jess Ma about the importance of dedicating real attention to taxes.
- •Shaan says taxes became his largest expense once income increased, and he didn’t plan enough
- •He pursued a real-estate investment primarily for both returns and depreciation-related tax benefits
- •He credits Jess Ma’s framing: not spending time on taxes can be “financially irresponsible”
- •He notes the hardest part is access to good deals, and his edge was a long relationship with a proven operator
Loose cannon vs. measured reputation: why Sam is pulling back
Sam explains his shift away from being a “loose cannon” who says provocative things for attention. After seeing how high-profile personalities attract drama and become targets, he says he wants to protect reputation and privacy, avoid fights with haters, and stop feeding online conflict cycles.
- •Sam says being outrageous can drive clicks, but scaling that persona increases risk and stress
- •He contrasts public approaches: a loud, controversy-friendly style versus measured, reputation-conscious guests
- •He says he’s no longer willing to live a life of constant public battles and targeting
- •Shaan is cited as handling online flare-ups without escalating engagement
Curating upmarket deal flow: resisting the temptation to go downmarket for views
Shaan shares advice from James Currier about being “in the middle” and making a strategic choice to go upmarket rather than chase mass appeal. They discuss how “downmarket” topics may get higher views, but upmarket content can attract higher-value relationships and opportunities—treating content as a magnet, not just an audience builder.
- •James Currier advises them to choose direction intentionally and warns it’s tempting to go downmarket
- •Shaan contrasts upmarket content aimed at a smaller, ambitious audience with broad beginner-focused hustle content
- •They acknowledge downmarket titles can win on analytics but may dilute brand and long-term interest
- •They discuss treating content as a magnet to attract the “right people,” even with fewer views
Choosing the game and playing it hard: the podcast’s core ethos
Sam and Shaan articulate what they want the show to represent: there are many valid paths to success. They celebrate guests who intentionally choose a path—whether venture-scale, small business, or content—and execute with excellence, aiming to make success feel abundant and accessible rather than scarce and mysterious.
- •They admire people who choose a specific game intentionally and then commit fully
- •Examples are used to illustrate different “games,” including content, entrepreneurship, and unconventional business paths
- •Sam argues there isn’t one standard Silicon Valley path; many routes can work
- •Shaan says hearing many models reduces scarcity mindset and helps listeners pick a path and start playing
You’ll always want more: ambition, infinite games, and practicing emotional states
They close with reflections on desire and achievement, drawing from guests like Scott Galloway and Morgan Housel to argue that wanting more is normal. Shaan reframes it through finite vs. infinite games and adds a theory that emotional states are practiced habits—suggesting people must practice contentment rather than expect money to automatically change how they feel.
- •Sam says nearly everyone—regardless of wealth—still wants more, and satisfaction is often temporary
- •He argues wanting more isn’t inherently bad, but can be pursued in healthy or unhealthy ways
- •Shaan reframes ambition as an “infinite game,” where scorekeeping adds fun but doesn’t end the desire to play
- •Shaan suggests stress persists because people have practiced it; he references Tony Robbins’ “emotional home” idea
Publisher timestamps
- 0:00Intro
- 5:00Shill without shame
- 9:30Base hits over home runsRead this chapter
- 15:00Question of the year: Like what?
- 19:30Get uncomfortable negotiatingRead this chapter
- 23:00Real estate for tax savingsRead this chapter from 23:01
- 27:30Loose cannon, loose resultsRead this chapter
- 32:00Curate up market deal flowRead this chapter
- 41:00Choose the game; play the sh*t out of itRead this chapter
- 47:00You will always want more
