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The 6 Traits Of A Successful Entrepreneur (#431)

Episode 431: Sam Parr and entrepreneur, Nick Huber, talk about traits of successful entrepreneurs, a new powerful sales trick, how to run multiple businesses at a time, and more.

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Mar 16, 20231h 3mWatch on YouTube

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  1. Nick returns: how the show’s audience changed his business pipeline

    Nick explains how prior appearances on the podcast created outsized network effects and direct business leads. Sam shares how high-net-worth listeners kept talking about Nick and wanted introductions, underscoring the reach of the show.

    • •Nick says earlier episodes “blew up” his life and business opportunities
    • •Support Shepherd received 200+ leads from business owners after the last appearance
    • •Nick lists other businesses that also got inbound interest (RE Cost Seg and WebRun)
    • •Sam recounts wealthy entrepreneurs discussing the episode and asking to meet Nick
    • •They discuss the real impact of a large audience despite recording from small home setups
  2. The anxiety of live events and why getting people to show up is hard

    Nick describes hosting an upcoming live event and the stress of selling tickets and performing live. Sam compares it to his long grind building in-person communities and events, emphasizing how live events expose you in ways the internet doesn’t.

    • •Nick says live events add a new level of stress and anxiety
    • •Sam recounts building the Anti-MBA book club into larger events over years
    • •Sam describes how early live podcasts were small and not great, then improved
    • •They contrast easy podcast listening with the friction of attending in person
    • •Nick notes the challenge of getting people to buy tickets, travel, and socialize
  3. Framing the episode: traits of “10Xers” and building companies by assembling people

    Nick sets the topic: what makes successful entrepreneurs and high-performing operators inside organizations. He argues that companies are simply groups of people, and identifying and assembling the best people can quickly create value.

    • •Nick defines “entrepreneur” broadly as someone who leads inside an organization
    • •He claims a minority of workers generate outsized returns compared to most
    • •He frames the discussion as a practical guide to building companies
    • •Nick emphasizes tracking down killers/“10Xers” and putting them together
    • •Sam agrees and pivots into his own hiring traits
  4. Trait: emotional stability + urgency/speed as the engine

    Sam says he looks for emotionally stable teammates to balance his own intensity, while Nick argues that energy and urgency separate top performers from people who move in “slow motion.” They explore how urgency shows up in business and even personal life.

    • •Sam prioritizes emotionally stable people who don’t get dragged down by highs/lows
    • •Nick values high energy and fast decision-making as foundational
    • •Sam references a book’s focus on “sense of urgency” as a success driver
    • •Sam shares his personal “five second rule” for acting quickly
    • •Nick argues action is uncomfortable, making passivity the default for many
  5. Trait: recruiting winners from the “80% middle” and selling the mission

    Nick lays out a recruiting model: only a small portion are actively job hunting, while most strong candidates are employed and not looking. Both describe how they pitch opportunities by learning a candidate’s goals and tailoring a vision that helps them win.

    • •Nick breaks candidates into career nirvana, active seekers, and the large middle
    • •Nick says every “10Xer” he hired came from the not-looking-but-open middle
    • •Nick describes recruiting as sales: convincing people to leave good jobs
    • •Sam explains his approach: learn the person’s goals and pitch around helping them achieve them
    • •Nick describes a “motivational interview” where candidates narrate their ideal future
  6. Trait: follow-through and testing it with real work

    Sam and Nick argue that follow-through is rare and hard to train. They describe screening by looking for evidence of completed projects and by giving small real tasks that quickly reveal who executes and who doesn’t.

    • •Sam says follow-through is one of the hardest traits to find
    • •He looks for proof of action: live projects, sales, channels, or organized groups
    • •Nick describes giving a quick task to test responsiveness and execution
    • •Sam describes asking applicants to produce an actual output (like a video or an email)
    • •They frame these tests as getting a preview into how someone thinks and works
  7. Trait: clear communication, taste, and culture fit

    Nick emphasizes concise communication as a key indicator of competence. Sam adds that taste and intelligence matter, and he probes by asking what content people consume and by focusing on the “bottom fourth” of a resume to understand who someone really is.

    • •Nick looks for people who can communicate clearly and get to the point fast
    • •Sam says he evaluates intelligence and “taste,” including emotional intelligence
    • •Sam asks what candidates read, follow, and consume to understand their judgment
    • •He uses the bottom of the resume (hobbies/classes) as a conversation test
    • •They discuss how people may try to say what the interviewer wants to hear
  8. Making others good: delegation, leadership, and why writing matters (plus copywork)

    Nick claims the true “10Xer” is someone who can make other people good at their jobs through leadership and delegation. He ties that to copywriting and written communication, and they discuss Sam’s copywriting course and the practice of copywork as a learning method.

    • •Nick says being great at your job pays, but making others great makes you a 10Xer
    • •He argues delegators who can lead teams prevent bottlenecks
    • •Nick links leadership to copywriting and written clarity in modern business
    • •Sam explains “copywork” and why copying great writing patterns teaches style and structure
    • •Nick says delegating requires selling the work so people want to do it
  9. A powerful sales trick: flip the script by leading with downsides

    Nick outlines his preferred sales approach: briefly prove professionalism, then emphasize risks and downsides, and ask the other person why it still makes sense. He gives examples for hiring and investor conversations, and Sam notes he uses the tactic too.

    • •Nick criticizes pushy, benefit-only selling as ineffective in a world of many options
    • •He recommends discussing concerns, risks, and what could go wrong
    • •Nick asks prospects to justify the decision, turning them into the salesperson
    • •Example: pitching a hard agency role by emphasizing uncertainty and time-to-revenue
    • •Example: pitching investors by focusing on downside scenarios before asking why they invest
  10. Funding and building multiple new businesses by partnering with proven operators

    They shift into how Nick launches multiple ventures without doing everything himself. Nick shares specific startup funding amounts for different projects and describes offering guaranteed income to recruit a high-performing partner from a lucrative banking job.

    • •Nick lists early funding levels for ventures (including Recruit Jet and WebRun)
    • •Sam compares the approach to a builder who funds ideas for a fixed time window
    • •Nick explains Recruit Jet’s plan and why the key recruiter won’t quit until first contract
    • •Nick describes a debt brokerage concept and the need to recruit a top loan officer
    • •Nick says he may personally guarantee significant runway to de-risk the partner’s move
  11. The SJW tweet controversy: politics, hiring risk, and evaluating how people spend attention

    Sam asks about Nick’s tweet on avoiding hiring “social justice warriors,” and they unpack definitions and reactions. Nick says he wants to avoid radically political, close-minded people and describes why he sees them as potential workplace and reputational risk.

    • •Nick reads his tweet and says radically political hires are more likely to sue or create conflict
    • •Sam contrasts Nick’s broader definition with his own view of closed-minded behavior
    • •Nick reports backlash including accusations of racism and hostile quote-tweets
    • •Nick frames it as screening for balance and avoiding time/energy drains
    • •They connect it back to “taste” questions and how people spend their time online
  12. The rabbit hole of overemployment and interview fraud

    The conversation detours into internet subcultures like Overemployed and what employers can learn from them. Nick shares a recruiter anecdote about candidates allegedly using someone else to speak during interviews, and they debate the mix of sleaze and ingenuity.

    • •Sam describes the Overemployed community and why he reads it to explore ideas
    • •Nick says recruiter conversations revealed widespread attempts to hold multiple jobs
    • •Nick recounts an anecdote about video interviews where someone else may be talking
    • •Sam reacts with disbelief and asks why video interviews became necessary
    • •They note the troubling ethics while also recognizing the creativity involved
  13. Running multiple businesses: revenue predictions, focus risk, and cash-flow vs selling

    Sam challenges Nick on doing many things at once and asks for projections across the portfolio. Nick gives specific revenue/EBITDA expectations for several ventures and then debates with Sam whether it’s better to prioritize monthly cash flow or build for high-multiple exits.

    • •Sam says doing multiple things is usually a bad idea and asks why Nick is doing it
    • •Nick admits anxiety and expects some ventures to fail, but wants to push himself
    • •Nick makes forecasts for RE Cost Seg, Web Run, Titan Risk, Recruit Jet, and Blue Key Capital
    • •They discuss valuation multiples, including why some businesses may not be worth selling
    • •Sam argues selling can be a faster path to large outcomes; Nick prefers durable cash flow and time
  14. Money, desire, and what actually matters: planes, bourbon, and people

    They end on the psychology of wealth: shifting goalposts, wanting luxury items, and the discipline required not to overindulge. Nick tells a story about expensive bourbon feeling meaningless without friends and family present, concluding that relationships matter more than stuff.

    • •Nick shares a goal of making a million dollars a month to feel fully free
    • •They discuss how desires expand as income grows and how goalposts move
    • •Nick talks about wanting a $5M plane but choosing delayed gratification
    • •Nick recounts buying high-end bourbon and realizing it felt empty without people to share it with
    • •They close with plugs for investing, Nick’s newsletter growth, and where to follow him

Publisher timestamps

  1. 0:00Intro
  2. 1:44Nick Intro & How MFM Blew Up His LifeRead this chapter
  3. 8:09Successful entrepreneur traits
  4. 24:37Nick's tweet about SJWsRead this chapter
  5. 30:46A powerful sales trick
  6. 47:34Running multiple businesses at the same time
  7. 51:51Selling vs Cash-Flowing

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