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The Extraordinary Magic of Ordinary People with author Brad Meltzer

Magic moments do happen in real life. If you ask Brad Meltzer, magic happens when ordinary people choose to do the extraordinary. Brad is a prolific writer and bestselling author. He’s published over 70 books in nearly every genre you can think of—thriller novels, biographies, children’s books, film and television. He’s written comic books for iconic superheroes like Spider-Man, Superman, and Batman. And in 2024, his commencement speech at the University of Michigan went viral for its simple, powerful message—to shock the world, unleash your kindness. In this conversation, Brad tells me how his journey from a writer drowning in debt to bestselling author would not have been possible without the extraordinary kindness of a few ordinary strangers. He shares how other people’s negativity can become inspiration, why fictional heroes inspire us so much, and how ordinary people change the world. This…is A Bit of Optimism. For more on Brad and his work, check out: @meltzervideos his book: https://bradmeltzer.com/Nonfiction/makemagic https://bradmeltzer.com/ --------------------------- This episode is brought to you by True Classic! I really love their T-shirts, so we called them up and asked if they wanted to work together. And they said yes! Check out their clothes at: http://trueclassictees.com/ --------------------------- ⏰ Timestamps 0:00 The Birth of Superman 0:34 Meet Brad Meltzer, Master Storyteller 2:02 Two writers hop on a podcast 9:05 Ordinary kindness can change a life 12:49 Negative people become inspiration 15:55 "Ordinary" vs. extraordinary people 17:36 Don't just follow your bliss 22:24 A.I. storytelling vs. human storytelling 26:42 True Classic: an ad with authenticity 30:21 Superman vs. Batman 34:49 Supervillains and villain motivation 41:19 Failure and struggle make you who you are 44:12 After 78 books, which is Brad's best? 48:49 Brad's 2024 commencement speech at Michigan 53:19 Magic is a gift that you give other people + + + Simon is an unshakable optimist. He believes in a bright future and our ability to build it together. Described as “a visionary thinker with a rare intellect,” Simon has devoted his professional life to help advance a vision of the world that does not yet exist; a world in which the vast majority of people wake up every single morning inspired, feel safe wherever they are and end the day fulfilled by the work that they do. Simon is the author of multiple best-selling books including Start With Why, Leaders Eat Last, Together is Better, and The Infinite Game. + + + Website: http://simonsinek.com/ Live Online Classes: https://simonsinek.com/classes/ Podcast: http://apple.co/simonsinek Instagram: https://instagram.com/simonsinek/ Linkedin: https://linkedin.com/in/simonsinek/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/simonsinek Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/simonsinek Simon’s books: The Infinite Game: https://simonsinek.com/books/the-infinite-game/ Start With Why: https://simonsinek.com/books/start-with-why/ Find Your Why: https://simonsinek.com/books/find-your-why/ Leaders Eat Last: https://simonsinek.com/books/leaders-eat-last/ Together is Better: https://simonsinek.com/books/together-is-better/ + + + #SimonSinek

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CHAPTERS

  1. 0:00 – 0:34

    Why Superman Worked: Clark Kent as the missing ingredient

    The episode opens with a mini-history of Superman’s 1938 debut and why copycat heroes couldn’t replicate the success. The key isn’t the powers—it’s Clark Kent, the ordinary self audiences recognize and aspire through.

    • Superman was created by two Jewish 17-year-olds in 1938 amid rising global threats
    • Imitators copied the cape and muscles, but missed what made Superman resonate
    • Clark Kent represents the ordinary person’s desire to do good beyond themselves
    • Hero stories work when they connect to human longing, not spectacle
  2. 0:34 – 1:56

    Meet Brad Meltzer: prolific storyteller across thrillers, comics, and kids’ books

    Simon introduces Brad Meltzer’s range—airport thrillers, major comic characters, and a large body of children’s biographies. The framing sets up the episode’s focus: human storytelling, empathy, and what makes “ordinary” people heroic.

    • Brad’s work spans thrillers, conspiracy/nonfiction, comics, and kids’ biographies
    • Simon positions Brad as a master of storytelling with a strong moral lens
    • Tease of Brad’s viral Michigan commencement message about kindness
    • Theme established: human touch matters, especially in an AI era
  3. 1:56 – 7:02

    Two writers, early careers, and the Florida trip that clarified Brad’s “Why”

    Brad and Simon recount their origin story as friends—two newcomers helping each other get unstuck. The defining moment: Simon reflects back Brad’s purpose, which later becomes Brad’s public mantra.

    • They connected through mutual introductions and took a leap to collaborate in person
    • Half-day: Simon helps Brad find his Why; half-day: Brad helps a book proposal
    • Simon identifies Brad’s Why: “ordinary people change the world”
    • Brad’s mother reinforces the insight: Simon ‘held up a mirror’
    • Brad learns he must live the Why and say it out loud
  4. 7:02 – 9:05

    Craft research rabbit holes: truth, thrillers, and “special set of skills”

    A humorous detour reveals Brad’s commitment to realism in thrillers—from military contacts to torture details. The conversation underscores how authenticity is often built through unglamorous, behind-the-scenes work.

    • Simon and Brad joke about ‘special set of skills’ and extreme expertise
    • Brad consults clandestine/operative sources for realistic thriller scenes
    • Accuracy matters—even when the content is unsettling
    • Authentic details come from research, not imagination alone
  5. 9:05 – 11:03

    A ninth-grade teacher’s three words that changed everything: “You can write”

    Brad credits his writing career to a single teacher who saw talent where his home life offered no literary support. The story becomes a broader lesson about service: one person’s belief can permanently alter a life.

    • Brad grew up without books at home; family was financially strained
    • Teacher Sheila Spicer identifies Brad’s skill and pushes him into honors-level work
    • Brad returns years later with his first published book as thanks
    • Sheila’s emotional reaction reveals teachers often don’t realize their impact
    • Simon reframes purpose as serving those who serve others
  6. 11:03 – 12:49

    Ordinary kindness that changes a life: the neighbor named “Mircey/Mercy”

    Brad shares a formative moment from childhood instability: living six people in a one-bedroom while facing eviction pressure. One neighbor’s sacrifice—offering her apartment—becomes a lifelong symbol of mercy and empathy.

    • Family moves in with grandparents after job loss; constant threat of eviction
    • Community complaints intensify stress and fear
    • A neighbor offers her own apartment to give the family space and safety
    • Brad remembers her name forever and links it to ‘mercy’ as a value
    • Ordinary people’s choices can have extraordinary impact
  7. 12:49 – 15:56

    From rude customers to childhood dreams: the SeaWorld payoff (Nick Wickett)

    Brad revisits a painful service-job insult and contrasts it with a friend who ultimately lived his dream. The emotional turning point illustrates how ‘ordinary’ people are not fixed—they can become what they commit to.

    • Brad recounts a humiliating Häagen-Dazs customer interaction that lingered
    • Nick Wickett, a coworker with fewer advantages, dreams of training marine animals
    • Nick shows up at Brad’s early book event and later invites him to SeaWorld
    • Brad watches Nick perform with a dolphin and breaks down crying
    • Lesson: there’s “no such thing as an ordinary person” when dreams are pursued
  8. 15:56 – 20:24

    “Follow your bliss” is incomplete: commitment, belief, and the role of failure

    They interrogate popular advice about passion and clarify what actually drives exceptional outcomes. The missing ingredients are trusted belief from others, sustained effort, and a realistic embrace of failure as part of the path.

    • What achievers share: doing what they can’t not do—paired with full commitment
    • Generic ‘follow your passion’ advice is ‘true and useless’ without structure
    • Reflective Best Self research: trusted belief helps people become their best selves
    • Brad’s 24 rejection letters illustrate persistence and inevitability of setbacks
    • Wright brothers example: they planned for crashes—failure was expected and iterated
  9. 20:24 – 22:14

    Why struggle belongs in the story: humanizing heroes and building resilience

    Brad and Simon argue that hero-worship can harm us when it erases the hard parts. The most useful part of any success story is the messy middle—losses, doubt, and repeated rebuilding.

    • We do heroes a disservice when we turn them into flawless statues
    • Brad intentionally includes failures in children’s biographies (Lincoln, Washington, Wright brothers)
    • The finale is less instructive than the struggle that precedes it
    • Success narratives should include insecurity, near-quitting, and rebuilding
    • Transformation is constant—people grow by adapting, not staying immutable
  10. 22:14 – 27:57

    AI vs. human storytelling: taste, soul, and the scene that machines can’t write

    Brad tests AI by asking it to write in his style and discovers it can outline but not evoke lived emotion. The defining gap is ‘taste’—the human ability to choose the resonant detail rooted in real feeling.

    • AI can mimic structure and style quickly, even with full research provided
    • It fails to create the emotionally true moment (Simone Biles’ grandparents)
    • Brad’s chosen detail: the intimacy of hair-braiding communicates love without exposition
    • Brad’s daughter’s diagnosis: ‘AI doesn’t have taste’
    • Brad’s writing standard: the book isn’t done until it makes him or his wife cry
  11. 27:57 – 28:52

    Negative people as fuel—and why that can become villain motivation

    They explore how criticism can motivate, but also trap you in spite. Simon reframes revenge-driven ambition as unstable and psychologically costly, contrasting it with purpose anchored in service and belief.

    • Brad admits rude comments can become ‘rocket fuel,’ especially when young
    • Simon challenges spite: how much success is needed to feel validated?
    • Revenge motivation resembles comic-book villain origin stories (chip on the shoulder)
    • Better stance: recognize absurd negativity without letting it define you
    • Happiness isn’t ‘If I get X, then I’ll be happy’—it’s rooted in the Why
  12. 28:52 – 30:34

    Authenticity ad break: True Classic founder on risky bets, teamwork, and failure

    A sponsor segment is structured as a real conversation about entrepreneurship. The founder describes a massive inventory gamble that didn’t work—yet remains meaningful because of shared belief and execution under pressure.

    • True Classic’s founder describes a $40M inventory decision driven by conviction
    • The bet didn’t sell through as planned, requiring adaptation
    • Pride comes from taking the risk together and believing in the team
    • Failure is framed as part of the entrepreneurial journey, not disqualifying
  13. 30:34 – 35:02

    Superman vs. Batman: heart, stubbornness, and the ordinary person behind the mask

    Brad explains why Superman and Batman endure: they aren’t power fantasies as much as moral and motivational mirrors. Clark Kent and Batman’s daily recommitment both reflect the human drive to keep showing up for good.

    • Batman represents relentless persistence—trying despite knowing you’ll fail again tomorrow
    • Superman’s core is Clark Kent: the ordinary self we recognize
    • Mom and Pa Kent teach that Superman’s true power is heart, not strength
    • Superheroes succeed because they reveal something true about the audience
    • Talismans (figures, symbols) serve as daily reminders of hope and purpose
  14. 35:02 – 44:25

    Villains and foils: chaos vs. order, pettiness vs. ideals, and what makes conflict work

    Brad breaks down why great villains aren’t just ‘big bads’—they are thematic opposites that expose the hero’s values. The best conflicts clarify an idea (order vs. chaos) rather than just scale up destruction.

    • Brad struggles to ‘love’ villains because their motivations often feel alien
    • Great villains function as foils: Joker (chaos) vs. Batman (order)
    • Classic symbolic oppositions: Captain America vs. Red Skull
    • Lex Luthor as human pettiness and insecurity contrasted with Superman’s idealism
    • Conflict works when it dramatizes competing worldviews, not just power levels
  15. 44:25 – 50:21

    After 78 books: protecting yourself can ruin art, and the ritual of “Sorry, kiddo”

    Brad answers which work is best and reveals how he tries to keep improving rather than coasting. He shares a daily ritual rooted in his most painful rejection—used to preserve gratitude, hunger, and honesty in the craft.

    • Brad believes his first book may be his best because he wrote without self-protection
    • Once you know people are watching, a ‘molecular’ shift can make art safer and weaker
    • At 50, Brad studies his own catalog to identify what truly made books good: character depth
    • He delays writing to build stronger characters, leading to major success (The Escape Artist)
    • Daily ritual revisits the rejection call (‘Sorry, kiddo’) to avoid complacency
  16. 50:21 – 55:05

    Make Magic: commencement speech, empathy as transformation, and kindness as a gift

    Brad recounts the Michigan commencement address that went viral and why it hit so hard culturally. He frames empathy as a ‘magic trick’—switching places with someone else—and closes with the idea that real magic is given away, not performed for self.

    • The speech uses four categories of magic, emphasizing transformation as the hardest
    • Empathy described as ‘switching places’—a cultural antidote to cruelty-as-sport
    • Brad experiences an unexpected crowd reaction, signaling deep hunger for kindness
    • The talk resonated because of vulnerability and authenticity, not polish
    • Core thesis: magic (and purpose) is a gift you give other people

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