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70 min read · 13,970 words- 0:00 – 23:50
The War on the Young
- SGScott Galloway
To be rich in America is to be loved, full stop. It's a violent, rapacious place if you don't have money. It's a loving, generous place if you do have money. Once you hit your number, there's no reason to be a hoarder, 'cause this is what makes you happy. Spend it. I spend so much fucking money, and it's amazing. And then you know what I do? I give it away. And so what I would say to anyone else who has a lot of money, why do you need to be a billionaire? It's not gonna get you anything. Here's what you do. You do amazing things with friends and family. You take care of your parents. You fly your friends to Aspen to hang out with you, and then anything above that, you give it away. And there's so many amazing causes and people, and overpay the people who work with you. Throw money around like you're a fucking gangster in the '50s diagnosed with ass cancer.
- SSSimon Sinek
[laughs]
- SGScott Galloway
Just live it up. And you know what? You're gonna love life. Don't do it because you're noble. Don't do it 'cause you're praying to some god or whatever it is. I can tell you firsthand, it feels amazing. [upbeat music]
- SSSimon Sinek
Thanks for joining. It's really good to see you.
- SGScott Galloway
It's always good to see you.
- SSSimon Sinek
Um, and congratulations on, on the TED Talk, the new book. Lots of busy things happening.
- SGScott Galloway
Thanks, Simon.
- SSSimon Sinek
Um, w- when you got invited to do the TED Talk-
- SGScott Galloway
Yeah
- SSSimon Sinek
... did they ask you to do a particular subject, or did they s- did you just... Did you say to them, "This is what I wanna talk about"?
- SGScott Galloway
No, I, I had lunch with Chris Anderson, who I've known for 20, 30 years in London, and he said, "We're thinking about having you at TED," as if I'd, you know, been crowned.
- SSSimon Sinek
[laughs]
- SGScott Galloway
He didn't, he didn't commit to giving me a, a speaking spot. He said, "We're thinking about it." And I said, "Well, first off, thanks. That's, that's exciting." And he said, "What, what's your vision, uh, for a talk?" He said, "If you were to do a talk, what would it be?" He didn't even offer me the slot yet.
- SSSimon Sinek
Hmm.
- SGScott Galloway
And I said, "I think that the thing that people aren't talking enough about is I believe that almost every economic policy is nothing but a thinly veiled transfer of wealth-
- SSSimon Sinek
Mm-hmm
- SGScott Galloway
... from the entrants to the incumbents, and more loosely, from young to old."
- SSSimon Sinek
Mm-hmm.
- SGScott Galloway
And he said, "Okay, so how would you brand it?" I'm like, "Well, I've been thinking about this. I think there's a war on the young."
- SSSimon Sinek
Hmm.
- SGScott Galloway
He said, "That's the talk, and we wanna have you." And I wasn't sold myself, 'cause Vancouver from London is a real haul.
- SSSimon Sinek
Mm-hmm.
- SGScott Galloway
And I, I'm trying to be more... [smacks lips] Someone said, I love this saying, "Be generous with everything except your time."
- SSSimon Sinek
Hmm.
- SGScott Galloway
I'm pretty cheap with my time now. And anyways, so I did it, and then I thought, this is something I feel passionate about, so I g- I rallied the team, and I get a lot of nice feedback around, wow, that's so much data. It's, you know, greatness is in the agency of others. I probably spent eight hours on that talk, but I bet there was 800 hours that went into it.
- SSSimon Sinek
Mm-hmm.
- SGScott Galloway
And so my team immediately started pulling together data and, you know, it's 110 slides.
- SSSimon Sinek
It was, um, chilling-
- SGScott Galloway
Mm-hmm
- SSSimon Sinek
... I would say is a good word, um, how stark your conclusions were, your, your, your insights were.
- 23:50 – 31:33
The loss of idealism
- SSSimon Sinek
You're touching right on something that, um, I- That, that's the thing that I'm sort of lamenting these days.
- SGScott Galloway
Mm-hmm.
- SSSimon Sinek
And it, and it is the leadership, it is that leadership conversation, which is it seems that there's been a total loss of idealism.
- SGScott Galloway
I, I agree.
- SSSimon Sinek
And you go back to Ronald Reagan or, or, or John F. Kennedy, so I don't care what your politics are-
- SGScott Galloway
Mm-hmm, mm-hmm
- SSSimon Sinek
... they literally use the terms peace on earth-
- SGScott Galloway
Mm-hmm
- SSSimon Sinek
... world peace in their inaugurations as a driving motivation-
- SGScott Galloway
Mm-hmm
- SSSimon Sinek
... which is an incredibly appealing thing to bring people together and be willing to bear any burden and pay any price-
- SGScott Galloway
Mm-hmm
- SSSimon Sinek
... for the greater good. And talking about world peace now literally in this artificial context-
- SGScott Galloway
Mm-hmm
- SSSimon Sinek
... sounds completely cheesy-
- SGScott Galloway
Mm-hmm
- SSSimon Sinek
... to say the world, "I'm doing it for world peace." And I don't see it in politics, I don't even see it in business.
- SGScott Galloway
Mm-hmm.
- SSSimon Sinek
The, the, the total loss of idealism, and I think idealism is the thing because idealism exists on a level above everything we're talking about.
- SGScott Galloway
Yep.
- SSSimon Sinek
It is the thing that we can actually see the forest for the trees and say, "Well, I am willing to give up some-
- SGScott Galloway
Mm-hmm
- SSSimon Sinek
... because I believe in that." And some could be money-
- SGScott Galloway
Mm-hmm
- SSSimon Sinek
... it could be an effort, it could be some sort of sacrifice.
- SGScott Galloway
Mm-hmm.
- SSSimon Sinek
And so I wonder if this is solvable with good leadership. Now-
- SGScott Galloway
Mm-hmm
- SSSimon Sinek
... I'm also not so foolhardy to think, oh, well, you just make leaders.
- SGScott Galloway
Mm-hmm.
- 31:33 – 52:46
“Moral” capitalism and political extremists
- SSSimon Sinek
You and I are giving each other a lot of dense sandwiches to unpack. So the capitalism that you're defending-
- SGScott Galloway
Yep
- SSSimon Sinek
... or at least pointing to-
- SGScott Galloway
Yep
- SSSimon Sinek
... that Sam Altman who comes in with these idealistic notions and all of a sudden they disappear when money gets involved-
- SGScott Galloway
Yeah
- SSSimon Sinek
... um, is a relatively modern conception of capitalism. It's, it's, it's Milton Friedman capitalism.
- SGScott Galloway
Right.
- SSSimon Sinek
Um, popularized by fuckers like Jack Welch.
- SGScott Galloway
Right.
- SSSimon Sinek
Um, but it's not Adam Smith capitalism. It's not the capitalism that made America great.
- SGScott Galloway
Yeah, it's not true capitalism.
- SSSimon Sinek
It's not true capitalism. And so we've conflated-
- SGScott Galloway
Right
- SSSimon Sinek
... the bastardized version of capitalism we have now with the capitalism that has, has-
- SGScott Galloway
That's right
- SSSimon Sinek
... contributed to the world for over 200 years. [clears throat] And my fear is that we're gonna throw the baby out with the bathwater because, because we've so conflated them, and I think there should be a return to a kind of capitalism where there is m- m- and I'll use the term moral obligation-
- SGScott Galloway
That's right
- SSSimon Sinek
... that we have moral obligation. So, so just out of curiosity-
- SGScott Galloway
Yeah
- SSSimon Sinek
... I did this just the other day. Just out of curiosity, I was curious why rich people gave to taxes in, like, the Victorian era, right?
- SGScott Galloway
Mm-hmm.
- SSSimon Sinek
So 19th century. 'Cause the Carnegies, the Rockefellers-
- SGScott Galloway
Right
- SSSimon Sinek
... and, and, and, and the British wealthy-
- SGScott Galloway
Mm-hmm
- SSSimon Sinek
... they gave shit tons-
- SGScott Galloway
Mm
- SSSimon Sinek
... to charity, and they built-
- SGScott Galloway
Mm
- 52:46 – 1:02:53
Friends, Love and Money
- SSSimon Sinek
than the causes themselves.
- SGScott Galloway
So I, I like that. I think that's part of it. But you know how I say I love you to people now? I give them money.
- SSSimon Sinek
That's not love.
- SGScott Galloway
Oh, it's better. The kids who work for me don't want my love, they want money.
- SSSimon Sinek
Your friends. I'm not talking about your, I'm not talking about your employees.
- SGScott Galloway
Okay, friends. Fine. My friends-
- SSSimon Sinek
I'm not talking about your employees
- SGScott Galloway
... okay, but that's how I make the biggest impact.
- SSSimon Sinek
Okay.
- SGScott Galloway
I have a group of friends, we share affection with each other. I'm seeing like three fraternity brothers in Aspen in two weeks. I invite my friends to a bunch of shit. I think they feel loved, and I know they love me.
- SSSimon Sinek
But that's generous.
- SGScott Galloway
But in terms of moving society forward, here's how I was the first 40 years of my life. Anyone that walked into one of my companies had two bubbles. One bubble was how much money they made, one bubble was how much value they were adding. And if the left bubble got bigger than the right, I warned them, and if it didn't get fixed fast, I fired them. I was a pure, unadulterated capitalist. And now you know what I do? I overpay people. My job as someone who has a lot of money is to stuff as much money into the pockets of people who are working with me who do a great job. It's almost like a self-imposed-
- SSSimon Sinek
Okay. Wonderful. I love that. Keep doing it.
- SGScott Galloway
Yeah.
- SSSimon Sinek
Great. Love it.
- SGScott Galloway
Yep.
- SSSimon Sinek
Okay? But your friends that you're generous with, and you'll pay for the trip and you'll pay for the hotels and the-
- SGScott Galloway
Not talking about that
- SSSimon Sinek
... like, I'm talking about like y- like here, let's take two scenarios, right?
- SGScott Galloway
Yeah.
- SSSimon Sinek
A friend of yours is moving house.
- SGScott Galloway
Yep.
- SSSimon Sinek
And you, you go, "You're, you're such a great friend, I'm paying for the moving van. Here's five grand." Right?
- SGScott Galloway
Yeah. You wanted to go over and actually-
- SSSimon Sinek
Right
- SGScott Galloway
... help him move, right?
- SSSimon Sinek
And, and, and versus the friend-
- SGScott Galloway
No fucking way No fucking way
- SSSimon Sinek
Okay, so-
- SGScott Galloway
I'll be getting drunk with someone or I'll be at the Hotel du Cap, "But by the way, here's the money. No need to thank me. I got it." Money is the transfer of work and time. It is the best way to express love
Episode duration: 1:02:54
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