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We All Get Cancelled One Day with "Somebody Feed Phil’s" Phil Rosenthal | A Bit of Optimism Podcast

We turned the studio into a restaurant for the day—because when Phil Rosenthal’s in the house, you don’t just talk about food, you eat it! Phil—the genius behind "Everybody Loves Raymond" and "Somebody Feed Phil"—joins us for a heartfelt, hilarious meal where we dive into everything from sitcoms and food shows to gratitude, creativity, and finding joy in the everyday. Sure, we talk about the evolving world of television and the secrets to mastering great storytelling—but this episode isn’t just about food and show business. Phil reveals the best life advice he’s ever received—and it might just change the way you live. As lovers of the LA food scene, we also used this episode as a chance to highlight and support some of our favorite local restaurants. Because nothing pairs better with great conversation than a table full of incredible local bites. Breakfast Burritos: https://civilcoffee.com/ Fried Chicken: https://www.anajakthai.com/ (surprise guest experience from owner and chef Justin Pichetrungsi) Hand Rolls: https://jointseafood.com/ Liver Pâté: https://www.petittrois.com/ Basque Cheesecake: https://www.pasjoli.com/ Watch the new season of "Somebody Feed Phil" on Netflix: https://www.netflix.com/title/80146601 Check out more of Phil’s work: https://www.philrosenthalworld.com/ --------------------------- This episode is brought to you by True Classic! I really love their T-shirts, so we called them up and asked if they wanted to work together. And they said yes! Check out their clothes at: http://trueclassictees.com/ --------------------------- + + + Simon is an unshakable optimist. He believes in a bright future and our ability to build it together. Described as “a visionary thinker with a rare intellect,” Simon has devoted his professional life to help advance a vision of the world that does not yet exist; a world in which the vast majority of people wake up every single morning inspired, feel safe wherever they are and end the day fulfilled by the work that they do. Simon is the author of multiple best-selling books including Start With Why, Leaders Eat Last, Together is Better, and The Infinite Game. + + + Website: http://simonsinek.com/ Live Online Classes: https://simonsinek.com/classes/ Podcast: http://apple.co/simonsinek Instagram: https://instagram.com/simonsinek/ Linkedin: https://linkedin.com/in/simonsinek/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/simonsinek Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/simonsinek Simon’s books: The Infinite Game: https://simonsinek.com/books/the-infinite-game/ Start With Why: https://simonsinek.com/books/start-with-why/ Find Your Why: https://simonsinek.com/books/find-your-why/ Leaders Eat Last: https://simonsinek.com/books/leaders-eat-last/ Together is Better: https://simonsinek.com/books/together-is-better/ + + + #SimonSinek

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  1. 0:001:32

    Naming the show and turning the podcast into a literal meal

    1. SS

      You created Everybody Loves Raymond-

    2. PR

      Mm-hmm

    3. SS

      ... and Somebody Feed Phil.

    4. PR

      Mm-hmm.

    5. SS

      It's always got some name in it.

    6. PR

      Yeah.

    7. SS

      So what would you name my show?

    8. PR

      Somebody Talk To Simon.

    9. SS

      [laughs] It's so, it's so lonely. [laughs] Before we turn on the cameras and the mics, I tell every guest who comes on the show that this is not like an interview show that they're used to. It's more like a conversation. I tell them to imagine that we're out for a meal-

    10. SP

      [laughing]

    11. SS

      ... and the people sitting next to us are eavesdropping on us because our conversation is better than theirs. Well, for this episode, we decided to do just that, literally.

    12. PR

      Holy crap, this is a best cheesecake.

    13. SS

      As soon as I heard that Phil Rosenthal, the brilliant creator and executive producer behind Everybody Loves Raymond, and the joyful heart and face of Somebody Feed Phil, was coming on the show, I wanted to give him food. So we turned our little podcast into an even littler restaurant. Please pull up a chair at our table for the latest episode of Somebody Talk to Simon. I mean, A Bit of Optimism. [upbeat music] This episode is brought to you by True Classic. The way they became our sponsor is because I loved their T-shirts, and so we just called them up and asked them if they wanted to work together, and they said yes. So check out their clothes at trueclassic.com. I warned you before we turned the cameras on-

    14. PR

      Yeah

  2. 1:323:51

    Breakfast burritos as a metaphor: taste everything, finish nothing

    1. SS

      ... which is, we have so much damn food that we brought.

    2. PR

      Yeah.

    3. SS

      Um, um, don't finish anything because we have to get through it all. And I haven't had breakfast, so I'm spacey.

    4. PR

      Great. I had a little protein drink, so, so that's-

    5. SS

      You're okay

    6. PR

      ... I'm hungry too. But-

    7. SS

      Good

    8. PR

      ... oh, yeah, yeah. But that's my secret, by the way. The number one question I get is how come I'm not fat, and it is, one reason is I don't finish anything. If you see me eating like crazy on the show-

    9. SS

      Yeah

    10. PR

      ... I am, but I'm not really... Unless it's the, the, like, most delicious thing I've ever had and I'm, know I'll never get to this part of Chiang Mai again to have this bowl-

    11. SS

      Right

    12. PR

      ... of khao soi, I'm finishing it.

    13. SS

      Got it.

    14. PR

      And I'm, and maybe ordering another one. If you're in a town that's famous for certain dishes-

    15. SS

      Yeah

    16. PR

      ... you want those dishes.

    17. SS

      You gotta eat those dish- those dishes.

    18. PR

      You have to.

    19. SS

      Let's get our first dish out here. Let's get, let's get our breakfast dish out because we got a, we got, I, we've got not just courses, w- we have breakfast, lunch, and dinner.

    20. PR

      You've really thought this out.

    21. SS

      [laughs] We, we have a lot of food. So what we decided to do is there's a bunch of great restaurants in Los Angeles, which is where you and I live.

    22. PR

      Listen-

    23. SS

      And-

    24. PR

      ... if you can't travel, live in LA.

    25. SS

      Live in LA.

    26. PR

      Because the world is here.

    27. SS

      And we have a bunch of great restaurants, and so we ordered, like, some of the dishes from some great places. Look at that. Bring it on in. Thank you, David. So I haven't... I love a breakfast burrito.

    28. PR

      Hi, David. Well, hi. I love a breakfast burrito too.

    29. SP

      Breakfast burritos are the best.

    30. PR

      It's one of my favorite things.

  3. 3:515:39

    Why Phil made a travel-and-food show—and why it took 10 years

    1. SS

      What made you wanna start a, a, an eating show in the first place, other than the obvious? [laughs] Which is to get paid to travel around the world to eat. It sounds like a good gig.

    2. PR

      It's a scam.

    3. SS

      [laughs]

    4. PR

      You talk to people who, leaders in business, they're not as honest as I am.

    5. SS

      [laughs] It's a scam. Right.

    6. PR

      It's a scam.

    7. SS

      [laughs] And you're, what are you, seventh season in?

    8. PR

      This, coming up now, is season eight.

    9. SS

      Season eight. Did you imagine when you came up with the idea that, that it would get picked up for eight seasons?

    10. PR

      No, you're help-

    11. SS

      [laughs]

    12. PR

      ... hoping to fool one guy at a network.

    13. SS

      [laughs]

    14. PR

      And that maybe they'll let you film one. By the way, the first time we filmed one-

    15. SS

      Yeah

    16. PR

      ... I think it was Barcelona. We started on PBS.

    17. SS

      Mm-hmm.

    18. PR

      The first one we filmed was Barcelona, and I have my first scene, which is a meal.

    19. SS

      Mm-hmm.

    20. PR

      And the meal was so fantastic, I said, "If we're canceled right now, dayenu." [laughs]

    21. SS

      It's worth it.

    22. PR

      It was worth it.

    23. SS

      Yeah.

    24. PR

      Everything I went through. And it took 10 years to get the show.

    25. SS

      How? What?

    26. PR

      Yes.

    27. SS

      But hold on.

    28. PR

      This is today-

    29. SS

      There was, there was-

    30. PR

      ... today's lesson

  4. 5:398:10

    Post-Raymond industry whiplash: executives, trends, and career risk

    1. PR

      The reason I shifted gears that way is because after Everybody Loves Raymond-

    2. SS

      Mm

    3. PR

      ... was over, I had been there for nine years. The business changed greatly in those nine years. They, they didn't want that kind of show anymore. They wanted hip and edgy shows.

    4. SS

      They were moving from Everyone Loves Raymond to something like Friends. Okay.

    5. PR

      F- they just wanted Friends.

    6. SS

      Got it.

    7. PR

      That was it.

    8. SS

      They wanted that formula.

    9. PR

      They wanted young, hipUh-

    10. SS

      Family sitcoms are out

    11. PR

      ... good-looking. Yes. And it's, you know, we had a hard time selling Raymond when we sold Raymond-

    12. SS

      Mm

    13. PR

      ... because it was already déclassé. It wasn't, it wa- it's not sexy to people-

    14. SS

      Mm

    15. PR

      ... the family sitcom. Although, if you look back at television comedy history, it's the building block of networks.

    16. SS

      All in the Family.

    17. PR

      All in the Family. Go back to I Love Lucy, a domestic-

    18. SS

      I Love Lucy

    19. PR

      ... uh, a Father Knows Best-

    20. SS

      Happy Days

    21. PR

      ... Happy Days-

    22. SS

      Yeah

    23. PR

      ... The Honeymooners. Domestic-

    24. SS

      Yeah

    25. PR

      ... not workplace-

    26. SS

      Yeah

    27. PR

      ... domestic family sitcoms, with kids or without kids.

    28. SS

      Yep.

    29. PR

      Well, that's not what a, a young executive or even an old executive wants on their resume, because that's not cool.

    30. SS

      Right.

  5. 8:1011:38

    High concept vs. low concept: how Raymond stayed fresh for nine years

    1. PR

      That's a whole, I mean, we could do a whole show about this, but, uh, I'll give you the short answer.

    2. SS

      Yeah.

    3. PR

      If you sell something that's high concept ... Do you know what high concept, uh-

    4. SS

      Mm-mm. Say, say more.

    5. PR

      Okay. High concept would be a show where we're from Mars, our family's from Mars, and we're gonna live on a street and pretend to be normal Americans.

    6. SS

      Okay.

    7. PR

      That's a high concept show. Now, with a high concept show, they have to serve that premise every week.

    8. SS

      Right.

    9. PR

      That would get boring and repetitive and can't last very long.

    10. SS

      Right.

    11. PR

      It can last maybe a few seasons tops.

    12. SS

      Right.

    13. PR

      Because every week, oh no, they're gonna find out we're from Mars.

    14. SS

      Right, right.

    15. PR

      So it's the same story practically.

    16. SS

      Right.

    17. PR

      Yes, you can have little stories that weave in and out, but that main premise is gonna have to be served.

    18. SS

      Right.

    19. PR

      Okay. You know what low concept is? Low concept is a guy who lives across the street from his parents with his family.

    20. SS

      Right.

    21. PR

      That's very low concept.

    22. SS

      It can go, it can go forever.

    23. PR

      And it's not hip and edgy, and it doesn't sell, because it doesn't sound like something novel.

    24. SS

      Right.

    25. PR

      But in television, like in movies, like in books, like in anything we do in life, it's all about the execution.

    26. SS

      Right.

    27. PR

      So if you execute that premise, the guy with his family who lives across the street from his parents, the possibilities of episodes are almost as endless as real life.

    28. SS

      Right.

    29. PR

      And so if you worked for me, your job on Everybody Loves Raymond was to go home, get in a fight with your wife, and come back in and tell me about it.

    30. SS

      [laughs] Yeah.

  6. 11:3817:13

    Anajak Thai fried chicken arrives—then the Apple lesson on past vs. future

    1. PR

      Here comes, oh.

    2. SS

      Now, you may know that you can-

    3. PR

      This is dangerous

    4. SS

      ... so j- this is ... Don't tell me this is ... This is from Anajak Thai.

    5. PR

      Excuse me.

    6. SS

      This is one of the best...

    7. PR

      Oh, my buddy.

    8. SS

      [laughs]

    9. PR

      Justin.

    10. SS

      What?

    11. PR

      Hi. [laughs]

    12. SS

      How are you, buddy?

    13. PR

      Everybody, this is Justin. He's a genius.

    14. SS

      Good to-

    15. PR

      You've never met Simon?

    16. SS

      So good to see you. No, we've never met. No.

    17. PR

      Well, this is nice. We-

    18. SS

      J- Justin's-

    19. PR

      True

    20. SS

      ... well, this, we should tell everybody.

    21. PR

      Yeah.

    22. SS

      This is from Anajak Thai. This is some of the best fried chicken in the world. And Anajak Thai is a, a har- very hard to get into restaurant in Los Angeles

    23. PR

      That's closed on the day we're shooting, but you brought us food anyway. Thank you very, very much. Thanks for bringing it by. I didn't even know you were gonna be here.

    24. SS

      Of course. Of course.

    25. PR

      So nice to meet you.

    26. SS

      Of course. Just wanted to say hello.

    27. PR

      Justin.

    28. SS

      Show friend here.

    29. PR

      Listen.

    30. SS

      Enjoy.

  7. 17:1318:52

    PBS to Netflix and the life rule: 'Do the show you want—they’ll cancel you anyway'

    1. SS

      Now, I did other things in between, but always I was driving towards this. And then I sold it finally to PBS.

    2. PR

      Mm-hmm.

    3. SS

      But my agents didn't even want me to go to-

    4. PR

      What, what, what... So, so what was the reason they said yes?

    5. SS

      I sold it with one line. I said, "I'm exactly like Anthony Bourdain if he was afraid of everything."

    6. PR

      [laughs] Got it.

    7. SS

      And they said, "We've been looking for a food and travel show with humor for years."

    8. PR

      Right.

    9. SS

      But I wasn't allowed to go to CB- PBS by my agents because they said, "There's no money at PBS."

    10. PR

      Right.

    11. SS

      That turns out to be true, but they had money for six episodes.

    12. PR

      Mm-hmm.

    13. SS

      And we did them, and then here came Netflix.

    14. PR

      Oh, so Netflix saw it-

    15. SS

      Yeah

    16. PR

      ... and came after you?

    17. SS

      Mm-hmm. They were just kinda starting.

    18. PR

      What I'm trying to get out of your story is, is where the lessons are for how people live regular life. Not everybody's gonna be selling TV shows or is necessarily in show business-

    19. SS

      But the idea, I mean, you've said it. Y- I mean, if you're gonna have to beat your head against a wall-

    20. PR

      Mm-hmm

    21. SS

      ... pick something you like doing and beat your head against that wall.

    22. PR

      The best advice I ever got from anybody was from Ed Weinberger, a great show creator and showrunner.

    23. SS

      Mm-hmm.

    24. PR

      Mary Tyler Moore Show and-

    25. SS

      Mm-hmm

    26. PR

      ... Taxi, and great classic sitcoms that I idolized. As I'm writing the pilot for Everybody Loves Raymond, I ask him for advice. He says this: "Do the show you want to do, because in the end they're gonna cancel you anyway." That's a life lesson.

    27. SS

      Ah.

    28. PR

      We all get canceled one day.

    29. SS

      We, we all get canceled.

    30. PR

      So live the life you wanna live.

  8. 18:5227:38

    Hand rolls and Japan: perfection, community care, and what we’ve forgotten

    1. SS

      More food. We got lots of food. So this one's great. So there is a place... Thank you, David. There is a-

    2. PR

      Oh.

    3. SS

      Okay. There is a place call- on Ventura called The Joint. Do you know The Joint?

    4. PR

      Nope.

    5. SS

      Okay, The Joint is... Ah, there's our nori, our seaweed. So The Joint is the best fishmonger in Los Angeles. Like, if you're ever cooking at home and you wanna make fish, go get their dry-aged ora salmon. Here's how good it is. As I'm preparing to cook it-

    6. PR

      Yeah

    7. SS

      ... I'm eating it off the fish raw-

    8. PR

      Yeah, yeah, yeah

    9. SS

      ... 'cause it's that good, right?

    10. PR

      Sushi grade.

    11. SS

      And they just recently started offering hand rolls at, at The Joint-

    12. PR

      Ventura

    13. SS

      ... which is a fish-

    14. PR

      Where is it?

    15. SS

      On Ventura. It's a fishmonger.

    16. PR

      Amazing.

    17. SS

      It's a f- on Ventura in Studio City.

    18. PR

      Okay.

    19. SS

      It's a fishmonger and coffee shop. I know, what a combination.

    20. PR

      Yes.

    21. SS

      Anyway, so you can now get hand rolls there. So they put together a bento box. You can get it to go. This is how it comes. We're s- most- we're supposed to make our own hand rolls.

    22. PR

      Great.

    23. SS

      And b- I'm keeping on, on, on brand. I have Star Wars chopsticks for us.

    24. PR

      Oh, my God.

    25. SS

      'Cause... Hold on.

    26. PR

      Oh, my God, they light up.

    27. SS

      Yeah.

    28. PR

      Are we gonna duel?

    29. SS

      I mean-

    30. PR

      I love it

  9. 27:3837:34

    Early career lessons and creating Raymond: the power of specificity

    1. SS

      Yeah. Was Raymond your big break?

    2. PR

      Yes.

    3. SS

      So what were you doing before-

    4. PR

      Well, I would say big break would be your first job in television writing at all.

    5. SS

      Which was?

    6. PR

      Uh, the Robert Mitchum sitcom in 1989.

    7. SS

      Oh my God.

    8. PR

      Yes. That's the right response. Yes.

    9. SS

      I, I didn't-

    10. PR

      Terrible

    11. SS

      ... know R- Robert Mitchum had a sitcom.

    12. PR

      He shouldn't have. [laughs]

    13. SS

      [laughs]

    14. PR

      That lasted seven episodes.

    15. SS

      Okay. [laughs]

    16. PR

      But what you can learn from your first job in the field-

    17. SS

      Right

    18. PR

      ... you can learn from any job in the field, right?

    19. SS

      Right.

    20. PR

      So I learned what not to do. I learned how bad it can be.

    21. SS

      What, what, what were you n... What, what didn't work there? What was the big lesson learned?

    22. PR

      The, the premise, number one, you don't put Robert Mitchum in a sitcom. It doesn't belong. But the, the story behind that was he had been in, in a TV movie when they... Remember TV movies?

    23. SS

      Yeah, yeah, yeah.

    24. PR

      And this genre of TV movie is called a warmedy.

    25. SS

      A war?

    26. PR

      Warmedy.

    27. SS

      Warmedy.

    28. PR

      Warm feeling.

    29. SS

      Ugh.

    30. PR

      Not a comedy, not a drama, a warmedy.

  10. 37:3443:03

    Basque cheesecake and the 'story makes it taste better' principle

    1. SS

      and we'd be like, "This is your dinner?" Like, like, just like, "This is... Oh." And then we start to realize, like- Like, "Oh" ... Mom's a great cook. Oh, we're lucky. Yeah. It's like my parents had a marriage that was far from perfect. Holy crap, this is a Basque cheesecake. It is. One of our, uh, one of the places we go in season eight is San Sebastian and the Basque Country. You've done it already? You went there already? Yeah. Have you been there? Is it good? I have never. Oh, well, if you like this little treat- Okay, so, so- ... I think you're gonna love going there ... this is, this is a great story. Yes. Have... This is the Basque cheesecake- Yep ... from Paixley in Santa Monica. Have you been there? Oh, boy. Yes. Have you been there? I've been there, but I haven't had their Basque cheesecake. Okay. So now I'm gonna tell you- Yes ... now I'm gonna tell you the story behind this cheesecake. God, that's beautiful. Okay. So my friend, Will Guidara- Yes ... who I think you know, uh, he was the former owner of Eleven Madison Park. Oh, absolutely. So Will's a foodie, right? Yes. To say the least. Yes. Will and I are having dinner. Mm-hmm. And he says, "We're doing bang bang tonight." Two dinners. So bang bang is we had appetizers in one restaurant, main course in another restaurant, dessert in another restaurant. That's bang, bang, bang. That's bang, bang, bang. So we ha- we w- we moved... And by the way, the main course was WoWao, just that night. Nice. Okay. So we're sitting at WoWao. Mm-hmm. Um, and he says, "I know where we're going for dessert." Mm-hmm. "We're going to Paixley." Great. They have this Basque cheesecake, and the way it happens, two chefs went on, uh, went on vacation- Yeah ... to the Basque region- Yes ... and they tried this Basque cheesecake. [laughs] And they competed just for, as a friendly bet, as chefs do- Mm-hmm ... just for fun, who could figure out- Yes, good ... that recipe. Great. So the guy who owns the French restaurant figured it out. He, he won the little friendly contest. Yes. So he's figured out the recipe for this amazing cheesecake. The problem is, he has a French restaurant. There is literally nothing in that restaurant that is not French. He cannot serve a Spanish dessert in a French restaurant. So what he does is every night they made one cheesecake. Mm-hmm. And if the staff liked you, they gave you a slice. Ah. You couldn't order it. You couldn't a- Secret cheesecake ... you couldn't, they didn't charge you for it. Really? And if you saw somebody get it and be like, "Could I have a slice?" They go, "No." Oh. So because Will's in the restaurant business, he says to me, "This is one of the fi- top five desserts I've had in my life," he says to me. And because he's in the restaurant business, he calls up his friend who owns the restaurant and says, "Do you have any cheesecake left?" He says, "We have one slice left." Will says, "Hold it for us." We show up, we drink way too much, whatever it's called, Chartreuse. Yes. And they, they... We, it was a lot. [laughs] And then we eat the cheesecake. Yes. It's one of the top five desserts I've ever had in my life. And it's here. And here it is. Oh, man. Simon. Okay. So, uh, there's only one more funny story to share. So you remember, you can't buy it, you can't order it, you can't get it. So I, uh, I'm on a date, and I say to the girl, "I got a surprise for you." Yeah. And I take her to Paixley, and we sit at the counter, and I sort of lean into the- [laughs] ... to the waiter and sort of put my hand up as if I'm sort of like I've got... I'm like, "Hey, uh, is, uh, is the chef here?" He goes, "No, he's not here today." He's like... And I'm sort of, like, trying to make as like maybe, maybe he knows who I am. Like- Mm-hmm ... maybe we can do this. And I say, um, "Any chance you can, uh, get a slice of cheesecake please?" [laughs] He goes, uh, "I think we can do that." Oh. And I'm thinking, "Eh?" I'm in. I'm in. And he brings us a slice of cheesecake, and it's the most amazing thing, and I've got brownie points 'cause this girl's like, "This guy can get cheesecake." [laughs] And then he says, "Would you like anything else?" And I hold up the menu, and it says cheesecake, Basque cheesecake on the menu. So all I did was surreptitiously order something that's on the menu. [laughs] They put it on the menu. They put it on the menu. That little bastard. And I didn't know that they put it on the menu. And the girl's like- So it turns out- "Wow, this guy can really order from the menu." Exactly. [laughs] So the point is anybody can go to Paixley- That's great ... and have this cheesecake now. [laughs] Excellent. Excellent. Okay. Yes. It's one of the top five desserts I've ever had in my life. And it's here. And here it is. Oh, man. Simon. Okay. How big a slice do you want? That I could... Small. You gotta eat your... It's gotta be small. You gotta eat the whole slice. So make it small. This is the last thing we have. Please make it small. Okay. That's good. Good? Yeah. Okay. This is the fucking- Mm. Oh. This is the shit, as they say. Wait, hold on. H- hold on. Gotta get the middle bit. Oh, man. This is, this cheesecake- Oh, baby ... okay, so for those who aren't looking, it is a gooey- Creamy ... drippy, creamy cheesecake with a top, like all Basque cheesecake, is burnt. Yep. Seared the top of the cheesecake. All right. So excited, didn't overeat the rest of the meal, so I have- Thank you for this, Simon ... oh, this is- This is a treat ... I'm so glad I found something you didn't know. Oh, come on. 'Cause everything else, you own the restaurants. No, this is awesome. Okay, you ready? Here we go. Yeah, here we go. Here we go. Come on. That doesn't get better than that. Top five desserts of all time, right? It's, uh, yeah. It's, uh, unbelievable. Yeah.I mean-

    2. PR

      Holy cow

    3. SS

      ... I don't think there's any conversation we can have right now.

    4. PR

      I'm so glad I came.

    5. SS

      Oh.

    6. PR

      [laughs] This could solve, uh, wars.

    7. SS

      Yeah. This is something very specific that everybody-

    8. PR

      Yes

    9. SS

      ... can relate to. [laughs]

    10. PR

      It's the great, it's the great... Unless you're lactose intolerant or you can't eat sugar or...

    11. SS

      If you're lactose intolerant-

    12. PR

      Take a pill

    13. SS

      ... take a pill.

    14. PR

      Take a Lactaid.

    15. SS

      Take a, take a Lactaid for this one. It's worth it. Or just suffer.

    16. PR

      Mm-hmm.

    17. SS

      Suffer indigestion.

  11. 43:0346:28

    Food, humor, and relationships: connection as the real product

    1. PR

      Yeah, it's worth it. Food, I always say, is the great connector. We all gotta eat, first of all.

    2. SS

      Mm-hmm.

    3. PR

      Everybody on the planet eats. But if you and I never met and we sit down and we have something amazing like this, first of all, we're happy because it's so delicious. Next, we're talking, and we're in a better mood because the food was delicious, and we might share a smile or a laugh.

    4. SS

      Mm-hmm.

    5. PR

      So I always say food is the great connector.

    6. SS

      Mm-hmm.

    7. PR

      And then laughs are the cement.

    8. SS

      Wow.

    9. PR

      And so now we had a nice lunch, and it was so nice, what's gonna happen? We wanna eat again.

    10. SS

      We definitely wanna eat again.

    11. PR

      Right? So that's how friends are made. That's how-

    12. SS

      Mm

    13. PR

      ... that's how romance begins. They call it date for a reason, right? You go on a date. Where, where are you going? You'll probably go in the movies, but you're gonna eat because that's where you get to know the person.

    14. SS

      Yeah.

    15. PR

      Over a pleasurable experience.

    16. SS

      Did you have a happy family, happy childhood?

    17. PR

      I have to say, in retrospect, just like you were saying, you don't know what you have.

    18. SS

      Mm-hmm.

    19. PR

      You go to someone's house, "I can't believe the food is so terrible. I must have great food at my house."

    20. SS

      Mm-hmm.

    21. PR

      No, we had... We didn't have lousy food, and a lot of the time my family was yelling at each other, but we were, when we weren't yelling, we were laughing.

    22. SS

      Mm-hmm.

    23. PR

      My dad was very funny, and my mother also was funny. Uh, and-

    24. SS

      Did, did your dad know he was funny?

    25. PR

      Yes. He actually-

    26. SS

      Okay

    27. PR

      ... told jokes.

    28. SS

      Okay.

    29. PR

      He actually... The way my parents met was my mom was on a date with a fella, and she went to a nightclub in New Jersey on amateur night, and they listened to musicians, and then this young, skinny tailor from the Garment District gets up and tells old Jewish jokes that she thought was hysterical. And she said, "That guy, think I like that guy better than this guy I'm on the date with."

    30. SS

      [laughs]

  12. 46:2854:37

    AI, creativity, and fairness: what changes—and what can’t be replaced

    1. PR

      Right? Where kids can make their own movies on the phone by speaking into it and saying, "Make me the... I wanna be in outer space and do my own version of Star Wars."

    2. SS

      Yeah.

    3. PR

      "And I wanna be the hero, and I like the girl down the street and make her the girl that I get, and make my friend over here the villain," and he pushes a button, and then... This is soon.

    4. SS

      Yeah.

    5. PR

      This will happen.

    6. SS

      It's not far.

    7. PR

      And then AI creates a movie that not only he can show on a giant screen, but he can hit a button and distribute it worldwide. Why does he need a studio? Why does he need an agent? Why does he need a movie theater? Why does he need... Doesn't.

    8. SS

      Does that bother you?

    9. PR

      Of course, because the art is gone then.

    10. SS

      But is... But here's the thing. I don't think so, right? I think w- w- my... Where I'm coming out on AI, especially when it comes-

    11. PR

      Yes

    12. SS

      ... to creativity-

    13. PR

      Yes

    14. SS

      ... right? I think what technology does is it reorganizes the focus, right? So for example, we were an album culture.

    15. PR

      Yeah.

    16. SS

      We listened to 8-tracks and, and-

    17. PR

      Yeah

    18. SS

      ... records-

    19. PR

      Yeah. Mm-hmm

    20. SS

      ... and CDs and tapes. We're an album culture-

    21. PR

      Right

    22. SS

      ... until the MP3 player showed up.

    23. PR

      Mm-hmm.

    24. SS

      And now we're a song and playlist culture, right? So the technology changed our preferences and our tastes. Ch- changed our area of focus.

    25. PR

      And who did that screw?

    26. SS

      Uh-

    27. PR

      The artist.

    28. SS

      Uh, screwed some artists, gave life to new artists.

    29. PR

      But not the life that, uh, you know, Beyoncé has to tour because the album isn't gonna make her the money-

    30. SS

      So, so-

  13. 54:371:03:29

    Service as the moat: why humans still matter in restaurants (and beyond)

    1. PR

      That's right. The wrinkles are earned.Wrinkles are earned. The specifics are earned. I really like this. [laughs] It's a great philosophy for life. I thought we were just gonna talk about food. Well- That's really nice ... that's a big part of it, and it's a great metaphor for a lot of things in life. Yeah. I have a couple enterprises. Food, food is art. It can be, yeah. I don't understand people who- I think chefs are great writers. They're... Right. You write a recipe. You put ideas together that maybe haven't been together before. Roy Choi, for example. You know who he is? I don't. Roy Choi created the Kogi truck. You know what that is? I don't. It changed the world. S- Why? Because here's a Korean American who, growing up in LA, loves, uh, Mexican food and culture. He takes Korean barbecue and he puts it in a tortilla and makes a Korean- Like a bulgogi- ... barbecue- ... tortilla ... taco. Wow. Then he takes a truck and paints it with the word Kogi on it, and as the internet is coming and people are writing now on the internet, "The Kogi truck is at Ventura and, uh, this. Come there." And crowds start coming. Now people go, "Wait a minute. Food trucks used to be just be for construction sites." Now they're cultural phenomenons. The reason you see food trucks everywhere on Earth- Ah ... is because this guy- Brilliant ... put Korean barbecue in a taco. He's the OG. Roy Choi. Wow. That's, that is- We should have him on because- That's a great story, and real entrepreneurship, and, and- Yeah ... and a work of art- Yeah ... that, that took, took over the world. We love a food truck. We love it because it's handy. It... Everyone is different. You can travel by going to a c- a collection of food trucks, which, you know, a place like Austin will, will, uh, take an old parking lot and put a, a ring of food trucks around it that's been curated. We have a Mexican one, we have a barbecue one, we have an Indian one, we have this, and you have a food festival. So why shouldn't f- uh, chefs be afraid of AI? Why shouldn't they be? You, you said that s- writers are under threat, musicians are under threat, painters are at a, under threat all because this AI can do what they do, so why not the chef? You said they're writers. Yes. They d- they, they write these recipes. Yes. So why not the AI give me a recipe for this kind of dish with these kinds of ingredients- Because the computerized restaurant could take their job away. If the truck can drive itself and the food can cook itself and serve itself to you, they're out of business. I don't think it'll ever happen. I hope not. But I'll tell y- for a very simple reason. Yeah? I want somebody to smile with me. Of course. There's a cookie place in New York City that I went to. Yeah. Everything's stark white and very futuristic- Uh-huh ... and it looks like some Woody Allen movie, you know? Yep, yeah. And, and, uh, and you go in, and you... s- there's a screen. You go bleep, bleep, bleep, and you say what kind of cookie you want, and the, y- this person in the back gets the order on a screen, and they prepare the cookie, and they put it in a bag, and then s- then just somebody hand... Don't e- I think they have... They just put it on the counter with your name on it. And the people... I was looking in the back, and the people in the back look so unhappy- Of course ... in a job. And it's not the job. It's not the m- m- mean, the, the, the, the, the m- the- There's no social connection ... it's not the mundaneness- Yeah ... of making a cookie and put it in a bag. Yeah, yeah. It's... What makes my job fun is I wanna talk to you and say hi- Yes ... and smile- Yes, yes ... and say thank you and say please. Yes, yes. Like, stupid little shit. And- Also, you know, a pretty girl might come in. And a pretty girl might come in. Or, or, or, or- But I think what'll happen is- Yeah ... people will demand it, and I think the w- the companies will always offer what the market demands. And so companies might be looking for all this way to eliminate people and eliminate this and eliminate that until the one person who starts the food truck, who says, "You know what? We're making our own food so that you can see who makes it, and we'll smile at you and hand it to you because you'll know that I made it with love." Yes. Then that's the one that's gonna have the line around the block, and all the other AI trucks- Yes ... are gonna put people in it because that's what the market demands. Unless one thing. Go. That's the best cookie you ever had in your life. No, I don't even think that's it. If a machine made that Basque cheesecake right now- Uh ... right, that we just had- All right, all right. You win. [laughs] You'd still love that cheesecake, right? I love the story that goes with the cheesecake. Of course we do. I've got the story of the chef, my friend Will. Of course, and it's... I always say the story makes it taste better. I really believe that. And if Grandma smiles at me while she's giving me her, you know, beautiful pasta in Italy, I'm in love with the whole thing. I'll go this far. I asked Thomas Keller, 'cause I, I have a podcast too. You'll come on mine. Please. It's called, it's called Naked Lunch, and we eat every time. I only eat with you. [laughs] Thomas Keller came and did the- Yeah. And I said, "Do you have advice for me for the diner?" Mm-hmm. And you know what he said the number one thing... What do you think it was? What? Well, you wanna guess? Great staff. That's it. Service. Service. That's everything. Yeah. Especially for a diner. You want a warm, cozy hug of a place. Yeah. The food has to be good, or you're out of business. Bad s- or bad service- Yeah ... bad service can ruin good food. Of course it can. And great service enhances- Of course ... mediocre food. And you fall- And if you've got both, you're a winner ... and if you fall in love with the people in the place- Yeah ... you're a customer. You're, you're coming back. You're coming back. Right? We all wanna be accepted. And that's why I think we're safe from AI taking over the world, is because fundamentally people want human beings, and they wanna feel loved, and they wanna feel held. They wanna look somebody in the eye. You know what everybody wants? A hug. Absolutely. A, a, a metaphorical hug of, of s- good service- Well, I- ... or a literal hug. You know as well as I do- I give those out in the show ... you know as well as I do that if your staff is amazing and a customer comes in, they will hug the staff. The regulars will get hugs because that's how people are. Yes, yes, yes. It's, it's vital. AI will never take that away, but they could take away a lot. So we... You kind of... I think, yes, but I think ag- again, it goes back to the Beyoncé challenge, which is the enterprising ones- Will figure it out ... will figure it out. The enterprising ones will, will be able to put their finger on the zeitgeist and say, "You know what? I can't make money on an album anymore." Yeah. "But the album is my marketing tool for my tour." Right. "I'm gonna do the best tours of anybody-" Right "... the best concerts of anybody." Right. "And instead of slaving away-"

    2. SS

      ... trying to market my album.

    3. PR

      Yeah.

    4. SS

      I'm gonna slave away making the best tour I can make.

    5. PR

      Right.

    6. SS

      And I think it just changes the energy and it changes the model. And so because we're in a period of flux right now-

    7. PR

      Uh-huh

    8. SS

      ... the people with the old business models that can't imagine new business models are the ones screaming the death of everything.

    9. PR

      Right.

    10. SS

      For good reason, it's gonna be young people-

    11. PR

      Yeah

    12. SS

      ... or really enterprising experienced people. But young people who, who are not encumbered by the old business models will be the ones figuring out the new model.

    13. PR

      Yeah. Listen, it's always been-

    14. SS

      Or the truck

    15. PR

      ... a, a small set of people who make the, the most out of the business. There's only one Tom Hanks, right? There's only, there's very few giant movie stars. And the kid that I described who talks into his phone and pushes a button and a movie comes out-

    16. SS

      Yeah

    17. PR

      ... the kid who's best at that will be the new Tom Hanks.

    18. SS

      Yeah. He, I, I was walking down Hollywood Boulevard-

    19. PR

      Yeah

    20. SS

      ... and I'm looking at all the stars of all the famous people.

    21. PR

      Yes.

    22. SS

      And I didn't know most of them.

    23. PR

      Yeah, well-

    24. SS

      Because everybody gets forgotten. And so-

    25. PR

      Hey, thanks, Simon. This is so uplifting.

    26. SS

      [laughs] I, I guarantee you my, my niece doesn't know who Arnold Schwarzenegger is. You know, I'm pretty confident my niece doesn't know who Ray Romano is. And it's no disrespect to anything you or Ray did, it's just like time goes forwards, which is why you're doing-

    27. PR

      Of course

    28. SS

      ... new things.

    29. PR

      Uh, you have to do new things.

    30. SS

      Uh, you're like the Larry David of the Ray Romano show, which is-

  14. 1:03:291:07:20

    Why 'Somebody Feed Phil' works: character, discomfort, and changed habits

    1. SS

      Yeah. All right. I'm gonna [laughs] I have a couple questions here for you. You created Everybody Loves Raymond.

    2. PR

      Mm-hmm.

    3. SS

      And Somebody Feed Phil.

    4. PR

      Mm-hmm.

    5. SS

      It's always got some name in it to give to that, to, to, to do something with Raymond-

    6. PR

      That was on purpose

    7. SS

      ... do something with Phil.

    8. PR

      Yeah.

    9. SS

      So what would you name my show?

    10. PR

      Oh.

    11. SS

      If it's not The Optimism, a little bit of optimism. It's a bit of, that's the name of our show. It's A Bit of Optimism. [laughs]

    12. PR

      Somebody Talk to Simon.

    13. SS

      [laughs] So, it's so lonely.

    14. PR

      [laughs] By the way, Somebody Feed Phil, d- I, the reason I love that title and chose-

    15. SS

      It's good

    16. PR

      ... that title is because it denotes someone who can't take care of himself.

    17. SS

      Right.

    18. PR

      So right away it's specific character.

    19. SS

      Right.

    20. PR

      That's me.

    21. SS

      Right.

    22. PR

      I can't cook. Somebody better feed Phil because otherwise Phil will die. [laughs]

    23. SS

      Poor you.

    24. PR

      And I have my brother who produces the show with me.

    25. SS

      Mm-hmm.

    26. PR

      And so he runs the show while I'm the monkey in the middle.

    27. SS

      Mm-hmm.

    28. PR

      And he pushes me out of my comfort zone because he thinks that'll be entertaining for people. I fight him every step of the way. And every time I do the thing that I did not want to do, it was worth doing.

    29. SS

      Like?

    30. PR

      Jumping in the cold water off the Irish coast.

  15. 1:07:201:10:19

    Gratitude vs. luck—and ending with generosity

    1. SS

      Yeah. You are wonderful.

    2. PR

      [laughs]

    3. SS

      You ha- you, you are the personification of joie de vivre.

    4. PR

      I, I am, I am-

    5. SS

      You love, you love life

    6. PR

      ... because I feel very, very lucky. I know not everybody gets to live their dream.

    7. SS

      Yeah.

    8. PR

      And I'm not discounting that I had to work hard to get it, but I know how lucky I am, and that informs everything I do. So when you start with that plateau of gratitude, right?

    9. SS

      I think, but-

    10. PR

      A baseline

    11. SS

      ... but I think, but the, there's a difference there, and you just said it.

    12. PR

      Yeah, yeah.

    13. SS

      The plateau of gratitude is-

    14. PR

      Yeah

    15. SS

      ... not the plateau of luck. You said, "I'm lucky." You're not. You're grateful. There's a difference. Lucky is winning a lottery.

    16. PR

      I did.

    17. SS

      Right?

    18. PR

      I did.

    19. SS

      You did, you did. Y- yes, okay.

    20. PR

      You have to be lucky.

    21. SS

      I agree, and we-

    22. PR

      And once you are lucky enough to be lucky-

    23. SS

      And I'm not ma-

    24. PR

      ... you must be grateful for that luck

    25. SS

      ... and I'm not making the case, oh, you worked hard for it. That's not what I'm saying. I'm saying what, I think there's something to be s- when somebody has something that others don't get to have-

    26. PR

      Mm-hmm

    27. SS

      ... I don't think we want to think of you as lucky. But we want to know that if you have something that I either want or crave or look up to-

    28. PR

      That you appreciate it

    29. SS

      ... I just wanna know that you appreciate it. I feel lucky. Don't get me wrong. I feel lucky for everything that I've had, and I know luck played a huge part, and timing played a huge part.

    30. PR

      Sure.

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