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Tim Ferriss’s Sabbatical, Kevin Rose Tries a Medium, Fitness Tools, and More — The Tim Ferriss Show

This is a very special episode I recorded with my close friend Kevin Rose in person at his house. We trade our latest discoveries, and I think it’s one of our best. Tons of actionable takeaways and laughing fits.

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Sep 4, 20241h 49mWatch on YouTube

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  1. 0:00 – 0:49

    Kevin Rose assaulted by futuristic technology

    1. TF

      So I'll put this in my mouth, and this is gonna wrap around both sides of my gums

    2. KR

      How are you, how are you gonna r- how are you gonna rinse that?

    3. TF

      I don't know.

    4. KR

      All right, let's see it. Let's see it. It's gonna be good.

    5. TF

      Uh, hello. Mm-hmm. M- m- mmm.

    6. KR

      [laughs]

    7. TF

      Hmm. [laughs]

    8. KR

      [laughs]

    9. TF

      [laughs]

    10. KR

      [laughs]

    11. TF

      [laughs]

    12. KR

      [laughs]

    13. TF

      [laughs]

    14. KR

      [laughs]

    15. TF

      Oh, God. I couldn't solve it.

    16. KR

      [laughs]

    17. TF

      [laughs] Okay. Okay.

    18. KR

      Holy shit.

    19. TF

      I know what you're thinking.

    20. KR

      That-

    21. TF

      [laughs]

    22. KR

      [laughs] You definitely bought that on Pornhub.

    23. TF

      No, I didn't. [laughs]

    24. KR

      [laughs] [upbeat music]

  2. 0:49 – 8:28

    A sabbatical recap and future podcasting plans.

    1. KR

      Hello, friends and family. Welcome to the Random Show. I am here in my studio with Tim Ferriss. Tim, you're here in my house.

    2. TF

      I know. It's so nice.

    3. KR

      I shouldn't say that my studio's in my house.

    4. TF

      [laughs]

    5. KR

      We can still say that. It's fine. But-

    6. TF

      It's in your, [laughs] it's in your bat cave.

    7. KR

      I'm, I'm glad you're here, brother.

    8. TF

      Yeah.

    9. KR

      It's good to see you in person.

    10. TF

      Yeah, it's great to see you. I'm really, really thrilled that it worked out, and what better way to get off of my podcast sabbatical than with saying hi to my good friend Kevin-

    11. KR

      How did that feel-

    12. TF

      ... with a few drinks

    13. KR

      ... by the way?

    14. TF

      So the sabbatical, first time in 10 years-

    15. KR

      Yeah

    16. TF

      ... that I've taken a break from the podcast, and it's been four months roughly of sharing a lot of the greatest hits. And it's been a combination of feeling fantastic, and I've-

    17. KR

      Mm-hmm

    18. TF

      ... been working on other projects that are really energy in for me. My first new book in seven years that I've been working on.

    19. KR

      That's not a sabbatical, by the way, but [laughs] ...

    20. TF

      Well, usually, though, in fairness, the word sabbatical is typically used in academic circles-

    21. KR

      Oh, Jesus. Here we go

    22. TF

      ... and when they take a break [laughs] from teaching, they do other things. Right?

    23. KR

      Right.

    24. TF

      They, they do other things. And I think you and I, if we're being honest, are both working dogs. Like, we can take breaks, but it's like you take a working dog, like a border collie, you stick it in your apartment in New York City and it doesn't run-

    25. KR

      Yeah

    26. TF

      ... and you're like, "Why is it chewing the couch?"

    27. KR

      Right.

    28. TF

      It's 'cause it has to run. So for me, to do the deep work of books specifically-

    29. KR

      Mm-hmm

    30. TF

      ... is just a different shift, different gear than feeling the pressure of putting out a podcast-

  3. 8:28 – 10:24

    PicStudio's disturbingly realistic AI-generated portraits.

    1. KR

      We got lots to catch up

    2. TF

      ... also covered today

    3. KR

      So yeah, why don't you hop in? So Addison, are you around? We have my dear friend Addison, who lives here in LA, who is a, a part-time semi-professional bartender, mixologist. Not really, but you know, he does that for fun, and he also does an AI company part-time called PicStudio.ai, which s- just came out with a new model. And you know how these AI models are changing so fast, right?

    4. TF

      Yes. Mm-hmm.

    5. KR

      When I was first messing around with this with him, like, a while ago, it was pretty good. It was good. It was like, I used it as a headshot for a couple places, right? But you could still kinda like look at it. If you look, if you squinted, you'd be like, "Mm, AI," right?

    6. TF

      Yeah, uncanny valley.

    7. KR

      Right.

    8. TF

      You'd be like, "Wait a second."

    9. KR

      So they came out with a new model, and I wanted to show you. We'll see if, Addison's gonna make us some drinks as well. I wanna show you a couple pictures of yourself.

    10. TF

      Oh.

    11. KR

      Dude, this is a brand-new model.

    12. TF

      Holy shit. That's insanity.

    13. KR

      Is that insane?

    14. TF

      And we'll put these up on YouTube and other places-

    15. KR

      Yeah

    16. TF

      ... so people can see the images. That's terrifying.

    17. KR

      Dude, how real does that look?

    18. TF

      I'm looking good. I'm looking good.

    19. KR

      Yeah, you're looking, this should be your new dating profile picture.

    20. TF

      [laughs] Ooh.

    21. KR

      Now that one, you're a little preppy there-

    22. TF

      I'm a little preppy-

    23. KR

      ... with the cargo shorts

    24. TF

      ... but you know, this is like

    25. KR

      The ocean looks nice.

    26. TF

      What's crazy is the kind of full body dimension accuracy.

    27. KR

      Yeah.

    28. TF

      That's nuts.

    29. KR

      Yeah, he was saying that you can, like, use the prompt now to say, like, this shirt type or like-

    30. TF

      Yeah, so-

  4. 10:24 – 11:08

    Kevin's new Jess Mascetti tattoo.

    1. TF

      Speaking of looking good, you wanna show off your new tattoo?

    2. KR

      Oh, yeah, I just got a, a little crane here. @jessmascetti on, uh, on Instagram. She's amazing, a New York-based tattoo artist. She's done, uh, Bruce Willis, a bunch of other really famous kind of people in the past.

    3. TF

      I was wondering why I had Bruce Willis on your forearm.

    4. KR

      Yeah, exactly. [laughs]

    5. TF

      How did you choose that?

    6. KR

      So you probably know this, but in Japanese lore, children's books and others, the crane is a symbol of, uh, because of its length, that can span heaven and Earth.

    7. TF

      Mm.

    8. KR

      And so it's used as a bridge for souls to transfer between heaven and Earth. I, I just like that lore.

    9. TF

      Yeah.

    10. KR

      It's cool.

    11. TF

      Yeah.

    12. KR

      And one day, and I got the meditator done by her on the front of me as well, so-

    13. TF

      Wow

    14. KR

      ... got, got both. But she-

    15. TF

      A lot of ink

    16. KR

      ... she's insanely, insanely talented.

    17. TF

      Very talented, yeah, beautiful artwork.

    18. KR

      We'll link to her profile in the, in the old show notes.

  5. 11:08 – 15:31

    Vampire facials and a platelet-rich plasma (PRP) problem.

    1. KR

      So you were looking really good [laughs] on Instagram, and you posted that you got-

    2. TF

      No. [laughs]

    3. KR

      ... a vampire facial done.

    4. TF

      Yeah, vampire facial. Yeah, so I put up a photo which popped up on my phone. It was generated by the phone, and it had t- you know, today eight years ago.

    5. KR

      Right.

    6. TF

      And it was a photo of me from eight years ago, and I realized, which I more or less hoped would be the case and really pushed for, which was like, all right, I, I lost my hair pretty early, and then I looked older than my friends.

    7. KR

      Yeah.

    8. TF

      And I was like, I just need to make it, like, the next 10 years and train my ass off and watch my diet, and I think I'll kind of flatline or plateau in terms of how I look.

    9. KR

      Right.

    10. TF

      And so the photos made it look, I think, like I had largely not aged in eight years.

    11. KR

      It looked amazing.

    12. TF

      It looked amazing. So I, I put up- Eight years on the Romanian vampire protocol trademark, and then I put RVP in parentheses, will do wonders for your skin. [laughs] And it was a total joke on my part.

    13. KR

      Right.

    14. TF

      Unbeknownst to me, though-

    15. KR

      Well, you put, you turned off comments, too

    16. TF

      ... I turned off comments. Yeah.

    17. KR

      Yeah.

    18. TF

      There's a long story behind that we won't get into. But, but the reason that was funny is because so many people-

    19. KR

      [laughs]

    20. TF

      ... I didn't get any of the feedback

    21. KR

      ... who were giving the feedback, there is a such thing as a vampire facial.

    22. TF

      [laughs]

    23. KR

      And you were joking. And I looked at it, I was like, "Oh, shit, Tim does the vampire too." I'm like, "Wow, he's been doing it for a long time, he's never told me about it."

    24. TF

      [laughs]

    25. KR

      You know?

    26. TF

      What is the vampire facial?

    27. KR

      So about a month ago now, I was at the dermatologist, and you know, you go in once a year and get your, all your warts and shit looked at to make sure you don't have a cancer. And I go in there and they're like, "Hey," like, you know, "You want some good shit?" You know? Like-

    28. TF

      Now that I'm looking at your eyes, we, you, we were talking about, like, crow's feet-

    29. KR

      Mm-hmm

    30. TF

      ... and turning them back into-

  6. 15:31 – 24:48

    Tequila martinis.

    1. KR

      got it. Thank you. Thanks, brother. Yeah. Awesome.

    2. TF

      So what, what is, what is this?

    3. KR

      Yeah. Tequila martini. Tequila martini.

    4. TF

      Tequila martini.

    5. KR

      Cheers.

    6. TF

      Cheers. Cheers, brother.

    7. KR

      This is your tequila too that you invested in.

    8. TF

      Oh, yeah. Lalo Tequila. Check it out.

    9. KR

      Oh, awesome.

    10. TF

      Only alcohol brand I've ever invested in.

    11. KR

      Thank you.

    12. TF

      Yeah. Mm.

    13. KR

      So yeah, you squirted staph infection at me, you fucker.

    14. TF

      I did. [laughs]

    15. KR

      [laughs] Which I'm like, m- looking back at that, I'm like, that was a pretty dick thing to do.

    16. TF

      Yeah, I knew-

    17. KR

      But you laughed

    18. TF

      ... I wasn't, I wasn't gonna get you in the eyes.

    19. KR

      Yeah.

    20. TF

      I wasn't gonna Phantom of the Opera you.

    21. KR

      [laughs] Yeah.

    22. TF

      Uh, but PRP-

    23. KR

      Damn, this is a good drink

    24. TF

      ... it is a great drink.

    25. KR

      Yeah. Yeah.

    26. TF

      Yeah, so PRP, to be clear, number one, it's your own blood.

    27. KR

      Yes.

    28. TF

      Number two, it can be in some instances really, really effective for orthopedic issues.

    29. KR

      Mm-hmm.

    30. TF

      But there, there's quite a bit of publish- published literature, so you can look it up.

  7. 24:48 – 26:50

    Bobby Fingers.

    1. TF

      So I wanna make a couple of recommendations.

    2. KR

      Yes, please.

    3. TF

      And then I got something to show you.

    4. KR

      Do you, do you know who Bobby Fingers is?

    5. TF

      Sounds familiar. [laughs]

    6. KR

      So [laughs] always a safe thing to say.

    7. TF

      I think I've heard of him.

    8. KR

      Yeah.

    9. TF

      Tell me more. So Bobby Fingers is one of my favorite discoveries on YouTube of the last decade, and he is one of the most unbelievably skilled artists, craftsman, sculptor, polymaths.

    10. KR

      Mm-hmm.

    11. TF

      He's also hilarious, and his writ is- writing is incredible. He's a performer and makes the most bizarre shit you've ever seen in your life. So they're like 10 to 30-minute long descriptions of him making something beautiful and then, like, hiding it by burying it somewhere. And there's one of the, let's say, the scene with Michael Jackson where his hair catches on fire.

    12. KR

      Yeah, yeah.

    13. TF

      And it's him building this entire, entire diorama. There's one of the Mel Gibson DUI stop from way back in the day. [laughs]

    14. KR

      Mm-hmm.

    15. TF

      And I would say that if you want to see something that I think is pure genius-

    16. KR

      So is this a video or what is this exactly?

    17. TF

      It is... Yeah, it's a video channel. So if you go to Bobby Fingers, @bobbyfingers on YouTube. You can find him on Patreon as well, patreon.com/bobbyfingers. youtube.com/@bobbyfingers. And this guy should have, in my opinion, hundreds of millions of views.

    18. KR

      What's he at now? Is it, like, big or...?

    19. TF

      I mean, for what he's doing, I think it is so hard to categorize-

    20. KR

      Yeah

    21. TF

      ... that it hasn't had as much spread as it deserves.

    22. KR

      195,000 followers, still decent.

    23. TF

      Oh, he's doing well.

    24. KR

      Yeah.

    25. TF

      But I really feel a moral, maybe amoral/immoral obligation to recommend people go check this out.

    26. KR

      Oh, this looks amazing.

    27. TF

      There will be plenty to offend everyone, but it is so genius and unlike anything I've ever seen in my life. I strongly recommend people check it out. And two of my favorites, there are many good ones, but I would say Michael Jackson or Mel Gibson are a great place to start.

    28. KR

      That's awesome. All right. I will check that out. Have you... Or by

  8. 26:50 – 33:30

    Training for the hunt.

    1. KR

      the way, were you doing O- Ozempic in this shot or...?

    2. TF

      Oh, wow. Look at that.

    3. KR

      [laughs]

    4. TF

      I'm so glad AI, AI shaved my chest for me, too.

    5. KR

      Yeah. [laughs]

    6. TF

      I am looking good.

    7. KR

      Dude, that is legit. [laughs]

    8. TF

      Yeah.

    9. KR

      I mean-

    10. TF

      That's insane

    11. KR

      ... that's if you were 007.

    12. TF

      I mean, honestly, what's crazy to me about that-

    13. KR

      Is how much you actually look like that? [laughs]

    14. TF

      ... how much, how great I look in those Speedos.

    15. KR

      [laughs]

    16. TF

      But separately is the lighting.

    17. KR

      Yeah.

    18. TF

      It looks real. It's really... [laughs]

    19. KR

      Makes me wanna go back to the gym. [laughs]

    20. TF

      I... [laughs] I mean, why go to the gym when I can just put that on?

    21. KR

      Yeah. Exactly.

    22. TF

      Actually, I've been training, I've been training very hard recently and feeling very good. I'm not taking Ozempic, but I have been using a few different tools that I thought people might find-

    23. KR

      Yeah, let's hear it

    24. TF

      ... interesting. So one, which was recommended to me by a two-time silver medalist in Olympic archery, Jake Kaminski. I would also recommend people check out his channel if you want to learn anything about archery, especially recurve. He is amazing, both as, as a performer, proven performer, but as a teacher.

    25. KR

      Mm-hmm.

    26. TF

      So Jake Kaminski with a bunch of I's, Kaminski. He recommended the Outdoorsman Atlas Trainer Frame System. So what is this? I'll tell you the problem it solves. So I own a bunch of rucking sacks.

    27. KR

      Yes.

    28. TF

      So these are backpacks-

    29. KR

      I ruck too, all the time

    30. TF

      ... with weight, with weights in them.

  9. 33:30 – 34:05

    Fairbanks fun.

    1. SP

      Okay. Sorry, I know you like tequila, but-

    2. TF

      Oh, yeah. It's all right

    3. SP

      ... I had to, to pause.

    4. TF

      Yeah, yeah.

    5. SP

      And, uh, this is called, uh, Fairbanks.

    6. TF

      Rye, apricot liqueur and thank, thank you, Edison.

    7. KR

      Bitters and rye whiskey.

    8. SP

      Sorry.

    9. KR

      Tim has to board a flight after this.

    10. TF

      [laughs] Here we go.

    11. SP

      Fireball shots.

    12. TF

      Yeah.

    13. KR

      Fireball shots.

    14. TF

      Cheers, Kevin.

    15. KR

      Mm. Cheers.

    16. SP

      I wanna watch the reaction.

    17. KR

      There we go. Reaction shot. This is one of his favorite drinks to make.

    18. TF

      That's really nice.

    19. SP

      I know you said not too sweet. I tried to-

    20. TF

      It's not too sweet.

    21. KR

      Isn't that good?

    22. TF

      And it has the fancy ice cubes, too.

    23. SP

      It's Spirit Forward, for sure.

    24. TF

      Yeah. Spirit Forward. That's in my, uh, dating bio.

  10. 34:05 – 35:42

    European dating.

    1. TF

      [laughs]

    2. KR

      [laughs] Exactly. Uh, so Paris for the-

    3. TF

      Oh my God [laughs]

    4. KR

      Well, hold on, just tell me. Tell me what they l- uh, 'cause they're, they got a good fashion sense out there.

    5. TF

      Well, you know, part of what I was interested to see, I spent almost eight weeks in Europe, was how does dating differ in different places in Europe?

    6. KR

      They're a little softer out there, though. You let them pass you a little.

    7. TF

      Uh, no, not necessarily.

    8. KR

      Really?

    9. TF

      Not necessarily. No. So it varies tremendously by country, I would say. And of course, there's a huge range within each country.

    10. KR

      Mm-hmm.

    11. TF

      But say in dating in France is very different from dating in Madrid, which is very different from dating in, in other places. It really varies-

    12. KR

      Hmm

    13. TF

      ... uh, tremendously. But, you know, part of what I'm hoping for is finding someone, and these, these women exist, but a lot of women, understandably for a million reasons, feel very conflicted and are put in, I think, a difficult position, frankly, when thinking about career, kids-

    14. KR

      It's so hard

    15. TF

      ... basically trying to do more than any person in history had to do-

    16. KR

      Yes

    17. TF

      ... like before 50 years ago.

    18. KR

      All right, let's not go by the back end of this. We, we can-

    19. TF

      No, I'm just saying that-

    20. KR

      No, I, I hear what you're saying, though.

    21. TF

      Yeah, it gets very challenging.

    22. KR

      I mean-

    23. TF

      So what I want to get a real clear signal on is that somebody is excited to be a mom in the same way-

    24. KR

      Yes

    25. TF

      ... that I'm excited to be a dad, and that it's not, "Well, all my friends are getting married. I guess this is what you do."

    26. KR

      Right.

    27. TF

      "Even though I'm gonna make all these compromises and might resent it later." I don't want to subject a kid to that-

    28. KR

      Yes

    29. TF

      ... potential risk, right?

    30. KR

      That's wise of you.

  11. 35:42 – 39:52

    Hasty oral hygiene with Feno.

    1. TF

      differences from place to place.

    2. KR

      Yeah. All right. So I have a gift for you.

    3. TF

      I have a gift. That's so kind of you. Oh, wow.

    4. KR

      This is called Feno.

    5. TF

      Oh my gosh.

    6. KR

      This is, this is my buddy's new startup.

    7. TF

      Okay.

    8. KR

      And in the-

    9. TF

      Thank you

    10. KR

      ... self-experimenting, kinda crazy vein of things-

    11. TF

      All right

    12. KR

      ... I wanna show you this. Now-

    13. TF

      Feno. F-E-N-O.

    14. KR

      Yeah. So this is, [laughs] okay, this is a beta.

    15. TF

      Yeah. [laughs]

    16. KR

      Okay? So y- you can't laugh at me 'cause remember, you're gonna be doing this by yourself, okay?

    17. TF

      Oh, gosh.

    18. KR

      This is not like a Fleshlight or anything. [laughs]

    19. TF

      Oh, gosh. [laughs]

    20. KR

      Okay.

    21. TF

      What the fuck is this? [laughs]

    22. KR

      So this is a medically proven way to brush your-

    23. TF

      Oh

    24. KR

      ... entire mouth in 20 seconds.

    25. TF

      Wow, okay.

    26. KR

      So it, it just-

    27. TF

      All right, that's interesting

    28. KR

      ... so watch this.

    29. TF

      Oh, wow. You're gonna try it.

    30. KR

      Yeah. I'll take a little of this here. You put all those foam in here Yeah And so there's this, they have this little app that custom creates a mold. I estimated it mouth size You didn't buy this from an ad on Pornhub? No. [laughs] So this is gonna look a little, um- [laughs] ... mouth, uh, aggressive. [laughs] Okay? So if you're watching the video- Spirit forward mouth aggressive ... spirit forward mouth aggressive mouth- That's also my bio. Exactly. So what you do is that the, this was created by a couple founders that, you know, obviously were, one of them was a dentist, and they figured out that, you know, compliance is really hard with, with, with people. Say they, everyone says they floss. They don't. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. You know, like I do, but do you floss? Oh, like seven times a day. [laughs] So, so I put this in my mouth, and this is gonna wrap around both sides of my gums. How are you, how are you gonna, how are you gonna rinse that? I don't know. All right, let's see it. Let's see it. This is gonna be good. Uh, hello. Mm-hmm. Mm. Mm, mm. [laughs] Mm. [laughs] [laughs] [laughs] Oh, God. I couldn't stop it. [laughs] Okay. Holy shit. Now, I know what you're thinking. That- [laughs] You definitely bought that on Pornhub. No, I did not. [laughs] No, I did not, but it works surprisingly well. [laughs] I'll try it. I got one for you. It, it's- Thank you ... I gotta say that I, I do love, it has sensors in there. [laughs] I know, I know. I bet it does. You're doing it by yourself, so you don't- [laughs] ... it's like you're getting mouth raped every time you do it. Yeah, I, I can see you winking. I can see you winking. Exactly. [laughs] It is aggressive, but I will say that- Aggressive, aggressive, but- ... it, it is very, it does a very good job cleaning. Aggressive but effective. Aggressive but effective, and it's, it's 20 seconds, which is great. [laughs] They have sensors that actually scan your gums, look at gum health, and can send it back to your doctor. What? On that device? So it can tell you, on the device, built into the device. Okay. So that your doctor can actually see recession- Oh ... and, like, things that are happening with your gums. So it's, like, a very tech-forward device. Yeah. It's crazy. You know, I had my first real surgery was when I was a kid for receding gin- gingiva. I actually had a huge piece of my upper, well, I guess it's your only, palate removed and grafted- Holy shit ... onto my lower gums. For what? Like, sugar and shit? Like, what were you doing? No, no, it's just genetic. Like, my, my gums- Oh, crazy ... were receding when I was a kid. It was, I don't know how old I was, maybe 12, something like that. It was brutal. That's the first time I've ever, uh, uh, done that. Vigorous. Yeah, yeah. It's, it, it's like, it's like a- [laughs] I'm so- It stretched ... upset that I did not video that from this direction. We've gotta get going here. Oh, right. We got that camera right there. [laughs] Oh, oh, that's the slow-mo. We need that in slow-mo- Oh, yeah ... as the intro to the episode. [laughs] Listen, hey, you know what's funny is, like, when I was putting together these stories for the random show, I'm like, I love, if you look back historically at all the years we've been doing this episode- Yeah ... we've had some of the most craziest, stupidest shit- Yeah ... and talked about the dumbest stuff. I mean, we already today talked about you squirting your freaking infectious fluid [laughs] at my, my body. That's true. That's true. Like, we've done some weird shit, and so I always try and like to find stuff. Yeah. I mean, this is, like, both cool and, and also- Every once in a while, one of those things, five years later. Yeah. Look at that. It's everywhere. Exactly. Yeah. Exactly. Remember, dude, I talked about Ethereum for the first time on this show before it launched. I do. When was that? That was, God, that was a long time ago. Dude, there- That was when I was s- still living in my first place in San Francisco. I watched the clip, and I'm like, "Oh, there's this one cryptocurrency, uh, usually they don't care about." Yeah. And you're like, "No, no, no, tell me, tell me." And I'm like, "Well, it hasn't launched yet." And you're like, "What is it?" I'm like, "Well, it's called Ethereum." When was that? That was, like, 20-fu- It had to be like- I'm gonna have to go back and look, check YouTube right now ... yeah, 2014 or something. I mean, it was way back then. Yeah. It was way back then. It was crazy some of the stuff we were saying. I remember exactly

  12. 39:52 – 41:30

    The mysteries of mimetic contagion.

    1. KR

      where we were sitting, by the fireplace in my first rental in San Francisco. It was a cool spot. Yeah. All right, your turn. What do you got? My, my turn. I would say that I can't say too much about it. You're gonna hate that, but- Oh, yeah, we never asked what your book was about, but anyway. I can't really, so I have- I know you've never talked about that shit ... I'll talk about a superstition that may actually have something to it. I, as well as a handful of other authors I know really well- Mm-hmm ... who've written a lot of books, feel like there is such a thing as, like, let's call it memetic release. S- And what I mean by that is I think it's fairly frequently observed that you'll have some in, as an example, intractable scientific problem, or some scientific problem that researchers around the world are grappling with. Mm-hmm. And there's almost no apparent major progress made for years and years and years, and then within the same two-week period, people in all these different locations suddenly make breakthroughs. What is happening there, right? And what I have observed, and again, this is getting into maybe what people would consider magical thinking, but I can't explain it, doesn't mean there isn't an explanation. When people talk about ideas, that idea seems to suddenly pop up in a lot of other places. Hm. Now, you could make the argument that that's maybe expectancy bias, right? If you buy a Hyundai- It's a red Hyundai, all you see is red Hyundais ... then you see, then you, all you see is red Hyundais, right? Yeah. So there could be an element of that. But there seems to be more to it, which is part of the reason why I don't talk about, like, the key core concepts in a book before I release something.

  13. 41:30 – 42:21

    Big book beginnings.

    1. KR

      But I will say in terms of progress, in case w- anybody's wondering, have probably 5 to 600 pages drafted. Oh, shit. It's a big book. Got a lot. Yeah, I mean, all my books are phone books. And that is gonna g- cut down probably. Well, actually, it's probably gonna get to, like, 800, and then it'll get cut down to, like, 500 or 400. Did you use any AI in crafting this? I did not. Nothing? Not, not yet. Okay. Not yet. Will, will you apply that to some of the chapters and say- I might, I might apply it- ... "Okay, is there a better way to say this?" I might apply it in combination with test readers looking for gaps in the material. Basically use AI as a critic. Right. And try to find gaps that would be ultimately helpful to mainstream or a larger audience of readers. I could see using it that way. I did a really cool thing the other day where I took a, I created a custom ChatGPT- And I uploaded ...

  14. 42:21 – 43:34

    Kevin's AI-powered investment advisor experiment.

    1. KR

      I went back and I looked at every single book that Warren Buffett had ever recommended. Okay?

    2. TF

      Okay.

    3. KR

      The Intelligent Investor, like all these, right?

    4. TF

      Yeah.

    5. KR

      And I found the PDFs from them all. They're, 'cause they're like, you can just Google them, they're there.

    6. TF

      Yeah.

    7. KR

      And I uploaded them all to the ChatGPT.

    8. TF

      All right.

    9. KR

      And I said, "You're my investment advisor."

    10. TF

      Okay.

    11. KR

      "What should I do in this particular situation?"

    12. TF

      Huh.

    13. KR

      And I'm asking questions of this custom saved ChatGPT based on all of Buffett's favorite books.

    14. TF

      Uh-huh.

    15. KR

      It's freaking fascinating, dude.

    16. TF

      You know what you could probably also do is take all of his annual letters-

    17. KR

      Oh, yeah. Oh, 100%. I have that. There's a book-

    18. TF

      Yeah

    19. KR

      ... about his annual letters-

    20. TF

      Oh, yeah

    21. KR

      ... that I uploaded into it.

    22. TF

      Yeah, the g- the green cover.

    23. KR

      Yeah, they're in there.

    24. TF

      Yeah, yeah.

    25. KR

      So-

    26. TF

      Okay, that's-

    27. KR

      It's so cool

    28. TF

      ... and so, so what happened?

    29. KR

      Well, I just got some insights, like I was asking, like-

    30. TF

      [laughs] Buy, buy low, buy low, sell high. [laughs]

  15. 43:34 – 44:28

    Publishing strategies.

    1. KR

      so cool.

    2. TF

      Yeah, it's amazing.

    3. KR

      It's really cool. Anyway, I'm excited for your book. When, when will it launch, though? When, when are we talking? I mean, you're 500-

    4. TF

      So-

    5. KR

      ... 600 pages in

    6. TF

      ... I've been thinking about a few different options. One is doing it the way that I have done it in the past, which is to release it all at once as a book launch. There will definitely be some new experimental wrinkles to that, no matter what.

    7. KR

      Traditional publisher? 'Cause before you did Amazon once.

    8. TF

      I think-

    9. KR

      You did-

    10. TF

      Well, I did Amazon Publishing, which at that time you could consider a traditional publisher.

    11. KR

      Yeah.

    12. TF

      So in structure it was very similar.

    13. KR

      Right, right.

    14. TF

      They just had the distribution advantage-

    15. KR

      Yeah

    16. TF

      ... of being Amazon. This time around, we'll see. I mean, I could very easily see doing e-book, audio on my own or through s- an Amazon platform.

    17. KR

      Interesting.

    18. TF

      And then possibly doing a print only deal, or doing print on demand, frankly.

    19. KR

      Yeah.

    20. TF

      Like the quality of print on demand has improved so much.

    21. KR

      It's insane, yes.

    22. TF

      It's absolutely

  16. 44:28 – 45:57

    Why you should visit Ryan Holiday's bookstore.

    1. TF

      perfectly sufficient.

    2. KR

      Dude, I was at Ryan Holiday's ... I went to his bookstore outside of Austin, which is amazing.

    3. TF

      Painted Porch.

    4. KR

      Oh, God.

    5. TF

      It's a great, great bookstore.

    6. KR

      He has the best bookstore.

    7. TF

      Yeah.

    8. KR

      What a life.

    9. TF

      Yeah.

    10. KR

      I, I love him. He's such a good dude. I went to his bookstore and-

    11. TF

      It's such a beautifully curated art project-

    12. KR

      Yes

    13. TF

      ... that is driven by him.

    14. KR

      Yes.

    15. TF

      If you wanna see sort of a new manifestation of the best of old school bookstores, visit Painted Porch.

    16. KR

      Yeah. And it's like about a half hour to 40-minute drive outside of Austin.

    17. TF

      Mm-hmm.

    18. KR

      He's got cats walking around there. It's all of his f- favorite books. You know, he's-

    19. TF

      He even has cats.

    20. KR

      Yeah.

    21. TF

      [laughs]

    22. KR

      There, there's, there are even cats for the cat lovers. The s- thing I would say that was really cool is that he actually had his books printed like higher end versions of his books.

    23. TF

      Yeah.

    24. KR

      Like leather bound, like super high-end versions-

    25. TF

      Yeah

    26. KR

      ... that he had done that were just insane quality.

    27. TF

      Yeah, beautiful.

    28. KR

      Like, and tho- those are kind of like as you need them, like kind of like-

    29. TF

      Yeah

    30. KR

      ... on demand, you know? It's amazing.

  17. 45:57 – 47:27

    The Dog Aging Project.

    1. TF

      his bookstore is called The Painted Porch.

    2. KR

      That's amazing.

    3. TF

      Yeah.

    4. KR

      We got 14-year-old Toaster, almost 15 here-

    5. TF

      Ah, I know

    6. KR

      ... coming to visit us.

    7. TF

      You were saying he's, he's totally deaf, but he still-

    8. KR

      He's totally deaf

    9. TF

      ... he still remembers me. Came up to lick my face.

    10. KR

      You know, you know, he did, he's done courses r- of rapamycin.

    11. TF

      Oh, yeah?

    12. KR

      Yeah, so h- I put him on it a few years ago.

    13. TF

      And?

    14. KR

      And it seems to be working. I mean, dude, you see him?

    15. TF

      Yeah.

    16. KR

      He's moving around great.

    17. TF

      Man.

    18. KR

      He's almost 14.

    19. TF

      I know. This brings back so many memories. I mean, back way, way back in the day, I'm looking at Daria. Hi, Daria. Uh, I remember recording on your couch. This was back still in Dig, Dig days.

    20. KR

      Yeah.

    21. TF

      And, and Toaster was a little pupper, and he was chewing on the XLR cables-

    22. KR

      Right, right

    23. TF

      ... and almost killed our podcast and killed himself.

    24. KR

      Yes.

    25. TF

      And here he is all these years later, wagging his tail.

    26. KR

      Yeah, I, I caught him like halfway through one time a, an actual full like voltage cable on the wall.

    27. TF

      [laughs] Come on.

    28. KR

      And it just like, yeah, it was, it was horrible.

    29. TF

      So rapamycin we've probably talked about before, but people can check out, I'm not sure what its current status is, but The Dog Aging Project. I did a podcast with Matt Kaeberlein.

    30. KR

      Yeah. University of Washington. You and I both-

  18. 47:27 – 50:19

    Original Love: Zen master Henry Shukman's new app and Kevin's Zen Hell week.

    1. KR

      book, who is my Zen master. Gotta give him a plug.

    2. TF

      Yeah.

    3. KR

      He's such an awesome human being.

    4. TF

      He's a great guy.

    5. KR

      And his app, The Way, fantastic meditation app you and I are both investors in. Always wanna give Henry some love because he's such a good, good soul.

    6. TF

      So you, you-

    7. KR

      And his, the book is fantastic

    8. TF

      ... you did some ex- ... So that's called Original Love?

    9. KR

      Original Love, yeah.

    10. TF

      All right. You did some training recently.

    11. KR

      Yeah.

    12. TF

      And you sent me the schedule, the daily schedule.

    13. KR

      Yes.

    14. TF

      What did your daily schedule look like, and how long did it last?

    15. KR

      So I went to a five-day silent meditation retreat with his master, who is the head of the Zen sect out of Japan flew in for this, into Santa Fe, New Mexico. And so I will tell you when you sit with Henry and you do, I've done a seven-day silent retreat with him in the past, if it's just Mountain Cloud Zen Center, which is his Zen center, it's probably four hours of sitting a day, and then there's like, you know, walking meditation and a stretching thing. Like, when the Zen master's there, like when the, the guy from Japan's there, like it's like legit. Like you're-

    16. TF

      Hell week.

    17. KR

      It's, it's hell week for meditation.

    18. TF

      [laughs]

    19. KR

      So I was up at 5:00 AM every morning, and I didn't get to bed till probably like released at like 8:30, and I was sitting for most of the day.

    20. TF

      So one thing I wanted to ask you about [laughs] 'cause I saw it in there, there's a lot of sitting meditation. I'm like, "Okay, that sounds uncomfortable doing that for eight hours a day."

    21. KR

      Yeah.

    22. TF

      Which, you know, I tried once. People who wanna read about my like complete implo-

    23. KR

      You were also doing mushrooms at the same time

    24. TF

      ... and fasting for like six days. Yeah, if people wanna read about my self-inflicted implosion, that's in a separate interview. [laughs] But The chanting before mealtime?

    25. KR

      Yeah.

    26. TF

      What's the story here?

    27. KR

      In Zen, the traditional monasteries and, and whatnot where they have actual monks, there is a lot of ... It's, it's only, like, 10 minutes.

    28. TF

      Yeah.

    29. KR

      It's just kind of-

    30. TF

      Only

  19. 50:19 – 59:47

    Dena Dubal's Alzheimer's treatment breakthrough.

    1. TF

      do crazy.

    2. KR

      Okay. Crazy is that-

    3. TF

      We can cut it out if you can't, but, like, are, are you allowed to talk about klotho yet?

    4. KR

      Yeah. I mean, so Peter Attia did a fantastic episode, which we both w- I would say would highly recommend-

    5. TF

      Yeah. 100%

    6. KR

      ... with Dena, who is a fantastic researcher out of UCSF. She has identified a compound called klotho, which is just absolutely insane.

    7. TF

      Yeah. So in fairness, it was identified by a Japanese researcher.

    8. KR

      Sorry, sorry. My bad, my bad.

    9. TF

      Who-

    10. KR

      She, but she's spent a good part of her career w-

    11. TF

      She is one of the-

    12. KR

      Yeah

    13. TF

      ... foremost experts in the world.

    14. KR

      Yes.

    15. TF

      For sure.

    16. KR

      Yeah. So she did an episode with Attia that was a deep dive for about an hour and a half, and it is ... I mean, do you, do you have the, the kinda stats in front of you? I can, I can ballpark it if you want.

    17. TF

      Why don't you ballpark it?

    18. KR

      So to ballpark it in my understanding is that ... So klotho, just so people know, is a, it's naturally produced in humans.

    19. TF

      Mm-hmm.

    20. KR

      Uh, especially under high-intensity kind of interval exercise.

    21. TF

      Mm-hmm.

    22. KR

      So you get more natural level of this. We all have it in our blood right now.

    23. TF

      Mm-hmm.

    24. KR

      As you age, you get less of it.

    25. TF

      Mm-hmm.

    26. KR

      Okay? So the interesting thing in humans that they know is that people, uh, that have the, there's two genes. They're these, uh, genetic polymorphisms, and if you are an overproducer, if you have these SNPs where you're an overproducer, meaning you naturally produce more of this klotho, you just get dramatically less dementia risk.

    27. TF

      Mm-hmm.

    28. KR

      And even if, uh, the, the very famous gene out there is the ApoE, ApoE, ApoE3, ApoE4 genes, whereas if you are a four carrier, meaning, like, most people are 3.3, if you're a, a 3.4, you're, like, something like five to seven times more likely to get Alzheimer's. If you're a 4.4, you're kinda fucked. It's, like, 80% of people get Alzheimer's-

    29. TF

      Yeah

    30. KR

      ... or something like that. If you have one of these SNPs and you are way more likely to get it, but you're also an overproducer of klotho, it evens out the playing field.

  20. 59:47 – 1:15:55

    Small expectations for a medium turn large.

    1. KR

      I got more crazy ones, but- Bring some crazy. Bring me crazy. So I talked to my dead dad- [laughs] ... via a medium. [laughs] Okay. All right. Didn't see that coming. Yeah, yeah. [laughs] It was on my list of stories to talk about. All right. Yeah. Tell me. So my tattoo artist was out here, and she was like, "Hey, there's this crazy shit that happened to me." I'm like, "What's up?" And she's like, "I tattooed this woman that was a medium, and she gifted me a free session." Mm-hmm. And I'm like, and I'm like, "Was it crazy?" And she's like, "You have no idea." She's like, "Okay, a bunch of people..." It's so cute that Tinsel's coming and saying hi to you. My dogs just keep coming to say hi to me. He definitely missed you. Aw. So, you know, I'm the biggest skeptic on this shit. Yeah. Like I, I, I take this as like entertainment value, right? Yeah. And so she was like, "No, you don't understand. Someone," I don't want to get into her personal details, but someone that was not directly related to her, but one step removed- Mm-hmm ... like, uh, of her immediate family, had been shot and killed. Oh. This person came in and said, "Listen, I had been..." And she, this is not Googleable. You couldn't have found this anywhere. Was like, "I am the person that was sh- shot in this particular location at this particular spot." Like, crazy scary. Like, really accurate.

    2. TF

      Mm-hmm.

    3. KR

      And I was like, "Oh my God." Like, and she kept going, and I'm not gonna go into her personal details, but like enough to where I was like, "Give me the number." Like ... You know, I wanna like book this $150 session, right?

    4. TF

      Yeah.

    5. KR

      It's 100, 150. And so I book it, and it's early, 'cause she's like back East. And so I'm, I get up at 7:00 AM, like barely had my coffee, and there's like, she goes, "Oh my God." She goes, "There is this person that is like beating down my door to talk to you." And I'm like, "Okay." And she's like-

    6. TF

      Wait, this is what the medium said?

    7. KR

      Medium said, yeah.

    8. TF

      Okay.

    9. KR

      We were on Zoom.

    10. TF

      All right.

    11. KR

      And I'm like, "Okay."

    12. TF

      He's got a, he's got a startup in-

    13. KR

      In place

    14. TF

      ... dog cosmetics.

    15. KR

      Yeah, exactly. [laughs]

    16. TF

      [laughs]

    17. KR

      They wanna pitch you. It's like, it's a great pre-money valuation. They only want a million dollars. Like, if the dog cosmetics are, it's gonna boom. You watch. It's, uh, so, uh, it's the next AI. I'm like, okay, I'm very Googleable. You know, like-

    18. TF

      Yeah

    19. KR

      ... I am aware of that, right? And like you can find out things about my dad and stuff like that. And she's like, "The, it's a man. You know, he, he passed from some, like, heart tension." And my dad died of a heart, uh, stroke. And I'm like, "Well, okay. Well, you can Google that," you know?

    20. TF

      Yeah, yeah.

    21. KR

      And, and then she's like describing all kinds of stuff, and even including like a fight with my mom the night before. Little tiny bits. So my sister did it too, and we didn't tell them we were related, 'cause my sister has a different last name.

    22. TF

      Oh, nice.

    23. KR

      And so with my sister it was like, "Oh, he's good with numbers. He was an accountant." And, and he was just like saying that, you know, he kept saying the number three. Is there, is there... And she's like, "Is there a third sibling?" And I've never t- told anybody this, but I have a half-sister-

    24. TF

      Oh

    25. KR

      ... that I didn't know about.

    26. TF

      Huh.

    27. KR

      That's never been on the internet.

    28. TF

      Yeah.

    29. KR

      And I was like, I started sobbing, dude, immediately.

    30. TF

      Yeah.

  21. 1:15:55 – 1:23:30

    Unmissable media recommendations.

    1. KR

      bit.

    2. TF

      Here we go. [laughs]

    3. KR

      Here we, what is this?

    4. SP

      So this is-

    5. TF

      Sent some egg whites?

    6. SP

      So unfortunately, yeah, egg whites, egg whites. I got you.

    7. TF

      Oh, thank you, thank you.

    8. SP

      Um, it's apricot liqueur again. Apologize, but-

    9. TF

      Ooh, I like this little, this, this little closed bill. It's very nice.

    10. KR

      The, the, uh-

    11. TF

      Uh, Kevin!

    12. KR

      Sorry, sorry, Tim.

    13. TF

      Etiquette.

    14. KR

      Please, please, please, please.

    15. TF

      Must be some, some decorum. [laughs]

    16. KR

      Sorry.

    17. SP

      Um, lemon juice, bitters, and then, uh, your world famous, uh, tequila there.

    18. TF

      Oh, yeah.

    19. KR

      Oh, nice. That's not the tequila.

    20. TF

      Oh, yeah.

    21. KR

      That's the LaCroix.

    22. TF

      The La- LaLa.

    23. KR

      It's my water.

    24. SP

      Yeah, yeah.

    25. TF

      Yeah.

    26. SP

      Egg whites.

    27. TF

      Egg whites.

    28. KR

      Egg whites, okay.

    29. TF

      And Salvia.

    30. SP

      It's basically eggnog.

  22. 1:23:30 – 1:32:41

    Taking ketamine seriously.

    1. KR

      So I'm taking a lot of risk here- Ooh ... in that, um- Tantalizing ... speaking about podcasts that, uh, we don't wanna do what everybody else is doing, you know? Mm-hmm. One of the things that was a, a, a complete tragedy that we can all agree upon is that Matthew Perry's passing away from ketamine overdose- Mm ... or coming unconscious and then drowning in, in, in the pool. Yeah. A lot of data came out recently. Did you see that? Yeah, I did. The story. Mm-hmm. It was, like, really horrible, like these doctors were conspiring to, like, give him as much as he wanted and, like- Yeah ... injecting him with what would be considered to be- Like, a general anesthesia dose ... yeah, exactly. Mm-hmm. Enough to put you out, right? Yeah. And, like, obviously you don't wanna fall asleep- Doesn't mix with water ... in the hot tub, right? [laughs] Doesn't, doesn't mix with water. Yeah. So the thing that bummed me out about that is that, uh, you know, we talked about this before about my treatment, like, six months ago, and I feel fantastic after that treatment, but the thing that bummed me out is that- Meaning intravenous. Was it intravenous or intramuscular? I did ... Intravenous, yeah. Inter- yeah. Yeah. It's the IV ketamine treatment. Yeah. So I, I did it, you know, I did the, the six sessions, and I was, uh, going through a really hard startup and, like, I, you know, feel as, as good as ever, which is great. Since then, when we did that podcast- Mm-hmm ... I've had, and I can't say on, on, on camera, but I've had a household name that has built a business that is bigger than you and I have ever built- Mm-hmm ... that would be a shock to the world, that hit me up and was like, "I did this, and it changed my life." Mm-hmm. And they've since paid for a bunch of people to do it after them that were really suffering. Uh, that person m- in particular was having some depression, things of that nature- Mm-hmm ... that was just ... Treatment-resistant depression was what they call it. Colleague of mine hit me up and was like, "I have suicidal thoughts. I'm not gonna kill myself, but I hate that I have them every day." Yeah. You know? Also a scary message to get. Yeah

    2. TF

      Right?

    3. KR

      And, and, but, but she went and did five treatments and is now in full remission.

    4. TF

      Yeah.

    5. KR

      And I was like, this is amazing. And it kills me that, I mean, obviously there are insane dangers around recreational use. I'm not disputing that at all.

    6. TF

      Yeah.

    7. KR

      And it's being used in clubs, it's being used all over the place as a dissociative. And like I, I get that it's really bad. But I wanted to go out and say, if I'm gonna do a different podcast on this, I wanna have in an expert, which I brought my doctor in. Her, her name's Dr. Jen. She is a Princeton-trained doctor.

    8. TF

      Not a chiropractor.

    9. KR

      And not a chiropractor.

    10. TF

      [laughs]

    11. KR

      Uh, um, e-

    12. TF

      No offense to chiropractors-

    13. KR

      Yeah

    14. TF

      ... but they tend to do the Dr. Bob, Dr.-

    15. KR

      Dr. Jen [laughs]

    16. TF

      ... Jack, Dr. Jen thing.

    17. KR

      Yeah, you don't want a chiropractor doing this. But she's a, she's been an ER room doctor for, like, 15 years.

    18. TF

      Now I feel like a dick, I have to say. Like, there are some great chiropractors out there-

    19. KR

      Oh, great

    20. TF

      ... who I work with.

    21. KR

      But-

    22. TF

      But you don't want them running your ketamine clinic.

    23. KR

      Right. Exactly.

    24. TF

      Yeah.

    25. KR

      And she gets into that, and she unders- she's like, "This is why, like, we need to take this seriously," right? And so we did the whole podcast and we take it from a very scientific point of view, talking about the neuroplasticity, talking about her outcomes that she's witnessed, blah, blah. But the crazy thing that I added onto this, and this is coming out in like a week or so, is that I actually said, "Okay, I will go in to demystify this."

    26. TF

      [laughs]

    27. KR

      And I went into the clinic, and I did intramuscular, which is, is just a shot in the arm.

    28. TF

      Yeah, it's like riding a rocket ship.

    29. KR

      And I tr- I tried to stay as conscious as I could and explain the feelings-

    30. TF

      [laughs]

  23. 1:32:41 – 1:37:09

    What's the Flux?

    1. SP

      like, just what happened last week or two weeks ago-

    2. TF

      W-

    3. SP

      ... with, like, Flux, the, and the model?

    4. KR

      Well, I didn't mention Flux. So there, there was a new model-

    5. TF

      All right

    6. KR

      ... that came out.

    7. TF

      Addison, you get to do the cheers. What should we cheers to?

    8. SP

      To our girlfriends and our wives-

    9. TF

      Oof

    10. SP

      ... may they never meet.

    11. TF

      [laughs]

    12. KR

      [laughs] To our, to our girlfriends and our wives, may they never meet, is what Addison says.

    13. TF

      [laughs] Right. All right.

    14. KR

      Yeah, future tense for me. But, you know, a boy can dream.

    15. TF

      All right.

    16. KR

      So just to give the, the roundout of the 30 seconds, Addison, you switched to a new model called Flux.

    17. SP

      Yeah.

    18. KR

      Which-

    19. SP

      Everyone knows about it, like, in, like, that's deep in the AI space.

    20. KR

      Yeah, this is the new AI shit.

    21. SP

      S- what's, what's really crazy is, so you guys brought up, um-

    22. TF

      Should we, should we get him a mic?

    23. KR

      Yeah, yeah. Here, talk into this mic. K- kneel down for a sec.

    24. TF

      [laughs] Take a, take a knee.

    25. KR

      Just, just tell us about Flux, because the pictures of Tim are insane. Tell, why are they better now than they were three months ago?

    26. SP

      S- sure. Well, it's the, like, you guys originally brought up a prompt tent, like, maybe two years ago now, or maybe a year and a half ago. It was, like, on, like, in December.

    27. TF

      Mm-hmm.

    28. SP

      Of 2020-

    29. TF

      [laughs]

    30. SP

      2020... You look good.

  24. 1:37:09 – 1:38:24

    A children's book for adults.

    1. TF

      mention a few things. There's a children's book for adults.

    2. KR

      [laughs] Children's.

    3. TF

      You all right?

    4. KR

      You said children's.

    5. TF

      Children's.

    6. KR

      Okay.

    7. TF

      Yeah, a children's. Children, apostrophe S. A children's.

    8. KR

      Children's.

    9. TF

      Yes.

    10. KR

      Okay. [laughs]

    11. TF

      Maybe it's Long Island coming out. I don't know.

    12. KR

      [laughs]

    13. TF

      I think that's how you say it.

    14. KR

      It's called the Tequila coming out, but hey, go ahead.

    15. TF

      Oh, Lordy. Called The Well of Being-

    16. KR

      Okay

    17. TF

      ... by Jean-Pierre Wahl, I guess if you were gonna say it in German.

    18. KR

      All right.

    19. TF

      And this has made an impact on me. It's a beautiful book. It's very easy to read. You could read it with your kids, and the couple who introduced me to this are one of the most thoughtful, present, and playful couples I know. F and K, thank you for all this. And it infused... You know, th- they've also infused the raising of their daughters with the ethos of this book in a way. So here's the description. "The Well of Being from Jean-Pierre Wahl is an illustrated inquiry into the art of happiness and what it means to be radically alive in our daily moments." I'll stop there. It's a long description.

    20. KR

      It's out of print. I'm on Amazon right now. It's out of print.

    21. TF

      Is it really?

    22. KR

      Yeah.

    23. TF

      All right.

    24. KR

      And so I had to just buy a used copy.

    25. TF

      Buy a, buy a used copy. It's a beautiful book.

    26. KR

      Okay.

    27. TF

      And then separately, there's a question that I've been asking myself a lot, and you can find this more

  25. 1:38:24 – 1:39:54

    Are you hunting antelope or field mice?

    1. TF

      elaborated upon on my blog. Takes two or three minutes, but don't freak out because the first few paragraphs of the blog post. But it's a strong metaphor, and the, the question is, are you hunting antelope or field mice? And I've been thinking about this with the podcast as well as with respect to next projects, how I choose next projects, right? Because all we have is our energy and time.

    2. KR

      Mm-hmm.

    3. TF

      And if you spend it in one place, you can't spend it in another.

    4. KR

      Mm-hmm.

    5. TF

      And, uh, this particular question, people can look it up for the history, but are you hunting, are y- [laughs] are you hunting antelope or field mice is a reference to sort of the metaphor of the lion. Like a lion can survive on field mice, but it's going to ultimately be very, very, very, very, very over-busy, and it's going to burn more calories than it earns through hunting field mice.

    6. KR

      So it'd be skinny.

    7. TF

      Don't be skinny, but, like, pick a big-

    8. KR

      No, it would be skinny if it was just eating field mice.

    9. TF

      Oh, it would be skinny, yeah. But pick a big, audacious goal that can feed you for a long time. Right? So as you're being busy, quote-unquote-

    10. KR

      Yeah

    11. TF

      ... like are you hunting field mice or antelope? And-

    12. KR

      Can I challenge that for a second?

    13. TF

      Challenge.

    14. KR

      So if you're hunting field mice, I'm assuming that's easier prey, easier to get, probably gives you more time to, like, sit with who you are.

    15. TF

      Watch Netflix.

    16. KR

      Like, the, the one thing that, that struck me about today, and I, and I just...

  26. 1:39:54 – 1:49:19

    Analyzing what "chill" looks like for me.

    1. KR

      Like, let's have a little real talk for a second at the end.

    2. TF

      Oh, wow. Oh, God. Coming to Jesus moment.

    3. KR

      So-

    4. TF

      Here we go

    5. KR

      ... no, no, but, like, like you went on this sabbatical.

    6. TF

      Yeah.

    7. KR

      And yet you had to write a book.

    8. TF

      I didn't have to write a book.

    9. KR

      Well, hold on, hold on.

    10. TF

      Man.

    11. KR

      Our fr- our mutual friend-

    12. TF

      Oh, boy [laughs]

    13. KR

      ... who shall not be named, pointed this out as well.

    14. TF

      Yeah.

    15. KR

      Where it's like can you sit and just be you, or would that be too hard?

    16. TF

      Yeah. This is, this is good. Let's, let's get into-

    17. KR

      [laughs]

    18. TF

      ... the fucking chewy bits. So I routinely every year spend at least a month off the grid, right? Like last October, I was gone. I was in... I was off the grid.

    19. KR

      Yeah, but you were doing shit.

    20. TF

      I was doing stuff, but here's my question, right? And this was in our shared text thread. I basically said, "Okay, look, so the accusation is that Tim doesn't know how to chill out." I'm like, "Okay, fine. Let's take that as, let's take that as true. If Tim were to chill out-

    21. KR

      Mm-hmm

    22. TF

      ... what does that look like on a daily and weekly basis?"

    23. KR

      Mm-hmm.

    24. TF

      And one of my challenges was humans are built to be social.

    25. KR

      Mm-hmm.

    26. TF

      You have a family.

    27. KR

      Mm-hmm.

    28. TF

      Our mutual friend has a family.

    29. KR

      Mm-hmm.

    30. TF

      There's an inbuilt social network-

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