Uncapped with Jack AltmanHelping Founders Go Direct in a New Era of PR & Comms with Lulu Cheng Meservey | Ep. 25
EVERY SPOKEN WORD
60 min read · 11,615 words- 0:00 – 0:50
Intro
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
The thing that I have extremely high confidence in is that comms is the final bastion of human ability.
- JAJack Altman
Hmm.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Where ten years from now, fifty years from now, the ability to persuade and win over and make other people fall in love for other humans will still be uniquely human. [upbeat music]
- JAJack Altman
I'm really happy to be here with Lulu today. Lulu, I was just asking you before, like, what's the right way to introduce you? The way I would describe you is, like, a startup whisperer for comms behind, like, you know, amazing companies, amazing investors. I don't actually know the full scope of how you do what you do and what it all is, but, um, it's really incredible, and, uh, you're one of the most thoughtful people on how people communicate, position things, and so I'm really excited to talk about this and learn from you today.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Thank you. Yeah, stoked.
- JAJack Altman
Why
- 0:50 – 3:43
Comms having a moment
- JAJack Altman
has comms been having, like, the moment that it's been having? And, um, I feel like in the last few years, people have started, like, understanding what it is better and dissecting it and applying it and being more thoughtful. I think comms people have started to get paid more, which is appropriate. I think you can really feel it online, the companies that have it nailed and the ones that don't. But, like, why has it become more of a thing in recent years, seemingly?
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
I think we're all just pattern recognition machines, and when we're seeing that the companies where the founders have the most aura and the companies that have built these impressive cults and the companies that have the best reputations are getting the best people and are winning and are worth the most, then the founders coming up say, "I wanna do that, too."
- JAJack Altman
It feels like even though-- So, like, even that word, aura-
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Yeah.
- JAJack Altman
-I feel like there have been more of these lately, where I'm like, there's cracked kids and there's, like... We have a lot of aura-
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Hmm.
- JAJack Altman
-and there's, like, vibes. And it seems to me, may-maybe this was always happening, but it feels more lately that people are more attuned to these words and these positions, and what's the energy of the company and the thing. Is that-- Does it feel like that to you?
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Yeah, and it's actually, um, hand in hand with people caring more about comms and how they're perceived. Like, aura is code for how good of a communicator you are. You, you can't be bumbling your way through a sentence and not able to describe what your company does and then still have aura as a founder. That's very difficult. So I, I think that people are just seeing the pattern, that the people with stronger reputations, that other people think more highly of and are more impressed with, are the winners, and they're trying to figure out ways to recreate that. And so some are trying to do it with these cinematic videos, and some are trying to do it with various forms of aura farming.
- JAJack Altman
Mm-hmm.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Some are hiring online influencers, which I'm a little bit-
- JAJack Altman
Yeah
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... icked out by.
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
But everyone's trying to approach it in, in these different ways, but there actually is time-tested, grand strategy for how to curate a reputation. If you take a holistic approach, it is like you start with, "What are you trying to achieve?" And it, it's not-- What I want to try to achieve is: people love me and think I'm great. What I want to try to achieve is to, uh, save the US military innovation future by equipping them in the right way-
- JAJack Altman
Yeah
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
-or to build the software engineer of the future or to, uh, build super intelligence, right?
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
And that's what I want to achieve, and as a means to that end, what do people need to know about me? Obviously, it has to be true, but out of the set of ten thousand things that could be true, what are the things that people care about and that are useful for this project?
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
And so thinking about it through those terms, sometimes it'll lead you to doing the standard checklist of, like, video, influencer, tweet a lot, whatever. But sometimes it'll lead you to launch a fellowship program, host a competition, turn down certain opportunities. You know, it, it might actually be, um, outside of distribution compared to what you m- you're seeing other people do.
- 3:43 – 6:30
Breaking through the noise
- JAJack Altman
When you think about, like, the most successful comms, either just campaigns or chapters or people or companies, is it more about clarity in what they say, or is it more about, like, the way they say it and what the personality that they show as they do those things? 'Cause, you know, like, I think having a clear mission and clear articulation is really good, but we can all think of these examples where, like, many companies are all basically saying the same thing, but for some reason, everybody wants this one to win.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Mm-hmm.
- JAJack Altman
And when people want this one to win, it becomes easier for them to win.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Yeah.
- JAJack Altman
It's like, what is... Yeah, what's the balance here?
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Yeah. So two things, the what and the how are both more useful and important than the where. Uh, have you seen this comic of Waldo sitting at a bar, and he's looking sad, and he's got a drink, and the caption is, "Nobody ever asks, 'How is Waldo?'"
- JAJack Altman
Mm-hmm. I love that.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
You know, e-everybody is always saying, "Which podcast can we go on?" Nobody ever asks, "How do we get people interested once we're there?"
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
So the what and the how are both important. I will say one thing that people probably underrate is that if people just like you in their gut, they will figure out ways to try to help you be successful, and they will kinda retcon to themselves-
- JAJack Altman
Yeah
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
-the thing that they heard and how compelling it was-
- JAJack Altman
Yes
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... and they'll just, like, help you inside their own mind.
- JAJack Altman
Yeah, it's like one of the founder archetypes I think about a lot is not-- Like, you know, there's, there's many intersecting things that are very-
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Hmm
- JAJack Altman
... valuable. Like, there can be visionaries, and there can be deeply technical people, but there's also this type or this characteristic that can overlay, where people are just so magnetic, so likable, so just pure seeming, whatever, where just the whole world wants to see them win.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Mm-hmm.
- JAJack Altman
And I think, I don't know what that is, but that seems like a very important thing here.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
A lot of it is pure, honest conviction and confidence. This is what-- You know, you and I can't get through a conversation without talking about Napoleon, so we'll get to that. [chuckles] But some of it is, i-if you just have complete confidence that this thing that you're doing is right, and you're going to win, and it's inevitable, and you just simply share that with people, they will feel that emanating from you, and it's very hard to resist. And this is true in the past, when people have had to run into a storm of bullets in order to achieve this thing that you've told them must happen and will happen, or today, if people need to leave their jobs and come, you know, turn their lives upside down to work with you. So I, I think some of it is just, like, another human being telling you with complete confidence and conviction that this is the thing that's gonna happen, and that's-... the thing that AI will not be able to take away from us. Well, we'll see. But, but, you know, AI will be smarter and better than us in many ways, and people who deny that, they, are just-
- JAJack Altman
It's silly
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... coping.
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
A lot of these, like, "AI can already do it better than me, but it needs me doing," it's like, no, you're just asking for a DI program for yourself as a human.
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
You know, like, l- it's like-
- JAJack Altman
It's true
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... um, AI can do better. But for convincing other humans, I think we'll always take humans. I think that actually communication will be the skill that humans need.
- 6:30 – 9:58
What makes a great story
- JAJack Altman
When you start work on helping a company position itself or get its brand right, and you think about stories-
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Yeah
- JAJack Altman
... what goes into that for you? And so, like, you know, what I'm imagining is I got to, like, tour the, like, Pixar studio one time and, like, meet some of the people there, and it's like the thoughtfulness and the deconstruction of a great story is just such a science. And I'm wondering if you could break down what's the-- what are the lenses or the-
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Mm-hmm
- JAJack Altman
... attributes of a great story in tech?
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Every great story has a problem and a resolution, and the way people think about where you're headed from here is, um, by thinking about where you are on that curve. You know, what goes up must come down, um, pride comes before the fall-
- JAJack Altman
Mm-hmm
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... darkness before the dawn. We have all of these different phrases for things needing a resolution. It's the same way that supposedly Eskimos have so many words for snow. It's because we have this deep, deep attachment and commitment to seeing stories through.
- JAJack Altman
Hmm.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
So we assume in our heart that every story has to have a problem that then gets resolved somehow, and if someone flies too close to the sun, they have to come crashing down to Earth. And if it doesn't happen, if the story was, "Icarus then flew happily away" [chuckles]
- JAJack Altman
Yeah, yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
It's not a story. Or if somebody crashes down and doesn't make their way back up, if we were to see a movie like that, we would not be able to sleep. People would hate that movie-
- JAJack Altman
Hmm
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... and not know why.
- JAJack Altman
Mm-hmm.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
It's like this uncanny valley of a story that was kind of heading in the right direction but didn't quite get to the other side.
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
And so every story has that arc. Um, a narrative arc is literally an arc. It goes one direction, and then it comes back the other direction. The way this is relevant for founders is you need to help people understand where you are on that arc and where the arc is headed. You don't get to choose that there's an arc, and that people will think there's an up and a down and a start, and a beginning, a middle, and end-
- JAJack Altman
Yeah
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... but you, you get some agency in where people think you are on the arc. And if people think that you have crested or you've already hit the apex-
- JAJack Altman
Yeah
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... and your past days are behind you, then they assume that you must be coming back down. Or if people feel that you're actually just hitting the knee of the curve to go up, then they assume that some greatness awaits in the future. You-- so, so you get to choose, are you, um, on this kind of an arc, where you've already passed-
- JAJack Altman
Yeah
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... the, the apex?
- JAJack Altman
But there's always an arc.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Yes. Or do you get to choose whether you're on this part of an arc, and you've come through struggles, and you're destined for greatness?
- JAJack Altman
Hmm.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
So what is the arc? Where are you on the arc? And people will fill in the rest of where they assume you're gonna go and where you deserve to go.
- JAJack Altman
I guess also, companies need multiple arcs, of course. And so you think about the companies that have gone really far-
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Mm-hmm
- 9:58 – 17:29
Creating story arcs
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
headed up or down.
- JAJack Altman
So how do you create those arcs?
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Yeah.
- JAJack Altman
Like, if you're sitting there and you're running a-
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Yeah
- JAJack Altman
... early-stage company, or maybe it's not so early stage, how do you make an arc?
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
There's two things that you need people to believe. So first of all, imagine that people's opinion of you is like a living, is like a living thing, and, and the story that the, uh... Take a set group of people that's your audience. Like, let's say that, um, my company needs to hire software engineers, and I'm talking to, like, Bay Area software engineers, and that's the people that I care the most about.
- JAJack Altman
Mm-hmm.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Among those people, my story will be kind of a living thing that has a homeostatic set point, like, um, your body temp-- Sorry, this is, like, such a long-
- JAJack Altman
No, it's great
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... roundabout way to answer.
- JAJack Altman
It's an arc.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
I'm like [panting]
- JAJack Altman
Here we go.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Unfortunately. [chuckles] I'm-- I'll, I'll lay out the ingredients, and then I'll put them together. Um, imagine that the, the story among those people is a living thing, and imagine that that living thing has a homeostatic set point, this, the way that your body temperature does. Your body temperature doesn't have really, like, a, a neutral-- You know, it, it's supposed to be at ninety-eight point six, let's say.
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Is it still that? There's, like, some new science every day.
- JAJack Altman
I, I don't want to get into those.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Let's, let's say-
- JAJack Altman
Well, let's call it that
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... say it's that.
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
If it's above that, then the body will regulate to bring the temperature down.
- JAJack Altman
Mm-hmm.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
If it's below that, it'll regulate to bring it up. If it's far below that, it'll try really hard to heat up. The way this translates to the story is people have an assumption of the level of celebration you deserve.
- JAJack Altman
Interesting.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Right? Like, how good you are and how, um, much reputation you deserve.
- JAJack Altman
How do people decide that?
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Let's get to that, 'cause you, you, you wanna try to engineer it.
- JAJack Altman
Yep.
- 17:29 – 20:29
Flow and stock
- JAJack Altman
There's a whole other lens that you've spoken about that, you know, is, like, if what we just described is sort of like the flow of the up and down-
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Mm-hmm
- JAJack Altman
... there's a- another lens you've talked about with, like, circles in storytelling-
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Yeah
- JAJack Altman
... and that that's more like the stock of where you're at.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- JAJack Altman
Can you talk about that?
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Yeah, yeah, I think about flow and stock. So like, um, flow is more like a trajectory of where are you going and, and drawing out the long arc for people and telling them what to expect, and stock is more like, at this moment in time, what do you say? Okay, a bad recipe for this is what sounds good, what's gonna get the most engagement? Um, good recipe for this is, based on what I'm trying to achieve-... what is the circle of things that are true? And then what is the circle of things that are relevant and interesting? And then what are the circle of things that are strategic or helpful to the business? So let's say, um, that we're starting a- what company should we start?
- JAJack Altman
An AI personal tutor.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Okay, we're starting an AI personal tutor, and, uh, the circle of things that are true about us are that we have, um, we have discovered that one-on-one tutoring, uh, immediately puts you in the ninety-ninth percentile of student results, and that it's worked throughout history. There are military studies that confirm this, and that people want this for their children because, uh, there's so much controversy about schools being a mess. Um, and there, there's facts about Jack is a repeat founder, who you would be the CEO. [chuckles] I would be the chief of staff.
- JAJack Altman
Mm-hmm.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
And so, like, Jack is a repeat founder and, uh, has scaled and grown companies and, and has seen these before and, and has children of his own. He's a father. Then, the circle of things that are relevant to today are: everybody's excited about AI, looking for real use cases and, and solid business models, um, that the education system is in high controversy and tumult, and that this next cohort of kids who are now in K through twelve are gonna graduate into a world where AGI has made it very unpredictable how they're gonna make a living.
- JAJack Altman
Mm-hmm.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
And then the circle of things that are helpful to the business are, like, easy to use, we partner well with schools, we can layer on top of traditional schooling. You don't have to go full homeschooling in order to use us. In order for us to decide, like, uh, you're going on, uh, a podcast today, and how are you gonna describe the business? We would wanna look at the overlap between all three of these circles.
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
So there are things that might be true and relevant, um, but not helpful.
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
So maybe it is true that-
- JAJack Altman
Yeah
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... you- what's your, what's one of your hobbies on here?
- JAJack Altman
Music.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Yeah.
- JAJack Altman
I like music.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Like, you're really into music, and, um, it is relevant because there's some study that music helps with neuroplasticity in, in young children and helps to form a stronger brain, but we're not ready to offer that product yet, and if we advertise it, it, it doesn't actually help us right now. So, like, that's not useful. And well, you could go through all of these examples. There are companies today that have left out the third circle of, is it useful and strategic?
- 20:29 – 23:25
All press is good press
- JAJack Altman
There's this question of, like: Is all press good press?
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Mm-hmm.
- JAJack Altman
And, like, we could say something right now... If I said, "Say something to just try to make this next sixty-second clip-
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Mm-hmm
- JAJack Altman
... do the rounds," don't worry about any other variable-
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Mm-hmm
- JAJack Altman
... just do the rounds with the next sixty seconds. You could say something nuts-
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Mm-hmm
- JAJack Altman
... and make sure that this clip went viral.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Yeah.
- JAJack Altman
But that doesn't necessarily help, and I'm curious, actually, your take on this, specifically, of this, like, all press is good press-
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Mm-hmm
- JAJack Altman
... thing because this is, like, you know, taking the circles analogy, this is basically saying, "If I'm just gonna go nuts on relevance-
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
That's right
- JAJack Altman
... I'm gonna drop the other stuff."
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Mm-hmm.
- JAJack Altman
There are a lot of people who think that's good.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Yeah.
- JAJack Altman
I, I think based on your framework, you're actually kind of implying it's not.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
You could potentially super handicap yourself in the future. So imagine that you're saying something that is true about you, and it is relevant, but it is not useful to say. So, um, there's a lot of controversy about, is it useful for Clueded, Cluele to say, "Cheat on everything," and then they're explaining-
- JAJack Altman
Yeah
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... well, cheating isn't technically cheating when we-
- JAJack Altman
Exactly.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
It's a very valid question to ask: Is that useful for the business? Because now you have distribution, and, and let's say you reach millions of people, and you've told those millions of people that your ethos is cheating, and you're building products really quickly.
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
And so now your question is gonna be, "Is that useful for the business we're trying to build?" Well, if the business is, um, figuring out a way to make a sizzly video, no matter what-
- JAJack Altman
Mm-hmm
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... then it would be. If the business is, "Let us record your screen and trust us with your data"-
- JAJack Altman
Yeah
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... then it might not necessarily be. So it's worth looking at all three of those.
- 23:25 – 28:10
Leaning into authenticity
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
wasn't true before.
- JAJack Altman
Here's an interesting question: Do you feel like who people are from a comms perspective is what it is, and you're basically just trying to expose the truth more, or are you more of the view that we can actually position somebody? Like, when you work with somebody-
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Mm-hmm
- JAJack Altman
... are you, like, in your head, are you like, "You're actually this way, but we're gonna make you seem this way a little bit more?" Or are you like, "We're gonna expose true attributes about you, but we can only work within the confines of what's true about you?"
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
I think more the latter. I think, uh, there are different archetypes of people, but, um, you gotta lean into the thing that you are. And it's like Charlie Munger said, "You can always invert." Like, everything has two sides.
- JAJack Altman
Hmm.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
And so if someone is more remote and more cold, um, and they're not, like, the warm and fuzzy type with people, to try to position them as that because you think people want a manager that has empathy is just hard. It's, it, it's gonna come across uncanny valley, where it's like-
- JAJack Altman
Yeah
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... "I see what you're saying, but I don't feel it." Um, whereas, if you actually lean into, "This is a technical genius who is in the lab cooking up something amazing, and you can be part of this team," you'll attract people who want that, and that's actually the right thing long term. What you don't wanna do is bait and switch someone into joining the company, for example, because they think that they're working for this type of guy-
- JAJack Altman
Yeah
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... and then that guy just doesn't actually show up to work.
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
He was only on the podcast.
- JAJack Altman
Yeah, you basically have to lean into authenticity, but you can choose which parts of somebody's overall shape to emphasize.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Yeah. Most people don't-... know you as a founder personally, and they don't get to shape- so, so there's like a, there's like the, the, the true, authentic, platonic ideal of Jack, and that includes all the things that are true about you, properly weighted.
- JAJack Altman
Mm-hmm.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
You as a full person, and that's, you know-
- JAJack Altman
That's like what, like my-
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
-between-
- JAJack Altman
... hopefully, what, like, my wife would know or something.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
This is, like, between you and your wife and God.
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Like, that-
- JAJack Altman
Mm-hmm
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... exists.
- JAJack Altman
That complete picture.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Yeah.
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
And then there's the people who know you personally, and for the sake of simplicity, let's include people who are very close to you, as well as people who are just, like, friends, and these are people who actually directly know you and, and form some opinion that's like a resembling Jack-ish homunculus-
- JAJack Altman
Yeah, mm-hmm
- 28:10 – 35:09
Word choice
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
fulfilled.
- JAJack Altman
Yeah. Can you talk a little bit about, um, maybe some of the, like, nuances around, like, choices of words and things like that? 'Cause I think, like, so many to that point- you know, like, "Think different," or, like, so many of the-
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Mm-hmm
- JAJack Altman
... so many of these messages that get repeated are actually quite short.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Yeah.
- JAJack Altman
Like, you don't get a lot of words. You don't get a lot of attention. Like, people-
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Yeah
- JAJack Altman
... can read a tweet at most. They can read, like, half a tweet better.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Yeah.
- JAJack Altman
The choice of words that sound very close but aren't very close, it, like, matters a lot, and people kinda, like, speak off the cuff, obviously-
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Yeah
- JAJack Altman
... not you, but, like-
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Yeah.
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
English is one of the largest languages in the world because we've absorbed so many words from other languages. I heard someone make the joke, uh, they were dunking on France, and they were like: "Well, there's no word for entrepreneur in French." [chuckles]
- JAJack Altman
[chuckles] That's good. Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
You know? [chuckles]
- JAJack Altman
I like that.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Like, so many of our word- double entendre.
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Like, so many of our words come from other places that we've just absorbed-
- JAJack Altman
Yeah
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... and then we've made a bunch up on our own. And so there's a vast array to choose from, and the words that you choose, actually, not to put pressure on people, but the each word that you chooses should be load-bearing. In practice, you can't do this with everything-
- JAJack Altman
Exactly
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... all the time.
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Like, when, whenever this comes out, assuming we don't say anything catastrophic in the rest of this interview, it comes out-
- JAJack Altman
Yeah
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... I'm gonna watch it and listen to, like, eighty percent of my words and be like, "Oh, gosh, why?"
- JAJack Altman
Yeah, yeah.
- 35:09 – 42:48
Impact on recruiting
- JAJack Altman
To tie all of this back to, like, what the impact is, um, and maybe going back to the opening of the conversation of, like, why people started to care so much, my sense is that one of the reasons that this comms, you know, focus has happened is-
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Mm-hmm
- JAJack Altman
... because recruiting has gotten so hard, and people have realized that it's deeply connected with recruiting. And it seems to me, like, for a bunch of reasons, it's, like, harder than ever to hire great people, and the, uh, the gains that accrue to the companies that can are very high. So the stakes on recruiting are high. How does this actually manifest for companies?
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Mm-hmm.
- JAJack Altman
Like, what, how does the aura translate or not into the recruiting?
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
This is where we get to talk about Napoleon.
- JAJack Altman
Ah, I need that.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
It was-
- JAJack Altman
Here we go.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
It was waiting to happen, and here- [chuckles] ... is the moment. One of the best recruiters of all time and one of the best builders of morale of all time, and there's a few things that go into this. So first of all, uh, we don't even need to spend a lot of time on why recruiting is so important. I think every founder gets it, and if you're not recruiting the best people, you're mortgaging your future. Like, you're just not gonna exist 'cause you, you can't build the best product. Um, okay, what made someone like Napoleon such a great recruiter is he gave his men a cause bigger than what it seemed like. It, it, it was a grander mission. It wasn't just, "Take this bridge," or it wasn't just, "Fight this one battle." Um, at the Battle of the Pyramids, which by the way, he rebranded to the Battle of the Pyramids because it sounds cooler to have said, "I fought at the Battle of the Pyramids."
- JAJack Altman
It sounds incredible.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Yeah. And so he rebranded the battle, and then he said something like-- the, the men were gathered there for battle, and he said, "From the top of these pyramids, forty thousand years of history are looking down on you and what you're about to achieve." Some version of this. Like, you, you... I mean, you're just gonna perform better, and you're gonna w- wanna be part of that army. That army has the mandate of heaven.
- JAJack Altman
Mm.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
He would be branding his army all the time. So, for example-... Um, when they were trying to take Britain, or they wanted to, I think it, it would've been called the Army of Britain probably. 'Cause when they took Italy, it became the, uh, the Army of Italy. But they were clearly not gonna take Britain, so you don't wanna be the guy who was in the Army of Britain, and Britain's clearly not part of France now. [chuckles] It's, like, embarrassing. So that, that's when he started rebranding it into La Grande Armée, like the Grand Army-
- JAJack Altman
Mm.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
-which is so much cooler than Army of Place We Didn't Conquer.
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
And then there was a, a group of guys who were sent to hold a bridge, and the bridge was within firing range of the Austrians, and so that group of guys had a 100% casualty rate.
- JAJack Altman
Wow!
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
It was like, "You are guaranteed to get shot if you go here." So he sends the guys, 100% of them get shot. He needs new volunteers, and he fills it with volunteers, and the way he did that was that he branded the group of guys. He called them Les hommes sans peur, which means the men without fear. And so, you know, which one's more attractive? Like, um, the guys who get shot? [laughing]
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Do you wanna join the guys who get shot, or do you wanna join the men without fear? And part of it is you gotta go-
- JAJack Altman
Yeah
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... You gotta go guard that bridge. Giving them, uh, this, this magnitude of what they're fighting for, and then giving them this kind of branding that would make it seem like even if they were shot for the cause, it would've been something worth it, and they would've been proud to be part of it, was a big part. He, um, also made himself part of the army as a soldier. You know, the little corporal is, is part of this-- I think, um, he started being called the little corporal because he was aiming the cannons himself, which is grunt work.
- JAJack Altman
Mm.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
And so to, to be there as a short, not five three-
- JAJack Altman
Yeah
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... but, like, pretty short-
- JAJack Altman
Yeah
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
-guy aiming the cannons, um, they called him the little corporal, and it was actually, like, a really affectionate nickname of, "He's in the trenches." He's-- It's like SSI. Ilya's in the lab.
- 42:48 – 45:48
The business of comms
- JAJack Altman
Maybe to wrap up, I'm curious about, like, the way that you choose to sort of, like, practice your business-
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Mm-hmm
- JAJack Altman
... at a high level. You can either be, like, internal and focused on only one place, or you can do what you do, which is where you work with, like, a wide breadth, and then I guess you're learning things from one experience, bringing it to another.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Mm-hmm.
- JAJack Altman
Maybe you know a little bit less about any particular entity, but, like, you've got these other advantages in that way.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Mm-hmm.
- JAJack Altman
I'm curious how you reflect on what's the difference, what's the collaboration maybe between you and internal comms when you're looking at these things. Like, how does it all play together?
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
The way I learned to do comms was being just deep in one thing. So I, I co-founded a comms company, but, like, my main work there was Anduril. People sometimes will say, like...... I helped Anduril with comms, but actually Anduril helped me with comms. Like, working with Palmer and Trey and Brian and Matt and those guys, it's like necessity is the mother of invention. Like, they forced us to do things unconventionally, and so that's how I learned. And then through Substack, which is still, like, very near and dear to my heart, it was like live and breathe Substack all day long. I still work with Substack-
- JAJack Altman
Mm.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
-but, like, just live and breathe Substack twenty-five hours a day, and then same with Activision Blizzard. So I've gone very, very deep, and the thing that's super rewarding about this is that you get to fully own, um, something, and, and if you mess up, it's on you, right?
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
And, and if, and if it's great, then you learn from it, you can build on it. I'm trying to form a general theory of comms, and I'm, I'm still learning in the process.
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
But I don't wanna confine that to just one place because I actually wanna change how comms is done across the industry.
- JAJack Altman
It also seems like you probably couldn't even get to the general theory of comms if you only worked with one place.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
That might... Yeah, it might be-- Yeah, that's probably true.
- JAJack Altman
You probably need to see all of these different examples-
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Yeah
- JAJack Altman
... to, like, get completeness on it, I would guess.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Yeah. Like, I'm still in learning mode. Like, I'm still in kinda data-gathering iteration mode in, um, in my own head, and so, um, for, for inputs, I wanna see more broadly what is going on across, um, different pockets of the industry. And then externally, I really want the entire industry, all of us together, to get amazing at this because, well, what happens in the aggregate, right? Like, if, if each company gets better at making their case and gets more powerful-
- JAJack Altman
Yeah
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... and hires and grows faster, then all of tech grows faster, and that's better for America and the world.
- JAJack Altman
Absolutely.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
It's hard to do that from within one company, but I still try to concentrate as much as possible. So instead of taking, like, thirty clients, uh, you know, I take less than half of that.
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Instead of growing the firm to be eighty people with a roster of hundreds of clients, it's me and my apprentice, Gabby, and we have probably, yeah, fewer than half of the clients that we could have, even with just the two of us. And then out of those, there is a power law where there's, like, specific ones where we, like, really go deeper. So yes, number one, I, I, um-- Sorry, not to make this about me. I did the meme of, like-
- JAJack Altman
That's what you're here for
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... we made it about me. Okay. I do wanna do the general relativity, like, theory for comms, like, general theory for comms, and that applies to the industry more broadly. Sometimes I see companies that I had nothing to do with, who will-- uh, the founders will write me, like, "I read your blog post and did this launch. What do you think?" That is magnificent to me. Do I, did I get dollars from it? No, I get deep satisfaction from seeing that people are using these practices, but within that, we do try to concentrate as
- 45:48 – 48:18
Comms predictions
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
much as we can.
- JAJack Altman
Let's imagine it's ten years from now, and you've learned a bunch, and things have gone great, and you're much smarter about comms than you are now. Looking back, what would you say is the thing that you're most likely to be super right about with comms, and what do you think is the thing that you currently are least confident in your own, you know, variable in the general relativity?
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
The thing that I have extremely high confidence in is that comms is the final bastion of human ability.
- JAJack Altman
Hmm.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Where ten years from now, fifty years from now, the ability to persuade and win over and make other people fall in love for other humans will still be uniquely human. And, and we have to get really, really good at that because AI can't. Um, so it's like, if not us, who? So, so I, I have very high conviction that this is the ultimate skill that everybody should practice. And I also have very high conviction that there's, like, this, um, immutable desire for narrative completion, uh, within humans. The thing that I have least confidence in is the form factor.
- JAJack Altman
Mm.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Is it videos? Is it podcasts? What about the role of the media? Is that shifting? I do not recommend that people anchor to a specific form factor and be like, "We're the company that does great videos," or, "We're the company that tweets a lot." Uh, I think that people should be constantly experimenting. You need to be ready to outrun your good i-- your own ideas. I've had to outrun my own ideas. Like, if, if we do a launch together with a founder and it goes really well, people will dissect that and then copy it. You know, after the Cognition launch, I, I saw people who just copied Scott's thread, like, almost word for word, um, i- in the exact same format, and if everybody were to start doing that... Or, like, those hype sizzle reels, like the, the, um, techno-accelerationist montages-
- JAJack Altman
Yeah
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... and now a lot of people are copying, like, the Cluley launch video. And once it reaches saturation, it's actually cringe to keep doing it, so you have to find, "Oh, great, it worked. Hooray! That means I need to find the next thing, because if I pushed the frontier here and it worked, everybody's racing towards me. If I don't get the heck out of here-
- JAJack Altman
Yeah
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... and find some new frontier, now I've lost my alpha, and we're, like, in the exact same place."
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
So I would say the takeaways from here are: you need to find your narrative alpha. Um, you need to find the way that narrative makes your company even more valuable than the fundamentals would make it be. That's the job of the founder. That alpha can be positive or negative. People- that alpha is determined by the homeostatic set point that people think your company deserves and where you are now relative to that, and that this is the skill that every human should try to master as much as they can.
- 48:18 – 50:18
Tech & media relationship
- JAJack Altman
I love it. I was gonna end there, but I have one more thing I gotta ask. You mentioned the media, and you obviously, you know, are big about going direct and how important that is. But if you had to guess, where is this dynamic gonna go with tech in the media and that relationship? 'Cause it used to be that all the announcements happened there. Now there's this-
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Uh-huh
- JAJack Altman
... hybrid mix. There's a sort of love-hate relationship.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Uh-huh.
- JAJack Altman
Where, where will this, where will this trend line go?
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
I think we're, um, going back, uh, towards the media actually being more relevant.
- JAJack Altman
Hmm.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
And this is why I say not to be dogmatic. Even i- i- in my very depths of distrusting the media and being black-pilled about the media, even then, I had reporters that I knew and trusted, and it was mutual, and we could work together, and I would try to be helpful. And, and today-- like, last night, I was hanging out with a bunch of tech journalists, and, um, and they were saying that they appreciate my outlook, and I appreciate theirs. And, um, going direct does not mean that you have to boycott the media. It means that you can't, uh, be dependent on others. You need to create self-sufficiency, and then you can choose to collaborate with the media, but it's not that, "Oh, nobody wants to cover this story, so I'm just up the creek."
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
So where is this going? I think actually that media is becoming more relevant. There was sort of like a nadir in tech media relations, where it was, like, very combative, and now the relationship is better. The coverage is better. There's sort of also some fresh blood in tech journalism that is very curious and forward-leaning.
- JAJack Altman
That's definitely true.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
And now that people are getting more of their information from, say, ChatGPT or Claude or whatever, um, media can be very helpful for that, you know?
- JAJack Altman
Yeah.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Claude is not necessarily going to tell you, "Well, three people tweeted about you favorably today, and some, like, anime profile picture-
- JAJack Altman
Yeah
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
... said this thing about you." But i- if there's, like, one article i- in an outlet, it can kinda solidify that for you online. We were overly reliant on the media, and then it became very combative, and, and I think we're reaching a new equi- equilibrium of collaboration.
- JAJack Altman
Going to a happy place sounds good to me.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Yeah.
- JAJack Altman
That'd be great. Lulu, this was amazing. Thank you so much for your time doing this. I really enjoyed it.
- LMLulu Cheng Meservey
Thank you. [upbeat music]
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